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Thread: Could you/Would you EVER take back a cheater?

post 1515100141 08-09-2017, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted By mukeofdanlets⏩
I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.
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post 1515100211 08-09-2017, 06:08 PM
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Nope
post 1515100261 08-09-2017, 06:08 PM
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post 1515100361 08-09-2017, 06:09 PM
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On the flip side, i've cheated before and it felt awful afterwards. srs. don't know how some sloots can just do it and think nothing of it (have talked to sloots for whom this is the case).
post 1515100411 08-09-2017, 06:09 PM
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nope

that's a one way ticket to NC
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post 1515100711 08-09-2017, 06:11 PM
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Pretty sure this is part of the definition of beta if you do.
But i dont get caught up in the whole beta/alpha thing, i just couldnt based on no trust and principal for me.
post 1515100851 08-09-2017, 06:13 PM
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For most of my life I would say fuk no, but these days I'm not sure. With more perspective on life and desires, I understand that people make mistakes. I think there's circumstances where I could move on from it. The thing is, if somebody cheats, it's probably because the relationship is lacking. In which case, might as well end it.

I guess I'm coming from a position of monogamy being unnatural and kind of bull**** these days though, after a couple of long failed relationships have left me drained. There was a time where being in a relationship was the most important thing to me, on a pedestal, and almost defining of my character... but now I look at relationships as just a facet of my life, not the sole driving force.
post 1515101121 08-09-2017, 06:16 PM
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i took my ex back and she cheated on me 3 more times.. so never again lol
post 1515101271 08-09-2017, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
You're still a young dipchit. I'm talking about a spouse who can ruin you and basically start your life over from 0.
Pretty sure I wouldnt let an alcoholic sloot ruin my life because I'm not a fuking moron, but to each their own.

Have fun on Christmas morning when the kiddos run to the tree to open presents, and your wife in her jammies pleasantly awaiting her gift from you. While the only thing on your mind was how deep Chad fuked her sugar walls, how she moaned when he first ripped her puzzy open, how she was just the right amount of drunk to cum over and over for him, and how he busted thicc ropes of his personal protein shake all over her face. Not to mention Chad stopping by for an easy round of 2nds while youre at work.
post 1515101311 08-09-2017, 06:18 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
I think the trust thing is blown out of proportion. Can you ever really trust someone 100%? If the right guy in the right situation comes along, 99.9% of women will put out. Human nature (slooting) beats social conditioning (monogamy) every time.
Yeah, I agree you're right- you can't truly trust someone 100% seeing it from that perspective. Also, if she's done it once before, it is plausible (however there are exceptions of course) that shes gonna do it again- so trust plays a major part either way imo.
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post 1515101331 08-09-2017, 06:18 PM
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post 1515101541 08-09-2017, 06:20 PM
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My wife and I both did it and are currently married....
post 1515103051 08-09-2017, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted By Mr13percent⏩
My wife and I both did it and are currently married....
How is that even possible?
post 1515103241 08-09-2017, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted By GMiscer⏩
Yes

When I was courting my wife she "slipped up" and slept with her ex once but I forgave her and now it's all good
Sounds like she's wet slipping on all those cawks.
post 1515103321 08-09-2017, 06:40 PM
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Nope. Cheating is their way of telling you that you don't mean a damn thing to them. You take someone back after they cheated on you then you have no self respect.

Betas gon beta.
post 1515103351 08-09-2017, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Archangel_Lost⏩
this
This. He ended up doing it again and my self-confidence was shot straight to hell.

Fool me once.

Never again. You can't keep your word, GTFO of my life. I have to deal with ethically bankrupt people against my will all the time, I'm not going to willingly allow one into my life.
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post 1515103421 08-09-2017, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By mukeofdanlets⏩
I've done it before. Won't do it again. Ever.
This. Although the odds aren't really in your favor, most people will cheat in some shape or form IMO.. but if they blatantly do it and you know.. especially sex then tours over.
post 1515103811 08-09-2017, 06:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Mr13percent⏩
My wife and I both did it and are currently married....
Dude.

How do you both even rationalize it?
post 1515103871 08-09-2017, 06:45 PM
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without reading anything itt i bet theres at least 4 miscers above me that say hell no they wouldnt yet have taken back cheaters in the past.
post 1515103951 08-09-2017, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Mparserz⏩
Dude.

How do you both even rationalize it?
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post 1515104161 08-09-2017, 06:49 PM
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post 1515104651 08-09-2017, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
If she kissed someone, I would smash someone to even it out. If she smashed, I would walk.
lol hard if you believe a grown woman when she says she only "kissed" another dude.
post 1515104721 08-09-2017, 06:55 PM
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never
post 1515105081 08-09-2017, 06:58 PM
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if she did it, its because she lost all respect for you,

you take her back, she is greatful at first but will always think of you as a "beta" low test *******.


No thanks, rather not deal with that bullchit, did it once never again.
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post 1515105271 08-09-2017, 07:00 PM
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Originally Posted By shortythree⏩
never
Are you an independently wealthy alpha who can leave without losing everything? Or are you willing to rebuild from zero and carry those scars?
post 1515105611 08-09-2017, 07:04 PM
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What some of you fail to understand is that women will be in a relationship with you and and cheat because you are a provider. There are lovers and providers. You only fit in one of those if she cheats.
post 1515106411 08-09-2017, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted By KINGSTHEMAN⏩
What some of you fail to understand is that women will be in a relationship with you and and cheat because you are a provider. There are lovers and providers. You only fit in one of those if she cheats.
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post 1515106931 08-09-2017, 07:15 PM
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Originally Posted By al****orilla⏩
if she did it, its because she lost all respect for you,

you take her back, she is greatful at first but will always think of you as a "beta" low test *******.


No thanks, rather not deal with that bullchit, did it once never again.
This. Woman logic is so fukked.
post 1515107801 08-09-2017, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By Ratfish⏩
If she kissed someone, I would smash someone to even it out. If she smashed, I would walk.
Pretty much this.
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post 1515112121 08-09-2017, 08:03 PM
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Yes. This is the opportunity to show her you are not a little crying boy. If you can tell she is very sorry and knows she messed up a man can actually grow by showing honest forgiveness
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