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» Honestly, wwyd if your S/O got fat?
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post 1611078781 07-19-2020, 04:31 PM
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post 1611079181 07-19-2020, 04:36 PM
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If we’re talking obese, then I’d definitely bring it up and demand change. I watched my grandparents die from being morbidly obese. I’ll be damned if my kids and I watch my husband die a miserable, preventable death. But if we’re talking dad-bod I’m good. He doesn’t have to look like a HeMan action figure to make me happy. On the flip side, if I was turning into a land whale I’d hope to God he’d say something. We both have extra fat-fat people on both sides of our family. We both have to set a good example to our kids to eat and live a healthy life best they can.
post 1611079211 07-19-2020, 04:36 PM
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post 1611079481 07-19-2020, 04:40 PM
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Depends. If medical reason, no issue. We will work to fix it. If it is just pure laziness and inability to control themselves, that will change. We'll have a talk about it.

Although I doubt it will ever happen because I will only marry someone that shares the desire to live a healthy lifestyle. It's very important.
post 1611079681 07-19-2020, 04:42 PM
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Ngl I don’t live a healthy lifestyle I only lift for narcy/looks reasons and also I do enjoy training. I don’t exactly live a healthy lifestyle
post 1611080971 07-19-2020, 04:59 PM
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Women have one job in life: stay thin. Do this and you will never have to work a day in your life
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a man has to have job like a woman has to be slim.
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post 1611081791 07-19-2020, 05:09 PM
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post 1611082481 07-19-2020, 05:17 PM
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If it was a lot of weight I'd be very unhappy and wouldn't be physically attracted to him. Depending on someones body composition 10-20 lbs is not a biggie or anything to end a relationship over unless they refuse to lose it and/or continue to gain. I'd talk to them and try to encourage them to eat healthy and exercise.
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post 1611088021 07-19-2020, 06:26 PM
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post 1611095401 07-19-2020, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Just asked my fwb if we were married how much weight he would let me gain before he said I was too fat.

And he said “As much as u want cuz I’d get u prego.”

Was this FWB #1 or FWB #2?
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post 1611095511 07-19-2020, 07:57 PM
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post 1611095521 07-19-2020, 07:57 PM
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When they get fat it’s because they aren’t taking care of themselves.

They blame their antidepressants or the fact that they have to drink with their friends.

Either way they’re eating Chik Fil-A and not telling you. (I didn’t eat anything all day)
post 1611095741 07-19-2020, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Just asked my fwb if we were married how much weight he would let me gain before he said I was too fat.

And he said “As much as u want cuz I’d get u prego.”





















I knew you had your own agenda lol. You couldnt care less about "the kids", you just like the idea of getting married and just LDAR and becoming fat as fuk and knowing whoever fatass you marry wont give you **** for it.

Thats literally why you are so vocal about it, and also guilt tripping guys into feeling bad about ditching their whalewifes lmao. Silecne you are one cheeky kunt m8 i swear
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post 1611096181 07-19-2020, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
#1 the OG !!

#2 is almost over because he’s moving away this month.
Was thinking it was the OG one since you've said before he's talked about wanting you to get pregnant. My FWB talks about knocking me up ALL the time.
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post 1611096301 07-19-2020, 08:06 PM
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post 1611096721 07-19-2020, 08:12 PM
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post 1611096791 07-19-2020, 08:13 PM
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post 1611096811 07-19-2020, 08:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Imo once you have kids the only consideration should be the best interest of the kids. So you should stay married unless there is something that directly has a big negative impact on the kids. Like abuse or addictions.

Anything else you should just tolerate until the kids leave home for college. And you can divorce after that. Including cheating I think.
This is beyond stupid.

The kids will feel the resentment the entire marriage.
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post 1611096921 07-19-2020, 08:14 PM
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I would tell her shes getting fat and start encouraging change. I have zero problem with that lol. My girlfriend loves to please me though and works hard to look great for me so she wouldn't let that happen. I do the same for her, we both value having an attractive partner and being attractive to eachother
post 1611096991 07-19-2020, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422
Was thinking it was the OG one since you've said before he's talked about wanting you to get pregnant. My FWB talks about knocking me up ALL the time.
age: 51

wut

u want a downie?
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No I’m not getting married again and I don’t want kids.
Yes, but you like the idea of getting fat as fuk eating your entire fridge while still having the man's company and unconditional love.
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post 1611097161 07-19-2020, 08:16 PM
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post 1611097221 07-19-2020, 08:17 PM
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post 1611097331 07-19-2020, 08:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No I don’t want to get fat. I’ve never been fat in my life. I like looking good and working out and being active and fit.
Thats because you are still single and your FWB is moving away. Need to stay fukable
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post 1611097651 07-19-2020, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No I was married for a long time and never got fat.
Because you knew hed leave you
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If we have kids: Cheat. If no kids: dump. If i'm in good shape I expect you to be also. I'm going to cheat otherwise. Obviously with a wife and someone you love you'd pep talk them into losing if they don't listen still you break up with them or cheat. With kids it's complicated so i'd cheat.
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz
I would tell her shes getting fat and start encouraging change. I have zero problem with that lol. My girlfriend loves to please me though and works hard to look great for me so she wouldn't let that happen. I do the same for her, we both value having an attractive partner and being attractive to eachother
How do you communicate that to her without hurting her feelings?
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