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post 1584779601 07-27-2019, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
So you think we should make excuses for someone cooking their kids alive or what?
I think it's funny you claim to know what you would do if you happened to be in the same situation.
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
No. It is just something that pisses me off.

You can call it cope all you want to, but stories like this hit hard. I couldn't imagine my kids going through a death like that. It's terrifying. And every time I read a story like that there's always the "it can happen to anyone". Then you read stories about people who have left their kids in a car and just went along with their lives after the kids got taken away.

But sure, call it cope because I think people should be punished more harshly for stupid "accidents" like this.
Leaving small kids alone in a turned off hot car is extreme child neglect, nothing less. As a parent, I'd be pissed if some brat kid were constantly leaving marks on my kid by hitting/biting her and the daycare consistently said "We don't know anything about it. Golly gee shucks, guess we can't try to stop it, lulz". Any reasonable parent would feel the same way. Meanwhile, an oddly large number of people are willing to make excuses for people who "accidentally" let their kids fry to death unattended in hot cars. It's a joke.
Originally Posted By Techriding101⏩
I think it's funny you claim to know what you would do if you happened to be in the same situation.
It's a moot hypothetical for some of us, because we're not the type of piece of chit "parents" who would ever let something like that happen. If a parent put their kid into a strange pitbull's caged yard by themselves to "play with the dog" and the pitbull mauled the kid, I doubt you'd be playing the "It was an accident so we should be understanding!" card for the parent... why is them "accidentally" leaving their child to suffer a horrifying death in a hot car any different?
post 1584779751 07-27-2019, 01:47 PM
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simple,
have motion sensors in the car, when car is off if there is movement lights flash and horn goes off alerting people there is someone in the car. only way to turn off the motion sensors is to manually shut them off
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Originally Posted By Techriding101⏩
I think it's funny you claim to know what you would do if you happened to be in the same situation.
That's making an excuse. As said before, if I did happen to do something like this, I wouldn't let myself live. Yeah, it happens, but all I'm saying is that there shouldn't be excuses made. Period.

Also, there's plenty of other people saying the same thing as me, yet you focus on my comment, in particular.
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post 1584779981 07-27-2019, 01:49 PM
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"People should always make a habit of leaving something of importance behind with their kids" You fukin retards, the kids are THAT something of importance.
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post 1584780041 07-27-2019, 01:51 PM
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LOL excuses. It's 100% possible to do this and 100% not mean to and not realize it. WTF is jail going to accomplish?
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post 1584780111 07-27-2019, 01:52 PM
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the number of kids that have died this year alone blows my mind...
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Forget? How can you forget your own damn kids? I call bs on that excuse. He's playing stupid, he's probably a sadistic fukked up motherfuker did this to spite the mom or some chit. Fukkin lock him up
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post 1584780311 07-27-2019, 01:57 PM
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Feel like a real man offs himself in that situation, assuming he doesn't have other kids.
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post 1584780481 07-27-2019, 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
If I ever did something that caused my sons death, I can pretty much say 100% I'd kill myself. The thing with these situations though is that as I said above, it's a change in routine. Something like your husband always takes the kids to daycare, this one day you have to. So you're tired, probably rushing to get to work, distracted because you may have some big things going on at work that day and you just go through the motions of driving to work, parking and leaving your car.

I know I've been driving at night before on a route that I always take and I get to where I'm going and don't even remember driving there.
I have an extremely inconsistent schedule and run on ~4 hours of sleep far more often than I'd like to. How transportation for my kid works out between me and my wife is anything but routine, and changes on the fly quite a bit. Yet neither of us have ever come anywhere close to "forgetting" our child in the car under any circumstances.

Sorry, but I don't have sympathy for people who do that chit and let their kids die as a result. They should be court ordered to fry in a hot car themselves so they can see what their kid(s) had to suffer through. Your kid running off on the way into the house and getting a bloody nose by tripping on the concrete is an accident. Letting them die a horrible death in a hot car by "forgetting" them in there is extreme negligence, not a simple "accident".
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Originally Posted By MilkBender⏩
thing is, you could remember 99% of the time like a decent parent, and then you forget one time for whatever reason and now your kids are dead. I'm not saying it isn't negligence, but it's just so "easy" for it to happen because it only takes ONE time for your kid to die. Sort of like looking down a cliff and realizing how easily your life could end
I agree with this 100%, I just think we should stop making excuses for it.

I'm not saying it can't happen, I just can't fathom it happening and the people who killed their kids to actually go through to court.

The comment about the car sensors would be good. Or even something after market you put under the seats.

Instead of saying "Oh, this can happen" how are we not doing more about it?
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post 1584780641 07-27-2019, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted By MilkBender⏩
thing is, you could remember 99% of the time like a decent parent, and then you forget one time for whatever reason and now your kids are dead. I'm not saying it isn't negligence, but it's just so "easy" for it to happen because it only takes ONE time for your kid to die. Sort of like looking down a cliff and realizing how easily your life could end
I've never even forgotten my cat in a cat crate or dog in my car, let alone my kid. Hell, I rarely forget a cold bottle of water or soda in the car. There's something seriously wrong with someone who forgets their kid(s) in the car even one time.
post 1584780781 07-27-2019, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
I agree with this 100%, I just think we should stop making excuses for it.

I'm not saying it can't happen, I just can't fathom it happening and the people who killed their kids to actually go through to court.

The comment about the car sensors would be good. Or even something after market you put under the seats.

Instead of saying "Oh, this can happen" how are we not doing more about it?
Like I said before, blaming car makers is a joke. I'm not against them trying to implement new features to make it harder to forget kids in the cars, but lmao @ acting like that's even a small portion of the issue.

Maybe we need to teach people to quit being such self-absorbed pricks and that their kids come first in any and all situations, and quit showing sympathy towards chit like this. I mean clearly, making excuses for it on any level hasn't helped prevent it from happening.
post 1584780861 07-27-2019, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
I have an extremely inconsistent schedule and run on ~4 hours of sleep far more often than I'd like to. How transportation for my kid works out between me and my wife is anything but routine, and changes on the fly quite a bit. Yet neither of us have ever come anywhere close to "forgetting" our child in the car under any circumstances.

Sorry, but I don't have sympathy for people who do that chit and let their kids die as a result. They should be court ordered to fry in a hot car themselves so they can see what their kid(s) had to suffer through. Your kid running off on the way into the house and getting a bloody nose by tripping on the concrete is an accident. Letting them die a horrible death in a hot car by "forgetting" them in there is extreme negligence, not a simple "accident".
I'm not making excuses. I think it's absolutely horrific that it happens. I just know that people are not perfect. I can't even fathom ever forgetting my child was in the car. I never did. But I can't say that someone that this happens to is purposely trying to murder their kid(s). Leaving kids in a hot car to run into a store, yes. Having your routine change one morning and going to work on auto pilot, running into work in your normal fashion? No, I don't see that as purposeful.
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post 1584780941 07-27-2019, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Like I said before, blaming car makers is a joke. I'm not against them trying to implement new features to make it harder to forget kids in the cars, but lmao @ acting like that's even a small portion of the issue.

Maybe we need to teach people to quit being such self-absorbed pricks and that their kids come first in any and all situations, and quit showing sympathy towards chit like this. I mean clearly, making excuses for it on any level hasn't helped prevent it from happening.
Yeah, I don't think car makers are at all to blame, but maybe if we had something like that excuses would be taken a lot less often.

I don't know. This is the one topic that gets me overheated every time and despite trying to ignore, I always get baited into being pissed off about it.

Same with those stories about kids being left to die while people just go on about their lives neglecting them in a swing or whatever.

It just makes me genuinely feel sad. I worked at CPS for a while and I think it got to me.
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post 1584781071 07-27-2019, 02:14 PM
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happened in my town this week. a mother forgot her baby in the car, remembered 2 hours later but it was too late (hot af.)
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
I'm not making excuses. I think it's absolutely horrific that it happens. I just know that people are not perfect. I can't even fathom ever forgetting my child was in the car. I never did. But I can't say that someone that this happens to is purposely trying to murder their kid(s). Leaving kids in a hot car to run into a store, yes. Having your routine change one morning and going to work on auto pilot, running into work in your normal fashion? No, I don't see that as purposeful.
I think I'm too worked up about this, but what you say is 100%.

My stance is that no one should get the excuse once it happens, is all. I've read stories where the parents were charged just with neglect in cases like this where the kid was found before dying.

I know things happen. I get it.

Sorry if I came off too heated at you. Should have never read this thread much less joined in
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post 1584781181 07-27-2019, 02:17 PM
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I don't care how busy you are how could you possibly forget unless you have a very low IQ or did it intentionally? I'd sooner not forget to wear my pants when heading outside than to leave a child in a car.
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Originally Posted By SkinnyKappa⏩
this happens a lot more than it should, and car manufacturers’ solution for that is some stupid message on the screen when you stop the engine

brb imagine one of those kids ****ing frying to death, then the other kid watching him/her and dying only to fry to death also

****ing horrible way to die srs, just think of the helplessness and the pain what the ****

what my family members in Israel do is put their phone and wallet and stuff with the kids in the back and that way they don’t forget them. but there are also systems that detect if there’s a person in the car that are pretty cheap, idk why it’s not on every car
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Add to that horror story.


A lady in my town always brought her dog with her to work and forgot her a few summers ago in the car when she went in.

Remembered at noon ran out and the dog died due to the heat.

Makes me fuking sick
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Originally Posted By ButcherSir⏩
happened in my town this week. a mother forgot her baby in the car, remembered 2 hours later but it was too late (hot af.)
I’m thinking if I was a parent that did that idk if I’d really want to continue living. Seriously
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
I think I'm too worked up about this, but what you say is 100%.

My stance is that no one should get the excuse once it happens, is all. I've read stories where the parents were charged just with neglect in cases like this where the kid was found before dying.

I know things happen. I get it.

Sorry if I came off too heated at you. Should have never read this thread much less joined in
I totally get where you're coming from. It's a horrible horrible thing to happen. But my point is only that people can say "I would never....." from now to eternity but well. We're all human. We are not perfect nor infallible. I can say I don't think I'd ever do something like that, but who knows what could happen in the future?
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
If this ever happened to me, I would take 100% full responsibility and lock myself up, if not take myself out entirely.

For the dude to make an excuse that it was an accident isn't good enough, to me.

Not one to go all sanctimommy, but this is one thing I'm fully incapable of understanding. Dogs, kids... How do you forget something so valuable?

I don't think we should make excuses for stuff like this happening. It's deplorable.
I mean if ur tired af and zoning out while driving to work and you forgot that Tues is ur day to bring kids to day care. Kids were up all night so ur tired af. You are driving and the kids are sleeping and its quiet af. You mindlessly drive to work bc thats what you do everyday. You get to work and park and reach over and grab your bag, the kids are sleeping so no noise. Its alot more common than you think.
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Originally Posted By WestAfrica⏩
I mean if ur tired af and zoning out while driving to work and you forgot that Tues is ur day to bring kids to day care. Kids were up all night so ur tired af. You are driving and the kids are sleeping and its quiet af. You mindlessly drive to work bc thats what you do everyday. You get to work and park and reach over and grab your bag, the kids are sleeping so no noise. Its alot more common than you think.
I see your point. But I feel like if I had kids they would be on my mind constantly and I would never do something like that. It’s human instinct to protect your child above all else. How do you forget them in a hot car?
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Originally Posted By WestAfrica⏩
I mean if ur tired af and zoning out while driving to work and you forgot that Tues is ur day to bring kids to day care. Kids were up all night so ur tired af. You are driving and the kids are sleeping and its quiet af. You mindlessly drive to work bc thats what you do everyday. You get to work and park and reach over and grab your bag, the kids are sleeping so no noise. Its alot more common than you think.
I just wish it wasn't.
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There was a dateline on a similar case, the parents were convicted of murder I believe.

https://www.nbcnews.com/storyline/ho...-s-hot-n692086
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Originally Posted By WestAfrica⏩
I mean if ur tired af and zoning out while driving to work and you forgot that Tues is ur day to bring kids to day care. Kids were up all night so ur tired af. You are driving and the kids are sleeping and its quiet af. You mindlessly drive to work bc thats what you do everyday. You get to work and park and reach over and grab your bag, the kids are sleeping so no noise. Its alot more common than you think.
lmao, no its not. Stop talking out of your ass.
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Originally Posted By SkinnyKappa⏩
you never forgive yourself, it’s just a horrible situation altogether

and it sounds easy to remember, but all it takes is 1 small distraction and you completely forget about it. our brains ****ing suck at that kind of stuff, you can drive to the supermarket for the sole purpose of buying something then when you get there you forgot what you wanted to buy
This isn't a bottle of ketchup. This is your fukng children, jesus christ. Anyone who is defending this clearly hasn't raised kids.
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Originally Posted By Frank
lmao, no its not. Stop talking out of your ass.
The article stated that 52 children died from vehicular heatstroke last year. So it’s not common but it does happen consistently. This should never happen.
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