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post 1580641571 05-22-2019, 03:04 PM
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**** OP, if she was married for 16 years already, she is atleast 30 years old, likely 35 or 40 years old, the older you get the less picky you can be, drive this one off the lot bro.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
If she'll let your sewer creature ass bone her after a few texts, what do you think her past is like? How is she going to respond when she eventually gets tired of you and still has dozens of Chads blowing up her inbox? Get a brain, brah. She's either:

1. MAGICALLY transformed by your presence and will only sloot with you and never anyone else
2. Sloots gonna sloot

WHICH DO YOU THINK IS MORE LIKELY?
Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
She was married for 16 years, thanks.
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post 1580641981 05-22-2019, 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Good for you, brah. Happy that you're happy, but let's go into these things with our eyes open. If she was on active on tinder and let you hit it right away, it's safe to assume that poon has a ton of dink miles on it. If that doesn't bother you, so be it, but it should definitely be factored into any financial decisions like marriage and joint home ownership.
Bro you know what kind of degenerate stunts I have pulled in my life...I was active on tinder and bumble for a year or two before I met her. I was banging ebony college chicks, random white girls, also a 32 year old teacher with 3 kids and their dad still in the picture...This was all before I met her, she knows about my dark past (not everything, but knows about drug use and chit and accepts me anyway)

I used to be addicted to ***** and drink a bottle of wiskey a day....ALSO I raw dogged a bbw's azzhole in Ukraine, srs...

lord knows I don't deserve a virgin. This girl is wholesome and respectful, graduated with her masters, and culture is important to her.

I am happy af. Maybe its still honeymoon phase or whatever but im happy so far..
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post 1580642161 05-22-2019, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By BlueSasquatch⏩
**** OP, if she was married for 16 years already, she is atleast 30 years old, likely 35 or 40 years old, the older you get the less picky you can be, drive this one off the lot bro.
Say again? Yes, she’s 37.
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post 1580642251 05-22-2019, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By 4204Casper⏩
Bro you know what kind of degenerate stunts I have pulled in my life...I was active on tinder and bumble for a year or two before I met her. I was banging ebony college chicks, random white girls, also a 32 year old teacher with 3 kids and their dad still in the picture...This was all before I met her, she knows about my dark past (not everything, but knows about drug use and chit and accepts me anyway)
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I used to be addicted to ***** and drink a bottle of wiskey a day. I raw dogged bbw's azzholes in Ukraine, srs...

lord knows I don't deserve a virgin. This girl is wholesome and respectful, graduated with her masters, and culture is important to her.

I am happy af. Maybe its still honeymoon phase or whatever but im happy so far..
Then roll with it. It's your life. But I do need to hear more about raw dogging BBW Ukranian buttholes. How does one get into that? Asking for a friend.
post 1580642321 05-22-2019, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By FoodieVsGainz⏩
What part of how you guys met bothers you? The Tinder part or the initial one night stand?
Well we were both on vacation and using tinder. She had never actually met anyone on tinder before me. She’s an open book of sincerity.

The part that bothers me is how fast it happened. If we went out on a date or something and hours later it happened it would be different. The story sucks. And not that I care so much for her it makes it even harder.

I’ve been with enough women to know when a girl is not of good character but it was different with her the second we met.
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post 1580642371 05-22-2019, 03:16 PM
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Originally Posted By 4204Casper⏩
Met my girl on tinder. I kissed her on the first date and we banged on the 3rd or 4th. I have never been happier in a relationship, SRS.
What would ever be wrong with how you met?? Congrats.
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post 1580642481 05-22-2019, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Then roll with it. It's your life. But I do need to hear more about raw dogging BBW Ukranian buttholes. How does one get into that? Asking for a friend.
got drunk and snorted some amphetamines with this thicc shorty I met at a rehab center I "graduated" from. we were in the middle of sexors one night, bent her over to hit it from the back and she straight up put my dik into her azz, felt like the inside of a kong toy or something was super tight and felt like ridges? idk how to explain it, also its the only time I ever put it in a b-hole...so far
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post 1580642661 05-22-2019, 03:20 PM
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Originally Posted By BrightThru2014⏩
OP here is a normal non-misc answer for you:

People sometimes do things which are out of character which they never do again, especially when they are young, are subject to environmental influences, and don't know any better. As long as it's not a pattern of behavior and an anomaly, it's a total waste of an otherwise potentially compatible relationship to judge someone on one of their weaker moments.
I keep coming back to this and this line of thinking is how we made it so far. Her explanation was she was curious about me and this encounter and she did something she never thought she could do while on vacation. She’s had few partners... a couple BF’s from 14-19 and met her boyfriend turned husband for 16 years. After that ended she had sex with a close friend of hers and months later met me. All of that seems pretty solid. But this encounter with me weighs on me
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post 1580642711 05-22-2019, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
What would ever be wrong with how you met?? Congrats.
thanks bro we're all gonna make it. been a good couple years. Sobriety has been good to me.
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post 1580642881 05-22-2019, 03:24 PM
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Originally Posted By 4204Casper⏩
thanks bro we're all gonna make it. been a good couple years. Sobriety has been good to me.
My story is a little different and yours seems great. Sobriety can be liberating. Enjoy your life back.
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post 1580643011 05-22-2019, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By 4204Casper⏩
got drunk and snorted some amphetamines with this thicc shorty I met at a rehab center I "graduated" from. we were in the middle of sexors one night, bent her over to hit it from the back and she straight up put my dik into her azz, felt like the inside of a kong toy or something was super tight and felt like ridges? idk how to explain it, also its the only time I ever put it in a b-hole...so far
Sounds like a scene from Requiem for a Dream. brb planning my next trip there
post 1580643281 05-22-2019, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
There is zero worry about her cheating on me. This happened a few months ago and there is some geographical distance between us also.
We toastin in a roll bread boyos. No one is this naive
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This goes against the grain, but it makes me feel better and more confident to know that I’m attractive enough to an HBB that she would hook up with me on the first meet or date, whether it’s off Tinder or out at a bar.

Would I rather be the lame who had to gradually work my way into her allowing me munch her box after 4 dinner dates, or would I rather be the chad who she couldn’t resist, and says “I normally don’t do this but you are so cute”

A decent looking girl has tons of and tons of options, whether online or at the club. If I’m not the dude that she made an exception for or made her panties drop instantly than I’m worried another dude will.
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I have zero issues with getting into a serious relationship with a Tinder chick, BUT if it were legit a straight meetup just to instantly **** I'd have some reservations over that. There are plenty of girls with good character on Tinder for whatever reason so that's a non-issue for me, just gotta know how to find the decent ones out of all the ****ty ones.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Well we were both on vacation and using tinder. She had never actually met anyone on tinder before me. She’s an open book of sincerity.

The part that bothers me is how fast it happened. If we went out on a date or something and hours later it happened it would be different. The story sucks. And not that I care so much for her it makes it even harder.

I’ve been with enough women to know when a girl is not of good character but it was different with her the second we met.
See my post. Either trust her and believe she honestly made an exception for you because she finds you that attractive, or move on from it because it’s gonna bother you if you don’t
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Op take that thing one step at a time and stop over-thinking things. Who cares how yall met? Do you enjoy her company? Does she act shady ever?

If she is up to some shady sh*t it will eventually surface, otherwise just get together with her and stop ruining what you have by putting meaningless labels on things. Just keep your eyes open and be honest with yourself if you have any gut feelings about her behavior (they are almost always right).
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩
This goes against the grain, but it makes me feel better and more confident to know that I’m attractive enough to an HBB that she would hook up with me on the first meet or date, whether it’s off Tinder or out at a bar.

Would I rather be the lame who had to gradually work my way into her allowing me munch her box after 4 dinner dates, or would I rather be the chad who she couldn’t resist, and says “I normally don’t do this but you are so cute”

A decent looking girl has tons of and tons of options, whether online or at the club. If I’m not the dude that she made an exception for or made her panties drop instantly than I’m worried another dude will.
The logical fallacy here is that, if you were actually some irresistible super Chad, you probably wouldn't be looking to trade a relationship for sex. You'd have 80% of the female population banging down your door.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Hey all,

Short story. Met up with a girl for sex a little while ago from tinder. It wasn’t exactly pre-arranged but was implied. I went to her place and it happened pretty much instantly. I am a little more experienced than she is with this hook up thing. We ended up continuing to talk and get to know one another. We are completely compatible and care for each other very much.

But I cannot seem to let go of how we met. It’s created some stress for us.

Anyone had a similar experience?
A buddy of mine had random drunk sex with a girl, moved in with her the next day and they are still married ten years later. That doesn't happen every day though.
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Girls that do have daddy issues, it won't last long before she's sick of you and meets someone the same way you two met..It happened to me.
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
The logical fallacy here is that, if you were actually some irresistible super Chad, you probably wouldn't be looking to trade a relationship for sex. You'd have 80% of the female population banging down your door.
And I’m not looking to trade a relationship for sex. I’m not claiming to be an objective chad to every female but I am tall and decently in shape, and some girls REALLY go for the look, and some girls not as much. I’m a type.

My point is, for me to feel sane and validated sexually and physically in a (hypothetical) relationship, I need to be my girl’s absolute type. The kind she does dumb chit like OPs girl did on vacation because I checked her boxes looks wise. I’ve had some issues in past relationships and I’ve come to a point where I’d rather the mutual attraction and good sex be the foundation in a relationship, over me eventually winning the girl over with my personality.
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Originally Posted By dolvioblue⏩
Say again? Yes, she’s 37.
If you are the same age or older and feel like taking a risk why not, if you are younger than her I think you should take a step back.
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩
And I’m not looking to trade a relationship for sex. I’m not claiming to be an objective chad to every female but I am tall and decently in shape, and some girls REALLY go for the look, and some girls not as much. I’m a type.

My point is, for me to feel sane and validated sexually and physically in a (hypothetical) relationship, I need to be my girl’s absolute type. The kind she does dumb chit like OPs girl did on vacation because I checked her boxes looks wise. I’ve had some issues in past relationships and I’ve come to a point where I’d rather the mutual attraction and good sex be the foundation in a relationship, over me eventually winning the girl over with my personality.
Maybe I'm too cynical, but if a girl does "dumb chit" because she's attracted to you, what about the 10 guys who are more attractive than you who are sitting in her inbox right now? These guys are better looking and will say/do anything as they probe for weakness. I would want someone who I felt confident could resist that temptation. A girl can get fukked by pretty much any guy she knows IRL. She doesn't even have to do anything, just drop a couple hints and let it happen. It's very difficult for guys to understand that perspective.
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Fukn lol @ thinking about wifing up that sloot. Absolutely pathetic....
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken⏩
Maybe I'm too cynical, but if a girl does "dumb chit" because she's attracted to you, what about the 10 guys who are more attractive than you who are sitting in her inbox right now? These guys are better looking and will say/do anything as they probe for weakness. I would want someone who I felt confident could resist that temptation. A girl can get fukked by pretty much any guy she knows IRL. She doesn't even have to do anything, just drop a couple hints and let it happen. It's very difficult for guys to understand that perspective.
It might be a little too cynical on your part.
If she’s smart and appreciates the sex we are having, and we also vibe personality wise and have similar interests, why should she keep looking around? I’ve gone through some degenerate phases but if I come across a girl who checks those boxes for me I’m willing to let the random hookups go away in favor of someone consistent who I get along with. It’s happened for me before and I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect the girl to do that either.
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Originally Posted By skinnybig2⏩
If you are the same age or older and feel like taking a risk why not, if you are younger than her I think you should take a step back.
What would be the difference?
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Fukn lol @ thinking about wifing up that sloot. Absolutely pathetic....
A little harsh no?
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so you're upset you met someone and they found you attractive enough to **** immediately?
what am i missing here?


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There are some good girls on Tinder (srs)

The misc isn't very logically consistent on this topic.

There does exist a subset of girls who:

- will give you a ONS, but later reform into a normal chick
- only give you a ONS, but not anybody else

I've met a few girls with graduate degrees years ago who I banged on the first or second date. To this day I know they haven't been slooting since then. So it's definitely possible.
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