I met a girl at a club through my friends. We hooked up on the dancefloor then went home.

We made out further on the couch and I fondle her tits. She asks me if I want to do it.

I reply with "do what?". She kisses me then gets up and leaves. Drives herself home.

6 years prior to meeting my gf I met her at a big festival/party walking alone. We said hi and was was very nice, but I was about to meet her friend so I kept walking without acknowledging much more.

Basically if I stopped and acknowledged her more at the time maybe we could be together at a earlier time. Now we're 26 y/o.

Had great times with others in the mean time, but in hindsight it's all vague memories that don't mean anything and I wish we spent that time together ourselves from the get go.



Otherwise, have skipped on plenty of hookups for w/e reason but that doesn't matter.


Lesson: don't focus for a second on girls you don't want to wife up, as it shifts your focus and can distract you from the ones you do even if they are right in front of you

Thanks for ruining the pretend No Nut November I am trying to do.

Too many to mention.

Never had an opportunity with a girl. They've never shown any interest or attraction to me.

I was in high school and still a virgin. I lived in a small rural town in Ohio. The girl that lived across the street from me was super hot. Always tanning and had DDs.

Somehow she got a crush on me. I used to pick her up from tanning and she'd always show me her tan lines.

One day she was at my house and we were watching a movie in my room. She took her top off and laid her head in my lap.

I didn't do anything. Sat and watched the movie as she laid there.

Lol at me

Went to a house party in high school with my friend. Was supposed to be a "girls night out" thing, so it was just me, my friend, and like 20 girls. My 16-year-old oneitis was present at the party. I was super nervous and got really drunk right away.

As I am getting drunk, I overhear my friend tell my oneitis that I have a huge crush on her. Played it off like I didn't hear anything. As the night progressed, I ended up going into an empty bedroom by myself to lay down because of how intoxicated I was. Oneitis comes into the bedroom, locks the door behind her, and climbs into bed with me. Starts cuddling with me and running her hands through my hair, and I am just laying there frozen, like a corpse. She is laying on her side looking at me, and I am laying on my back staring straight at the ceiling. She lays with me and talks to me for about 20 minutes and I barely respond, just laying there comatose like "is this real life?" After about 20 minutes of me being a pussy, she left the bedroom, and then ignored me when I saw her the next morning.

My life would have gone down a very different path if I had smashed that night.

lmao this, guess it's the way of life

Lol I don't even want to think about it.

So many sloots basically threw themselves at a young Nilla, but he was too unaware to even know what was going on. I feel like that's a normal part of growing up for any man though.

the hottest girl I went out with.. she tells me she is a virgin and never kissed a guy etc..
we go on a coffee date and everything is great..
I start to joke with her in text and send her cringe stuff like "what if I took your virginity lol" and she didnt get scared off or anything and said haha, we will see

she proceeds to come over for netflix and chill 3 seperate visit and I dont make a move or even put my arm around her while she sits through a whole movie each visit.
Only hugged when she left each time.
The 3rd time.. she leaves and never texts me back..

still fantasize what it would have been like. She was blonde and slim like a model and lived really close too.. hATE my life

Omfg

Had a total crush on this smoking hot girl in university. All my friends wanted her, but for some reason she chose me to go out with. We went on one date and I was my usual awkward as hell self at that stage of my life. Guess she thought it was cute.

Cute enough to invite me to her place to "watch a movie". Now, at this point in my life I had ZERO game and was nervous as hell just to be alone with her.

We had a couple of drinks, climbed into her bed and started watching some dumb TV show. I didn't make a move because I was scared to. She literally changed into something that barely covered her and climbed into bed with me again. Still nothing. Looking back on it I punch myself in the face. She climbed on top of me and we finally started making out but that was all I would do. Couldn't even touch her because I was freaking out.

Literally had a smoking hot girl begging me to bang her and didn't.

After a little bit of my still doing nothing she ended up saying she had to get up and I had to go. Funny enough, two days later she went cold and that was that. I think back and just cringe at myself.

one time this chick was blowing me in the bathroom at this party, my dick was hard as a fukkn diamond and the chick said 'stick it in my ass daddy' (figuratively for sex) and i literally busted right there all over her clothes. she got pissed and i didnt get her number

could've fukd like a few more times after probably. pretty big loss in my books