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01-27-2017, 01:34 AM
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You said she pays her share... what's her share? are you guys paying 50/50 on the rent? also tell her to get a storage unit and put all her boxes of old **** in there. you honestly need to have a sit down with her and put it all on the table. that subtle **** isn't going to work.. also what the **** bro.. you only been dating 5 months and you let her move in with you?
And if i read correctly you said there's another bedroom? have her move all her **** in there.. use that bedrooms place as closet place.. tell her you need your space respected.
And if i read correctly you said there's another bedroom? have her move all her **** in there.. use that bedrooms place as closet place.. tell her you need your space respected.
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Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
Well yeah, of course.If he wants her out he is going to have to break up with her. There is no way he will be able to kick her out without her resenting him. Just make a clean break and call it off if she is driving you crazy op.
I thought that was an obvious point that I didn't have to state. My bad.
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01-27-2017, 01:39 AM
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One person in a relationship is always tidier and cleaner than the other. Their job is to clean up after the messy one. Either you do this,or find a new ocd gf, or die alone.
As far as using your foam. It's foam. A couple of dollars get a grip.
As far as the bed thing goes when I was married i use to take all the blanket so we just got two single blankets. Now i got a queen size bed with king size blanket this also works. I find a firm elbow in the back helps your partner stick to their own 50% of space.
Tell her you just want to chill when you get home and you have been working hard and to give you space. Although this sounds pretty normal. Put headphones on.
If she is actually annoying you this much though bruv idk if she's the one. And you shud only move in with the one.
As far as using your foam. It's foam. A couple of dollars get a grip.
As far as the bed thing goes when I was married i use to take all the blanket so we just got two single blankets. Now i got a queen size bed with king size blanket this also works. I find a firm elbow in the back helps your partner stick to their own 50% of space.
Tell her you just want to chill when you get home and you have been working hard and to give you space. Although this sounds pretty normal. Put headphones on.
If she is actually annoying you this much though bruv idk if she's the one. And you shud only move in with the one.
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01-27-2017, 01:40 AM
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
you're both poverty for using shaving "foam"- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
there will always be give and take in relationship especially when living together, but literally all these other things could are laughably petty and could be eliminated by being a man, stepping up, asserting rules/expectations, or even just simply stating what you do and don't appreciate about your living space. all of which could be accomplished with about half the effort it took to list all this out on the misc. our generation is pu$$y as fuk.- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
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01-27-2017, 01:43 AM
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01-27-2017, 01:44 AM
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Originally Posted By SicilianPower⏩
Yeah I absolutely love being with my girl now. Love when she spends the night. Love spending the morning with her. Love spending evenings with her. But sometimes, an evening Friday date turns into a whole weekend, and by the end of it all I want is to be alone and just have my space.I understand that, I'm the kind of guy that needs his own space. I had my girlfriend stay with me for 9 days and was already feeling like I needed space. If it were up to me I'd want to see my girlfriend everyday but not all day everyday.
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01-27-2017, 02:24 AM
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Originally Posted By MatSalleh⏩
We should hook up brah. No homoFuk brah. Know them feels. There are days I just want to chill by myself and play some dotes. Fuk having a gf always wanting to cuddle and chit. Chit is exhausting.
Originally Posted By shoelaces⏩
I'm doing this. Srs. I've just realized that i cant live like this no matter how good the tang is. I'm happier living alone.If he wants her out he is going to have to break up with her. There is no way he will be able to kick her out without her resenting him. Just make a clean break and call it off if she is driving you crazy op.
Originally Posted By fafaedras⏩
The tricky part is,she doesnt make any rules. She just does annoying sh!tlol at letting someone live in your place and letting her set her own rules
Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
She didnt have a place to live when she started her new job. My place is 3 blocks away. This is supposed to be temporary,although i doubt she bothered to look for a place after she moved in. She offered to pay half the rent and she buys all the groceries and other stuff. I'm not complaining about the money. I could live without her contribution quite fine on my own too.You said she pays her share... what's her share? are you guys paying 50/50 on the rent? also tell her to get a storage unit and put all her boxes of old **** in there. you honestly need to have a sit down with her and put it all on the table. that subtle **** isn't going to work.. also what the **** bro.. you only been dating 5 months and you let her move in with you?
And if i read correctly you said there's another bedroom? have her move all her **** in there.. use that bedrooms place as closet place.. tell her you need your space respected.
And if i read correctly you said there's another bedroom? have her move all her **** in there.. use that bedrooms place as closet place.. tell her you need your space respected.
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I understand that, I'm the kind of guy that needs his own space. I had my girlfriend stay with me for 9 days and was already feeling like I needed space. If it were up to me I'd want to see my girlfriend everyday but not all day everyday.
My brother from another motherI understand that, I'm the kind of guy that needs his own space. I had my girlfriend stay with me for 9 days and was already feeling like I needed space. If it were up to me I'd want to see my girlfriend everyday but not all day everyday.
01-27-2017, 02:28 AM
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
About 5 months into dating her last year,she just got her college degree. So she began looking for work. She eventually finds a job literally 3 blocks from my apartment. She looked around for a place to rent,couldnt find anything she could afford. So she brings up the idea of moving in with me till she finds a place. I like her,no major red flags,good company,and the prospect of a warm hole in my bed every night seemed appealing. I agreed
We're living together for 4 months now and it's driving me fukking insane. Cant remember when last i had a good night's rest in my own bed. Dont know how you brahs manage that sh!t.
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Farting in her sleep
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
I'm used to my own space. I dont like people moving my stuff.
How do i tell her to GTFO in the nicest way possible?
We're living together for 4 months now and it's driving me fukking insane. Cant remember when last i had a good night's rest in my own bed. Dont know how you brahs manage that sh!t.
- She's 5'5 110lb and takes up 70% of the bed
- Always pulling the blankets off me
- Farting in her sleep
- Wants to cuddle all the time when i'm trying to sleep
- She can cook,but i dont like her food. Always bland and tasteless. No spice or flavour
- Hijacked my closet space because she doesnt want her dresses to crease
- Hoards junk. Has over 30 pairs of shoes because some of them match with her outfits. Which she's never worn in years
- Has boxes of old stuff stored in the other bedroom from when she was 10 years old
- Uses my toiletries. Shaving foam and razor to shave her cooch and legs.
- Once whilst she was in the shower she says: "Babe,we're out of shaving foam!" I'm thinking: "Bish that's my shaving foam. Buy your own fukking shaving foam
- Doesnt put the cap back on the toothpaste after she's used it
- Always wasting food. Makes a sandwich,takes a few bites. Leaves the sandwich in the fridge to rot until it has to be thrown away.
- Always rearranging the place because i dont have "Taste and style"
- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
I can write a book on the things that i hate about the setup. I so badly want to tell her to leave,but i know it will turn into a massive fight. My brahs tell me that's completely normal "Living with a female" behaviour and i should learn to adapt if i dont want to die alone. Which i think is insane.
I'm used to my own space. I dont like people moving my stuff.
How do i tell her to GTFO in the nicest way possible?
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
ExactlyYeah I absolutely love being with my girl now. Love when she spends the night. Love spending the morning with her. Love spending evenings with her. But sometimes, an evening Friday date turns into a whole weekend, and by the end of it all I want is to be alone and just have my space.
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01-27-2017, 03:09 AM
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Did you stop buying shaving foam? Is that why you have a beard now?
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01-27-2017, 03:10 AM
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Get out while you can boyo... she got bad habits of peace. You will be miserable in the long run. Find a woman that can cook, clean, has good hygene, is tidy, has a minimalist approach to acquiring and keeping things etc. You will be much happier bud.
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Honestly doesn't sound like you two are going to make it. Moving in together is known to be the big test. You can't stand her now, you won't be able to stand being married to her.
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90% of the Misc. will be masturbating until they cry themselves to sleep tonight. Be grateful for what you have. The only thing on your list that would aggravate me is the wasting of food. You're being a sissy in regards to everything else.
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01-27-2017, 03:37 AM
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Try to fix the sleeping problem. You need good sleep.
Most of the other points are just little annoyances.
Most of the other points are just little annoyances.
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Originally Posted By mischman⏩
That's the difference between men and women. Women want to talk about everything that happened after work and men just want to chill in front of the TV or whatever and not talk for a bit.- Always asking me how my day was. Like every single day after work i have to report how my day was. Sh!t's annoying AF
01-27-2017, 03:39 AM
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Give her a serious talking to. Heart to heart. I call my gf out if she is pissing me off. By call out I mean call the **** out. I don't let her get away with any ****. If she ****s off and leaves you that's her loss and your gain. Man up
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01-27-2017, 03:47 AM
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first, bar the toothpaste thing, why dafuq are you dating my GF OP?
that being said I feel you, you'll have to make some boundaries if you want things to work out , if you don't - there are other women brah, download tinder or something. It will be a huge fight but you'll have those either way, especially if she stays for longer. Those feelings you have will only get stronger, the list of annoying things will get bigger.
that being said I feel you, you'll have to make some boundaries if you want things to work out , if you don't - there are other women brah, download tinder or something. It will be a huge fight but you'll have those either way, especially if she stays for longer. Those feelings you have will only get stronger, the list of annoying things will get bigger.
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You made a whole list? Something tells me you're pissed off about something else. Most of these are all minor annoyances but something you could easily look past if you truly loved someone. Or at the very least comfortable bringing up if it was a serious relationship.
I'd be pissed about being 5 months into the relationship and she's already moved in. I feel like things would have moved too fast and she forced my hand into letting her stay in. And she couldn't find a single apartment? I seriously doubt that. In this back of my mind I would have a suspicion that she used that as an excuse to move in.
Does she pay rent or pay some bills? I'd be particularly irked if she wasn't chipping in. You weren't ready for her to move in dude. It's like being stuck with a stranger in your living space.
I'd be pissed about being 5 months into the relationship and she's already moved in. I feel like things would have moved too fast and she forced my hand into letting her stay in. And she couldn't find a single apartment? I seriously doubt that. In this back of my mind I would have a suspicion that she used that as an excuse to move in.
Does she pay rent or pay some bills? I'd be particularly irked if she wasn't chipping in. You weren't ready for her to move in dude. It's like being stuck with a stranger in your living space.
01-27-2017, 04:18 AM
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01-27-2017, 04:19 AM
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Originally Posted By W1LLW⏩
this man is right.there will always be give and take in relationship especially when living together, but literally all these other things could are laughably petty and could be eliminated by being a man, stepping up, asserting rules/expectations, or even just simply stating what you do and don't appreciate about your living space. all of which could be accomplished with about half the effort it took to list all this out on the misc. our generation is pu$$y as fuk.
01-27-2017, 04:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Calaesthetics⏩
This. Reading the issues you brought up, it really sounds like she never learnt basic respect. Of people's things, personal possessions, or you need to set boundaries. She's not a mind reader. If it bothers you don't bottle it up. Talk to her, ask her to buy her own foam and razors, use a separate closet (or get a bigger place if there's not really room for two).As another poster above pointed out, these are bad habits developed from childhood/teenage years.
As to your friends who say that this is normal female behavior that you should put up with, they're wrong. If they allow this then they're a bunch of spineless cucks.
The bish overstepped and has a lack of respect for you and your place now. From the moment you moved in, you should have established clear rules and boundaries (this is normal, it's YOUR fukin' place).
You have to talk to the bish and be more assertive with her and if she doesn't change, then you kick her out.
If this doesn't work and she doesn't change then she isn't compatible with you (you definitely don't want to keep up with this **** for a long period of time if you want to keep your sanity).
Take a day off work and pack up all her **** and have it ready for when she gets home. If she starts a fight, power through it. Don't be afraid of confrontations with your gf.
Good luck brah
As to your friends who say that this is normal female behavior that you should put up with, they're wrong. If they allow this then they're a bunch of spineless cucks.
The bish overstepped and has a lack of respect for you and your place now. From the moment you moved in, you should have established clear rules and boundaries (this is normal, it's YOUR fukin' place).
You have to talk to the bish and be more assertive with her and if she doesn't change, then you kick her out.
If this doesn't work and she doesn't change then she isn't compatible with you (you definitely don't want to keep up with this **** for a long period of time if you want to keep your sanity).
Take a day off work and pack up all her **** and have it ready for when she gets home. If she starts a fight, power through it. Don't be afraid of confrontations with your gf.
Good luck brah
Then other things you've listed are really just basic girl things.
Wasting food and general untidyness really pisses me off, my housemate does that a lot too. Looking forward to moving soon.
01-27-2017, 04:36 AM
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No offense OP but LMFAO at any brahs living with a female. I have lots of GFs but I REALLY enjoy being able to kick them out when I want them to leave. Fuk having their BS all over my place. Nothxjeff
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