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post 1619416511 10-15-2020, 06:22 AM
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I used to intentionally not park in the closest space on first dates - if she complained, huge red flag.
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post 1619418781 10-15-2020, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted By wave_length
entitled
humorless
kids from another man
divorced
vegan or vegetarian
overweight
broke
no female friends
excessive social media
non blonde
flat butt
dresses like a hobo
dresses like a ho
no manners
can’t cook
can't dance
doesn't read books
disrespectful
unloyal
expects the man to pay
unreliable
lazy
high maintenance
fuucking this and also to extrapolate a bit, financial literacy grows more and more important by the day.
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x
fuucking this and also to extrapolate a bit, financial literacy grows more and more important by the day.
That's why I put in broke. In today's world, if you're not broke, you're already way ahead of the curve.
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post 1619419601 10-15-2020, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted By wave_length
That's why I put in broke. In today's world, if you're not broke, you're already way ahead of the curve.
just wanted to emphasize. i meet so many girls nowadays who are broke as fuuck and have zero financial sense. girl i'm banging now is broke as fuuck and her money burns an enormous hole in her pocket and i just tell her to figure it out, kinda waiting to see if she comes around to understanding a simple budget. hasn't happened yet. every girl I have met after about 23 years old is a financial retard.
post 1619420261 10-15-2020, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x
just wanted to emphasize. i meet so many girls nowadays who are broke as fuuck and have zero financial sense. girl i'm banging now is broke as fuuck and her money burns an enormous hole in her pocket and i just tell her to figure it out, kinda waiting to see if she comes around to understanding a simple budget. hasn't happened yet. every girl I have met after about 23 years old is a financial retard.
No doubt but to be fair, most guys are the same.
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As an old man every single divorce I've seen that was the womens fault ties back to one trait...

She was a taker and not a giver.

If you are in a relationship and she is always taking and never giving - RUN. Many things will change over the course of your relationship for both of you. A persons core character doesnt change, however. If she is a taker, she will always take. They take because they feel they deserve it and thats a huge issue.....

Sooner or later you will get tired of giving and never having your needs met. The relationship will end or you will end up staying in it "For the kids"...
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In no particular order

- Has a history of mental breakdowns/therapy
- Incurable STD
- Smokes cigarettes
- Has no friends
- Needs to be with you at all times
- Lacks basic common sense
- Terrible spelling/grammar
- Only friends with guys
- Hates her family
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Some of my personal ones

Hates Trump
Uses those stupid face filters
Selfies
Poor eating
Not intellectual
Poor listener
Materialistic
Bad with money
Lots of make up
Plastic surgery
Is a typical modern female
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most of these women live in seattle ,bay area, portland, maybe nyc? oh and la, its a gold mine.
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This thread is once a week, but will give some lesser known ones. We all know the obvious (has a kid from another relationship, divorced young, etc). Here are mine:

- Social media is ok, using it daily is a big no no. Every girl that has a instagram and snapchat that has to make multiple stories or updates a week has issues. Every single one. Get someone that doesnt live for validation of others.

- vices. We all have them. If she is a smoker she is automatically trash. If she gets drunk and goes out to bars past midnight on a weekly basis then she isn't relationship material. If she doesnt eat healthy and cant cook aka a grown child then that weight gain will eventually hit her, also a red flag

- relationship with family. Low bar, but if she cant get along with siblings or parents then likely has issues on her end.

- tattoos - not always the case but generally illustrates poor short term thinking as well as masculine traits

- spending habits. What's her job/income and what's her lifestyle. A relationship with a woman who lives expensively will eventually ruin you
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr
As an old man every single divorce I've seen that was the womens fault ties back to one trait...

She was a taker and not a giver.

If you are in a relationship and she is always taking and never giving - RUN. Many things will change over the course of your relationship for both of you. A persons core character doesnt change, however. If she is a taker, she will always take. They take because they feel they deserve it and thats a huge issue.....

Sooner or later you will get tired of giving and never having your needs met. The relationship will end or you will end up staying in it "For the kids"...
This. They tout then independent cars all of the time they can help pay for chit.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
For me its how they treat other people;


If theyre rude about short/bald/unattractive men I know theyre shallow

If theyre rude/condescending to waitresses etc I know they are stuck up egotistical

If theyre bitching/arguing with people often, I know they are the problem

If they dont show any emotion to those struggling/suffering, I know they lack empathy


Get you a girl thats nice to everyone and thats easy to like and get on with, those are the genuine good ones.
Best post ITT, solid and real advice, srs.
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Originally Posted By savageoldman
banged heaps of blokes

its crazy how some cucks just say the past is the past

I remember people telling me I would grow out of that - I never did even as an old man I would never wife an ex haram
Strong this.

Didn't accept LTRs with sloots when I was 19, best friend told me "it's because you're inexperienced".

38 now. Nope, it's still the same.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
For me its how they treat other people;


If theyre rude about short/bald/unattractive men I know theyre shallow

If theyre rude/condescending to waitresses etc I know they are stuck up egotistical

If theyre bitching/arguing with people often, I know they are the problem

If they dont show any emotion to those struggling/suffering, I know they lack empathy


Get you a girl thats nice to everyone and thats easy to like and get on with, those are the genuine good ones.
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Originally Posted By LukeS1
For me its how they treat other people;


If theyre rude about short/bald/unattractive men I know theyre shallow

If theyre rude/condescending to waitresses etc I know they are stuck up egotistical

If theyre bitching/arguing with people often, I know they are the problem

If they dont show any emotion to those struggling/suffering, I know they lack empathy


Get you a girl thats nice to everyone and thats easy to like and get on with, those are the genuine good ones.
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If she's mentally unstable, thrives on drama, or has a sob story, then she's not relationship material.
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If she’s rude to hourly workers, likes horses, overdrafts her bank account, or has a broken phone screen
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she never farts or poops.
can’t gain weight quickly
has never kicked someone in the balls before
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- OBSCURE ONES -

- Id say if she is unmarried/not in a long term relationship by 30 there is a reason

- emotional weakness(not the "im insecure!")("raped" jsut leave immed)

- posting pics with family's kids that aren't hers(something i've noticed), feel like this is attention whoring to show she isn't worthless and is "family oriented" srs

- going out way too much without any hobbies or doing anything worthy

- friends are all sloots, "girls night out" will turn into her being pressured to bang chad
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Tattoos
Septum Piercing
Coming from a bad family
Playing games constantly
Is woke and following the main stream narrative

so basically 80% of women are un-dateable
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Let’s see, my ex had tramp stamp, heel tattoo, back shoulder tattoo, pierced nipples and clit, bolt on teds, constantly changing hair color (nothing crazy but from brunette to black, light brown, etc.), had all slooty friends, worked as a bar manager and drank after shift, started off as a side chick and stuck around while I was sleeping with other girls until she got rid of all of them, controlling, didn’t cook, didn’t iron my work clothes, loser ex husband, heavy drinker, bi-polar, took orange juice for figure competitions, now she’s living with some ex-military retiree, and doesn’t work after getting fired living off his pension, lmao.

There was one time she asked me what I wanted for dinner from her work, I told her anything was fine, she asked me to bring over rolling papers and a specific brand of wine, I couldn’t find rolling papers or that wine so I bought blunt wraps and a nicer wine of the same style (cab). When I got to her place she had a full on mental break down screaming “why do you do this to me”, asked her if she had brought back dinner and she told me “no, maybe if you would have brought back what I asked I would have gotten you dinner”, I bounce, then she starts sending nudes trying to get me to come back. These kinds of events were literally daily.

Sometimes the sex really just is that good, smh.

It was a fukking train wreck.
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Rides/Owns Horses
Talks/Rambles ALOT
Jealous tendencies
Obsessed with Social media
Obsessed with their looks
Botox Injections/Lip Fillers
Tons of Tats
Says "Doggo"

I met a girl a few months ago who lived in a giant fuking mansion by herself... she was some sort of massage therapist. My guess is she had a side hustle like only fans or some chit. Mid 20's, big ass teds, got botox injections all the time, wanted to do anal on the first night, etc. If i were a younger man and hadn't already spent 1.5 years of my life with a girl with similar traits who ended up being BPD, i would have been head over heels. Some might call me a ******* but when she was ready to fuk after our first few hours of meeting, i noped out of there quickly and never saw her again. Learn the signs and symptoms before they suck you into their vortex boys. The juice is not worth the squeeze. Search for a wholesome girl...they might not look the best but that can be worked on. Wholesome girl with good genes who is trainable is WAYY better than a sloot who will let you hit within the first 2 hours of meeting. This advice is for guys who want a real nice girl, and a LTR...not a one night hit and quit obviously.
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Originally Posted By Jms89
Says "Doggo"
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Every girl will have a red flag.

It's all about you and what you will tolerate.

Expect nothing.
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Originally Posted By Anorexilla
If they seek attention from other guys. Seriously.

In 2016 I got into a relationship which turned into an abusive relationship because I was too stupid and desperate to accept the fact that the girl I was seeing was absolute trash.

It started with her saying that some guy on ******** had texted her and called her cute. I asked to see the text and she quickly deleted the conversation. I then told her I could just go on the guy's profile and see the texts there, at which point she grabbed the phone from my hand and got upset because "I didn't trust her".

Seriously, if I had just ended the relationship right there, everything would have been fine. But I was too much of a spineless and desperate cuck that I forgave her no matter how many times she did stuff like that. It ended up with her actually cheating multiple times and ruining my life.

Cliffs:
If your attention isn't enough for her, DUMP HER ASAP.
If your woman ever accuses you of being "insecure" and gets mad at you for "not trusting her", 90%+ of the time they are hiding something. More often than not, those types of insults/accuations are about her deflecting trashy behaviors on her part by bagging on a guy who dares to question sketchy chit she does.
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Originally Posted By aleeboy
Quality post bro.

Lots of truths in it. I can certainly say that almost 100% of girls that work cheat. It’s that simple. Girls who travel for work are traveling with the person who determines their salary and bonus as well as gives the nod for any promotions.

Just lol at guys with heads in the sand. I’ve turned down many many thirsty office girls in my time. Srs
Tons of married/LTR girls I work with will pretty shamelessly flirt hardcore with other men at work. Easily over 50% of them.
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10
in no particular order

tattoos
piercings apart from the ear
coloured hair
smoking
drinking in excess
curses frequently
can't cook
lots of male friends
lies frequently (everyone lies)
manipulative
is secretive over their phone
can't drive
expects you to pay all the time
doesn't put out on demand
is a starfish in bed
poor nutrition
doesn't workout
poor hygiene
doesn't have the desire to improve herself every day
has no thirst for knowledge

i could list more but that's a start
i'd say most women in 2020 have at least half of that list
I see, single for life then eh? Bold decision.
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Likes to talk about themselves too much. When everything is "I" "me" "my". Just their whole convo centered around themselves. Gives a good indication that they may be self absorbed and don't spend much time thinking about other people's feelings.
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