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post 1541421691 01-21-2018, 10:02 PM
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Originally Posted By 4ea⏩
imo you're thinking about it too much. a good mentality towards women in general is that its cool to have a girlfriend but its not necessary that you find the love of your life right now. its best to simply not care, and the next time you see some pretty girl eye fuking you, walk up to her and hit on her like a cocky bastard. flaunt your six pack to her, get her back to your place and kiss her on the next, see where that takes you.

maybe shel surprise you with an awesome personality, or maybe shel be annoying as fuk and youl have to tolerate her until you're bored with her.



dude, youre shredded as fuk. just walk around town wearing clothes that show off your body, girls will gawk at you, just go talk to the first one that looks good to you.
Yeah, I get what you’re saying dude. I’ve never liked using my phsique to pick up girls though, don’t like to explicitely show it off. Feel like a douche and it makes me a bit uncomfortable lol.
post 1541421981 01-21-2018, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
kinda man

not for not being able to acquire females, no issues with that, but yeah as i get older it's seeming sillier and sillier

but lol @ u, this is all you ever post about, hating on females, dating game, anyone even trying to date etc. either process it in a reasonable way or just deal with it man
Lol, I know dude. I’m a chit poster, legit don’t contribute anything of worth to this community. Busy as hell and I don’t have time to misc. Usually just creep and lmao at threads and only post when I feel down or want to vent.

This whole game just seems to be getting emptier and emptier. I feel hollow after hooking up with random girls I don’t want to be with. Waking up in the morning and just wishing they weren’t there and you were by yourself is one of the worst feelings for me.
post 1541422031 01-21-2018, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Yeah, I get what you’re saying dude. I’ve never liked using my phsique to pick up girls though, don’t like to explicitely show it off. Feel like a douche and it makes me a bit uncomfortable lol.
thats like saying you want to go buy things from the store, but dont like using money.

come on man, use your assets and go get what you want.
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post 1541422111 01-21-2018, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
This whole game just seems to be getting emptier and emptier. I feel hollow after hooking up with random girls I don’t want to be with. Waking up in the morning and just wishing they weren’t there and you were by yourself is one of the worst feelings for me.
game doesn't change man, just you feeling it as you go through the years
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post 1541422571 01-21-2018, 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
game doesn't change man, just you feeling it as you go through the years
Wise words my dawgie. Happy belated




Thanks for all the posts guys. My life is pretty good now but still feel like a depressed ******* a lot of the time. Just gotta think about this chit less and go out and live freely
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"Based on the study's results, most couples meet through friends (represented on the chart by a diamond-shaped icon) - a trend that's stayed relatively constant for six decades.

But since the advent of widely popular forms of social media, in the 2000s, the popularity of meeting people online (shown on the chart with a gray triangle) has skyrocketed. In 2010, it nearly eclipsed the number of couples who met at a bar or restaurant (represented on the chart by the asterisk icon)."

http://www.businessinsider.com/most-...-online-2016-9
post 1541422821 01-21-2018, 10:19 PM
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Could you guys who can't cope with being single purchase a thesaurus or something? It's always "Brutal" with you.

I've had issues with dating my whole life. I'm on 11 woman, 7 of them are from Tinder and 10 of them have been in the past 5 years. I spent 6 years in my 20's as single. I've never complained on the misc about dating once. I've never complained about dating to my friends or my family.

What use does it have? I'm not a stranger to letting things off my chest but there's something about being outwardly upset about how girls are treating you that's inherently off. To add, because of having issues I'm not even going to pursue anyone this year. I'm actually living in a land of eligible, sweet and sensitive women and yet I'm unable to leverage it - seems the onus is on me so I figure I need to take a hiatus and get my chit together. I could blame them, but no. Once again, what would that accomplish?

As far as I'm concerned, you either put up or shut up. Put up with it and settle because you're lonely, or shut up and wait it out, doing all you can to ensure you maximise your sexual market value and if you find somebody who sees it, don't be desperate or display other traits which will distance her.
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post 1541422861 01-21-2018, 10:20 PM
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i came to the conclusion a long time ago that you should never rely on other people to find happiness and meaning in your life because other people have a way of letting you down. besides, most people are inherently selfish and only out for themselves, and that goes for any potential girlfriends too. alot of girls try to push for marriage because they want an atm machine, and a person to boss around.

putting yourself in that position will not improve the quality of your life.

but getting head from a girl until you dont like her anymore, then kicking her out and finding the next piece of ass... now thats fun. her actions will determine if you live happily ever after, or if youl break up with her and leave her heart broken. but dont expect that shel actually be quality, because statistically speaking, she wont be.
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post 1541423101 01-21-2018, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Could you guys who can't cope with being single purchase a thesaurus or something? It's always "Brutal" with you.

I've had issues with dating my whole life. I'm on 11 woman, 7 of them are from Tinder and 10 of them have been in the past 5 years. I spent 6 years in my 20's as single. I've never complained on the misc about dating once. I've never complained about dating to my friends or my family.

What use does it have? I'm not a stranger to letting things off my chest but there's something about being outwardly upset about how girls are treating you that's inherently off. To add, because of having issues I'm not even going to pursue anyone this year. I'm actually living in a land of eligible, sweet and sensitive women and yet I'm unable to leverage it - seems the onus is on me so I figure I need to take a hiatus and get my chit together. I could blame them, but no. Once again, what would that accomplish?

As far as I'm concerned, you either put up or shut up. Put up with it and settle because you're lonely, or shut up and wait it out, doing all you can to ensure you maximise your sexual market value and if you find somebody who sees it, don't be desperate or display other traits which will distance her.
What are you even talking about right now?Asking where guys meet good girls because online and the club scene is not where I want to be anywhere. No need to bring all your baggage into this thread..it was a simple question
post 1541423211 01-21-2018, 10:25 PM
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I used to be scared of ending up alone, I was jealous of my friends in seemingly perfect relationships. Over the years I got happier and they got sadder. Like they appreciate their families but you can tell they are beaten down.

Now I am successful with finances and life goals, I know what I am looking for and as much as I would like kids I don't want them with the wrong person.

COPE? possibly, I do fine with women, just haven't found the right one yet.
Originally Posted By 4ea⏩
i came to the conclusion a long time ago that you should never rely on other people to find happiness and meaning in your life because other people have a way of letting you down. besides, most people are inherently selfish and only out for themselves, and that goes for any potential girlfriends too. alot of girls try to push for marriage because they want an atm machine, and a person to boss around.

putting yourself in that position will not improve the quality of your life.

but getting head from a girl until you dont like her anymore, then kicking her out and finding the next piece of ass... now thats fun. her actions will determine if you live happily ever after, or if youl break up with her and leave her heart broken. but dont expect that shel actually be quality, because statistically speaking, she wont be.
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post 1541423451 01-21-2018, 10:29 PM
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I dont think a woman could ever truly love me in my totality. That means id have to lie and hide parts of myself. Put on an act. And that just sounds like a nightmare. So ill keep lifting and datingjust to keep women interested in sucking my dik. Cause honestly very few women you date really give a chit about you maybe 20%.
post 1541423471 01-21-2018, 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted By 4ea⏩
i came to the conclusion a long time ago that you should never rely on other people to find happiness and meaning in your life because other people have a way of letting you down. besides, most people are inherently selfish and only out for themselves, and that goes for any potential girlfriends too. alot of girls try to push for marriage because they want an atm machine, and a person to boss around.

putting yourself in that position will not improve the quality of your life.

but getting head from a girl until you dont like her anymore, then kicking her out and finding the next piece of ass... now thats fun. her actions will determine if you live happily ever after, or if youl break up with her and leave her heart broken. but dont expect that shel actually be quality, because statistically speaking, she wont be.
We may have different definitions of fun then.

I have legit never said I’m depressed because Ican’t find a good girl. My issues were and have always been real life stuff. So many of you are jumping to this conclusion lol. I just want to find a girl thats not sloot in another way outside tinder or gettind drunk at the bar.

And with the state of social media and the world these days, finding a girl who’s not a sloot or an insta whore is not a given and that worries me. Don’t even want marriage or kids, but at least want a non sloot to chill with every now and then
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
What are you even talking about right now?Asking where guys meet good girls because online and the club scene is not where I want to be anywhere. No need to bring all your baggage into this thread..it was a simple question
Re-read your OP and some other responses man, and tell me you're not writing like all the other FA's that make threads about their problems with dating.

I brought my "baggage" as credentials. I could just say "Lols people who complain about girls are bitch *******s" and be seeing a plethora of women for all you know. Fact is I don't and still I don't come on the misc and baw about it.

You know where to meet girls - Follow your passions. Go out and meet people, get into social circles. Don't be scared of being alone, that fear will control you and make you settle or even worse give up on life entirely.
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
Wise words my dawgie. Happy belated

Thanks for all the posts guys. My life is pretty good now but still feel like a depressed ******* a lot of the time. Just gotta think about this chit less and go out and live freely
thanks dawgie.

how old are ya? sounds like you may have to spend some time evaluating what's important to you - stability, financial success, achievement, family, love, etc etc. it's not unreasonable for life to be 'good' according to standard measures and be unhappy.

think back on things you've realised in the past about what you need to do to be happy, and what you've stopped doing. start doing it again. it's easy to be unhappy when you subscribe to the practice of just keeping yourself distracted from your thoughts n feelings at all times
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Broke up with my gf who I could have seen marrying a couple weeeks ago bc of distance so feeling a little bittersweet regret rn.

If I try to get girls I don't have a problem. I re downloaded tinder just bc I feel better when I at least have a fwb and feel desired srs. Tinder and bar girls work for validation but after that validation it does feel a little empty. I'm just scared I'll end up working some engineering job with all dudes and not in a major city so it'll be that much harder meeting quality girls. Oh well I'm only almost 23 don't have to worrry too much about ending up alone yet

One thing I've noticed in the last year or two is most girls feel a lot more comfortable dating somebody they meet naturally or through a friend rather than at some bar so in my adult life I'd like to do more non-drinking social stuff
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Btw I actually like you OP, I've seen you post on other threads and you're a decent gent. I'm just abrasive in these "dating is brutal" threads because they're broken records.
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nah more worried about not doing well on the mcat or becoming a doctor OP
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Originally Posted By WhirlwindTobias⏩
Re-read your OP and some other responses man, and tell me you're not writing like all the other FA's that make threads about their problems with dating.

I brought my "baggage" as credentials. I could just say "Lols people who complain about girls are bitch *******s" and be seeing a plethora of women for all you know. Fact is I don't and still I don't come on the misc and baw about it.

You know where to meet girls - Follow your passions. Go out and meet people, get into social circles. Don't be scared of being alone, that fear will control you and make you settle or even worse give up on life entirely.
Ok, I get what you’re saying man. I’m not a FA, but I can see how it could ne interpreted as such. I’m not worried about being able to hook up with girls or anything, I can get girls physically, just seem to struggle finding something ‘real’ and I do worry about it long term. I don’t want to be in a relationship NOWor anything, just would like the peace of mind knowing that I COULD get one sometime in the future and all the things I see about women in the media being disillusioned entitled sloots has me worried

Stupid, I know, but my mental stability has been ROCKED over the last 2years dealing with just terrible life stuff and I still haven’t recovered. My mental state still seems fragile and I’m completely pessimistic about a lot of things and my bad thoughts about myself are harder to get rid of than I thought
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I AM ended up alone
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
We may have different definitions of fun then.

I have legit never said I’m depressed because Ican’t find a good girl. My issues were and have always been real life stuff. So many of you are jumping to this conclusion lol. I just want to find a girl thats not sloot in another way outside tinder or gettind drunk at the bar.

And with the state of social media and the world these days, finding a girl who’s not a sloot or an insta whore is not a given and that worries me. Don’t even want marriage or kids, but at least want a non sloot to chill with every now and then
i didnt mean to imply you were depressed with life mang, just speaking from my own point of view. personally, i used to place alot more value on the idea of getting married and living happily ever after. all that sappy stuff, but got involved with some real worthless girls, and also observed the behavior of other girls in relationships and identified it as trashy and rotten. its left me cynical, which probably shows.

i absolutely agree with you about westernized women. you may want to try foreign girls who are not born and raised with this self entitled britney spears mentality. girls like that are only good for one thing, and it aint companionship, nom sayin?
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I know you're not FA, OP. Which is why you shouldn't write like one. I actually thought you were car salesman before clicking on the thread, but then I noticed the srs tag which he never does, glanced at the poster name and recognised you. So entered the thread to see what was up.
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Ive been the biggest slayer, and then gone through troughs

Whats most annoying to me is how women dont want you in the troughs. Doesnt really matter, they just want the ammenities as a byproduct of circumstances.

Srs.. How many women you know pick a guy up when hes down? Most will actually prob treat you like you dont exist for fear of you coming onto them and them being placed in a weird sexual position.

Then comes the fact that they can get sex whenever they want and anytime theyre bored.

Their distinction lies in their chastity and how little theyve been passed around, and that seems pretty uncommon nowadays.

However, i just want to say that its prob your environment. I would just hone in on an environment of chicks youd do well with and work there
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Originally Posted By AngusPeppered⏩
Broke up with my gf who I could have seen marrying a couple weeeks ago bc of distance so feeling a little bittersweet regret rn.

If I try to get girls I don't have a problem. I re downloaded tinder just bc I feel better when I at least have a fwb and feel desired srs. Tinder and bar girls work for validation but after that validation it does feel a little empty. I'm just scared I'll end up working some engineering job with all dudes and not in a major city so it'll be that much harder meeting quality girls. Oh well I'm only almost 23 don't have to worrry too much about ending up alone yet

One thing I've noticed in the last year or two is most girls feel a lot more comfortable dating somebody they meet naturally or through a friend rather than at some bar so in my adult life I'd like to do more non-drinking social stuff
"Based on the study's results, most couples meet through friends (represented on the chart by a diamond-shaped icon) - a trend that's stayed relatively constant for six decades."
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Originally Posted By TheWeeknd4Ever⏩
where the hell do I find them?

do I have to go to the farmers market? where are these cool girls congregating??
What do you find cool? And social? Go do that

Mixed sports teams, lectures, evening classes, hiking groups, cooking classes...whatever you enjoy or kinda want to learn about

Get out of your comfort zone, get outside and do something that doesn’t revolve around sexual conquest

Won’t mean much but I’ve always got the impression you’re pretty quality, I don’t think you’ll end up alone

Also a real dating site, not a hookup site, isn’t a bad idea
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Originally Posted By Brozart⏩
thanks dawgie.

how old are ya? sounds like you may have to spend some time evaluating what's important to you - stability, financial success, achievement, family, love, etc etc. it's not unreasonable for life to be 'good' according to standard measures and be unhappy.

think back on things you've realised in the past about what you need to do to be happy, and what you've stopped doing. start doing it again. it's easy to be unhappy when you subscribe to the practice of just keeping yourself distracted from your thoughts n feelings at all times
I’m 24 man.

The problem may be that I just don’t know what it will take to make me happy. Went through very dark times over the past 2 years where literally everything in my life seemed to be crumbling on top of me. Don’t even know how I made it through all of that. I figured when things got better, when the pieces start falling into place i’d be happy.

Then, I got everything I thought I’d been working towards
-my own sick pad with my best friend
- dream job that I’d been working towards for 2 years and a pretty set path to success for my future
- dad got his health back

Afterall this though I still feel empty a lot of the times, which is bad becauseI knowwhat it’s like to be suicidal and my circumstances are night and day since then. But why has my mind not changed? I kniw a girl wont make me happy and I’m notlooking for one to make me happy, just a distraction I guess? But a distraction that won’t leave me feeking worse in the morning for some reason, which club and tinder girls usually do
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You’re 24, it’s just what am I doing with my life angst ..it’s natural at the normal end of enjoyment of life phases, the stage where you think it’s ok but there must be more but you’re still too young to be thinking of settling down IMO

Won’t help, and I know you chitpost, but I’ve always felt you’re pretty quality ..I have no concerns you can’t make it work with someone worthwhile ...you’re not the type who will end up alone
post 1541426611 01-21-2018, 11:19 PM
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Why would a man fear ending up alone? We come into this life alone and die alone.

Who wants nagging and annoying woman around, especially when you are old and she just talks about ******** or Judge Judy all day.

Also find some more alpha music. TheWeeknd is feminine and then girls will wonder about your masculinity. Metallica The Killers or even Imagine Dragons is a better selection.
post 1541427481 01-21-2018, 11:34 PM
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dont know these feels OP

Planning my wedding with my future wife.

October 20th, free drinks, see you there
It's all going to be ok, Kings
post 1541427511 01-21-2018, 11:34 PM
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Thanks everyone.

Basically need to stop being a pussy and just live my life being a young eligible guy. Will definitely work on it
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