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post 1617481481 09-24-2020, 01:03 PM
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I only feel bad for the ones that wifed up slootmaxxers. The ones with tradwives will be alright.
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Originally Posted By Jdcee⏩
Why would you have to get married?
Because every study ever done on the topic ever shows that kids do better when parents are married than when they're not.
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post 1617481731 09-24-2020, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Jacobcapra⏩
Because every study ever done on the topic ever shows that kids do better when parents are married than when they're not.
BOOM.

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post 1617482241 09-24-2020, 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted By Jdcee⏩
Correlation does not imply causation.

50% of marriages end in divorce. You are going to regret it significantly if your marriage ends, especially if there are children invovled.
And how many non-married couples with children stay together? Spoiler alert, it's less than married couples.

I bet you'll regret that all the same, married or not.
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post 1617482981 09-24-2020, 01:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Jdcee⏩
Why would you have to get married?
So that my kids are not one of those illegitimate bastards who's parents were too beta to commit.
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post 1617483071 09-24-2020, 01:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Gaedj⏩
You lose so much if you divorce your wife.

Even if you get divorced, your life will never ever be the same if you have kids with her.

What possibly made you think it's a good idea to get marriedunless you have no ability to attract hot chicks?
you answered you own question for 96% of men.
post 1617483081 09-24-2020, 01:20 PM
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My options are simple:

-Single for life enjoying freedom

Or

-10/10 girl who fits my criteria. Good person, attractive, good lifestyle


Mediocre or bad relationships are a no go zone, perfect way to ruin your life. Never marry psycho's brahs.
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post 1617483461 09-24-2020, 01:24 PM
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There are plenty of marriages that I’m sure are very happy. That being said, there are a significant amount that get fukked. I’ve seen it from a couple of different angles. Basically only way “the love of your life” isn’t getting rammed by younger chads is if she’s fat or was ugly to begin with.

I have a buddy that was a year older in college, makes roughly $300kish, got married quickly and found himself divorced and without a house he custom designed at the age of 30. He’s still crying over her fukking some younger guy she met at the gym. She’s a solid 7.5-8. He scored a bit out of his range with height, money, and a damn good sense of humor. He’s broken.

Was out with a girl I see every couple of months, some warning flags being that she had several very nice cars, including a Ferrari California T, and was always getting us nice rooms paid in cash at luxury hotels (I put room on my card, she’d hit me with cash after, would usually make up some excuse about forgetting her card, free room for me, and cash back bonus on the cc, lol). I was out with her the week of Valentines Day at an upscale bar and she started getting a little fidgety, pretty soon after a couple women who had been sitting diagonally from the bar got our attention and said “you two look familiar”, girl I’m with blushes and tells her that she probably recognizes her because she owns an AirBnB next to her, woman asks what we’re doing for Valentine’s Day, and mentions something along the lines of me looking taller than last time she saw me, girl I’m with tells them “oh this isn’t my husband”. Asked me later if I needed an explanation and told her not to worry about it.

Quite a few women that are “separated” from their husbands when I ask about their wedding rings, but not worth telling all those stories.

Current smash piece is recentlyish divorced from her ex-husband who owns several businesses, I actually knew who he was before we started hanging out. Her activities to my knowledge consist of yoga, riding horses, Starbucks, and replaying her drunk ex’s voicemails to me for the lulz.

Countless examples, probably one of the lulzier ones is a few years ago I was on a rugby team with a complete chad from Paraguay, he was on their national team and would literally just finger girls in public when we went to the bars. He screeches into practice with a red Porsche 911, one of the younger guys asks him where he stole it from, he says he borrowed it from so and so that he’s been fuking, and someone else called bs and said “there’s no way that bish owns that car”, and the Paraguayan guy just cheekily says “she doesn’t, but her boyfriend does”.

Any woman between the ages of 25-44 that is still a solid 7, plastic snapons, spends an hour a day at the gym, and is getting alimony is getting plowed by an army of chads.
post 1617483611 09-24-2020, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By LovePollution⏩
You're a blue pilled beta. It is the worst possible investment you could make as a western man.
Why do miscers always assume the decision is the worst because they will lose.

Literally no brainpower, confidence or looks to snag someone above your pay grade?
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post 1617483941 09-24-2020, 01:29 PM
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lol at divorce. if you OJ her you dont have to pay anything
post 1617485481 09-24-2020, 01:42 PM
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Marriage is anything but natural. Lol at thinking that getting buttfuked by the law and losing everything you have worked for your entire life is your "sole purpose of existance".


Raising offspring, that i agree with. Sticking with your woman to ensure the development of your offspring, that i agree with. Signing in front of two lawyers and swearing in front of God that you will stay with that woman forever no matter what she does and if you dont you basically lose everything... yeah that is reaching lmao.
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post 1617485911 09-24-2020, 01:45 PM
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Yea because people get married to get divorced, right opie?

Ps: my husband is a pretty lucky dude if I must say so myself.
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post 1617486231 09-24-2020, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By MuzzieChik786⏩
Yea because people get married to get divorced, right opie?
Statistically they do actually.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1617486361 09-24-2020, 01:51 PM
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Marriages have a 100% failure rate...

I’ve been married for 23 years. If you think I’m married to the same women I married 23 years ago, LOL....and I’m not the same guy.

People change and you adapt or die. The marriage you enter is not the same you leave (death or divorce). So ALL of them, from their original format, fail.

The ONLY glue that holds couples together until the end is absolute tenacity no to quit. Anyone telling you it’s a story book is lying or selling something.

My wife and I survive simply because we will it...and we have a load of common beliefs, interest, religion, friends and family...Yet it’s 100% effort to maintain the marriage. That’s FACTS.
post 1617486591 09-24-2020, 01:53 PM
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will just spread my seed at a sperm bank and call it a day
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post 1617486821 09-24-2020, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
Marriages have a 100% failure rate...

I’ve been married for 23 years. If you think I’m married to the same women I married 23 years ago, LOL....and I’m not the same guy.

People change and you adapt or die. The marriage you enter is not the same you leave (death or divorce). So ALL of them, from their original format, fail.

The ONLY glue that holds couples together until the end is absolute tenacity no to quit. Anyone telling you it’s a story book is lying or selling something.
This. I could never live with the same person for decades. Holy fuk
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post 1617487181 09-24-2020, 01:57 PM
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Glad to see the happily married crew represented ITT.

OP and those like him should spend far more time considering their abject misery, and ways to stop living in that misery.
post 1617488671 09-24-2020, 02:14 PM
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post 1617488791 09-24-2020, 02:15 PM
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Ahh divorce, it's an integral part of white people culture lmao

Life wouldn't be complete without a couple of divorces
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Would probably not have got married in the US. If so, only to a woman of similar wealth.
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Originally Posted By MirinCanadian99⏩
Dis lol.

You're a bag of cells that was initially programmed to find the best mate, make babies, and raise them so that they can spread your genes. Everything else is an extra in life. Love is required in a relationship so that both partners stay faithful and can focus their energy on their children. Marriage is simply seen as a way to solidify that bond so that both adults are loyal and make sacrifices for their children. But obviously this is lost upon so many miscers and so many left-wing folks. Who would rather talk about Karl Marx then have kids and raise a healthy family.
Actually for women it’s to have the best combination of genetics passed down to their offspring (aka chads), and then to ensure those offspring survive/live in a fostering environment (aka assets/beta provider).

Why do you think attractive dumb sloots think they can get away with slooting around and then attract some “nice guy”. Single moms are on the daily hunt for this chit.

Also, some bad news...https://www.google.com/amp/s/time.co...ng/%3famp=true
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No one gets married thinking they will get a divorce.
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Married man here and I will steer/warn younger guys not do it unless you have a strong urge to want a family. Anything else and no, avoid it. It's a lot of work, it's probably me but it feels like a second job a lot of the time. There are some benefits but not much else. If it doesn't work I will never get married again.
Its a business that can flourish and make you rich or fail and ruin you for life. Unfortunately just like real businesses it has a very high failure rate.

Sorry but Im not going to sugar coat it and praise it like people do. I'm being real about it from my perspective.
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Originally Posted By MirinCanadian99⏩
Not really. It is evolutionary wise advantageous for a woman to choose one dude and mate with him for the rest of their lives. This recent uptick in females sleeping around is due to poor parenting and an over sexualization of romance.

Let's not compare sloots to normal females.
Didn't you get the redpill memo?
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Originally Posted By MirinCanadian99⏩
Not really. It is evolutionary wise advantageous for a woman to choose one dude and mate with him for the rest of their lives. This recent uptick in females sleeping around is due to poor parenting and an over sexualization of romance.

Let's not compare sloots to normal females.
False.

Sloots can shoot far outside their genetic range for ONS/cumdumpster booty calls than they can for providers.

You’ll get it one day kid, you’re 21. Actually based on your chit tier avi, maybe it’s better you stay in the ignorant bubble. I’m sure you’ll find a nice single mom that loves you for who you are and because you’re kind and take care of her.
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So many married men posting ITT and yet not one single pic of their wives is posted
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if you dont have a kid you dont know what youre missing out on. diapers and crying dont mean **** bro
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
So many married men posting ITT and yet not one single pic of their wives is posted
ex-wife

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Past a certain age, you get zero respect as a man if you aren’t married/have been married previously. Like it or not, it’s ingrained in western culture, and it probably won’t change.

Kind of like the male equivalent of a 40yo+ crazy cat lady, others just lol at you, or think you’re a *******.

Although I feel bad for Ameribrahs, a lot of American women are completely broken and unwifeable
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Wouldnt mind posting a pic but detectives ruin everything.
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