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ยป Hanged out with girl I'm dating and her guy friend took my hat off at a party. Help
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post 1542457011 01-31-2018, 10:08 PM
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post 1542457141 01-31-2018, 10:10 PM
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lmfao @ getting punked this hard at age 26. Dude clearly knows a geek when he sees one ayyyyy
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post 1542457371 01-31-2018, 10:13 PM
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next time wing him or cuck him
post 1542457701 01-31-2018, 10:19 PM
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Go NC on all of them, you shouldn't be fukn with her. If she fuks with immature ppl like that that she can go fuk herself
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post 1542457831 01-31-2018, 10:20 PM
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this is why you shave your head and don't wear hats. strike one if you wore a hat indoors op
post 1542457931 01-31-2018, 10:21 PM
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Wtf are you doing dating a girl who has dbag trash friends. I hope sheโ€™s at least hot.
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post 1542457971 01-31-2018, 10:21 PM
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OP, you gotta go Mike Tyson on him. You submitted to him. I don't promote violence but threats and/or violence always gets the job done in my experience.
post 1542458391 01-31-2018, 10:28 PM
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You say you couldn't fight him bc he's bigger than you, but you'd have gained a lot more respect from everyone for swinging on him and losing than letting him bully you and bitch you out infront of everyone.

That being said, you're 26, time to start standing up for yourself and not waiting for girls to do it for you.
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post 1542458671 01-31-2018, 10:33 PM
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"Who's this guy?"

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post 1542458801 01-31-2018, 10:34 PM
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When he said " Who's this guy "

You should of pointed at your girlfriend cause clearly you was covering for her.

In reality, if you're not made for confrontation. Nobody can tell you how to be about it. Just don't turn into a mild party shooter out of anger.

P.s you can always tell your girl something like

" I was so close to ( insert a fictional story ) but I didn't wanna ruin your party "
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post 1542458851 01-31-2018, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted By LuckMaker
I've had **** like this happen to me and I've acted beta before. It takes practice, took a good 40 times of harassment from other kids and my friends to handle it. When **** like this happens, you have several options.

1. Act cool, act like you don't give a **** if it's their bullying is a minor insult, and say something like "sure."
2. Get mad, violent, and push/kick/shove them in a way without actually inflicting real damage, as a warning. It's unlikely they'll fight back, even if they are taller. (I've done this so many times and it always works.)
3. Threaten you'll do something violent to them like shoving your foot in their mouth.
4. Come up with a clever insult to make them mad. When he threw your hat, you should have said, "Damn, someone's insecure."

These are my go to options. Usually people harass because they're jealous.
last one is probably what OP shouldve done. or even just say, whats your problem? and if he tries to joke it off, dismiss it by saying something like "that's kind of a dick move bro"
post 1542459601 01-31-2018, 10:45 PM
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**** him to assert your dominance
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post 1542459841 01-31-2018, 10:49 PM
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"I'm the guy that's ****ing your friend. How do you do?".

Have some fun with it.
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post 1542460021 01-31-2018, 10:54 PM
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The only reason this guy would insult some random person he just met is because heโ€™s insecure/jealous. Your best bet is pointing this out. โ€œDamn bro, you must have a really small dink if youโ€™re so insecure you need to insult me.โ€ Then if he comes at you violently be ready, but most likely heโ€™s just laugh awkwardly and shut his ass up.
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post 1542460121 01-31-2018, 10:56 PM
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give him a brojob
post 1542460261 01-31-2018, 10:59 PM
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stop being an awkward beta with a beanie indoors, will go a long way

but without escalating too much you should've instantly reply with fuk off you mongloid
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post 1542460441 01-31-2018, 11:02 PM
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I would've responsed by saying "don't worry who I am, the fck?" And if he would've taken my hat and thrown it I'm shoving him as hard as I can and will be ready to fight if he actually was about it. Most guys fold real quick when you call them on their bullsht. And even if I had gotten my ass kicked I would've been able to respect myself for not allowing myself to get b1tched out. Like last week I was at a club and some dude shoved me out his way from behind and as he walked by I shoved his ass right back, he turned his head (but kept walking) and made a face and I just stared at him with a what are you going to do face. He was with walking with his gf too lol.
post 1542460671 01-31-2018, 11:07 PM
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post 1542460851 01-31-2018, 11:11 PM
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Azz fuk him using his own spine.
post 1542460891 01-31-2018, 11:12 PM
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You screwed up from the start. When he said "who's this guy?" you should have approached him confidently, extended your hand for a handshake, and introduced yourself to him loudly so everyone could hear.

Best case is he respects you and he's cool all night.

Worst case is he just makes little jerk comments about you behind your back all night to his friends but he probably wouldn't have had the balls to do anything more (like take your hat) and everyone else would probably just think he's the jerk.
post 1542460991 01-31-2018, 11:15 PM
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the beta reacts out of insecurity.

the alpha is not affected by petty bs.
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post 1542461091 01-31-2018, 11:17 PM
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Opie will never know these feels due to elevated estrogen levels.


Phucking lol@him probably taking thread advice and walking into the next party with a false sense of confidence thinking chit is sweet.



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post 1542462161 01-31-2018, 11:37 PM
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not sure if roll bread or scene out of Never Back Down
post 1542462531 01-31-2018, 11:42 PM
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Damn OP, you dun goofed. That guy asked you a question, unless you're shy at ****, you go tell him who you're. From there the rest of the night would had been different. Lol @ the hat part and the girl covering for you. You'll learn from this.
post 1542462621 01-31-2018, 11:44 PM
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OP are you just going to avoid responding to your own thread like you avoided confronting the guy that threw your hat?
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post 1542463301 02-01-2018, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By XabstractX
You screwed up from the start. When he said "who's this guy?" you should have approached him confidently, extended your hand for a handshake, and introduced yourself to him loudly so everyone could hear.

Best case is he respects you and he's cool all night.

Worst case is he just makes little jerk comments about you behind your back all night to his friends but he probably wouldn't have had the balls to do anything more (like take your hat) and everyone else would probably just think he's the jerk.
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post 1542463441 02-01-2018, 12:06 AM
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Someone knocking your hat off is asking for it. You ****ed up.
post 1542463601 02-01-2018, 12:09 AM
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Originally Posted By white_pele
stop being an awkward beta with a beanie indoors, will go a long way

but without escalating too much you should've instantly reply with fuk off you mongloid
i wouldve said.

**** off u insignificant nobody.

or

who the fuk are you? just how insecure u gotta be just to insult me outta nowhere...trying be a big man in front of ur friends u pathetic piece of chit?

im very good with rebuttals as long i get to understand what the kunt is saying completely.
post 1542463771 02-01-2018, 12:13 AM
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y'all be toastin' in a roll bread
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Wait a couple months until everyone forgets about it and then blow his brains out.
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