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post 1576360451 03-21-2019, 08:48 PM
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post 1576360581 03-21-2019, 08:50 PM
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post 1576360811 03-21-2019, 08:55 PM
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so you didnt attempt to get a number or anything? That jeff is such a nice boy. I feel safe with him
post 1576361161 03-21-2019, 08:59 PM
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Good for you OP, hope it goes well. I have only seen two gym approaches where a guy initiates. Both were painful to have witnessed, one of them the guy wouldn't take the hint to drop it and got bitched out and reported to the gym manager.
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Originally Posted By EnforcerOTF⏩
Should have said “I wanted to talk to you but every time I walked over I caught a glimpse of myself in the mirror and was lost in my own reflection”
Lmao i could pull this off.

OP you did well. Don't listen to miscers saying you should have had her sucking you off 2 mins into the conversation.
The next interaction will be the most important one.. If she smiles and catch her looking at you, ask to grab a drink with her and you're in.
You got to be more direct next time though cause it's a thin line from friendzone.
post 1576361301 03-21-2019, 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You shook her hand??

Repped anyway for getting up the courage.
as the only vaginal human ITT, pls advise us on wat OP shud have done.
post 1576362331 03-21-2019, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩
aware me on the pickup method of cold approaching someone first time and asking them out while not looking like a pickup artist / being transparent as **** lol
You're supposed to be transparent and direct.

Make your intentions clearly known.

Hey I've noticed you in here a bunch. I'd love to get together with you outside of the gym.

Let's grab a drink Thursday.


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post 1576362521 03-21-2019, 09:17 PM
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Location: Ontario, Canada

You a Toronto brah? If so just phuking lol at putting in effort for a sloot named Stacey. Toronto white sloots are some of the biggest whores in the world dude, have all been tainted by bbc. If you wanna smash you should've got the number at the initial approach.
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post 1576362941 03-21-2019, 09:24 PM
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Yeah the convo was a little shaky cause i was nervous cold approaching for first time in like ever at a gym, but next time ill be more confidant since the ice is broken and will suggest going out afterwards the workout and see what she says


And yes i did shake her hand lol we formal up in here. reps for good advices itt
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post 1576362981 03-21-2019, 09:25 PM
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Shooting your shot means you asked her out or something of the same nature.

I see no shots taken.
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post 1576362991 03-21-2019, 09:25 PM
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OP did she show any signs of interest

Possible signs include:
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post 1576364451 03-21-2019, 09:53 PM
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post 1576364531 03-21-2019, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩
So we've been going to the gym around same time for months and she's very pretty, good body, solid. She has her headphones in, gets work done and is focused.


I was finishing legs with calves and she ended up coming to my area, this was the best opportunity i will ever have to say hi to her casually so this is how it went.

She was putting away her weights after her 3 sets of hip thrusts (hnng) and i was putting my weights away after doing calf raises

Me: I tap my ear signaling to take your headphones off
Her: takes them off
Me: Hey i just wanted to say i come here at this time alot and i always see you and it would be nice to know your name
Her: Hey its stacey
Me: Nice ti finally meet you my names jeff *shakes hand* i was going to say hi earlier but you always looked so focused and didnt want to bother you
her: oh haha thank you, jeff

... talk about how long shes been training if she wants to compete ...
... i say i was going to compete first year but didnt want to commit to the diet etc..
.. I end convo saying well it nice talking enjoy your work out she says yeah nice talking ...


i never cold approach at the gym i usually always reply on dating apps so this is new.


will try to talk to her when she's in again and this time hopefully not spill my spaghetti
So you went through all that trouble and you didnt even ask her ******** or number or anything?

Waste of time and opportunity. 100% serious.

Next time think it through more, beyond just how to say hi.
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post 1576364621 03-21-2019, 09:56 PM
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Hey if she’s a Stacy shouldn’t you have said your name is chad 😂😂
post 1576365091 03-21-2019, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By jizzfarmer⏩
Location: Ontario, Canada

You a Toronto brah? If so just phuking lol at putting in effort for a sloot named Stacey. Toronto white sloots are some of the biggest whores in the world dude, have all been tainted by bbc. If you wanna smash you should've got the number at the initial approach.
no mississauga, toronto girls have no class agreed lol
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post 1576365201 03-21-2019, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Shooting your shot means you asked her out or something of the same nature.

I see no shots taken.
can also mean approaching for future asking out
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post 1576365871 03-21-2019, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩
aware me on the pickup method of cold approaching someone first time and asking them out while not looking like a pickup artist / being transparent as **** lol
Don’t listen to this chit get flirty next interaction she how she responds. Ask her out for coffee or something. Don’t overthink it. She knows you’re interested or you would’ve never approached. Ask her out before you start talking about her exes between sets
post 1576367221 03-21-2019, 10:46 PM
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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
Congrats on harassing a girl at the gym making it awkward for her every time she sees you in the future. She's probably looking for another gym right now. Thanks a lot for creeping out another woman and making it harder for the rest of us normal people. The gym isn't the time or place for that sheit. Have some respect for others. Nobody wants to be bothered by homeless people begging and harassing when they're just trying to go about their business. Same thing with women at the gym. I swear this autistic "pick up artist" sheit made everything harder for normal people around 2012-2013 after the thousands of social retards were let loose and started harassing random women that showed no interest and are so socially retarded they can't understand how they're making women feel when they harass them.
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post 1576367351 03-21-2019, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You shook her hand??

Repped anyway for getting up the courage.
hypothetical scenario - if you thought a dude at your gym was hot stoof how would you like him to approach.
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Originally Posted By extendlol⏩
no mississauga, toronto girls have no class agreed lol
Isn't mississauga literally next to toronto? It's the same chit my dawgie.

Just don't be an autist next time and ask her for a cup of coffee or some chit. Asking a girl out isn't about you pulling some slick pick up line. It's basically like saying: "hey I want to get in your pants, do you kind of want to do that later?" but you don't say that you just say something civilized. If she says yes then she's down, if no you move on. Seems insane I have to explain this chit dude, you're 25, this is chit you learn when asking girls out to junior prom.
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should've asked for her # / insta brah
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Not sure you know what shoot your shot means

You said hello and made brief small talk. That’s a start, but you didn’t take a risk at all
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
no thanks jeff
Took FAR too long for this.

If she likes you, you haven't blown it - only sowed seeds of doubt in her why you didn't ask her out and next time you might be more nervous because you have more intent behind the interaction. You should have gone for it there and then while the confidence was there.

You definitely could have come up with a better line than her being so focused, it sounds like what every Tom Dick & Harry would say. But it's done now.
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Was it too hard to say "Hey we should grab drinks sometime" ?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
“Hey what’s up”
so, trying to bring something different to the table from others by having a great chat is bad?
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In summary, instead of shooting your shot at close range, you've dribbled back out to the three point line. You have to shoot next time or you're dribbling out to half court where you have a better chance at getting fuked by the mascot than shooting a shot that gets you anywhere close to the hole.
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Relevant thread for me.

I joined a new gym and theres a lot of girls. I have never cold approached in my life.
I noticed every girl in the gym always has a guy they are talking to though.. its insane. If its not an obvious bf, its a group of orbiters she is laughing and working out with. Even the front desk people.
So no chances at this gym. Would be nice to date an actual fit girl
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