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post 1506753601 06-01-2017, 10:13 AM
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Bc nothing good comes from making "friends" with women.

And they can take everything you own by playing the long con.
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post 1506753681 06-01-2017, 10:14 AM
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As a good looking brah. I use to be social awkward/shy in HS. Post HS i went on a good amount of dates, it just happens that the girls I was interested in would find someone better then me IE more wealthy, makes them feel better etc.

Basically Video games and **** make men more social awkward/nervous and ****
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i think the way to get women is actually against society ideals.

most people follow society's ideals, because they are easier and less potential to be outcast

for example. one time i was working with a woman or she was just kind of helping out. we were walking together. this was a show and we were working with the fog machine. well, i was joking about pressing the button to release fog but we were in rehearsals. so it would have caused trouble. when i said it i could totally tell 100% she wanted to, she wanted to cause that trouble and do something "fun". ultimately, i did not, and i could tell she was disappointed.

they want the fully autonomous bad boy who does what he wants and isn't afraid of repercussions, which once again, often goes against society ideals in lieu of "fun"
post 1506754111 06-01-2017, 10:17 AM
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Anxiety has always been the cause of awkwardness, but it's the internet that makes more and more people become detached.

Most people with bad anxiety were just forced to deal with it, just forced to be that person in a group who was awkward. Now the internet allows these people to escape. It's become an easy escape to people's real world problems. The internet also naturally makes people become more detached from the real world, especially when you invest so much of your time into it. It adds anxiety, and if you already had bad anxiety to begin with, it puts it on overload.

Anxiety can be very subjective too. You can meet some people who seem very social and outgoing, like there's nothing wrong with them, but put them in specific situations and they turn into an awkward child who can't communicate to save their life. Seen it countless times, guys who can just talk a storm and get along with any guy they talk to, but then when they try to mack women, the words just don't come out like it should. Or they could be social and outgoing in a certain type of social crowd, but put them in a crowd they're unfamiliar with, and they look lame af. Even knew some guys who can barely talk to guys at all, it always came out awkward for them, but then they had no problem macking women, because women made them less intimidated and easier to talk to. It's just weird how anxiety works, and it can easily take control of people.
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post 1506754791 06-01-2017, 10:23 AM
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post 1506754841 06-01-2017, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Weezy32⏩
Main reason for why guys are pussies is because of fapping and porn has become so normalized in our societies. Me and my friends all joke about fapping and watching porn it's assumed everyone does it. Tv and movies make it seem like it's not a big deal but it's actually very bad for you especially if you over do it i.e. Fap watch porn everyday. Porn and fapping gives guys social anxiety low confidence and makes them not care much about talking to girls at all. It kills motivation and increases depression because it makes everything else you do seem boring since it ruins your dopomine levels.

Those that have gone on no porn no fap for 2-3 weeks or more will know what I'm talking about. After two weeks - three weeks you start finding reasons to get out of the house see girls and talk to people.
bro i get like that after a few days of not jerkin it. if i went over a week i would probably just have my way with the first ****able girl i see on the street. fapping saves lives bro.
post 1506754931 06-01-2017, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By headinahole⏩
Bc nothing good comes from making "friends" with women.

And they can take everything you own by playing the long con.
I have female acquaintances. Aka my friends GF and we only ever talk when he's around. That's legitimately the extent of any female 'friends' I have. I just can't.
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post 1506755301 06-01-2017, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted By cjmadscientist⏩
kids need to realize that every 10/10 girl you see, has pushed a smelly chit out of her as*hole in the last 24 hours


bish probably stunk the place up too
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post 1506755701 06-01-2017, 10:32 AM
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post 1506756081 06-01-2017, 10:35 AM
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Instead of focusing on the problem (because we know it's a problem) we should focus on the solution.

-List some things that all boys growing up should do. Like learn how to change their own oil.
-Ask a girl out face to face at least once a week
-Go outside and do some yard work
-Shotgun a beer (joke)
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post 1506756381 06-01-2017, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Mundungus⏩
At least potato was more accurate. All these scared little boys calling themselves autistic to help themselves cope with being a pussy. It's sad really and demeaning to the poor people that are ACTUALLY autistic.
what if mild autism can be caused by a lack of social development early on in life?
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post 1506756841 06-01-2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted By MrStealYoGrill⏩
Come on mate what kind of chit is this? No one is gonna accuse you of rape for talking to them. You dont have to be some social media mastermind to talk to girls. Believe this is all in your head.
Some guy i tutor at a café is awkward as chit, not Chad looks either and he cold approaches girls all the time while we study, and guess what, even if hes awkward no one has accused him of rape yet and they're all fairly nice to him.
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my theory is that since so many men are raised by women they never learn to approach girls and expect to be approached (from mothers example)
post 1506757361 06-01-2017, 10:46 AM
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I blame it on western society and the delusional ideals that women have today as a result (it affects men also to be fair). I'm not going to to try to "chase" someone who I consider to be not up to standards just so they can turn around and play games. **** all that. I'm outsourcing my needs to genuine, real third world wimminz hnnngg.

Social anxiety is just the result of this westernized society standard bs.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
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why do u focus on women in life? they aren't the reason for your happiness
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post 1506757711 06-01-2017, 10:50 AM
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they're scary brah and their genitals smell bad
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post 1506758971 06-01-2017, 11:02 AM
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Here are the few reasons:

1. Women of today are not like the women of yesterday, women of the past valued men who had work ethic as well as drive and determination. Todays women want to get reversed cowgirl by bunch of criminals/bad boys and then find a man servant who made it. Thus these women themselves have no character and yet they want the best of both worlds...


2. These women as I mentioned have no character but also no real skill as a housewife. She was a party girl and when you live the party life then you are not living a life of productivity. Thus marriage/relationship and even a friendship is worthless because these human beings know nothing about discipline, hard work and thus they cant relate.

3. As a person who is starting various businesses I had to forego partying/clubbing and instead focus my time on meditation, martial arts, nutrition and other self-improvement method that now I am turning in to a business. Thus I would like to meet a female who also has had a similar journey. What is the point of randomly approaching a women on the street just because she is "hot"

4. Also the whole SJW/Feminist agenda is pretty disgusting and I don't like the current crop of westernized women.


5. One last thing, there are profound benefits to NoFap and its an amazing practice. Its like a form of fasting/dieting for your mind and soul. You get that sense of being able to accomplish anything when you were a kid before being jaded by chitty human beings which starts from high school....
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Originally Posted By 20Mavs11⏩
IAsk a girl out face to face at least once a week
Thats not a bad idea, but where. I don't want to walk around town by my self asking random girls out. I'm not attractive, if I was I could just get tinder sloots to come round each night.
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Originally Posted By MrStealYoGrill⏩
Come on mate what kind of chit is this? No one is gonna accuse you of rape for talking to them. You dont have to be some social media mastermind to talk to girls. Believe this is all in your head.
Some guy i tutor at a café is awkward as chit, not Chad looks either and he cold approaches girls all the time while we study, and guess what, even if hes awkward no one has accused him of rape yet and they're all fairly nice to him.


feel free to read the first bit. really starts at 2:35.

she was driving slowly on the street, he says "hello" - thats it. she verbally attacks him, swears at him, calls him a fat fuking drunk, starts saying its sexual harassment for saying hello, then claims rape and is going to call the police. instead he calls the cops and she runs away (after writing down his plates and threatening him, saying she will come back)
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Originally Posted By Iukas⏩


feel free to read the first bit. really starts at 2:35.

she was driving slowly on the street, he says "hello" - thats it. she verbally attacks him, swears at him, calls him a fat fuking drunk, starts saying its sexual harassment for saying hello, then claims rape and is going to call the police. instead he calls the cops and she runs away (after writing down his plates and threatening him, saying she will come back)
So from your experience would you say these type of women are in the majority?
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Originally Posted By MrStealYoGrill⏩
So from your experience would you say these type of women are in the majority?
Lol are u serious? Of course not.
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Originally Posted By lurker9604⏩
Lol are u serious? Of course not.
So why does it matter if some crazy bish flips at a guy for no reason? Im from SoCal of all places and i still havent experiences all the crazy feminist chit you all talk about.
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Originally Posted By MrStealYoGrill⏩
So from your experience would you say these type of women are in the majority?
obviously not but they are definitely more common than 10+ years ago. instead of thinking "hey the worst that can happen is she says no" - its now "the worst that can happen is she films me on snapchat/youtube so my family and friends can witness this failure, followed by accusing me of sexual harassment and assault on file"
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Originally Posted By MrStealYoGrill⏩
So why does it matter if some crazy bish flips at a guy for no reason? Im from SoCal of all places and i still havent experiences all the crazy feminist chit you all talk about.
Im in socal too and have never experienced 90 percent of the weird chit miscers claim. Srs. Makes me wonder if theyve actualy ever leave their room
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Originally Posted By DoctorKazama⏩
I bet most of the FAs here on the misc have never even actually asked a girl out in person before...
I haven't but im going to soon.
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Originally Posted By Iukas⏩
obviously not but they are definitely more common than 10+ years ago. instead of thinking "hey the worst that can happen is she says no" - its now "the worst that can happen is she films me on snapchat/youtube so my family and friends can witness this failure, followed by accusing me of sexual harassment and assault on file"
If a girl wanted to press charges on every approach or hello from every dude whos ever tried with her shed spend the rest of her life in a fukking courtroom. This chit doesnt happen. Even if it happens more than it used to it still only accounts for maybe .0001 of the female population. And thats up from 10 years ago lmao
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Originally Posted By MrStealYoGrill⏩
So why does it matter if some crazy bish flips at a guy for no reason? Im from SoCal of all places and i still havent experiences all the crazy feminist chit you all talk about.
Come to BC Vancouver where I live buddy and you will see two things:

1. Incredibly shallow/superficial women with no personality or any redeeming qualities and yet they have all the narcissism a human being can have.

Or:

2. SJW/Extreme feminist, I was running stairs and this fat SJW/Feminist started screaming about how me running is distracting her. Also I have had other encounters with these turd of a human being.


Its unbelievable, but even trying to exercise can trigger these clowns. That and what is the point of approaching a female with narcissistic personality?
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Men have always been scared of women.

It's why 20 years ago they passed notes to them saying circle YES OR NO in HS hallways instead of simply asking them out.
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