agree man it's pointless

Im a casual lurker, and literally reactivating an old account because I feel like you need to hear this. Im 50 percent sure youre just a troll anyways, but here it goes:

I dont believe that youre putting forth a real effort to move on, and I think it stems from your own insecurity. Ive seen the pics that youve put up of yourself, and honestly bro, youre not a bad looking dude. I f**ing guarantee that if you were to just go outside and approach a few girls everyday you could find another girl like your ex. It seems like youve grown addicted to this negative, self defeating mindset, that has little basis on objective reality. The funny thing is, that the people who subscribe to this belief, and think that only "chads" are able to get girls, usually prove themselves correct, because mindset dictates action. If youre unwilling to even try, whether it be out of fear of rejection etc., youre not going to get anywhere. And let me tell you, if youre not getting rejected, or in broader terms, failing at something, its because youre not trying.

You seem miserable based on your posts. And its ironic because this weak self pitying mindset surely couldnt be making life easier for you, compared to just pushing outside of your comfort zone a little bit. Ive seen the pictures of your ex, and tbh bro, she looks like the typical club sloot. There's plenty of girls like her running around, and the fact that youre so fixated on this one particular girl is ridiculous.

In regards to the overall notion of this thread, if youre not happy being alone, youre not going to be truly happy with someone else either. Having a gf will just act like a temporary bandaid, and you'll probs be even worse off when it ends.

Anyways, I only made this post because I hate seeing people limit themselves, and I dont want this bull**** negative attitude to infect the minds of others.

Lol whose alt are you?

Thanks though, i'm over my ex and no longer feel obsessed about her social media or have feelings/care for her but the problem is it's pretty much over for me i'm balding and a manlet
look at my ****ing matches on tinder



absolute **** show man


My ex was a once in a life time thing, she was sexy, cute, 6/10 nice ass, wanted me to do all these porn things with her, we could of have this great relationship but i acted like a beta/autistic so she lost attraction and left.

I talk to slots on tinder and they don't even compare to her, i meet up and smash a few but

a) they aren't as good as my ex
b) they don't even have the personality to make up for it

so i pretty much gave up and LDAR mode . meeting new women is just depressing coz they aren't her.

[btw i didn't super like that sloot with glasses msut of been a mistake]

You can but your mental health may not be good

Pretty sure the likes of bill gates and mark zuckerburg were incels when they made their breakthroughs along with many other scientists and successful people

bump sometimes i jus dont want to lift on this planet anymore

Whats weird is im a decent looking guy without a romantic life but 95% of dudes i know are happy banging obese wives or like a 5/10 has a hot wife

I just don't get this clown world. I've only felt love for maybe a year max. Like this isn't normal.

OP has a point tbh. You can have a loving family, great friends/social life, have a well paying job that you love but if you're not consistently getting laid or in a relationship you'll always feel like something is missing.

Sex/intimacy is an instinct that humans crave, without it most people become lonlely and depressed.

Im not an alt, I had this account when I was in Highschool and I used to lose my **** laughing in class, reading some of the threads back in the day. I started lurking again recently and I came across some of your threads, and they depressed the f**k out of me because I feel like a lot of your limitations have been self imposed.

I would be careful using an online dating platform like Tinder to gauge what sort of league you're in with women, because that set up HEAVILY favors females. From my experience, if youre getting matches with 4-5/10s on online dating, that probably translates more to 6-7/10s in a real life scenario. Which hey, look at that, thats exactly about what your ex was. Im gonna be bold and go out on a limb here, and say that your ex probably wasnt as "once in a lifetime" as you believe. Dont get me wrong, if you truly believe that about her, and only put in some half ass effort of meeting woman using online platforms, Im sure you'll prove yourself correct. But I dont think that perspective is the best interpretation of reality.

I hate the manlet excuse, one of my best mates is a legit 5,5 in shoes, and has never had an issue getting pussy. He currently has a pretty cute gf that hes been with for a couple of years now. He's not bad looking, but he's not particularly rich or aesthetic either. I think height does limit your options somewhat, but I believe the insecurity of it amplifies the true effect of it. There is currently the largest pool of women, ever throughout history, and youre trying to convince me that you cant find someone similar, or even better than your ex? Give me a break, I dont think youve really tried that hard, and it has to do with your mentality. If you give up and rot, all of your misguided conceptions about things will manifest themselves in reality, and youre going to end up bitter af. And s**t, while you were sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself, you mightve missed the opportunity to meet another person that you couldve had a real connection with.

One last thing, I wouldnt be so hard on yourself about your ex cheating, leaving or whatever. It probably wasnt to do with you bro, women these days just have a short attention span. And honestly, with social media and everything else, theyre almost being socially engineered to be that way, and constantly seek attention/validation. Also, people arent as naturally monogamous as traditional ideas would lead you to believe. Dont take that s**t to heart, even "chads" get cheated on.

fkn dying over that tradie pic