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02-10-2017, 10:36 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
This + majority of miscers spend time with trash women or none at all then make hasty generalizations from crap they read on the misc.Guys on here want traditional women, but they're not traditional men. They want marriage material women, but don't want to get married. They want women with self esteem low enough to do what they want, but don't want them to sl00t.
No woman worth a damn is going to settle for that.
No woman worth a damn is going to settle for that.
Less time I spend on the misc the more I see it and the better I feel. Much of the misc is negativity and complaining with zero actual life experience.
Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Agreed with this as well. I ignore about 90% of the threads here. There are some great threads and some good communities here....but definitely gotta digThere's grains of goodness but you have to sit through the bull****.
I guess being here a long time I see the "good" here even though the negativity has grown over the years and jaded some of us.
I guess being here a long time I see the "good" here even though the negativity has grown over the years and jaded some of us.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Except you all laugh at a guy who has a 0 lay count getting a gf with a 10 lay count. She got to sleep around, he didn't. That's not fair and it is humiliating. If you are suggesting he find a virgin GF then just lol, don't lie. You know that's virtually impossible nowadays. Only (some) highschool sweethearts and the odd couple get to experience that.False dichotomy. You don't need to fcuk random sluts to lose your virginity. You can try to find a decent girlfriend with values (e.g. loyalty) and have sex as part of the relationship.
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
If you can handle responding honestly, I'd like to know your history with women. You're 27, how many relationships have you been in and for what lengths of time? How old were you when you found yourself in your first 'serious' relationship?All women ARE sloots though. The truth is the truth. Women cannot control themselves, so when men don't control them then women whimsically go through life based on their emotions. They are obviously going to sleep around because their body tells them to. Women are naturally sloots, but society is not natural, so it is frowned upon to ensure we stop living like animals and form a fair system.
All men are sloots, and if you made that thread, we would ALL agree. Men can handle the truth.
All men are sloots, and if you made that thread, we would ALL agree. Men can handle the truth.
Outside of relationships where/how are you meeting women for hook-ups?
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You posted in the same thread as a Bishamon alt and didn't address it?!?!?!?!There's grains of goodness but you have to sit through the bull****.
I guess being here a long time I see the "good" here even though the negativity has grown over the years and jaded some of us.
I guess being here a long time I see the "good" here even though the negativity has grown over the years and jaded some of us.
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02-10-2017, 10:40 AM
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It's bad but think about it, they're on misc all day where you see threads of misc alphas plowing sloots all day. These posters are simply not attractive enough, and are told all day that they can do it with more game (autism), which only leads to frustration. The misc chads also have horrible views towards women because they only plow sloots, the misc not chads are gonna look at them and think "hm, why was I ever a good person if these guys are getting way more live than me and being complete *******s?"
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02-10-2017, 10:40 AM
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I get the overall idea - many on the misc are obviously bitter toward women, are bitter because they are unsuccessful and are unsuccessful because they are unattractive to the women they like. It's a problem which has stopped getting worse and has instead just gotten depressing and sad.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - I feel maybe you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play in your success. Because it seems easy to you and you downplay a large reason why, it's easy to think other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - I feel maybe you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play in your success. Because it seems easy to you and you downplay a large reason why, it's easy to think other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
02-10-2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By SageofsixPaths⏩
You're the exact kind of immature idiot miscer who believes all the rubbish he reads on hereDon't believe this for a second.
A wealthy man has more to lose in a marriage than a wealthy woman.
Fix our draconian divorce laws.
You also seem to generalize and strawman positions I didn't make so I think I'm gonna refrain from discussion w you.
A wealthy man has more to lose in a marriage than a wealthy woman.
Fix our draconian divorce laws.
You also seem to generalize and strawman positions I didn't make so I think I'm gonna refrain from discussion w you.
http://www.alternet.org/economy/marr...ng-luxury-rich
https://www.washingtonpost.com/archi...=.df9365250c42
no experience of real life, stupid, probably hangs around with tinder trash too
marriage is becoming more and more something relegated to the wealthy as women gain economic independence (whilst still desiring men of higher status), men continue to underperform economically and the wealthy become more concerned with keeping their wealth among those within a similar income bracket
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02-10-2017, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Condyle⏩
very good pointI get the overall idea - many on the misc are obviously bitter toward women, are bitter because they are unsuccessful and are unsuccessful because they are unattractive to the women they like. It's a problem which has stopped getting worse and has instead just gotten depressing and sad.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play to feel more satisfied and accomplished. Because it seems easy to you, other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play to feel more satisfied and accomplished. Because it seems easy to you, other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
02-10-2017, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted By ssg10587⏩
I post mostly in S&P/Fashion, MMA section, Misc Firearm Crew, Education/Career section, and lurk the RH section and some of the dating logs.Agreed with this as well. I ignore about 90% of the threads here. There are some great threads and some good communities here....but definitely gotta dig
Misc is hilarious but sometimes sad unfortunately. We are dysfunctional with character flaws for sure. I just wish that it wasn't always as self loathing and dismal, but we want to connect with women and some men are jaded about their negative experiences!
Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
LOL he knows how I feel and it's unfortunate that he came to that conclusion after a few posts by me. You'd think living in Atlanta a good bit of my life I would encounter another black person who would accuse me of the same sh*t, but nah never happened.You posted in the same thread as a Bishamon alt and didn't address it?!?!?!?!
But seriously it's not uncommon for non-AA blacks to beef with African Americans.
Not trying to detract the thread lol
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Miscers get a skewed perception of women through chit like tinder which is some of the most vapid bs of all time.
I think that's a big problem with our generation, thinking things online are the same IRL
I think that's a big problem with our generation, thinking things online are the same IRL
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02-10-2017, 10:43 AM
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
Eh, I didn't say she had to be a virgin. It isn't about virginity, it's about the willingness to have sex. I'd chose a girl that's had sex with 5 guys (each a 2 year relationship), over one that had sex with 3 (all ONS). Why do you think that is?Except you all laugh at a guy who has a 0 lay count getting a gf with a 10 lay count. She got to sleep around, he didn't. That's not fair and it is humiliating. If you are suggesting he find a virgin GF then just lol, don't lie. You know that's virtually impossible nowadays. Only (some) highschool sweethearts and the odd couple get to experience that.
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Originally Posted By Condyle⏩
Sorry but no, this is the same forum which (in threads on the same page no less) chits on those working in fast food/retail and rails hard against the minimum wage. Now I am meant to pity the average miscer? Why? People should pull up their bootstraps and solve their own issues, not sit around blaming them on the opposite sexI get the overall idea - many on the misc are obviously bitter toward women, are bitter because they are unsuccessful and are unsuccessful because they are unattractive to the women they like. It's a problem which has stopped getting worse and has instead just gotten depressing and sad.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play to feel more satisfied and accomplished. Because it seems easy to you, other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play to feel more satisfied and accomplished. Because it seems easy to you, other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
02-10-2017, 10:46 AM
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Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333⏩
This. "Well I misc and lift sometimes..."Agreed. They want these 10/10 HBBs that will cater to their every wish and demand,meanwhile they bring next to nothing to the table when it comes to value in dating.
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02-10-2017, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By allianc3⏩
I had my first relationship when I was 16. I lost my vs to her, she was one of the hottest girls in school. I had my oneitis movie fantasy with her where we were both each other's first and would love each other and form a life. Didn't take long to find out how many others she'd hooked up with before me and I called her a sloot and we argued and we broke up. I actually met a female virgin when I was 19, she was 18.. I didn't **** her, but I'd hooked up with her. She was still like every other basic sloot, she just hadn't ****ed yet. Her being a virgin didn't change her social programming, she was still your typical female. She's now travelled a bit so who knows what her count is nowadays. I slept with 6 girls from 16 to 22, stopped for 3 years entirely, then ****ed 4 more from 25 to 27. I haven't even liked a girl during my twenties. None of these girls are what you're thinking either.. most had no tattoos, went to uni, were quiet and nice and polite on the surface. There's just nothing else to them and we don't live in a system where there is any benefit to having a relationship. The fantasy I had when I was 16 which used to be reality for many people is the only attractive form of relationship I can imagine with a girl. The rest (the modern relationship) is just a sterile exchange where the male is exploited.If you can handle responding honestly, I'd like to know your history with women. You're 27, how many relationships have you been in and for what lengths of time? How old were you when you found yourself in your first 'serious' relationship?
Outside of relationships where/how are you meeting women for hook-ups?
Outside of relationships where/how are you meeting women for hook-ups?
02-10-2017, 10:48 AM
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Truth
But still this place is a little bit less school-shooty than reddit or 4chan so we're not doing too bad on the whole
It could be worse is what I'm saying
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It could be worse is what I'm saying
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Originally Posted By Condyle⏩
Fair point but I'd put money on it being the opposite. His posts reek of bitterness. Any successful being, be it with women or in other areas, wouldn't waste time projecting that sort of one line of thinking hatred on a public forum. Successful people are (generally speaking) happy, there'd be no need to rant like that unless something in particular had triggered it - ie rejection, little luck with women, being cheated onI get the overall idea - many on the misc are obviously bitter toward women, are bitter because they are unsuccessful and are unsuccessful because they are unattractive to the women they like. It's a problem which has stopped getting worse and has instead just gotten depressing and sad.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - I feel maybe you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play in your success. Because it seems easy to you and you downplay a large reason why, it's easy to think other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - I feel maybe you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play in your success. Because it seems easy to you and you downplay a large reason why, it's easy to think other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
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I think people are looking at this from the wrong angle.
Have you stopped to consider, that misc is just a sample of the demographic? Maybe it isn't just the misc who is FA and frustrated, but the male population as a whole?
It would be simply unimaginable that such important factors such as Online Dating and widespread access to internet advice/pictures/porn etc would have no effect at all on the mentality of people and the dating trends. People are shaped by their environment and experiences, and perhaps the environment today is adversely affecting and creating FAs and frustrated people. I don't think people consider this but they should - we as a population just got way more frustrated. It isn't just the misc.
Have you stopped to consider, that misc is just a sample of the demographic? Maybe it isn't just the misc who is FA and frustrated, but the male population as a whole?
It would be simply unimaginable that such important factors such as Online Dating and widespread access to internet advice/pictures/porn etc would have no effect at all on the mentality of people and the dating trends. People are shaped by their environment and experiences, and perhaps the environment today is adversely affecting and creating FAs and frustrated people. I don't think people consider this but they should - we as a population just got way more frustrated. It isn't just the misc.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
You caught me trying to start shyt lmaoLOL he knows how I feel and it's unfortunate that he came to that conclusion after a few posts by me. You'd think living in Atlanta a good bit of my life I would encounter another black person who would accuse me of the same sh*t, but nah never happened.
But seriously it's not uncommon for non-AA blacks to beef with African Americans.
Not trying to detract the thread lol
But seriously it's not uncommon for non-AA blacks to beef with African Americans.
Not trying to detract the thread lol
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
Ad hominem, non arguments, mad.You're the exact kind of immature idiot miscer who believes all the rubbish he reads on here
http://www.alternet.org/economy/marr...ng-luxury-rich
https://www.washingtonpost.com/archi...=.df9365250c42
no experience of real life, stupid, probably hangs around with tinder trash too
marriage is becoming more and more something relegated to the wealthy as women gain economic independence (whilst still desiring men of higher status), men continue to underperform economically and the wealthy become more concerned with keeping their wealth among those within a similar income bracket
u have no idea what you're talking about...at all
http://www.alternet.org/economy/marr...ng-luxury-rich
https://www.washingtonpost.com/archi...=.df9365250c42
no experience of real life, stupid, probably hangs around with tinder trash too
marriage is becoming more and more something relegated to the wealthy as women gain economic independence (whilst still desiring men of higher status), men continue to underperform economically and the wealthy become more concerned with keeping their wealth among those within a similar income bracket
u have no idea what you're talking about...at all
70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married
http://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/...re-not-married
Based on a survey of over 2000 heterosexual couples, found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.94a3170eada8
Suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts were three times higher among divorced men
http://www.newsweek.com/2015/02/20/s...en-305913.html
Not to mention men losing custody of their kids.
Marriage is a **** deal and you're just putting lipstick on a pig.
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Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
You need to let that first sl00t go. You holding onto this is clouding your judgement. You come across Decent girls...nice, attractive with prospective futures, and "there's just nothing else to them." So what exactly are you looking for?I had my first relationship when I was 16. I lost my vs to her, she was one of the hottest girls in school. I had my oneitis movie fantasy with her where we were both each other's first and would love each other and form a life. Didn't take long to find out how many others she'd hooked up with before me and I called her a sloot and we argued and we broke up. I actually met a female virgin when I was 19, she was 18.. I didn't **** her, but I'd hooked up with her. She was still like every other basic sloot, she just hadn't ****ed yet. Her being a virgin didn't change her social programming, she was still your typical female. She's now travelled a bit so who knows what her count is nowadays. I slept with 6 girls from 16 to 22, stopped for 3 years entirely, then ****ed 4 more from 25 to 27. I haven't even liked a girl during my twenties. None of these girls are what you're thinking either.. most had no tattoos, went to uni, were quiet and nice and polite on the surface. There's just nothing else to them and we don't live in a system where there is any benefit to having a relationship. The fantasy I had when I was 16 which used to be reality for many people is the only attractive form of relationship I can imagine with a girl. The rest (the modern relationship) is just a sterile exchange where the male is exploited.
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Originally Posted By Mullahz218⏩
You're very right...but u need to understand that the misc mentality to everything else is contributing to the very same ideological malaise in many young malesI think people are looking at this from the wrong angle.
Have you stopped to consider, that misc is just a sample of the demographic? Maybe it isn't just the misc who is FA and frustrated, but the male population as a whole?
It would be simply unimaginable that such important factors such as Online Dating and widespread access to internet advice/pictures/porn etc would have no effect at all on the mentality of people and the dating trends. People are shaped by their environment and experiences, and perhaps the environment today is adversely affecting and creating FAs and frustrated people. I don't think people consider this but they should - we as a population just got way more frustrated. It isn't just the misc.
Have you stopped to consider, that misc is just a sample of the demographic? Maybe it isn't just the misc who is FA and frustrated, but the male population as a whole?
It would be simply unimaginable that such important factors such as Online Dating and widespread access to internet advice/pictures/porn etc would have no effect at all on the mentality of people and the dating trends. People are shaped by their environment and experiences, and perhaps the environment today is adversely affecting and creating FAs and frustrated people. I don't think people consider this but they should - we as a population just got way more frustrated. It isn't just the misc.
quite frankly, u dont find the same bitterness and angst among UK/non-US posters...but many of us are not in a society which seems to damn near obsess over entitlement to an "american dream" and chitting on everyone else who is not in the same position as u
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
Not so subtle baiting there, my dude.You're very right...but u need to understand that the misc mentality to everything else is contributing to the very same ideological malaise in many young males
quite frankly, u dont find the same bitterness and angst among UK/non-US posters...but many of us are not in a society which seems to damn near obsess over entitlement to an "american dream" and chitting on everyone else who is not in the same position as u
quite frankly, u dont find the same bitterness and angst among UK/non-US posters...but many of us are not in a society which seems to damn near obsess over entitlement to an "american dream" and chitting on everyone else who is not in the same position as u
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Originally Posted By Tangential⏩
There are a lot of Ameri brahs like myself that aren't angry, and bitter towards women, but...we do tend to be older, and never dealt with the "social media" dating craze.You're very right...but u need to understand that the misc mentality to everything else is contributing to the very same ideological malaise in many young males
quite frankly, u dont find the same bitterness and angst among UK/non-US posters...but many of us are not in a society which seems to damn near obsess over entitlement to an "american dream" and chitting on everyone else who is not in the same position as u
quite frankly, u dont find the same bitterness and angst among UK/non-US posters...but many of us are not in a society which seems to damn near obsess over entitlement to an "american dream" and chitting on everyone else who is not in the same position as u
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Apparently ugly entitled women are a recent American thing (I didn't have any problems in the past). I don't know how things are now since I've only dated Europeans and Latinas for the last 10 years.
My advice to frustrated guys would be to travel somewhere else lol
My advice to frustrated guys would be to travel somewhere else lol
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
I've noticed this too.. it seems the older ones and also those in relationships/married aren't bitter at all. Which proves my earlier pointThere are a lot of Ameri brahs like myself that aren't angry, and bitter towards women, but...we do tend to be older, and never dealt with the "social media" dating craze.
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Originally Posted By Condyle⏩
I'm not sure you're interpreting my point in the OP as I meant it. I can agree with you that certain fixed characteristics will negatively impact ones success with women, but this was not my point. Badbl00d recognized my point and made the perfect comment to illustrate it:I get the overall idea - many on the misc are obviously bitter toward women, are bitter because they are unsuccessful and are unsuccessful because they are unattractive to the women they like. It's a problem which has stopped getting worse and has instead just gotten depressing and sad.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - I feel maybe you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play in your success. Because it seems easy to you and you downplay a large reason why, it's easy to think other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
But I feel your reasoning for why is so illogical, it kind of makes me suspect you are reasoning backwards - I feel maybe you yourself are successful with women and are downplaying the role fixed characteristics play in your success. Because it seems easy to you and you downplay a large reason why, it's easy to think other people who are less successful must, in some way, attract or invite their own position. But when you are naturally successful at something, it's pretty much a moral imperative to recognise that, for this exact fact, your insight into the situation of others is very limited, and your knowledge of that limitation is by definition nil.
I notice this a lot - handsome people wondering why everyone isn't great with women, wealthy people wondering why all the poor people don't just launch a start-up, insanely rich college kids telling everyone else to check their privilege. It's not a failing, it's just the position of perfect ignorance from which almost nobody can emerge with anything very insightful.
Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
There's inherently going to be men with different levels of success regarding women. The issue I see here on the misc is that miscers are harping on specific character flaws in women and generalize based on their limited experiences, yet fail to recognize they harbor many of those same character flaws (these aren't fixed characteristics) in themselves. Women (with a healthy self-esteem) who want a stable relationship with a prospect of success aren't going to be able to find that in a guy with insecurity and a history of sexual repression. Those guys will find that it's easier for them to connect with women who have lower moral and ethical standards for their partner and don't hold themselves to a very high standard either.Guys on here want traditional women, but they're not traditional men. They want marriage material women, but don't want to get married. They want women with self esteem low enough to do what they want, but don't want them to sl00t.
No woman worth a damn is going to settle for that.
No woman worth a damn is going to settle for that.
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Originally Posted By SageofsixPaths⏩
You're very right in regards to the bolded, I apologise and take those back...completely unnecessaryAd hominem, non arguments, mad.
70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married
http://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/...re-not-married
Based on a survey of over 2000 heterosexual couples, found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.94a3170eada8
Suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts were three times higher among divorced men
http://www.newsweek.com/2015/02/20/s...en-305913.html
Not to mention men losing custody of their kids.
Marriage is a **** deal and you're just putting lipstick on a pig.
70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not Married
http://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/...re-not-married
Based on a survey of over 2000 heterosexual couples, found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces.
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...=.94a3170eada8
Suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts were three times higher among divorced men
http://www.newsweek.com/2015/02/20/s...en-305913.html
Not to mention men losing custody of their kids.
Marriage is a **** deal and you're just putting lipstick on a pig.
BUT my point still stands, the reason marriage has fallen so much among men in the 24-35 age bracket is simply due to the fact that they're not economically equipped to get married and the women are outpacing them...
http://fortune.com/2016/04/12/women-...t-earning-men/
And yes, women do initiate most divorces...but I am unsure if thats really much of a damning indictment on women as it is really a realization that many women in the past were likely stuck in unhealthy/abusive/toxic marriages that they could not escape from due to societal pressure
And in regards to the suicide rate...there is nothing which really supports any potential notion that it is linked to the divorce rate. There are plenty of other problems plaguing modern western men.
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Originally Posted By Melis689⏩
Indeed, married and don't seem to hate women.I've noticed this too.. it seems the older ones and also those in relationships/married aren't bitter at all. Which proves my earlier point
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kind of beating a dead horse but
- 15% bf or higher
- dont look like you lift
- poor social skills
This describes the majority of misc. These males are not supposed to reproduce with women by design unless they change things. Would you want to have sex with a weak chubby or skinny fat guy that cant look you in the eye if you were a woman
- 15% bf or higher
- dont look like you lift
- poor social skills
This describes the majority of misc. These males are not supposed to reproduce with women by design unless they change things. Would you want to have sex with a weak chubby or skinny fat guy that cant look you in the eye if you were a woman
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
I think that's probably rightThere are a lot of Ameri brahs like myself that aren't angry, and bitter towards women, but...we do tend to be older, and never dealt with the "social media" dating craze.
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