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post 1512002541 07-16-2017, 08:08 AM
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quit women? wtf is this ****
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Yeahhh can't agree with you OP
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Good to know you have finally accepted who you really are, hopefully you will find a man that can make you happy in life
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Originally Posted By SirGainsMcgee⏩
Lol what, New Jersey is pretty expensive to live on your own bro. I'm 22 and live with my parents and I also think it's pretty GOAT. Most people in their 20s do it's nothing to be ashamed of.
If someone is ashamed, who are they worried about passing shame on them?

In my instance my parents love it, my family all thinks its great because shes lonely and I am no longer wasting money on expensive apartments, and I am not dating anyone so no care what girls think about it, and all my guy friends say they wish they could too that it would be bad ass if they did.
There seriously isnt a single person who has said anything negative to me about it or shared any negative sentiment or given one good reason why it is a bad thing.

instead of spending 1500 a month on a 1 bedroom apartment, now I am saving money and will be able to buy a house later on when I am ready and in the mean time get to do whatever I want when I want. It is a smart decision all around.
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post 1512002761 07-16-2017, 08:11 AM
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basically this thread is nothing more than differing pov based on where a man is in life and how women have made him feel

you're an idiot if you think that has gay undertones
post 1512002801 07-16-2017, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
lol, maybe in fkn detroit
The fukc do you live? Cuckafornia where you have to pay your first born child for a roof? In Philly a top floor one bedroom high rise w/ rooftop pool, weight room, can be done for 1800 in the good part of the city. Most cities that arent in Cuckafornia, NYC, maybe Denver and Seattle are not crazy expensive.
Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
She is, I have a career I have been in for 6 years, a college degree, and have a passion I am pretty good at outside of work as well. She lives alone in a nice house and loves having the company.



If I made over 100k+ a year and could live that life and still have a lot of money left over to travel or go out to eat when I want and spend money on clothes or whatever else when I want, sure that would be better. But I am not coping at all, I made this choice happily. Like I said she lives alone in a nice house and its someone I can still talk to and have interaction with. And I don't make 100k+ a year so now I actually can save enough money and still have tons left over to do all the fun stuff I want on my time. I also live in an expensive area where 1800 a month gets you a ****ty 1 bedroom 700 sq foot apartment on the first floor that was built in 1990 and has carpet and fake wood cabinets.

Did I say I am living the GOAT Life? no , I said I made the GOAT decision in my life, that decision wasnt to move in with my mom, it was to stop worrying about females. And beyond having a nice view, why would i go spend money on a flashy apartment or condo or house when I have no one to impress? I am the kind of person who is totally fine with a good internet connection, a decent kitchen, and a bed to sleep on. The only thing I do at home is play games, cook, eat, and sleep. I dont need anything else its just wasting money. I would rather use that money every month to go travel for the weekend or buy some fun ****, or go eat fancy dinners for myself/with friends, or go see movies whenever I want.
Pretty fair response cant really argue with it. If it makes you happy there is no reason to let society norms dictate your life. For me, thje independence is worth an extra 6-7k a year in rent and utility expense. If I did live at home Id probably be expected to contribute $$$ as well, so in reality id be saving even less. I do enjoy my moms company and I can see why living at home would be a good thing right after school to save....

how long do you plan on living there for?
Originally Posted By SirGainsMcgee⏩
Lol what I'm 22 and I live with my parents. New Jersey is pretty expensive to live on your own even with a good job, just look at OP's situation. Have fun wasting your money away.
Not dissing anyone living with their parents, I did for a while briefly too. NJ is expensive. Its also a ****hole. Get out while you can SRS. Personally though, I think it makes sense for most people to find their own space at some point when they are financially ready...
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post 1512002841 07-16-2017, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted By Slayer2539⏩
It's your life bro, but like others might have said, it's not women in general that are the problem, it's the demanding nature of your previous relationships that were the problem.

Find a girl who's chill and laid back and doesn't need you to hold her hand all the time and be texted every minute.

There are some genuinely laid back chicks out there bro.
This. If you haven't found a girl that understands you both should have individual lives outside of the relationship, then maybe you haven't been with anyone who is mature enough.
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Originally Posted By FlexLex⏩
Pretty fair response cant really argue with it. If it makes you happy there is no reason to let society norms dictate your life. For me, thje independence is worth an extra 6-7k a year in rent and utility expense. If I did live at home Id probably be expected to contribute $$$ as well, so in reality id be saving even less. I do enjoy my moms company and I can see why living at home would be a good thing right after school to save....

how long do you plan on living there for?


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I don't even get society dissing on it, no one has had a reason to yet or said anything negative about it really besides on here. On top of that its really only a Western culture thing where its so majorly "frowned" upon to live with your parents. In many developed and populated countries its THE norm to.

I also feel no need for the independence. I cleaned up my own mess when I lived alone and do so here as well, so she never complains about anything, she never needs attention, she never nags, she never does anything at all that impedes my independence. It is my mom not random roommates so if I want to walk around in my underwear I can and if I want to sleep in and lay around all day doing what I want I can.
Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
basically this thread is nothing more than differing pov based on where a man is in life and how women have made him feel

you're an idiot if you think that has gay undertones
Exactly. I get it if some guys have a strong need for female attention and touch and sex and companionship but I just have lost it over the years to where putting effort or care into it anymore just impedes me doing what I am most happy doing which is spending money on my own damn self and playing video games and doing what I want when I want.
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post 1512003351 07-16-2017, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted By visc3ral⏩
This. If you haven't found a girl that understands you both should have individual lives outside of the relationship, then maybe you haven't been with anyone who is mature enough.
I don't think its fair to expect any girl to be okay with the life I live right now honestly. Most of my days are :

4:15am wake up go to work
6am-6pm work
6pm-7pm commute home
7pm-9pm workout
9pm-1030pm cook dinner and breakfast for the next day, shower, eat, get work stuff ready
1030pm-4:15 am sleep

days off I do chores, errands, pick up extra work for more money, spend more time in the gym, meal prep, and spend my free time going to the movies or playing video games, which I have a LOT of fun doing. Both of those are not social things and this lifestyle is the one I want to live right now. Expecting there to be a girl out there okay with that is just silly.
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post 1512003631 07-16-2017, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You're 28?

Your parents must be mortified
Lmao. Butt hurt ass. When you're lonely ass is 40 and single you'll wish your kids called you more often.
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Women are superior to men in almost every single way. Especially these days because the world is increasingly feminised and traditional masculine attributes are frowned on .
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u ignore me>?


So u dont fap or nothing?

Who says u cant have a gf at ur moms?
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I've been with around 40 women before 22 and honestly I can't be really bothered putting in the effort anymore; call me jaded but I've seen enough examples to know how women behave sometimes. Good girls/bad girls, it doesn't really matter tbh.

edit: There is a big difference to actually being able to get women while focusing on yourself compared to just being a reject.
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Originally Posted By INSANEREACH⏩
Women are superior to men in almost every single way. Especially these days because the world is increasingly feminised and traditional masculine attributes are frowned on .
oh? i'm better in bed than most women i've met , i'm better in the kitchen than most women i've met , i can drive better than most women i've met etc etc

the only way they seem to be better than me is vindictive , juggling , fake way of living

i'm all ears sir
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
typical female response, like its the most deplorable and disgusting thing to live with your parents. I will say it for a third time, I have a succesfull career and have been in it for 6 years, I have a very good retirment fund where I will be able to retire in my early 40s, I am a succesfull bodybuilding moving up and probably going to go pro next year. My mom was ecstatic when I told her because she has a nice house and is lonely and my Dad/stepmom are in the same situation and would have been very happy.

It is one thing if you can't live on your own and act like a child, live like a slob, dont work, don't take care of yourself etc.... but for me its just a financial and life decision that my parents completely agree with.
And I have 0 plans on dating in the next couple of years because I have a lot to accomplish on my own so I have 0 interest in what any female thinks about me living with my parents.


and @ Chezon, I have done the relationship and dating thing for years and years, it is not new to me, I know myself and what happens and I decided I am much happier doing my own thing, working out all the time, having my own money, and playing video games if my last relationship didnt work out.
what is this retirement fund with 50k / y ?
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Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
u ignore me>?


So u dont fap or nothing?

Who says u cant have a gf at ur moms?
If I feel the need to I do but like I said my sex drive is extremely low so its not often.

My mom would not care at all if I had a GF over or if I brought a ONS over, but I have no interest in any of that so its a non issue.
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
If I feel the need to I do but like I said my sex drive is extremely low so its not often.

My mom would not care at all if I had a GF over or if I brought a ONS over, but I have no interest in any of that so its a non issue.
WTF happen to ur sex drive? (I had lots of girls also)
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Originally Posted By atgbrahsrs⏩
what is this retirement fund with 50k / y ?
Law enforcement, matches and doubles what you put into it. guaranteed 80% of salary for the rest of your life after 20 years of service.

Will be moving to mexico or thailand and living off american retirement which over there is an insane amount of money, you can live in a 3 bedroom upgraded condo with amazing amenities for $800 a month, food and entertainment costs about $10 a day.
Originally Posted By ineed$⏩
WTF happen to ur sex drive? (I had lots of girls also)
like I said, no idea. It just dropped off half a year or so ago. All my blood panels and physiological factors have been nothing but saying I should have a massive sex drive. I think I just find other things more important in life now like enjoying the food I want, seeing movies I want to see every week, reaching my bodybuilding and career goals, and playing the video games I like toplay.
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Shutting this down.

The extreme negativity, misandry, hate, and pure idiocy a lot of you "men" post here daily truly makes me cringe Irl.

The reality here is: OP found a lifestyle he loves and wanted to pursue. Did it in an unconventional venue, and was a success. Good for him! Don't be such a negative ******* for the sake of beig a dick...

The insane amount of comments degrading men who live at home also has to stop. I'll begin mass banning for those comments when I see them. So knock it off.

OP has more life experience than the vast majority of the misc, with the average age being around 22, and knows his lifestyle better than anyone here. Who the fuk are you to tear him down? Get a life. Truly.


OP. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you've found your true inner self.
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Originally Posted By INSANEREACH⏩
Women are superior to men in almost every single way. Especially these days because the world is increasingly feminised and traditional masculine attributes are frowned on .
Let's be honest. The world and society would flip upside down if:
1. Prostitution was legal
2. Men became more like OP (non women dependent) in OPs case he's had all the women he's wanted where the run of the mill attractive chick doesn't do much for him anymore.
3. Men become like men in Japan (also non women dependent)

But of course women and society would do everything in their power to prevent 1.
And in 5 years, guarantee Japanese sex robot tech will allow more of #3 in the western economy. Women will have to lower their standards. Realistically this won't happen in the <25 year old generation as guys who are 18-25 will always be thirsting for pussy. But as women get closer to 30.. the guys in that age group who haven't had the best luck will start to lose their own hope.
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Originally Posted By visc3ral⏩
This. If you haven't found a girl that understands you both should have individual lives outside of the relationship, then maybe you haven't been with anyone who is mature enough.
Most females have an over-inflated sense of themselves. Chances of finding a humble chick that looks a 5+/10 are super slim. Not hating, just saying it how it is. For most relationships with females, the juice just isn't worth the squeeze.
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OP is right in many ways, I mean, we got our hands, you know?this idea of desperation is ridiculous, every guy in their 20s is desperate af, but as you get older you realize that, you got your hands, what I'm trying to say is, it's not the end of the world, you know? you got your hands, remember that
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
typical female response, like its the most deplorable and disgusting thing to live with your parents. I will say it for a third time, I have a succesfull career and have been in it for 6 years, I have a very good retirment fund where I will be able to retire in my early 40s, I am a succesfull bodybuilding moving up and probably going to go pro next year. My mom was ecstatic when I told her because she has a nice house and is lonely and my Dad/stepmom are in the same situation and would have been very happy.

It is one thing if you can't live on your own and act like a child, live like a slob, dont work, don't take care of yourself etc.... but for me its just a financial and life decision that my parents completely agree with.
And I have 0 plans on dating in the next couple of years because I have a lot to accomplish on my own so I have 0 interest in what any female thinks about me living with my parents.


and @ Chezon, I have done the relationship and dating thing for years and years, it is not new to me, I know myself and what happens and I decided I am much happier doing my own thing, working out all the time, having my own money, and playing video games if my last relationship didnt work out.
I think it's sad for a grown man to be living off his parent TBH. It was a parent's response...something is wrong if you haven't established your own life and home by almost 30

I have no care in the slightest as to whether you give up dating or not

You be careful that you don't end up as a full time carer for aged parents ...that'll trap you
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I think it's sad for a grown man to be living off his parent TBH. It was a parent's response...something is wrong if you haven't established your own life and home by almost 30

I have no care in the slightest as to whether you give up dating or not

You be careful that you don't end up as a full time carer for aged parents ...that'll trap you
this thread wasn't about where he lives

typical female detour
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
this thread wasn't about where he lives

typical female detour
It was part of his OP and the only thing I responded to, which he decided to pick up on as a "typical female" response when it was a parental response
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
It was part of his OP and the only thing I responded to, which he decided to pick up on as a "typical female" response when it was a parental response
you're not his mom, now post nudes or move on
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Originally Posted By wasp9166⏩
you're not his mom, now post nudes or move on
You are increasingly bitter in your posts wasp...hope things take an upturn for you .
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You are increasingly bitter in your posts wasp...hope things take an upturn for you .
typical female response, caring and motherly.






































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