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post 1518689501 09-07-2017, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By SavageBrah84
This. She asked you for something related to class that isn't using you. She asked for a simple ****ing picture. If she asked you for money then that's using you OP. You are in the wrong.

I would've sent them to her, could've smashed her in future maybe or maybe not, at least used her to network.

I swear this is FA at its finest.

Edit: When I was in uni girls would always ask me for notes, I'd ask girls for notes that I never talked to before. Guess how many I banged/got with later on. Most of them. Who cares if she never said "hi" she asked for ****ing notes, not like she wanted you to buy her food and give her gas money lmao.
Are you the same guy who was asking recently the misc advice on how to fukk with your sister's new boyfriend, like play mind games or some chit with him / spook him out. And that thread completely backfired on you, with everyone negging you / telling you you're immature / and to stfu.

So stfu.
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post 1518689861 09-07-2017, 08:28 AM
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I never got the idea behind note hogging, it wasn't common in engineering school, everyone shared ****. But the kids in arts would always have an issue with sharing.


You literally lose nothing, they just gain a bit. I think it comes from a place of insecurity. I would've uploaded all the course notes to some cloud platform and shared it with the entire class.
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Originally Posted By SavageBrah84
A ****ing picture, not like he wrote them down.
no more like 20 pictures in total. also i have to be really attentive when i do it because if he erases what's on board too soon, i miss the picture. so i have to take more than needed and delete the ones that were only partial of what was on board. have to get correct zoom/focus too so they look right. and then go out of my way to send them all by email to someone I don't know who is most likely just using me
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There some sloot hating red pill *******s in this thread. They're NOTES, she ain't asking for the homework or something related to cheating jeeez I am disappointed misc.
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typical misc hating on every single female lol

OP you could have asked why she wasn't there, there's a chance of a valid excuse.

And there's nothing wrong with simply sending a photo to her once. If she comes back again and does it repeatedly, that's when you send her ass packing.
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Holy **** you guys are ****ing lame. I hope if you miss a day of school or work and you ask someone to fill you in they tell you to **** off.
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She probably does this and gets away with it all the time, you stood your ground - from what I've read anyway. It's a big difference between being nice/doing a favor and enabling bad habits. You can tell the difference if you're smart enough.
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Do you say no to everything randoms ask you because they are "using" you?

Not everything has to have a direct gain, usually it's good to be nice on its own. Especially when you have nothing to lose. It's not like you were setting yourself up for some sort of risk
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Out of all the people in class why did she pick you? Someone she has never spoken to before. I'm sure she could have asked the ppl who she sits next to or something. Something to think about brah
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Should have leveraged it a bit. Banter about it. Like you should make her invest something at least to get the notes. Just asking isn't enough.
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
Out of all the people in class why did she pick you? Someone she has never spoken to before. I'm sure she could have asked the ppl who she sits next to or something. Something to think about brah
she must have been mirin my ipad game. im the only one in class doing that
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
no more like 20 pictures in total. also i have to be really attentive when i do it because if he erases what's on board too soon, i miss the picture. so i have to take more than needed and delete the ones that were only partial of what was on board. have to get correct zoom/focus too so they look right. and then go out of my way to send them all by email to someone I don't know who is most likely just using me
lol you basically took ****ing photos. Should've sent them imo, now she'll go around telling others about you and what you did.
If you think that's using you, I've got some bad news....
Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
Are you the same guy who was asking recently the misc advice on how to fukk with your sister's new boyfriend, like play mind games or some chit with him / spook him out. And that thread completely backfired on you, with everyone negging you / telling you you're immature / and to stfu.

So stfu.
I actually got more reps then negs for that thread lmao. Yea I can fck around with him if I want, dudes chill af we actually hang out now. Kinda weird, but yea I chill with him. He actually said he found it funny that I did that.

Lmao that you tell me to stfu. Idgaf bro you live one life, might as well do what the fck I want. The same ppl that say it's immature to spook your sisters bf are the same dudes who are the party poopers. Grow a ****ing pair and have fun
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Originally Posted By GiveMeTheD
You are retarded, and have no idea what networking is... so to build a relationship with someone they have to offer you something in return immediately?

lmao, typical no avi miscer
First, why are you so upset?

Second, if your idea of networking is sending notes to a lazy college sl00t with nothing to offer in return, you're in trouble.
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Originally Posted By SavageBrah84
No to build a network/relationship you have to talk to someone first. I guarantee if OP gave the girl the notes, he can now strike up a convo with her or she might strike one up with him, now the chance of that happening is like 5%.

In life you are always giving/getting something. Again OP wasn't giving her money or something that deems to be used, she asked for a PICTURE of notes he took. A ****ing picture, not like he wrote them down.

Again as I stated, I've gotten with many girls that asked me for a picture/copy of notes or vice versa. Just lmao that you think giving notes is something major.
What? I was disagreeing with the guy who said giving her the notes would be a bad thing as it wouldn't be networking... reading comprehension not even once.
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Originally Posted By anonkunbrah
no more like 20 pictures in total. also i have to be really attentive when i do it because if he erases what's on board too soon, i miss the picture. so i have to take more than needed and delete the ones that were only partial of what was on board. have to get correct zoom/focus too so they look right. and then go out of my way to send them all by email to someone I don't know who is most likely just using me
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Girl trying to break the ice with OP since he never had the courage to do it himself and he goes full autism...
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Originally Posted By SavageBrah84
lol you basically took ****ing photos. Should've sent them imo, now she'll go around telling others about you and what you did.
If you think that's using you, I've got some bad news....



I actually got more reps then negs for that thread lmao. Yea I can fck around with him if I want, dudes chill af we actually hang out now. Kinda weird, but yea I chill with him. He actually said he found it funny that I did that.

Lmao that you tell me to stfu. Idgaf bro you live one life, might as well do what the fck I want. The same ppl that say it's immature to spook your sisters bf are the same dudes who are the party poopers. Grow a ****ing pair and have fun
You don't see a problem being a dik without reason to someone you don't know? You sound like a certified ******* srs.
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logged in just to rep you.

ive been in uni 5 years and my best mate at uni is a smart dude and people always always tried to use him for notes. Had a few try to use me too, we even had a running joke that if a random or someone obviously was trying to use we'd just say "im not your condom" was lolsy seeing responses

you did the right thing, my own rule is never help if they dont help you.

An indian wouldve give me the homework answers he got for free on the internet so i had to spend my own time doing them then in the assignment he heard id scored 90% last year and the ****n scumbag tried asking me for answers

these users at uni have no shame
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Girl trying to break the ice with OP since he never had the courage to do it himself and he goes full autism...
i guess thats why girls at the bar ask for free drinks too
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Originally Posted By GiveMeTheD
What? I was disagreeing with the guy who said giving her the notes would be a bad thing as it wouldn't be networking... reading comprehension not even once.
My bad bro, take my reps. I'm tired af today
Originally Posted By AquilaConfido
You don't see a problem being a dik without reason to someone you don't know? You sound like a certified ******* srs.
Lol like I said the dude found it funny and we chill now. If you think me doing a simple mind ****ery is being a dick, I guess you must sit in a basement all day and have zero social life
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Such a prima donna. What did you have to lose aside from a minute of your life?

"hey, can i get your notes late i wasnt in class blah blah"
"sure, whats your number" *send notes*

Now its up to her to take it somewhere, but at least you were a decent human being at the end of the day.

But yet, at the end of the day, OP has remained a *******.
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ITT incels have a good cry with OP about "being used by others" and "putting their foot down from now on!" and confuse those things with being a generally decent human being.

You said you didn't know her, OP. For all you know, she might have had some sort of interest in getting to know you and was giving you an in, or just genuinely needed the help, giving you potential networking/future dating if you played your cards right. At the absolute worst, she would have gotten the notes from you, costing you 5 seconds of your time, and that would have been the end of it.

But nooooo, you just HAD to be a little candy ass about it and tell her to go fukk herself, even though you don't know her and have zero reason to think she will turn it into a habit of using you. And miscers wonder why they are FA-cel ****s, jfc. Fist yourself.
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it's just pictures man.
Originally Posted By northernlights7
ITT incels have a good cry with OP about "being used by others" and "putting their foot down from now on!" and confuse those things with being a generally decent human being.

You said you didn't know her, OP. For all you know, she might have had some sort of interest in getting to know you and was giving you an in, or just genuinely needed the help, giving you potential networking/future dating if you played your cards right. At the absolute worst, she would have gotten the notes from you, costing you 5 seconds of your time, and that would have been the end of it.

But nooooo, you just HAD to be a little candy ass about it and tell her to go fukk herself, even though you don't know her and have zero reason to think she will turn it into a habit of using you. And miscers wonder why they are FA-cel ****s, jfc. Fist yourself.
dunno wtf an incel or any of that sh*t is but this guy is basically right. at worst, it takes 10 seconds to send over some pics and you make a friend. at best, well..
Originally Posted By ItzcoolBrah
i guess thats why girls at the bar ask for free drinks too
not the same thing. buying drinks for a girl is costing you something, your money. $10 shots can take a while at work to make, 10 seconds to send a picture doesn't really cost you anything
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Originally Posted By Vampirelol
There's a difference between being used and being a good human being. It takes what, 5 seconds to send a pic?

FA detected
This. Sharing notes is what classmates do. If she asks to suddenly borrow money or copy your test, you refuse. It doesn't seem like OP understands boundaries.

Next OP is going to make a thread about intentionally not opening a door for an old lady because he doesn't want to be "used."
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Originally Posted By SavageBrah84
My bad bro, take my reps. I'm tired af today



Lol like I said the dude found it funny and we chill now. If you think me doing a simple mind ****ery is being a dick, I guess you must sit in a basement all day and have zero social life
Funny how most of the misc (including a lot of stable, accomplished miscers with families) didn't find it funny and negged the fuk out of you for it.
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Originally Posted By SpeedMan1
Should have got her number and send dick pics instead of notes
This OP.

This is the only appropriate response.
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10/10 OP
You did the right thing

I remember in my college days (ended up dropping out to be a tradie yolo) I'd see awkward engineering students in the cafeteria or the library crowding around their 6/10 female stemcel classmates, explaining them formulas and homework and chit like the girl was going to catch feelings for them or something. I mean the bold ones would explain engineering, most would actually just stand around smiling awkwardly.

Don't be like those guys, I can guarantee you any of them would have sent her the pictures and offered to explain her the homework and all that. No dignity.
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Originally Posted By sunchine
10/10 OP
You did the right thing

I remember in my college days (ended up dropping out to be a tradie yolo) I'd see awkward engineering students in the cafeteria or the library crowding around their 6/10 female stemcel classmates, explaining them formulas and homework and chit like the girl was going to catch feelings for them or something. I mean the bold ones would explain engineering, most would actually just stand around smiling awkwardly.

Don't be like those guys, I can guarantee you any of them would have sent her the pictures and offered to explain her the homework and all that. No dignity.
There is levels though this girl was just asking for notes. I did kinda hate sloots in my major(CS) and how all the betas flocked to them help and chit.
Originally Posted By DatFeelGuy
First, why are you so upset?

Second, if your idea of networking is sending notes to a lazy college sl00t with nothing to offer in return, you're in trouble.
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All the dudes saying you should've gave her the notes are probably the white knight types who would expect vag slime on their dick in return.

I saw girls and guys do this all the time in college. You did the right thing OP. Keep it up.
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