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post 1587147021 09-02-2019, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Mcfreako⏩
lol shut up geek
My bad. Maybe OP should pray about it?
post 1587147071 09-02-2019, 07:57 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Why can't they just say it though? Ignoring a person is just blatantly disrespectful.
Because a lot of men are stupid when it comes to women and will try to have a logic debate about why that particular girl should like him. It’s easier to just hope you get the hint and avoid confrontation from her perspective.
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post 1587147151 09-02-2019, 07:59 PM
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You spent too much time with her and burnt her out. You were an easy mark.

Move on, learn and be alpha. Make a phone call instead of texting.
post 1587147171 09-02-2019, 07:59 PM
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post 1587147401 09-02-2019, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
We dated and spent nearly every day together for about 2-3 weeks, she went on vacation out of town for a month after that but I've been in contact with her since.

EDIT: All I asked her was that if she was free this week and wanted to grab dinner.
you spent 2-3weekstogether and only gotcloseto hooking up


































































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post 1587148771 09-02-2019, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By ayyy⏩
you spent 2-3weekstogether and only gotcloseto hooking up


































































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You're not helping lol
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post 1587148811 09-02-2019, 08:23 PM
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honestly, op. feel like there's missing info

but most likely scenario is she went on vacation and met some other dude

you said for a month. so she might think it's been long enough that you get the hint

overall, she sounds pretty chitty anyways. to just get up and not tell you anything. so no harm really. she's not giving you respect, so you shouldn't give it to her
post 1587148831 09-02-2019, 08:23 PM
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I'm older and when I dated it was 90s and early 2000s. It's so crazy the young men have to deal with this.

I'm thinking that if it ever happened to me I would work it into my schpiel with every new girl very early on. like along the lines of "we all adults here.. if you cool with seeing other people so am I.. if u want to be exclusive we could see how that works out too.. but don't be a little baby and ignore texts or calls.. I'm cool with whatever but I'm not down with childish games." Or "my boy is dating this young girl like 19. She just stopped answering him one day out of the blue. What kind of immature baby does that?"

Either one would do the trick.. back in the 90s if ur boy didn't call you back and you left a message for him he should expect to get punched in the face next time you saw him unless he had some crazy explanation.

It's a generational thing for sure
post 1587148901 09-02-2019, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
She was my first GF lol
shouldn't have fked that up, you coulda been our misc love story
post 1587149941 09-02-2019, 08:41 PM
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The fact this seems to be frustrating you quite badly indicates that you are the one with the problem here, sunshine.

No denying, leaving someone onreadcan be rude.

But you sound like a woman. "why isn't he responding to meeeee?"

Truth is, you're setting yourself up for failure. You're putting too much thought into it. Turn your phone to silent, leave it at home, go outside and do something for a few hours.

Unplug from the matrix.
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post 1587150011 09-02-2019, 08:41 PM
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Originally Posted By ezjax⏩
I'm older and when I dated it was 90s and early 2000s. It's so crazy the young men have to deal with this.

I'm thinking that if it ever happened to me I would work it into my schpiel with every new girl very early on. like along the lines of "we all adults here.. if you cool with seeing other people so am I.. if u want to be exclusive we could see how that works out too.. but don't be a little baby and ignore texts or calls.. I'm cool with whatever but I'm not down with childish games." Or "my boy is dating this young girl like 19. She just stopped answering him one day out of the blue. What kind of immature baby does that?"

Either one would do the trick.. back in the 90s if ur boy didn't call you back and you left a message for him he should expect to get punched in the face next time you saw him unless he had some crazy explanation.

It's a generational thing for sure
It's hard for sure, bcus in real life 'getting away' from someone or ending a conversation is a lot easier, it's less nasty and the person might never know you just didn't want to hear their story. For example: "sorry I've gotta hurry (insert excuse here), it was nice catching up with you!" and then you run away at Mach 10.

Over text this is impossible. You are trapped into a conversation with them. If you have a valid excuse, it lasts what, a couple of hours? Then you are expected to answer back? We develop a habit of 'cutting' the conversation when we deem necessary and most of us grow immune to the impact of it, OP up there is clearly just a pussy.
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post 1587150101 09-02-2019, 08:42 PM
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post 1587150191 09-02-2019, 08:44 PM
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Why do so many of you complain about women constantly? Do you have a life outside of meeting women, some type of goals or aspirations?
post 1587150291 09-02-2019, 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like seriously family, friends, even damn co-workers (male/female) I always get timely responses. I understand people are busy and lead their own lives but they always find the time to respond in a timely fashion and let me know if they're not available or busy. But whenever I get to try to know a girl or try to spend time with one I've met they always leave me on read and it's just infuriating especially when I know they're not busy. Posting an instagram story not even 5 seconds ago saying "Ask me questions, I'm bored" like a basic bish.

Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
Women? Because they have unlimited options.

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post 1587150421 09-02-2019, 08:48 PM
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post 1587150511 09-02-2019, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This particular girl I'm talking about showed very strong interest in me at first and things were super great, came super close to hooking up even. But now she's being like this ^^^
cause its clear you're desperate af
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post 1587150591 09-02-2019, 08:50 PM
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post 1587150611 09-02-2019, 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like seriously family, friends, even damn co-workers (male/female) I always get timely responses. I understand people are busy and lead their own lives but they always find the time to respond in a timely fashion and let me know if they're not available or busy. But whenever I get to try to know a girl or try to spend time with one I've met they always leave me on read and it's just infuriating especially when I know they're not busy. Posting an instagram story not even 5 seconds ago saying "Ask me questions, I'm bored" like a basic bish.

Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
She’s not interested, move on. Treat it the same was as if you were texting your 10 year old cousin with ADHD. You wouldn’t sit around waiting for them to respond. The average girl in the dating pool now is basically a god damn retard. When you find one that doesn’t spend all her free time on Instagram, keep her around.
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post 1587150801 09-02-2019, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted By ezjax⏩
Or "my boy is dating this young girl like 19. She just stopped answering him one day out of the blue. What kind of immature baby does that?"
A 19 year old does...


Been there done that. Good times, wood do again. Can’t expect it to last long though. Just gotta have fun while it’s there.
post 1587151191 09-02-2019, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
shouldn't have fked that up, you coulda been our misc love story
She already had it in her mind that we were gonna split at some point. Her own insecurities caused it to not work out. I miss her and do want to see her, but I have no desire to be in a relationship with her anymore
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post 1587151581 09-02-2019, 09:08 PM
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This is a no contact. Sorry man, move on to the next one.
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post 1587151701 09-02-2019, 09:10 PM
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cuz this is how their inbox looks like
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Left on read? Wait 10 min and send a dick pic. She will either never talk to you again or you’ll be clapping cheeks within the hour. Either way you win.
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when they do that chit i either ignore back or nc altogether.
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like seriously family, friends, even damn co-workers (male/female) I always get timely responses. I understand people are busy and lead their own lives but they always find the time to respond in a timely fashion and let me know if they're not available or busy. But whenever I get to try to know a girl or try to spend time with one I've met they always leave me on read and it's just infuriating especially when I know they're not busy. Posting an instagram story not even 5 seconds ago saying "Ask me questions, I'm bored" like a basic bish.

Like seriously brahs, I get fuming at the fact women don't have the god damn common courtesy to be straight up in communicating.
Not communicating IS communicating.

It's not that they are too busy, it's that they are too busy for you.

I don't even bother with women that don't text me back within a few hours.
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OP, this isn't about her, it's about you.

It's bothering you because you see her as a source of your happiness. When reality is she's just another thot and you should always put yourself first. When you change that mindset you can talk to 100 women with 0 qualms about whether they reply back or not.
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[QUOTE=Nicklol post_id=1587151701][img]https://i.imgur.com/0dR3o9l_d.jpg?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=me dium

cuz this is how their inbox looks like[/QUOTE]Yeah because they have unread texts going back to 2005, the 24,000 unread emails says it all

Complete lack of discipline
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Strong username to not understanding cherries ratio.

Just go NC.
Fill their guts when you meet them the first time.
Kick them out of your house immediately after.
Rinse and repeat until you want to settle down with some girl.

You owe them nothing and the fact that you are butthurt about texts proves you are a little b i t c h.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo⏩
Not communicating IS communicating.

It's not that they are too busy, it's that they are too busy for you.

I don't even bother with women that don't text me back within a few hours.
This. I don’t get what’s so hard for normies to understand about girls making time for guys they’re into. If they start texting less/taking more time to reply then it’s a huge red flag to bail on the interaction/relationship. Sloots play games and it’s pretty easy to tell when they’re just stringing you along for the lols
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩


cuz this is how their inbox looks like
LMAO.

Damn, couldn't imagine my phone looking like that.

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