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02-16-2018, 07:08 AM
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Wtf, are you working with a bunch of twelve years olds? Tell that idiot to grow up. I don't understand what makes a grown ass man talk/act like a 12 year old.
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02-16-2018, 07:10 AM
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Originally Posted By sifox⏩
This is what tradie life is like, srs. Nothing wrong withbeinga tradie, but there's always a subset of addicts, sex offenders, dropouts, and miscellaneous potatoes on the jobsite that make customer service look very calming. Sometimes they are your boss.Wtf, are you working with a bunch of twelve years olds? Tell that idiot to grow up. I don't understand what makes a grown ass man talk/act like a 12 year old.
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
02-16-2018, 07:14 AM
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I would terminate any of my supervisors that sent out something like that in a group text. If you can't be professional with a co-worker, I'd question your ability to be professional with anyone. That would be like me saying my secretary is my compliance and paperwork bitch.
While it might be true I'm sure as **** not going to say it in an email or text
While it might be true I'm sure as **** not going to say it in an email or text
02-16-2018, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted By BOZZ⏩
Someone that actually speaks with sense. Repped sir.I would terminate any of my supervisors that sent out something like that in a group text. If you can't be professional with a co-worker, I'd question your ability to be professional with anyone. That would be like me saying my secretary is my compliance and paperwork bitch.
While it might be true I'm sure as **** not going to say it in an email or text
While it might be true I'm sure as **** not going to say it in an email or text
02-16-2018, 07:31 AM
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Do what the second guy said.
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02-16-2018, 07:36 AM
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Originally Posted By BOZZ⏩
- TradieI would terminate any of my supervisors that sent out something like that in a group text. If you can't be professional with a co-worker, I'd question your ability to be professional with anyone. That would be like me saying my secretary is my compliance and paperwork bitch.
While it might be true I'm sure as **** not going to say it in an email or text
While it might be true I'm sure as **** not going to say it in an email or text
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But agreed with this. Doesn't look like you and your supervisor are good buddies and it seemed like a cheap shot lol. Few weeks into the job and he already calling you yard bitch. Before you report it to HR at least talk to him face to face first saying I don't know you like that so i'm not going to stand for being embarrassed like that especially in a group text. If he continues or does some passive-aggressive BS either report to HR or fuk him in the ass to assert dominance. Or continue to be the yard bitch that you are and take it.
but lol'd @ yard bitch tho
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02-16-2018, 07:43 AM
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02-16-2018, 07:45 AM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
yeah, bishThe phuck are you doing posting on misc? Aren't you supposed to be in the yard cutting the rest of the pipe?
Nah, fukk that. I’m not doing that.
02-16-2018, 07:46 AM
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Did you joke around with him beforehand? Why is he so comfortable calling you bitch? Is he that socially retarded that he thinks he can joke around like that with someone he doesn't even know?
Something like that kind of happened to me. Saw some new guy at the gym for like a week and he kept staring at me. This was like 3 years back when I was lifting for strength and going heavy. He'd just be watching me. Struck me as a high school dropout weed smoking Mexican deadbeat.
Anyways towards the end of the week I was near him and asked him if he was using some dumbbells near him. He was like "No go ahead." But then as I picked them up he awkwardly stated "Why you work out so much? You gay or something? Huehuehuhue." Which I guess was his way of messing around trying to joke around with me. Problem is i don't know him like that and he's not my fukcing friend. With dudes im cool with I'd see them trying to joke around like that but not him. I just started at him, gave him a WTF look, and walked away. Never saw him much more again after that really.
I'd send a text back saying "Why are you calling me a bitch? Are you joking?" And depending on what he says there I'd get him alone and ask him why he thinks it's okay to call me bitch. Maybe he is socially retarded like the guy in my story and thought it was cool to talk like that to me. Then I'd get HR involved and show the texts if he was still being a bitch. Is it possible for you to change supervisors? Dude sounds like a ****. If it was a co-worker I wouldn't bother with HR. But as a supervisor that's some bullshiet.
Something like that kind of happened to me. Saw some new guy at the gym for like a week and he kept staring at me. This was like 3 years back when I was lifting for strength and going heavy. He'd just be watching me. Struck me as a high school dropout weed smoking Mexican deadbeat.
Anyways towards the end of the week I was near him and asked him if he was using some dumbbells near him. He was like "No go ahead." But then as I picked them up he awkwardly stated "Why you work out so much? You gay or something? Huehuehuhue." Which I guess was his way of messing around trying to joke around with me. Problem is i don't know him like that and he's not my fukcing friend. With dudes im cool with I'd see them trying to joke around like that but not him. I just started at him, gave him a WTF look, and walked away. Never saw him much more again after that really.
I'd send a text back saying "Why are you calling me a bitch? Are you joking?" And depending on what he says there I'd get him alone and ask him why he thinks it's okay to call me bitch. Maybe he is socially retarded like the guy in my story and thought it was cool to talk like that to me. Then I'd get HR involved and show the texts if he was still being a bitch. Is it possible for you to change supervisors? Dude sounds like a ****. If it was a co-worker I wouldn't bother with HR. But as a supervisor that's some bullshiet.
02-16-2018, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By JohanMing⏩
Negged for being a kiss-ass lil bitch.Someone that actually speaks with sense. Repped sir.
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02-16-2018, 07:53 AM
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Yard bitch Jack! LOL!
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02-16-2018, 07:59 AM
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Yard bitch gon yard bitch
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02-16-2018, 08:05 AM
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Looks to me like youre just the yard bich, did you not know the job title before you took it?
02-16-2018, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
It was never refered as that in the last 1.5 yrs ive worked for the company so no it seemed like a good thing, guarenteed hours and 10 minute drive from home.Looks to me like youre just the yard bich, did you not know the job title before you took it?
02-16-2018, 08:10 AM
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02-16-2018, 08:11 AM
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02-16-2018, 08:12 AM
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Originally Posted By sardis3207⏩
Lol it's not like Tradies have business cards, he never even knew his title.Looks to me like youre just the yard bich, did you not know the job title before you took it?
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02-16-2018, 08:14 AM
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in4 updates, did OP cut the pipe in time?
02-16-2018, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
To clarify. Im a scaffolder by trade, that is my title. Got offered another role in person, with guarenteed hours which in casual construction around here is rare.Lol it's not like Tradies have business cards, he never even knew his title.
02-16-2018, 08:19 AM
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guys make fun of each other like that when they're close, but im guessing your boss isn't your friend
02-16-2018, 08:33 AM
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Originally Posted By JohanMing⏩
I've busted your balls, so let me help you with a serious answer:To clarify. Im a scaffolder by trade, that is my title. Got offered another role in person, with guarenteed hours which in casual construction around here is rare.
The guy is either:
1) Busting your balls to bond
2) Legit trying to belittle you
I would assume #1 (always assume the best in others) but it could very well be #2. He is a young manager, he's an inexperienced manager, and he is trying to assert himself in role even though he's doing it very, very badly. Why pick on you? At a guess, because your brother in law used to do hold his position, so you get to be the target of his "there's a new sherrif in town" message.
This is bad management, but unfortunately it's classic bad management. The person who constantly needs to "prove" he is in control/above you, is saying a lot about how comfortable he is in role.
Spoiler!
There are three kinds of power in the workplace
Relationship Power (we've worked together and know each other, and are friendly or at least trust each other to handle our part)
Expert Power (you have specialized skills/knowledge of your area that I don't, so I defer to you on questions of scaffolding)
Role Power (Boss/Subordinate power, or I work in a critical department, etc)
Role Power is the strongest of the three, but you should use it the least. Can you imagine if I went around telling my team "Do XYZ because I'm your boss and can fire you if you don't"? When I ask my team to do something, they of course understand it's not a request, but I have only had to "play that card" maybe 5 times in my management career. If your boss needs to "put you in your place" because he's the boss and you can't fight back, he's coming from a very small power base.
Relationship Power (we've worked together and know each other, and are friendly or at least trust each other to handle our part)
Expert Power (you have specialized skills/knowledge of your area that I don't, so I defer to you on questions of scaffolding)
Role Power (Boss/Subordinate power, or I work in a critical department, etc)
Role Power is the strongest of the three, but you should use it the least. Can you imagine if I went around telling my team "Do XYZ because I'm your boss and can fire you if you don't"? When I ask my team to do something, they of course understand it's not a request, but I have only had to "play that card" maybe 5 times in my management career. If your boss needs to "put you in your place" because he's the boss and you can't fight back, he's coming from a very small power base.
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02-16-2018, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
qualityI've busted your balls, so let me help you with a serious answer:
The guy is either:
1) Busting your balls to bond
2) Legit trying to belittle you
I would assume #1 (always assume the best in others) but it could very well be #2. He is a young manager, he's an inexperienced manager, and he is trying to assert himself in role even though he's doing it very, very badly. Why pick on you? At a guess, because your brother in law used to do hold his position, so you get to be the target of his "there's a new sherrif in town" message.
This is bad management, but unfortunately it's classic bad management. The person who constantly needs to "prove" he is in control/above you, is saying a lot about how comfortable he is in role.
Spoiler!
The guy is either:
1) Busting your balls to bond
2) Legit trying to belittle you
I would assume #1 (always assume the best in others) but it could very well be #2. He is a young manager, he's an inexperienced manager, and he is trying to assert himself in role even though he's doing it very, very badly. Why pick on you? At a guess, because your brother in law used to do hold his position, so you get to be the target of his "there's a new sherrif in town" message.
This is bad management, but unfortunately it's classic bad management. The person who constantly needs to "prove" he is in control/above you, is saying a lot about how comfortable he is in role.
Spoiler!
There are three kinds of power in the workplace
Relationship Power (we've worked together and know each other, and are friendly or at least trust each other to handle our part)
Expert Power (you have specialized skills/knowledge of your area that I don't, so I defer to you on questions of scaffolding)
Role Power (Boss/Subordinate power, or I work in a critical department, etc)
Role Power is the strongest of the three, but you should use it the least. Can you imagine if I went around telling my team "Do XYZ because I'm your boss and can fire you if you don't"? When I ask my team to do something, they of course understand it's not a request, but I have only had to "play that card" maybe 5 times in my management career. If your boss needs to "put you in your place" because he's the boss and you can't fight back, he's coming from a very small power base.
Relationship Power (we've worked together and know each other, and are friendly or at least trust each other to handle our part)
Expert Power (you have specialized skills/knowledge of your area that I don't, so I defer to you on questions of scaffolding)
Role Power (Boss/Subordinate power, or I work in a critical department, etc)
Role Power is the strongest of the three, but you should use it the least. Can you imagine if I went around telling my team "Do XYZ because I'm your boss and can fire you if you don't"? When I ask my team to do something, they of course understand it's not a request, but I have only had to "play that card" maybe 5 times in my management career. If your boss needs to "put you in your place" because he's the boss and you can't fight back, he's coming from a very small power base.
02-16-2018, 08:52 AM
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Don’t go to HR. The phuck? Keeping a bum job is not worth your dignity. You wouldn’t be treated that way at any job worth having. Call his grumpy ass out in a cheeky way. Everyone will respect you more. And more importantly, you’ll respect yourself more.
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