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post 1539061651 12-30-2017, 07:53 PM
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Originally Posted By MissChill⏩
Hope that 12 pack isn'tjust getting you all rowdy tonight lady.
oh boy

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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
eh i think the misc can be brutally honest.. and i appreciate it. might hurt my feelings but sometimes you need to face the truth on things. he's very angry at me, that i know for sure.. honestly i think he has such high opinions of himself that it would be difficult for him to find a gf that he thinks treats him the way he deserves to be treated
Why is he angry at you?
Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
we dated 12 years ago, we broke up but stayed friends.. we started dating again like 7 months ago.
So you should know each other well, sometimes we have to ask questions that we are uncomfortable with, even questions we already know the answer to but just want to hear the words be spoken from our SO, chit might get uncomfortable, but you need to talk with him and lay everything down, as all the questions, even ones you don't want answers to, and be ready to be asked the same. Wish you the best, and hope whatever the outcome is that you get the truth.
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post 1539061731 12-30-2017, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
we dated 12 years ago, we broke up but stayed friends.. we started dating again like 7 months ago.
You're hinting at the issue.

How does he want to be treated?
How do you treat him.
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post 1539061911 12-30-2017, 07:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Gxp23⏩
Wait, didn't he just grow a backbone? What was he like exactly before this happened?
It's hard to explain..its like he thinks the more he gives the more he deserves back.. he gives a lot but i also have two kids and my own household to look after.. he wants me to cook him dinners, clean his house and what not but we dont live together, i should add that i do go clean his house and cook him dinners, it just doesnt happen on a daily basis.. its a lot on my plate, but he doesnt seem to understand. anyways i think he gave so much of his "love", didnt receive back what he thought was due to him and now he has found someone else that seems great at first, but will also not live up to his expectations.
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post 1539061971 12-30-2017, 07:58 PM
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maybe he knows you are are running his name into the dirt here on the misc and sees that as disrespectful and desperate?
post 1539062041 12-30-2017, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By MissChill⏩
Hope that 12 pack isn'tjust getting you all rowdy tonight lady.
haha no.. i do need to get this out though.. ive been sad for a week now about whats happening and it doesnt help to just hold it in
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post 1539062491 12-30-2017, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By TheRougarou646⏩
Growing a backbone and acting like a dick are two totally different things.
just a backbone towards the things he expects out of a relationship.. but he did a complete 180 on me
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post 1539062511 12-30-2017, 08:06 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
It's hard to explain..its like he thinks the more he gives the more he deserves back.. he gives a lot but i also have two kids and my own household to look after.. he wants me to cook him dinners, clean his house and what not but we dont live together, i should add that i do go clean his house and cook him dinners, it just doesnt happen on a daily basis.. its a lot on my plate, but he doesnt seem to understand. anyways i think he gave so much of his "love", didnt receive back what he thought was due to him and now he has found someone else that seems great at first, but will also not live up to his expectations.
It doesn't matter if it's unreasonable to you. If he wants to date someone who cooks and cleans daily, either have to do it or he has to compromise. You can't both have what you want, so someone has to give in, it's as simple as that.

Btw I say this as someone who cooks most often in my relationship, although she does the dishes and nearly every other household type of chores (i.e. cleaning and laundry). The expectations he has may not always seem reasonable to you, but you have to accept that it's what he's asking for.

lol'ed at "giving his love" btw, this dude is kind of cool actually. He's taking you to poundtown and making you cook for him 7 nights a week because he gave you his sweet lovin, while you're trying to take care of 2 kids? Must have a pretty good dik game. Fukin mirin.
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post 1539062691 12-30-2017, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
It's hard to explain..its like he thinks the more he gives the more he deserves back.. he gives a lot but i also have two kids and my own household to look after.. he wants me to cook him dinners, clean his house and what not but we dont live together, i should add that i do go clean his house and cook him dinners, it just doesnt happen on a daily basis.. its a lot on my plate, but he doesnt seem to understand. anyways i think he gave so much of his "love", didnt receive back what he thought was due to him and now he has found someone else that seems great at first, but will also not live up to his expectations.
Do you both work? Does he come over to clean your house and cook you dinners too?
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post 1539063161 12-30-2017, 08:13 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Do you both work? Does he come over to clean your house and cook you dinners too?
yes we both work, but he has a very difficult job, plus works 7 days a week... my job is easier and less hours but i also have other responsibilities that can be draining in different ways.. and no he doesnt clean my house or cook me dinners
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post 1539063301 12-30-2017, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
It's hard to explain..its like he thinks the more he gives the more he deserves back.. he gives a lot but i also have two kids and my own household to look after.. he wants me to cook him dinners, clean his house and what not but we dont live together, i should add that i do go clean his house and cook him dinners, it just doesnt happen on a daily basis.. its a lot on my plate, but he doesnt seem to understand. anyways i think he gave so much of his "love", didnt receive back what he thought was due to him and now he has found someone else that seems great at first, but will also not live up to his expectations.
It's unreasonable for him to expect domestic stuff other than once in a while if you don't live together.
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post 1539063371 12-30-2017, 08:15 PM
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In all seriousness for him to start acting that way all the sudden out of the blue chances are he's talking to someone else. Better to cut it off now
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post 1539063531 12-30-2017, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
yes we both work, but he has a very difficult job, plus works 7 days a week... my job is easier and less hours but i also have other responsibilities that can be draining in different ways.. and no he doesnt clean my house or cook me dinners
Let's be honest here even supermom wouldn't be able to run 2 households. You don't live together. If he's really worried about a clean house and cooked meals on a daily basis tell him to hire a fukin maid.

Srs...
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post 1539063611 12-30-2017, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Do you both work? Does he come over to clean your house and cook you dinners too?
Originally Posted By leoslayer1⏩
It's unreasonable for him to expect domestic stuff other than once in a while if you don't live together.
Sometimes people want something in a relationship that you might deem unreasonable. Doesn't mean they're not entitled to want what they want. She may not be the right one to provide that for him, but some people (both men and women) can choose to take on more of the domestic duties.
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post 1539063691 12-30-2017, 08:18 PM
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Originally Posted By LeoThedude⏩
In all seriousness for him to start acting that way all the sudden out of the blue chances are he's talking to someone else. Better to cut it off now
yeah this is what i ultimately believe is happening.. it will sting a bit when i know for sure but at least it wont be a surprise
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post 1539063901 12-30-2017, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
It's hard to explain..its like he thinks the more he gives the more he deserves back.. he gives a lot but i also have two kids and my own household to look after.. he wants me to cook him dinners, clean his house and what not but we dont live together, i should add that i do go clean his house and cook him dinners, it just doesnt happen on a daily basis.. its a lot on my plate, but he doesnt seem to understand. anyways i think he gave so much of his "love", didnt receive back what he thought was due to him and now he has found someone else that seems great at first, but will also not live up to his expectations.
Well everyone deserves to have the same amount back while being a relationship. He's expecting you to be the traditional woman that he can count on. With the way you speak about it, seems like you already withdrew yourself from the relationship.

You have a two choices OP.

-Ask him to move in so it's easier to do the cleaning, cooking, etc
-Break it off with him because you can't balance children and taking care of a grown man at his place.
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post 1539063981 12-30-2017, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Let's be honest here even supermom wouldn't be able to run 2 households. You don't live together. If he's really worried about a clean house and cooked meals on a daily basis tell him to hire a fukin maid.

Srs...
thanks i actually really needed to hear that..
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post 1539064041 12-30-2017, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
Sometimes people want something in a relationship that you might deem unreasonable. Doesn't mean they're not entitled to want what they want. She may not be the right one to provide that for him, but some people (both men and women) can choose to take on more of the domestic duties.
Take on more of the domestic duties? She take care of ALL the domestic duties at her own home with her own two children and is still managing to do what she can at his home for him. He knew that right from the beginning and is just now deciding that her efforts are simply not enough.


Michelle I suggest you drop that guy. You don’t need anybody who seems like a selfish brat. You are already doing so much and going out of your way
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
Sometimes people want something in a relationship that you might deem unreasonable. Doesn't mean they're not entitled to want what they want. She may not be the right one to provide that for him, but some people (both men and women) can choose to take on more of the domestic duties.
So she should be responsible for all domestic duties in 2 homes 7 days a week?

I'm sorry that's completely insane...
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Originally Posted By kimm4⏩
Let's be honest here even supermom wouldn't be able to run 2 households. You don't live together. If he's really worried about a clean house and cooked meals on a daily basis tell him to hire a fukin maid.

Srs...
Yea if they lived together he would have a solid argument, but they dont so he should take care of his own house
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Originally Posted By MichelleLnne⏩
yeah this is what i ultimately believe is happening.. it will sting a bit when i know for sure but at least it wont be a surprise
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You have to speak to him about your issues because it is obviously affecting you. Have you actually sat him down and had a conversation with him? People do not suddenly change usually they change because they want to get out of a relationship, or something at work is stressing them out or it could be something has happened in his family. Have you asked him how his job is going or if anything is stressing him out?
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Go NC. Works every time srs. If he still likes you he'll lose his backbone and come running like a bitchboy that he is real soon
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Originally Posted By havoc00⏩
Yea if they lived together he would have a solid argument, but they dont so he should take care of his own house
He would. He's most likely using OP as a maid and cheating since he knows that she'll be busy with the other household. OP is better off finding a man that can comprehend her situation.
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Originally Posted By PisseninMisc⏩
Sometimes people want something in a relationship that you might deem unreasonable. Doesn't mean they're not entitled to want what they want. She may not be the right one to provide that for him, but some people (both men and women) can choose to take on more of the domestic duties.
Yes it is unreasonable.

If you as a person have an unreasonable expectation for relationships that less than .5% of the world would think is acceptable then you need to be told so so you can change your beliefs.

You don't get to just stomp your feet and whine you want something as an adult. It doesn't work when you're four nor will it bode well now.
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