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post 1590938721 11-03-2019, 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Prolapse916⏩
Op isn’t wrong
Yes but you’re a bartender so by definition all your interactions with women are about them telling you what drink to fetch for them

post 1590941241 11-03-2019, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By YUL⏩
Maybe she’s already a friend of Bill’s and wants to stay on the wagon?
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post 1590941311 11-03-2019, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yeah, this. I don't like drinking my cals. I can also have fun and let my guard down without drinking. Just lol at you if you can't have a great conversation without alcohol.
This just in, no one is in a date for great conversation
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post 1590941701 11-03-2019, 08:39 PM
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I don't date girls that drink (and neither do I)

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post 1590941861 11-03-2019, 08:41 PM
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If your only goal is to smash that night, sure not having a drink might make things harder.

If you're actually trying to date her, or smash her in the future, or just have a good time... who fukin cares? You guys seriously can't talk to girls without having a drink?
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post 1590941941 11-03-2019, 08:43 PM
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drinks at a bar are expensive. dont be a simp buying sloots drinks.
post 1590942171 11-03-2019, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yeah, this. I don't like drinking my cals. I can also have fun and let my guard down without drinking. Just lol at you if you can't have a great conversation without alcohol.
Exactly. Some people don't need alcohol to enjoy themselves.
I am one of the 3%.
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post 1590942741 11-03-2019, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
If your only goal is to smash that night, sure not having a drink might make things harder.

If you're actually trying to date her, or smash her in the future, or just have a good time... who fukin cares? You guys seriously can't talk to girls without having a drink?
Without alcohol the human species would go extinct in modern times.
post 1590943081 11-03-2019, 09:07 PM
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lol at getting her drunk so you can take advantage of her...that's rape...

lets be honest....if the girl is drunk, she's willing to f!ck ANYBODY
post 1590944521 11-03-2019, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
If she refuses a drink, I'm already on the date tho, also all of my dates are generally going out for drinks. I would lmao if she showed up and didn't want a drink.
I have game though and a good looking face. I’ll continue the date. One rule I have is that we leave our phones in the car. If they aren’t willing to do that then they can **** right off.
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post 1590944611 11-03-2019, 09:50 PM
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post 1590944621 11-03-2019, 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
If your only goal is to smash that night, sure not having a drink might make things harder.

If you're actually trying to date her, or smash her in the future, or just have a good time... who fukin cares? You guys seriously can't talk to girls without having a drink?
For me the pressure is off as my fwb does to bed at 2 am. I’m ****ing someone on date night
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post 1590944731 11-03-2019, 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Lmao would NEVER agree to that for safety reasons.
We know each other to some degree and meet in a public place. I don’t fuvk around with dating apps. I am the Kavorka.
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post 1590953251 11-04-2019, 06:10 AM
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Originally Posted By FrankCostanza⏩
We know each other to some degree and meet in a public place. I don’t fuvk around with dating apps. I am theKavorka.
That means rapist in Croatian.
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post 1590953611 11-04-2019, 06:19 AM
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Originally Posted By cjmadscientist⏩
What if it’s because she doesn’t want to f**k up her macros?
Disagreeing with both you and OP, somehow.

He’s wrong to suggest a woman not wanting to booze it up on a date is a red flag but counting macros on a date is. I’m not saying I wouldn’t be unimpressed if my date shoved down a KFC Family Feast by herself and washed it down with 6 pints of lager but counting macros on a date is pretty obsessive for my tastes.

Edit: thinking about it, i actually would be a bit impressed by the former, not gonna lie
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post 1590953761 11-04-2019, 06:23 AM
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Originally Posted By joeysmokes⏩
i agree

also no girl has ever turned me down for drinks 100% dead srs
Just wait til necks time...
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post 1590953871 11-04-2019, 06:25 AM
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Originally Posted By FrankCostanza⏩
One rule I have is that we leave our phones in the car. If they aren’t willing to do that then they can **** right off.
This is even more suspect than OP’s rule lol
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post 1590954661 11-04-2019, 06:47 AM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
This just in, no one is in a date for great conversation
Lol Ummmm most people like good conversation.
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post 1590954711 11-04-2019, 06:50 AM
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Considering I don't drink I actually prefer if she doesn't either

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I tend to smooth talk girls into my bed for a first date and if they say "we should meet at a bar or something first" I just delete them lmfaooooooooooo. Waste of time since most girls aren't worth it around here. When I travel, I definitely wine and dine girls to get them drippinnnnn.
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Once got signed up on a blind date.

Turned up the woman was 6'0 - Bare in mind i'm only 6'3... WAAAY Above my comfort height for a woman. 5'2-5'8 Just nice.
Anyway, Bowling. I had pre-booked it.

Rocked up - I'm like WTF. She's TALL AF.
So everything calm - Go to our bowling lanes. I'm like "You want a drink or anything to eat? Im getting myself a beer"

THIS fooook turned down everything. Water. Drink. Food. EVERYTING - I'm likeee ehhh why don't you want anything?

AND I QUOTE "I'm currently on meal prep & i've already had all my cals"
So not only could she dunk, But she ain't eating.

Get bowling done & outta the way... I'm like im gone. Foook DIS! Least i won 3 games of bowling.

Anyway. Date flies by - She goes home & start's sending me 'Prep' Pics. PREP. She was fully naked asking for dink.
Didn't entertain it... Then she goes & places 6th in her Bikini show.
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Never done that before.. Every time I've had a date its NEVER included alcohol. Mostly its been either me going to them or them coming to me and we just chill and get to know each other.. Get into bed and watch some movies. Whatever happens after that happens lol.

lol @ having to try and make someone drunk to try and get them in bed.. Low confidence.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Rule # 1 of a first date where you don’t already know each other is to just only go for something quick like drinks or coffee.

That way you can bail after one drink/coffee if you are not attracted to them.

An extended date like dinner or activity like bowling is a TERRIBLE first date idea because then you will be stuck there with someone you are not attracted to.
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- Results - Either end up banging on a 'Late night drive' or they'll invite you over to pipe down.

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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yeah, this. I don't like drinking my cals. I can also have fun and let my guard down without drinking. Just lol at you if you can't have a great conversation without alcohol.
This. Alcohol is a waste of my calories. I'll have one once in a great while, but most of the time I'd rather have more food.
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only a ******* would think this
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if she refuses the drink, you've just wasted a perfectly good pill.
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Originally Posted By dusky99⏩
This is the biggest red flag that it's going to be a waste of time, because it's her communicating that she really doesn't want things to escalate physically with you and isn't going to let her guard down. If it happens you need to take it as a massive insult and just walk away. Abort mission.
Spoken like someone who rapes intoxicated women.
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Just lol at the ones that say "I'm not the freaky type but get me drunk and it's another story"

That's code for I'm always a freak but get me drunk and i'll use the alcohol as an excuse that i'm freaky asf, you'll understand,right?
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