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post 1613005441 08-09-2020, 12:59 AM
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he knows more than anyone else (other than his girl) that the baby could be someone else's. so there's not much value bringing it up after the initial spiel. don't let him raise the kid without knowing for sure if it's his, though.
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post 1613005511 08-09-2020, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By VTheKing⏩
he knows more than anyone else (other than his girl) that the baby could be someone else's. so there's not much value bringing it up after the initial spiel. don't let him raise the kid without knowing for sure if it's his, though.
I just need to see one picture, and then will i decide if i want to bring out the ****storm or simply say fuk it and let them deal with it.
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post 1613005531 08-09-2020, 01:01 AM
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What are Mexicos laws on paternity tests? I know some countries now require the mothers permission (fukn lol). I doubt Mexico is cucked like that, but he 100% needs to confirm if he is the father or not before he can move forward with anything.

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post 1613006151 08-09-2020, 01:21 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Well, yeah, I would tell my friend if I saw that but I didn't - I have had opinions of people that my friends were dating, and these opinions are simply based on my own perspective - lacking the in-depth and nuanced understating of the interpersonal dynamic within said relationship.

You guys are romancing this sh*t way too much and are lacking a fundamental understanding of how human emotional attachments work - if you're in love with or worse, trauma bonded to somebody they can abuse you as much as they want and you can't do sh*t about it - anybody who stands in the way will be pushed to the side or discarded.

That's why I think people should just try their best to live their own best life and not worry about others.
I mean, I did see, though. So I had clear and concise firsthand evidence. I was also friends with the dude she was cheating on my buddy with.

I get what you're saying re: love makes you lose the ability to reason. I understand all that.

But again, it's the choice of one betrayal of trust and two betrayals. Just wouldn't be able to live with myself knowing I hadn't done what I feel a friend should have done.
post 1613006511 08-09-2020, 01:36 AM
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You obviously did the right thing. Your friends retarded for getting used by this sloot
post 1613006671 08-09-2020, 01:41 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Sounds like you don't have any good friends. My good friends and I have always given each other tough advice, and we've remained good friends
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Also you don't need to convince your friend of anything. All you had to do is say "the kid isn't yours LOL" and plant that seed of doubt in his mind because that **** will grow because he's insecure enough already. The harder you try to convince the less he'll believe you.
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post 1613006941 08-09-2020, 01:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk⏩
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Also you don't need to convince your friend of anything. All you had to do is say "the kid isn't yours LOL" and plant that seed of doubt in his mind because that **** will grow because he's insecure enough already. The harder you try to convince the less he'll believe you.
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Power of words man. Just say the words and let it simmer instead of pointing fingers and yelling and spending energy.

Telling most people just doesn’t work...instead you tel them something slightly. A few days later they will tell you the same thing as if it was their own idea
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post 1613007141 08-09-2020, 01:53 AM
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If you are good friend you will take screenshots of the misc's posts and share it with him.
She slooted. She thinks of him as a simp who will fund her lifestyle.
Tell him not to sign anything and run for the hills. Srs
He may be in denial about it too.
Share the replies with him. Srs
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post 1613007241 08-09-2020, 01:56 AM
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would stop being friends with someone so beta srs, that is loser behavior
post 1613007271 08-09-2020, 01:58 AM
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post 1613007851 08-09-2020, 02:22 AM
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If he dumb enough to not get a paternity test on his own then I wouldn't even be his friend. suckers like that diminish your social value, makes me wonder about op lmao
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post 1613008651 08-09-2020, 02:54 AM
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You did the right thing. But in short, sloots gonna sloot, cucks gonna cuck, and there is nothing you can do about it. I have a buddy who got cucked HARD by his ex-wife/mother of his children. Dude is on his second wife and keeps forgiving her even after countless signs she was cucking him over the years and literally catching her in their bed with some guy she continues "talking to" behind his back almost a fkn year later. Dude is a miserable mess because he knows better.

I once jokingly asked him if he's a cuck when he texted me a photo of him, his new wife, and a "close guy friend of hers" that she's definitely banged before early on in their relationship. He responded by giving me a bunch of chit about how he has hot chick friends he'd never bang, so he trusted her. Then all the other chit came to light, to the surprise of no logical person. Oddly enough, this dude prides himself on being logical and red pilled about life, and has the audacity to act like he's in any position to lecture me about my past divorce or women in general. Nothing you can do to help cucks man. Just accept that they love the cuck lifestyle and move on, srs.



Also, here's one other thing to consider about your friend's situation - even if he got a paternity test and it proved it was his kid, he would still be retarded to wife her over the matter. He should take care of the kid if a DNA test proves its his, but all logic still proves the broad he potentially knocked up is a degenetate whore. And we all know she still banged at least one random guy on that "girls trip to Mexico City", let's not be naive fools like your friend about this lol.
post 1613008811 08-09-2020, 03:00 AM
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Your friend is a phucking retard, props to you for looking out for him and having the restraint not to hit him. She cheated on him in front of people in their circle of friends. You really think she'd have any restraint getting pounded out during a girl's trip away when she had a history of cheating, access to a hotel bed and consumed a chitload of alcohol? Think about the debauchery you've seen in clubs and from drunk females and you know what would have happened.

Your mate needs to get a paternity test and to keep his name off any documents until that kid is confirmed to be his. He should be booked in for a lobotomy ASAP.
post 1613009301 08-09-2020, 03:14 AM
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I know some people who don't believe in delivering bad news/truth to a friend. They don't want to ruin all the good times they had and could have with that friend in the future. Pretty selfish if you ask me.

There's a whole "don't shoot the messenger" thing and its true, the messenger always gets shot.

But to me, you can't be a friend, unless you're willing to deliver the bad news. I'd rather burn a whole friendship down to the ground than keep the truth from being told. I might do it directly, or perhaps more indirectly if the guy is not ready for the truth.

But once its delivered, that's it. Don't keep reminding him of it. Instead be the happy-go-lucky friend again that he can relax around and pal around with. And treat the wife as if he's the father.

Hopefully he gets a paternity test. I doubt he's the father if he didn't even cum inside her properly. I agree, based off of my married friends' attempts as couples, its very difficult to get pregnant. But you did say that she was ovulating (weird).

The best way to find out the truth is to confront one of her friends alone, that were on that girls trip. Try to gauge her reaction when you ask if the girlfriend was with another guy that night. However, you shouldn't do this. You've already said your piece and its no longer any of your business anymore. Confronting people would only rustle family. But I think that would be the best way to find out the truth. He would have to be present when you confront the friend though, or else he wouldn't believe you.

Pour one out for your friend. He's gone.
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post 1613009391 08-09-2020, 03:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Am i a right for pointing this out to my friend? (SRS THREAD)
I'm a cliff this...YES

If your friend is trying to blow up his life over a skank, a bro should tell him.
"A stupid man's report of what a clever man says can never be accurate, because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can understand."
post 1613009801 08-09-2020, 03:29 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I just need to see one picture, and then will i decide if i want to bring out the ****storm or simply say fuk it and let them deal with it.
You realize that if it comes down to comparing photos of him to some baby she pops out, he'll almost definitely already have his name as the father on the birth certificate, right? That itself would be a fiasco in court even if a DNA test proved it wasn't his.

The problem is, his entire mentality about this situation is warped. He knows as well as we do that he's being a total cuck for this skank, even if it does turn out to be his kid. Everyone else like her family, his family, and friends know it too. The problem is, people often like to play make-believe in these situations to make themselves feel better about it, because the truth is chitty to think about. Ironically, almost every last one of them would still largely side with the chick if he didn't roll over and be her cuck bitch like he is, and still would to an extent even if a paternity test proved the kid wasn't his.
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