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post 1568587881 12-13-2018, 05:51 PM
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Originally Posted By irollurmom
idk man but if porn tells me anything...
Fr it taught me I can bang my gf's milf mother while my gf watches. Das it.
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post 1568587921 12-13-2018, 05:52 PM
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the single ones go insane around 38 years old
post 1568588341 12-13-2018, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By helmet12
actually they feel horrible, just check the instagrams of some of the former hot models whos now in their late 30s it reeks of insecurity and their eyes have this hollow depressed and slightly low self esteemed look about them

personally it makes me feel good to see these former whores who got everythang served on a platter sink down in depression

Ana Beatriz Barros in her younger days, stuck up, superior, arrogant and socially dominant, too cool for school

nowadays, the 2000s long gone, glowless look, depressed, low self esteem look in her eyes, a shell of her former self
You are coping so hard. This ain't the reality. I'm not even trying to trigger you, but you're delusional.
post 1568589271 12-13-2018, 06:06 PM
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losing their glow must be really harsh. imagine having that youthful radiance shine brightly, then it starts fading to the point that you are invisible. a woman can still be beautiful but loses value when she loses the glow; in fact the older she gets, the lesser the value and she has to work harder to maintain relevance.

even as men age, we can still carry ourselves with charisma. if you stay healthy, you can still be dignified and handsome.
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post 1568589441 12-13-2018, 06:08 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4
I guess if it's the main thing you've always focused on you would get depressed. I never considered myself beautiful, but I take care of myself and clean up alright. My kids are grown and moved out so I have a lot more time. I've got some great hobbies that I never had time for when I was focused on raising my kids.

You can't stop father time so you have no choice but to roll with it.
J-Lo wouldn’t give it a second thought I’m sure
post 1568591261 12-13-2018, 06:31 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
J-Lo wouldn’t give it a second thought I’m sure
Celebrities with fuk tons of money to do whatever they want are in a completely different ball park. In my mind these people have no excuse to look like ****.

It's like comparing apples to oranges.
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post 1568591521 12-13-2018, 06:34 PM
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lol at attractive people. your looks fade meanwhile mine stay the same. just lol at u all.
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post 1568591901 12-13-2018, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted By ChristmasFnatic
With lots of attention is directed towards them when they are young, then suddenly they see their beauty fade away. Do they just accept it or most go into depression? Especially these days when social media gives even fatties tons of attention and love.
Probably the way a man would feel if he was packing a 10 inch penor at 20 years old but by 35 it had shrunk to 4.5 inches. You would either be very depressed or trying to make the most of the hand you have been dealt yet continually looking back to your peak with sadness.
post 1568592071 12-13-2018, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By kimm4
Celebrities with fuk tons of money to do whatever they want are in a completely different ball park. In my mind these people have no excuse to look like ****.

It's like comparing apples to oranges.
Not trying to troll but I reckon it’s because of what theydon’t do.

If I was somehow getting paid for how I looked you can bet my diet and drinking would clean up right quick
post 1568592231 12-13-2018, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
lol at attractive people. your looks fade meanwhile mine stay the same. just lol at u all.
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post 1568592391 12-13-2018, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By r32gojirra
Not trying to troll but I reckon it’s because of what theydon’t do.
No you're right about that and I absolutely agree.
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post 1568597051 12-13-2018, 07:39 PM
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Better to put energy into finding something else you're good at than being beautiful or it will hit you hard later. Still if you constantly get attention you will notice when it's going down.
post 1568598801 12-13-2018, 07:57 PM
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Probably would vary vastly depending on whether they grew up beautiful or acquired the beauty later. Like new vs old money.
post 1568599801 12-13-2018, 08:08 PM
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post 1568599931 12-13-2018, 08:09 PM
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post 1568600221 12-13-2018, 08:12 PM
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their reign at the top has to end eventually.
then they will have to feel..basically what the average man feels like with the lack of attention he gets. Which I know may sound terrible.. but they will be alright
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post 1568600411 12-13-2018, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted By crupiea
Imagine what it must be like when they know the glow is fading, probably pretty crushing after having a life where everything is giving to you on a silver platter.

Probably like what a star athlete feels when they retire and go broke.
Reminds of seeing the first wrinkle in my forehead, was thinking "Damn, I'm not a kid anymore." Bottom dropped out for a second like going down a rollercoaster, but not everything was about looks for me so just rolled with the changes. Not gonna pretend I know how a beautiful Woman feels since I'm a dude.
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Ya but what do you think a 50 year old woman prefers, a gruff man her age or a boyish 22 year old?
They like providers. Steady job, good bank, can fix a hole in the roof. Maybe the 22 year old for a night when the provider is out of town.
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Holy crap I used to be so attractive I want to cry

Nobody cares either what once was

The only thing that has worth is the now.

What have you looked like lately?
post 1568609181 12-13-2018, 10:06 PM
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Honestly, with all the wks these days do they really feel much worse? Is their ego still not constantly being inflated? I'm sure many of them don't even realize how much their looks have declined with all the positive feedback they get.
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post 1568610061 12-13-2018, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted By silencespeaks
the latter!!!
lol...
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post 1568610421 12-13-2018, 10:28 PM
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The days of hitting the wall are over. I know haggard women in their 50's and even 60's who still get 100x more male attention than they know what to do with. It may get slightly more difficult to bang a different Chad every night of the week, but they aren't suffering. At all.
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Originally Posted By BostonRockets
I'm sure many of them don't even realize how much their looks have declined with all the positive feedback they get.
If you have a working set of eyes you know even if you don't want to admit it.
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post 1568610621 12-13-2018, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yeah a lot of people confuse attention with relationship options. Just because older women still get attention doesn’t mean they have good relationship options. A guy giving you attention is not the same as a guy wanting to start a serious relationship with you.
If today's age, if a woman can't find a relationship, that's 100% on her. You have your pick of literally hundreds of guys and somehow not even 1 is good enough to date you lol. Maybe they aren't the problem, but you've heard all this before.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
If today's age, if a woman can't find a relationship, that's 100% on her. You have your pick of literally hundreds of guys and somehow not even 1 is good enough to date you lol. Maybe they aren't the problem, but you've heard all this before.
I tend to agree with this. I was in an art show over the summer and had to attend the artist night meet and greet. I was approached by men of all ages and it wasn't just for my art...and I'm not even that good looking.

The nicest one was the 70 yr old guy and he was kind enough to ask me out to dinner first.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
When you live your life waiting for an entire gender to suffer based on perceived slights ...
I don't think women suffer at all, is what I'm saying. Certainly not going to waste my life waiting for something that won't happen lol.

Doesn't bother me one way or the other. That's life. It's just a strange time to be alive since our generation is the first to experience such a huge shift in power.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
The latter!!!
Arent you barely 30 or somethin tho? I think when you're older you'll feel different.

Or maybe not, but I think most do.
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They like providers. Steady job, good bank, can fix a hole in the roof. Maybe the 22 year old for a night when the provider is out of town.
If we're talkin a woman over 40 - they gotta have a cougar vibe to ons a guy in his early 20s.
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I’d imagine a boyish 22 year old would look like a kid

They certainly look kidlike to me

Give me a real man, every time, not a child
my point exactly. Most guys in their early 20s still look and act very young to older women. There's some exceptions.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yeah that is true at any age. But from experience I can say it is much harder to find a relationship at 40+ than at 20+. Even if you’re fit and look good for your age etc.
No, it's not harder to find a relationship in absolute terms. Maybe it's harder to find a relationship with the mythical "top 1%" guy you're holding out for, but you have your pick of tons of guys. You rejected them all, which is your choice and absolutely fine, but don't pretend like you don't have options.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yeah that is true at any age. But from experience I can say it is much harder to find a relationship at 40+ than at 20+. Even if you’re fit and look good for your age etc.
But you go for younger men so it's going to be a bit harder for you. I also feel that women in their 40's who think they're the next best thing to mac & cheese and have ridiculous standards will strike out all day/every day.

You gotta be more realistic because you're not that special...even though you think you are.
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