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post 1620069241 10-21-2020, 11:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Legendsneverdie
most likely cause he is engaged. this happens alot man. how old are you? bros always disappear when the marriage reaper calls their name
We’re both 25

It’s funny cause his ass was beggin to chill when his other sloot gf dumped him last year

He since then met this 38 year old hoop earring wearing Asian girl who divorced her ex husband for a green card(lmao)

Now my friend got engaged to this ho after like 8 months..(strong wtf)

I’m still shocked that the dude proposed to this sloot.. idc it ain’t my business but still wtf. He used to laugh at married dudes lmfao.
post 1620069591 10-21-2020, 11:12 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten
We’re both 25

It’s funny cause his ass was beggin to chill when his other sloot gf dumped him last year

He since then met this 38 year old hoop earring wearing Asian girl who divorced her ex husband for a green card(lmao)

Now my friend got engaged to this ho after like 8 months..(strong wtf)

I’m still shocked that the dude proposed to this sloot.. idc it ain’t my business but still wtf. He used to laugh at married dudes lmfao.
yep she got him nailed down. she's probably manipulating him too. i d just stay away for now man.
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post 1620075871 10-22-2020, 02:09 AM
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post 1620076111 10-22-2020, 02:21 AM
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post 1620077211 10-22-2020, 03:04 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten
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Not gonna lie. Read the backstory from your other thread.


Its pretty obvious he doesn't wanna hangout. On that note. You also sound like a **** friend as youve ****-talked him repeatedly in these two threads; All the while trying to defend your position.

Make some new friends or learn how to be independent. Many of my friends are married, have kids, or have other pressing priorities. Im not gonna throw out ultimatums bc they dont respond to a message.





You're 25years old?
Maybe its time to grow up a little bit.







Edit: In all honesty you come off as insecure and immature. And I wouldn't want to be your friend either.
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post 1620077241 10-22-2020, 03:08 AM
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Originally Posted By Dennis71
Not gonna lie. Read the backstory from your other thread.


Its pretty obvious he doesn't wanna hangout. On that note. You also sound like a **** friend as youve ****-talked him repeatedly in these two threads; All the while trying to defend your position.

Make some new friends or learn how to be independent. Many of my friends are married, have kids, or have other pressing priorities. Im not gonna throw out ultimatums bc they dont respond to a message.





You're 25years old?
Maybe its time to grow up a little bit.







Edit: In all honesty you come off as insecure and immature. And I wouldn't want to be your friend either.
How have I chit talked him? By saying he’s marrying a post wall sloot who divorced her ex for a green card? That’s talkin chit..?

I ain’t do chit

Define “grow up” ? Lmfao at throwing this vague ass words around

I also never threw out an ultimatum
post 1620077491 10-22-2020, 03:21 AM
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Doesnt sound like your classic energy vampire to me. With those dudes you just wanna to hang in there and be there for them on their terms (its usually depression related).

This sounds like a social butterfly type who found a new group of friends and moved on.
Ive had friends like that. It sucks i know, but dont burn any bridges because youll still be boys when you meet up, and you will carry that negativity with you.

Just like when women ghost you - NC and keep it moving.

All the best bro!
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post 1620077561 10-22-2020, 03:23 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten
How have I chit talked him? By saying he’s marrying a post wall sloot who divorced her ex for a green card? That’s talkin chit..?

I ain’t do chit

Define “grow up” ? Lmfao at throwing this vague ass words around

I also never threw out an ultimatum
Holy hell you must be dense.

Goodluck making friends in your future. It's looking bleak for you.
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post 1620077611 10-22-2020, 03:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Dennis71
Holy hell you must be dense.

Goodluck making friends in your future. It's looking bleak for you.
Lmfao. Are you some salty beta provider who got married or somethin?

Literally EXPLAIN what you mean by “grow up” ****in lmfao. Cause I have no clue what you’re on about

If growing up means getting married and becoming a beta provider I’m good brah

Not everyone wants that cuked lifestyle
post 1620077811 10-22-2020, 03:34 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten
Lmfao. Are you some salty beta provider who got married or somethin?

Literally EXPLAIN what you mean by “grow up” ****in lmfao.

If growing up means getting married and becoming a beta provider I’m good brah

Not everyone wants that cuked lifestyle
Look at how upset you're getting over a comment on a forum. Get a handle on your emotions pal.
You come for suggestions, dont like said suggestions and get aggro. No wonder your friends dont reply to your texts.








Not married. No kids. But good try with that, maybe you'll think of something better next time?
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post 1620077911 10-22-2020, 03:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Dennis71
Look at how upset you're getting over a comment on a forum. Get a handle on your emotions pal.
You come for suggestions, dont like said suggestions and get aggro. No wonder your friends dont reply to your texts.








Not married. No kids. But good try with that, maybe you'll think of something better next time?
Sayin “grow up/immature” and givin no context is literally useless to me. I have no idea what you mean by that. I’m just bein real
post 1620078211 10-22-2020, 03:51 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten
Sayin “grow up/immature” and givin no context is literally useless to me. I have no idea what you mean by that. I’m just bein real
You just sound hypersensitive brother [srs] you're taking everything as an insult.
You get extremely defensive over every comment. Shows just a general lack of confidence and maturity.


The problem with growing up or becoming more mature is that it just takes time and experience.


If your friend hadnt responded in a while you could have easily just said something like:

"Hey man havent heard from you in a while, hope your doing good, lets link up sometime. Gym maybe?"


See how different of a response that couldve garnered than the "... this is my last time bro" text?

If he never reaches back out after a simple friendly text like that, let him go. You'll learn most people drop friendships AT AN INSTANT for things such as work, relationships, ect.


It sucks. I know. But dont take it personal.
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post 1620078371 10-22-2020, 03:57 AM
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post 1620078451 10-22-2020, 04:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Dennis71
You just sound hypersensitive brother [srs] you're taking everything as an insult.
You get extremely defensive over every comment. Shows just a general lack of confidence and maturity.


The problem with growing up or becoming more mature is that it just takes time and experience.


If your friend hadnt responded in a while you could have easily just said something like:

"Hey man havent heard from you in a while, hope your doing good, lets link up sometime. Gym maybe?"


See how different of a response that couldve garnered than the "... this is my last time bro" text?

If he never reaches back out after a simple friendly text like that, let him go. You'll learn most people drop friendships AT AN INSTANT for things such as work, relationships, ect.


It sucks. I know. But dont take it personal.
Thanks man. This means more than just sayin “grow up” lol

And ye I see what you mean. But I’ve asked like 5 times and I already said “it’s been a long time” before. so I think sendin “this is the last time I ask” is the right choice

https://ibb.co/F0RYKqL(mutual friend who chit talked would call my house and order pizza/harass me cause I chit talked him back)

https://ibb.co/NTVdyRW
https://ibb.co/TMmngK3
https://ibb.co/2383VQk
https://ibb.co/SBtc6Hr

Also this was the convo before. I kinda messed up once I forgot the day we was ganna chill

Look man, The reason why it’s ****in my ego up is cause we were all in a friend group chat online. All 3 of us, and our mutual friend just kept chit talking me and calling me small and chit and telling me “what’s the matter I shattered your confidence?”

The mutual friend was saying chit like “you give your life to gym to look like that?” (Meanwhile the guy is 20% body fat and looks like chit)

I then just lost frame and said a bunch of dumb chit while the friend that’s ignoring me now saw that.

I literally can’t tell if it’s cause of that and I said somethin that made him lose respect for me, or cause I messed up the days, or cause he’s just a fukin psycho energy vampire who fuels off these power games and wants to see me lose gains and lower my status, or cause he got engaged.

You can even see in the text the moment I texted when I fought with that other friend who was talking chit
post 1620078491 10-22-2020, 04:01 AM
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Why is OP still allowed to make threads.
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post 1620078771 10-22-2020, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted By gesten
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My man. Let him go. If he ever decides to message you or hits you up you can reevaluate your friendship at that time.
You'll learn as you get older most friends only start coming back around when they're single again.

I see some of my best friends 2-3× a year.
And also talk/text sparsely. No big deal.




In reality. If they were calling you small, you should just focus on getting big af and finding a friend whos gonna push you than friends who dont reply and call you a small *******


Dont hold onto friendships just because.
Hold onto friendships bc you genuinely value that friendship. People change as they get older.
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post 1620079011 10-22-2020, 04:19 AM
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Holy chit you sound like a fuking moron srs

Go back to talking about your dick at least that fits your potato personality

You legit make T529 look smart
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Originally Posted By BustaCapp
Why is OP still allowed to make threads.
Will neg off r/c srs
post 1620081681 10-22-2020, 05:36 AM
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y u aint wana chill bra real talk.

How old are you again?
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You write like a fuktard.

I have to read your sentences out loud in order for them to make sense.

What does that tell you? Your boy probably doesn’t want to be friends with a semi-illiterate.
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post 1620186311 10-22-2020, 11:10 PM
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Update:


dude ain’t even reply but posted insta stories. It’s almost as if he’s tryin to piss me off or some chit and wants me to know he’s ignoring me..?

I can’t tell if he’s feeding off this energy or what

Should I just forget bout this dude for life and his wierd ass games?( if he’s playin a game?) would a real friend have replied to that?

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Originally Posted By gesten
Update:


dude ain’t even reply but posted insta stories. It’s almost as if he’s tryin to piss me off or some chit and wants me to know he’s ignoring me..?

I can’t tell if he’s feeding off this energy or what

Should I just forget bout this dude for life and his wierd ass games?( if he’s playin a game?) would a real friend have replied to that?

https://ibb.co/DMrS3sk
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He has moved on with his life without you in it, op. Maybe you should do the same.
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People rarely communicate what’s going on and the reasons for distancing themselves from people they once considered good friends

You just sound like a dude with no one else to vibe with. Likely because they got tired of you telling them relationships are a waste of time, big dick energy is all that matters, etc
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Originally Posted By Rajc
the bitch is the reason bro men are weak nowadays

move on
a man changes, and love changes and best friends become strangers

also zero reason to live in a small town while you are young, move out expeditiously you are cucking yourself
Would move out to the city but can’t atm so I mite just try hit up old friends to lift wit me and do fun chit. Idk if that’s wierd though lmao.. haven’t spoken to one dude in like 4 years

Also what do u mean by “the bitch is the reason bro men are weak” ? Are u sayin dude is tryin bring me down? Cause I ain’t normally like this
post 1620190331 10-23-2020, 12:38 AM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta
People rarely communicate what’s going on and the reasons for distancing themselves from people they once considered good friends

You just sound like a dude with no one else to vibe with. Likely because they got tired of you telling them relationships are a waste of time, big dick energy is all that matters, etc
Ur right I need a tribe.

And Honestly idk about that. Even though me and him got opposing views on ltrs he still cheats on his girl and chit lol and has semi red pilled views

Used to always meet alpha af dudes in the sauna where we always just talk the chit. No homo, But my sauna only allows 1 person at a time now from corona.

Literally mite just approach some random clique in the gym. I’m good at approaching one on one strangers though
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