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Thread: NEED HELP. I fukked up a 2 year relationship and cant cope (SRS) (REPS)

post 1546028971 03-09-2018, 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
Told her I didnt even think of hugging powerlifter sloot or whatever to comfort and I just watched her cry and let her talk lmao
lmfao fukkin savage!
idk brah i mean i get the feels, but imagine these replaced with intense hatred toward yourself for not cutting it off clean.
or not idk brah i dont think anyone here would have a better answer. we can just provide some insight
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post 1546029051 03-09-2018, 11:25 PM
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Originally Posted By ArianBrah⏩
who cares if it doesnt work? this kind of behaviour is not acceptable anyway, she can apologize or leave...this is the only way to not become a beta. if he runs back to her and apologizes for his own real feelings (nothing to be ashamed of) she will unconsciously never respect him again
Hard to take a red 2017 acc that is clearly and alt srs. If srs I'm sorry to aware you that you may be a morally ugly person that can't take responsibility for their actions, but instead looks for faults in others in some illogical narcissistic attempt to nullify their own wrong doings.
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post 1546029171 03-09-2018, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted By muscle
OP sounds like you slipped and started liking this powerlifting chick enough to bang her if she would have let you. You say you ended up hanging out with her because you had to "comfort her" when in reality, this was you exploring to see if the grass was greener. Now either you realized it wasn't or the powerlifter girl shot you down. Either way, your gf had every right to be pissed at you. You lied about seeing a chick she told you not to. Had you initially told her that "hey babe, that one chick is already here, but I'm not gonna fuk with her" then you would have been fine. But you chose to hide it from her and that fuked you in the end. Sorry bro, but looks like you really fuked up.

(Imagine you telling her not to hang out with Chad or Jamal on her visit away and then you find out she chilled with Jamal the ENTIRE time she was gone), you'd be fukin livid brah.

As much as I want to tell you things will be alright with your now ex-gf, they likely won't. Take this as a lesson. And the next chick you fall in love with, be a faithful dude and treat her the same way you'd want to be treated.

It's best to go no contact at this point, and I'm being dead srs. North Carolina awaits you. Take it in stride, you fuked up, it'll pass, and you'll move on.

Good luck m8
Yes I would be fuming if it was the other way around and I admitted that. Id want some space but I dont think I would leave her if it was due to the same reasons as why I hung out with powerlifting sloot. Its the question/answer about having a crush or not is what I fukkd up on and what I couldnt understand if it was the other way around.

But I was literally just there since hes one of my best mates and I did it to help him/her. Emotions got the best of me and I expanded on an answer that should have been one simple word "No"
Originally Posted By VTheKing⏩
^ I think this is a fair post from GF's perspective. Given OP's latest reply tho it sounds like there's been jealously running abound for a while.
Hated powerlifting sloot from the beginning. Thought I had a thing for her (never did) and got mad everytime powerlifter sloot commented on my instagram pics/vids or messaged me
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post 1546029181 03-09-2018, 11:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Joseph1990⏩
Hard to take a red 2017 acc that is clearly and alt srs. If srs I'm sorry to aware you that you may be a morally ugly person that can't take responsibility for their actions, but instead looks for faults in others in some illogical narcissistic attempt to nullify their own wrong doings.
you act accordingly to your boundaries.

if i have some feelings for another girl while im in a relationship but don't act on them (cause the relationship was set up as a monogamy) it's ok, it can happen and the relationship will grow stronger.. lovelife aint no disney world son, you have to work on it
post 1546029221 03-09-2018, 11:29 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
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post 1546029271 03-09-2018, 11:30 PM
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Originally Posted By Hornlesscow⏩
lmfao fukkin savage!
idk brah i mean i get the feels, but imagine these replaced with intense hatred toward yourself for not cutting it off clean.
or not idk brah i dont think anyone here would have a better answer. we can just provide some insight
Srs. didnt even think of it, i just watched her cry and felt guilty for being there instead of at home with "gf" but whenever I was thinking of leaving she would say something and start talking more
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post 1546029311 03-09-2018, 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted By ElCaballo33⏩
Honestly dude I wouldn't want to get back with a sloot who overreacted like that, she probably has trust issues as well. Just take a hot shower and sleep it off man, you'll get a better girl in no time.
Dis. you fukked up big time blocking the wrong number. Block the ex and get with powerlifter bish.
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post 1546029371 03-09-2018, 11:33 PM
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well, just think about all of the money you're going to be saving now.
post 1546029381 03-09-2018, 11:33 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
"I had to think about it, but na dont think so”
Holy f|_|ck OP, at that point you might as well have f[_]cked that girl

Only way to go now is to go bang some more sloots and make this break up worth your while
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post 1546029411 03-09-2018, 11:34 PM
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I would go no contact. You need to wait it out until she calms down, thinks, and is ready to talk. Don't force the pace here because she is hurt.

Look my dude, you did nothing wrong my dude. You were tested and you passed, you didn't bang the powerlifting chick right? then you have nothing to worry about. If you worry it looks like you're covering something up. It's admitting to guilty. Stay calm and stay alpha. She will contact you soon because after some thought of you going no contact, she will be curious to know if you started seeing this chick and that's why you're not worried, or you're not worried because you did nothing wrong. It'll explain itself if you stay cool. If she cannot give herself to trusting you when she re-initiates conversation... take it as she had no trust or was waiting for something like this to happen.

That "I had to think" bs you got yourself into (LMAO my dude) is easily explainable... you were being blunt right? honest? simple. It's good that you thought about it, because if you weren't thinking you would have just acted, acted on carnal desires and tried to take advantage of this situation... but you thought instead and remained rational and consistent with your true feelings and not your animal instinct. It's unfortunate that you told this chick you "thought about it" instead of just "no" but you were being honest with yourself and blunt. So you typed it which shows a subconscious level you honestly turned her down. or say that you didn't want to hurt powerlifter's feelings either because she's going through things.

temptation is not a sin my dude, doubt is not a sin, none of this is lack of loyalty. it's reaffirmation.
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post 1546029621 03-09-2018, 11:37 PM
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lold at anyone saying she overreacted


No GF of mine would be going out of town by herself, and absolutely no chance if there is the possibility that she may run into "Chad" or "Tyrone", just no fukin way, first of all because if i had a GF that means she would be a very attractive and desirable woman, so there is just no chance id let her around any danger of thirsty dudes, you dont do that, no matter how confident or secure or whatever, you absotuley never do that, its retarded as fuk.

So thatd be red flag number 1, she going out of town where some thirsty dude may be there all weekend, hell no, the moment you get on your car the moment you are a single girl.


Second, if she was distant when she got home, and clearly hiding something from me, and then confessing to me that she spent all weekend with the one guy i asked her not to even talk to, and even had to THINK about whether or not she had feelings for him... LMAO

I wouldnt even ask her to leave, id carry her **** outside, pull her out of the fukin house or whatever and let her figure out her entire fukin life mistakes by her lonely ass self. And absolutely never contact again, in the back of my mind she would have always fuked the Chad on that weekend, if not why the hell would Chad be asking her if she has feelings? After a weekend together?

Oh hell no.


So yeah OP she did good breaking up with your dumbass, srs. Some people are swingers, some people forgive their partner when they cheat, some people pretend they dont know, some people even allow a bit of flirting via text, and some people have absolutely no need to be putting up with bull**** as simple as texting a random person things that they should just not be texting. In my case, if a girl talks with a thirsty dude and engages in a convo with him, behind my back, even if its clear she is just attention whoring, then shes out of the fukin picture


Now imma tell you what to do to get her back. You send her a text "Im sorry, i didnt do anything i hope you can believe me one day, ill be around" AND THATS IT, NO FUKIN CONTACT, NORTH CAROLINA BITCH, LET HER MISS YOU, LET HER FREAK OUT, LET HER PANIC, "WHAT IF HE MOVES ON OH NO IMMA TEXT HIM". Woman go from 0 to 100 and back to 0 every single day, one day they can tell you they love you, and actually mean it, and the next day they are fuking Michael the pool boy because they realized you watch too much football. Thats how unstable woman are, so just give her time to miss you. DONT SEND HER ****, NO SNAPS INSTAGRAM FB TEXTS LIKES, SHARES, ANYTHING, become a ghost and she will be texting you in about 4 days
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post 1546029691 03-09-2018, 11:38 PM
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Honestly bro, i been in a similar situation and it is recoverable. At this time though you just have to give her space to breath and absorb the situation. Any attempts at reconciliation at this point will result in pushing her away.
If you really love her it sounds like you need to man the **** up and tell her when the dust settles. Don't do something as stupid and weak as this again in the future. Sounds like you wanted to dip your toe in the water without getting it wet. Let it come to a rest and then set up a meet with her and explain the situation and convince her you are sorry and that it was a genuine mistsake, just don't go too far an hand your man card in while you're at it (No pathetic begging)
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Originally Posted By Kurial⏩
I would go no contact. You need to wait it out until she calms down, thinks, and is ready to talk. Don't force the pace here because she is hurt.

Look my dude, you did nothing wrong my dude. You were tested and you passed, you didn't bang the powerlifting chick right? then you have nothing to worry about. If you worry it looks like you're covering something up. It's admitting to guilty. Stay calm and stay alpha. She will contact you soon because after some thought of you going no contact, she will be curious to know if you started seeing this chick and that's why you're not worried, or you're not worried because you did nothing wrong. It'll explain itself if you stay cool. If she cannot give herself to trusting you when she re-initiates conversation... take it as she had no trust or was waiting for something like this to happen.
I know I just need to give her space now mane, give it time and see where it goes.

And no didnt smash sloot and had no intentions to, didnt even hug her or anything. Whenever she cried I just watched and waited for her to speak. We srs just went for a walk, talked a lot and hung with her when she asked.
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lmfao if you think I'm reading all of that without pics

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At least you know you're an idiot.

Kudos to your ex for breaking up with you.. Emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating. Srsly the biggest insult to a woman. Let her know that the sloot is blocked forever. Give her some time to calm down. It's going to be very difficult to start rebuilding trust. You may have to take this as a lesson learned and move on cuz.
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Originally Posted By Kurial⏩
I would go no contact. You need to wait it out until she calms down, thinks, and is ready to talk. Don't force the pace here because she is hurt.

Look my dude, you did nothing wrong my dude. You were tested and you passed, you didn't bang the powerlifting chick right? then you have nothing to worry about. If you worry it looks like you're covering something up. It's admitting to guilty. Stay calm and stay alpha. She will contact you soon because after some thought of you going no contact, she will be curious to know if you started seeing this chick and that's why you're not worried, or you're not worried because you did nothing wrong. It'll explain itself if you stay cool. If she cannot give herself to trusting you when she re-initiates conversation... take it as she had no trust or was waiting for something like this to happen.
Well, he did fuk up lets be honest. OP's ex girlfriend never asked him "please dont fuk that girl", she literally told him to avoid her and dont even spea to her, and he spent the entire fukin weekend with her lol.


Imagine your girlfriend going out one night and you know some Chad that has always flirted with her will be there. Then you tell her not to talk to him,,, and she goes and does exactly that, all night, touchy, hugging, getting personal, laughing, etc. Now she didnt suck his dick but she may as well have, since you told her not to talk to him on the first place.


Well i guess everyone has a different concept of cheating, IMO cheating is doing whatever your partner wouldnt want you doing behind his back
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
I know I just need to give her space now mane, give it time and see where it goes.

And no didnt smash sloot and had no intentions to, didnt even hug her or anything. Whenever she cried I just watched and waited for her to speak. We srs just went for a walk, talked a lot and hung with her when she asked.
ok ok. stay calm. I updated my reply. pls read.
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
I know I just need to give her space now mane, give it time and see where it goes.

And no didnt smash sloot and had no intentions to, didnt even hug her or anything. Whenever she cried I just watched and waited for her to speak. We srs just went for a walk, talked a lot and hung with her when she asked.
Why would you do that? Why would you risk losing the person you love, just to listen to some woman's bull****? You went and did exactly what your ex asked you not to, so unless you diddnt give a fuk about the RS, why? And losing her for listening to some bull**** woman drama the entire weekend? I wouldnt do that even if i were paid let alone risk a relationship
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she needs to be away from you for weeks? yeah.... more like being away from you and being with jamal and lamar with their nuts hanging out of her.
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Originally Posted By SweetDreamz⏩
At least you know you're an idiot.

Kudos to your ex for breaking up with you.. Emotional cheating is worse than physical cheating. Srsly the biggest insult to a woman. Let her know that the sloot is blocked forever. Give her some time to calm down. It's going to be very difficult to start rebuilding trust. You may have to take this as a lesson learned and move on cuz.
Lmfao psycho female misc strikes again. So because he listened to this bish talk and cry for a day suddenly he is cheating? Fk outta here. Sounds like OP was being nice and accidentally became an emotional tampon for awhile. Then told the bish fairly straightforward he didn't have any feelings for her. Either way we reach the same conclusion that his girl is a psycho overreactive sloot and OP needs to upgrade.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Why would you do that? Why would you risk losing the person you love, just to listen to some woman's bull****? You went and did exactly what your ex asked you not to, so unless you diddnt give a fuk about the RS, why? And losing her for listening to some bull**** woman drama the entire weekend? I wouldnt do that even if i were paid let alone risk a relationship
Main reason was for my mate. Been good mates for 10+ years and he tells me he still cares for her and I told him about me slipping that he had a gf and he told me hes glad Im there to help her.

Also, where ever I went she was there.. Stayed at a mates house, she comes over cause shes friends with my mates gf. I go watch powerlifting comp to support mates gf, shes there helping her. Mates gfs parents take us out for dinner, she comes along. Mate and his gf have work, she picks me up to hang. Me and mate go train, she comes along. There was no way of getting out of it without me sounding like a complete kunt and telling her to fuk off
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
lold at anyone saying she overreacted


No GF of mine would be going out of town by herself, and absolutely no chance if there is the possibility that she may run into "Chad" or "Tyrone", just no fukin way, first of all because if i had a GF that means she would be a very attractive and desirable woman, so there is just no chance id let her around any danger of thirsty dudes, you dont do that, no matter how confident or secure or whatever, you absotuley never do that, its retarded as fuk.

So thatd be red flag number 1, she going out of town where some thirsty dude may be there all weekend, hell no, the moment you get on your car the moment you are a single girl.


Second, if she was distant when she got home, and clearly hiding something from me, and then confessing to me that she spent all weekend with the one guy i asked her not to even talk to, and even had to THINK about whether or not she had feelings for him... LMAO

I wouldnt even ask her to leave, id carry her **** outside, pull her out of the fukin house or whatever and let her figure out her entire fukin life mistakes by her lonely ass self. And absolutely never contact again, in the back of my mind she would have always fuked the Chad on that weekend, if not why the hell would Chad be asking her if she has feelings? After a weekend together?

Oh hell no.


So yeah OP she did good breaking up with your dumbass, srs. Some people are swingers, some people forgive their partner when they cheat, some people pretend they dont know, some people even allow a bit of flirting via text, and some people have absolutely no need to be putting up with bull**** as simple as texting a random person things that they should just not be texting. In my case, if a girl talks with a thirsty dude and engages in a convo with him, behind my back, even if its clear she is just attention whoring, then shes out of the fukin picture


Now imma tell you what to do to get her back. You send her a text "Im sorry, i didnt do anything i hope you can believe me one day, ill be around" AND THATS IT, NO FUKIN CONTACT, NORTH CAROLINA BITCH, LET HER MISS YOU, LET HER FREAK OUT, LET HER PANIC, "WHAT IF HE MOVES ON OH NO IMMA TEXT HIM". Woman go from 0 to 100 and back to 0 every single day, one day they can tell you they love you, and actually mean it, and the next day they are fuking Michael the pool boy because they realized you watch too much football. Thats how unstable woman are, so just give her time to miss you. DONT SEND HER ****, NO SNAPS INSTAGRAM FB TEXTS LIKES, SHARES, ANYTHING, become a ghost and she will be texting you in about 4 days
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
Lmfao psycho female misc strikes again. So because he listened to this bish talk and cry for a day suddenly he is cheating? Fk outta here. Sounds like OP was being nice and accidentally became an emotional tampon for awhile. Then told the bish fairly straightforward he didn't have any feelings for her. Either way we reach the same conclusion that his girl is a psycho overreactive sloot and OP needs to upgrade.
Could just be us males but thats what I dont get. I just tried being a nice person and get caught up with emotional chit but never acted on anything and as soon as "gf" told me to block her I did. Doesnt that show I dont have feelings for this sloot? I know its the "had to think about it, but dont think so" that got me when I shouldve just said "No"

I know I fukkd up big time but I thought she'd understand and just be fuming for a day or two, want some space and not talk to me. But realise I didnt do anything (not even lay a hand on her) and was just there to be nice and help a close mates ex who he still cares for and is glad I was there to answer questions and ended up getting caught up in her emotional chit
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post 1546030291 03-09-2018, 11:53 PM
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
Lmfao psycho female misc strikes again. So because he listened to this bish talk and cry for a day suddenly he is cheating? Fk outta here. Sounds like OP was being nice and accidentally became an emotional tampon for awhile. Then told the bish fairly straightforward he didn't have any feelings for her. Either way we reach the same conclusion that his girl is a psycho overreactive sloot and OP needs to upgrade.
Nikka, the situation is:

1 partner asked the other partner to avoid someone that clearly has interest on them. Aka asking for respect.

Said partner goes and does exactly the opposite. They hang out the whole weekend by themselves.

Partner that was at home will never have a way to prove that these two being together didnt turned into a fuk fest. All they know is that they hung out and that they are testing about having feelings for each other (key point is that the one that hung out with other didnt even denied having feels, showed hesitation). In short, they ones that hung out may have banged or not, sure as hell it looks like it.

Lol at calling completely rational behaviour "psycho". Negged for being a dumb kunt.
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post 1546030351 03-09-2018, 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
Could just be us males but thats what I dont get. I just tried being a nice person and get caught up with emotional chit but never acted on anything and as soon as "gf" told me to block her I did. Doesnt that show I dont have feelings for this sloot? I know its the "had to think about it, but dont think so" that got me when I shouldve just said "No"

I know I fukkd up big time but I thought she'd understand and just be fuming for a day or two, want some space and not talk to me. But realise I didnt act on anything and was just there to be nice and help a close mates ex who he still cares for and is glad I was there to answer questions
Lol this is what you say yourself to not feel like complete trash. You know 100% why this situation looks like ****.

Your first paragraph is what cheaters use to justify shady ****.
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post 1546030441 03-09-2018, 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted By IPlayRugby⏩
Could just be us males but thats what I dont get. I just tried being a nice person and get caught up with emotional chit but never acted on anything and as soon as "gf" told me to block her I did. Doesnt that show I dont have feelings for this sloot? I know its the "had to think about it, but dont think so" that got me when I shouldve just said "No"

I know I fukkd up big time but I thought she'd understand and just be fuming for a day or two, want some space and not talk to me. But realise I didnt do anything (not even lay a hand on her) and was just there to be nice and help a close mates ex who he still cares for and is glad I was there to answer questions and ended up getting caught up in her emotional chit
Please.. dude it almost sounds like you expect her to read your posts here or something, quit that innocent bull****. If you want her back you may as well man the fuk up and admit that if the situation was reversed youd be asking for her head
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Originally Posted By randombrah1⏩
****** the situation is:

1 partner asked the other partner to avoid someone that clearly has interest on them. Aka asking for respect.

Said partner goes and does exactly the opposite. They hang out the whole weekend by themselves.

Partner that was at home will never have a way to prove that these two being together didnt turned into a fuk fest. All they know is that they hung out and that they are testing about having feelings for each other (key point is that the one that hung out with other didnt even denied having feels, showed hesitation). In short, they ones that hung out may have banged or not, sure as hell it looks like it.

Lol at calling completely rational behaviour "psycho". Negged for being a dumb kunt.
lmfao if you think getting told who you can and can't talk to is healthy relationship behavior. I'll talk to whoever tf I want to talk to and at the end of the day if a girl couldn't trust me to keep my dik in my pants that is her problem not mine.

Just because you are the type of cuck who cowers down to every demand a girl makes doesn't mean the rest of the alpha misc would consider living that type of life.
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post 1546030651 03-10-2018, 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
Lmfao psycho female misc strikes again. So because he listened to this bish talk and cry for a day suddenly he is cheating? Fk outta here. Sounds like OP was being nice and accidentally became an emotional tampon for awhile. Then told the bish fairly straightforward he didn't have any feelings for her. Either way we reach the same conclusion that his girl is a psycho overreactive sloot and OP needs to upgrade.
If your partner made it clear that he/she doesn't want you interacting with whomever due to whatever reason. If you had any respect for the relationship, then you would put your partner's wants first. It's not OP's place to be a "nice" guy, he's not her therapist. The fact of the matter is, he wasn't honest beforehand, broke boundaries that the gf set, and now must suffer the consequences. If it was the other way around I would've encouraged OP to break up with his gf. The same rule applies.
Originally Posted By RobParks2M⏩
Dis. you fukked up big time blocking the wrong number. Block the ex and get with powerlifter bish.
This proves that you're an upstanding guy. Wouldn't be suprised if you end up getting cucked by your future wife/gf. You're the definition of a soyboy.
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