Log In

Your email is not your username

Register

If you were a member of the old Bodybuilding.com forums and would like to reuse your previous username, you can request it below. We use your email only for registration and do not store it. For more information, please see our Privacy Policy.

Confirm your email

A registration code was sent to your email. Enter it here.

Welcome

You have successfully setup your account.

Sign in

Quick Navigation Bottom Misc
Forum » Being a bachelor your whole life
  1. Results 31 to 60 of 92
  2. Page 2 of 4
  3. First
  5. 1
  6. 2
  7. 3
  8. 4
  10. Last

Thread: Being a bachelor your whole life

post 1623459771 11-23-2020, 10:01 AM
-
#31
  1. Kev1972
  2. Registered User
  1. Kev1972
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2013
  4. Location: Big Arm, Montana, United States
  5. Posts: 49,924
  6. Rep Power: 287644
Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
My favorite is the "muh hobbies" cope. These fools assume that a) their hobbies will always be the most important thing in their lives and b) that they'll forever be able to physically do those hobbies. Brb. Going rock climbing, skateboarding, surfing, mountain biking, backpacking across the world at 60+ years of age. Delusions of piss.
Motorcycle crew
Army veteran crew
One Meal a day crew
post 1623460281 11-23-2020, 10:06 AM
-
#32
  1. JoeDelts
  2. Registered User
  1. JoeDelts
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2018
  4. Age: 52
  5. Posts: 13,120
  6. Rep Power: 134131
Originally Posted By Kev1972⏩
I forgot to put Inb4 Tony Hawk

But yeah those 0.01% extreme outliers will definitely be every miscer in the "muh hobbies" crew.
post 1623463041 11-23-2020, 10:35 AM
-
#33
  1. OneLegSquats
  2. Registered User
  1. OneLegSquats
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jul 2018
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 26,031
  6. Rep Power: 118538
Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
imagine being like 60 though and still single, your options are terrible.

yeah you could be married to an ugly un****able sloot your same age since highschool but atleast it would be your lifelong companion and someone you trust. Imagine being 60 and trying to find old un****able ladies to hang out with that have grandkids and chit. That is why so many of them just say fuk it and go whoremax in asia. Whoremax until your health gives out and knew you had a good run.
Men can do just the same. I cant wait to be 60 and banging 21 year old 10/10 ladyboys in Thailand while spending my pension on incredible holidays and hotels
post 1623463301 11-23-2020, 10:38 AM
-
#34
  1. meanstringbean
  2. Registered User
  1. meanstringbean
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 11,550
  6. Rep Power: 58418
Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
My favorite is the "muh hobbies" cope. These fools assume that a) their hobbies will always be the most important thing in their lives and b) that they'll forever be able to physically do those hobbies. Brb. Going rock climbing, skateboarding, surfing, mountain biking, backpacking across the world at 60+ years of age. Delusions of piss.
At 60+ you can still hike, ski, do low contact sports (tennis, golf, pickle ball, volleyball).

Just lol at rotting
post 1623463571 11-23-2020, 10:42 AM
-
#35
  1. jackamo2887
  2. BEATINGU
  1. jackamo2887
  2. BEATINGU
  3. Join Date: Oct 2007
  4. Posts: 29,617
  5. Rep Power: 146835
If you're a miserable person, you'll be a miserable person with or without a wife and kids.

Same goes for being happy.
Survival. When the jungle tears itself down and builds itself into something new. Guys like you and me, we end up dead. Doesn’t really mean anything. Or, if we happen to live through it, well that doesn’t mean anything either.
post 1623463701 11-23-2020, 10:43 AM
-
#36
  1. Hutrapper
  2. Registered User
  1. Hutrapper
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 19,738
  6. Subscribers: 1
  7. Rep Power: 249353
Being a bachelor sucks.

I was one for like, 16 years.
See BrianDaMans sig.

Rep SoapKing on sight crew.
Semi tradie crew
lol@tradies crew
Certified HTC
post 1623463911 11-23-2020, 10:46 AM
-
#37
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2011
  4. Posts: 22,168
  5. Rep Power: 383523
Miscers: "it's so unfair how our demographic numbers in the West are dwindling rapidly. traditional conservative Western lifestyle is dying! this is a genocide by the elites! someone must do something about this to save our culture!"

Also Miscers: "lol fuk having kids im never reproducing or getting married and living a traditional Western conservative lifestyle i'll be screwing tinder sloots and thai ladybois until im 60!"

post 1623463931 11-23-2020, 10:47 AM
-
#38
  1. Hutrapper
  2. Registered User
  1. Hutrapper
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 19,738
  6. Subscribers: 1
  7. Rep Power: 249353
Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
until im 60!"
then find 10/10 rounded elbow Hbb and procreate.
See BrianDaMans sig.

Rep SoapKing on sight crew.
Semi tradie crew
lol@tradies crew
Certified HTC
post 1623464141 11-23-2020, 10:50 AM
-
#39
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2011
  4. Posts: 22,168
  5. Rep Power: 383523
Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
then find 10/10 rounded elbow Hbb and procreate.
lmao yup a lot of miscers are delusional about that too. 99% of men who couldn't get a hot 20 year old in your 20s/30s will not get one in your 50s unless you're loaded and straight up paying for it at that point

but the whole "20 year old women are attracted to 50 year old mature men" is a meme. they're attracted to the money sure if you have it
post 1623465031 11-23-2020, 10:59 AM
-
#40
  1. Dirtylocks
  2. Banned
  1. Dirtylocks
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: Aug 2009
  4. Posts: 7,067
  5. Rep Power: 0
Here's something to think about.

One of the loneliest feelings you can have is being in a relationship/marriage where everyone you know perceives you to be happily together with your partner but in actuality you feel trapped.
post 1623465331 11-23-2020, 11:03 AM
-
#41
  1. MuslimBrahSwag
  2. Banned
  1. MuslimBrahSwag
  2. Banned
  3. Join Date: May 2020
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 2,491
  6. Rep Power: 0
You dont have to "die lonely"

You can always adopt a kid and raise him by yourself and give him more love than you would to anyone else.

Without marrying a dumb sl00t whose going to cheat on you, isnt a virgin, etc.
post 1623465481 11-23-2020, 11:04 AM
-
#42
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 2,728
  6. Rep Power: 2505
More to life than sex with different women.

It's sad that many of you have given up on settling down and raising a family. Many of you will grow old and regret these things.
Just Bleed

Interstellar Crew

Married Crew
post 1623465671 11-23-2020, 11:06 AM
-
#43
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2011
  4. Posts: 22,168
  5. Rep Power: 383523
Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy⏩
More to life than sex with different women.

It's sad that many of you have given up on settling down and raising a family. Many of you will grow old and regret these things.
they will be lonely old men crying online about how it's the libruls and soros and immigrants fault they didnt reproduce and how they are victims of a "genocide"
post 1623466011 11-23-2020, 11:10 AM
-
#44
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 2,728
  6. Rep Power: 2505
Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
they will be lonely old men crying online about how it's the libruls and soros and immigrants fault they didnt reproduce and how they are victims of a "genocide"
True dat playa.

Misc is a sad place nowadays. Full of FAs coping with insecurities.
Just Bleed

Interstellar Crew

Married Crew
post 1623466051 11-23-2020, 11:11 AM
-
#45
  1. Hutrapper
  2. Registered User
  1. Hutrapper
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Mar 2019
  4. Age: 56
  5. Posts: 19,738
  6. Subscribers: 1
  7. Rep Power: 249353
Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy⏩
More to life than sex with different women.
While I mire join date, I am curious how you lasted so long here with that attitude.

Edit: I mean, I agree completely, but still wonder...
See BrianDaMans sig.

Rep SoapKing on sight crew.
Semi tradie crew
lol@tradies crew
Certified HTC
post 1623466441 11-23-2020, 11:15 AM
-
#46
  1. JoeDelts
  2. Registered User
  1. JoeDelts
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jan 2018
  4. Age: 52
  5. Posts: 13,120
  6. Rep Power: 134131
Originally Posted By MuslimBrahSwag⏩
You dont have to "die lonely"

You can always adopt a kid and raise him by yourself and give him more love than you would to anyone else.

Without marrying a dumb sl00t whose going to cheat on you, isnt a virgin, etc.
Oh yeah because adoption agencies just hand out babies like they're handing out Halloween candy. Especially to unmarried single men. More delusions of piss.
post 1623466581 11-23-2020, 11:17 AM
-
#47
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 2,728
  6. Rep Power: 2505
Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
While I mire join date, I am curious how you lasted so long here with that attitude.

Edit: I mean, I agree completely, but still wonder...
My rep power is a fraction of what it was. I stopped caring about rep power long ago.

I met my wife 8 years ago in college. The rest is history.
Just Bleed

Interstellar Crew

Married Crew
post 1623466611 11-23-2020, 11:17 AM
-
#48
  1. CherryPopinski
  2. Registered Gym Rat
  1. CherryPopinski
  2. Registered Gym Rat
  3. Join Date: Mar 2013
  4. Location: Nevada, United States
  5. Posts: 21,333
  6. Rep Power: 96920
Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
i have no plans to get married or have kids because I really value being left alone to do whatever id like and i really cant see that getting too boring tbh. not even going to say im going to smash younger girls all my life, im saying im just going to fill my free time with things i enjoy.
This is my mindset, as a single bachelor I have the ability to do whatever I please when I want. While it does come with trade offs, I’m not obligated to take care of children and run errands to constantly support their upbringing. Nor am I tied down in a relationship where my partner would potentially keep me from my personal time.

One of my ex girlfriends would be upset if I took anytime to myself to go to the gym alone, play guitar, or engage in solitary hobbies cause she constantly wanted to spend time together.
No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.

-Socrates
post 1623466851 11-23-2020, 11:20 AM
-
#49
  1. CherryPopinski
  2. Registered Gym Rat
  1. CherryPopinski
  2. Registered Gym Rat
  3. Join Date: Mar 2013
  4. Location: Nevada, United States
  5. Posts: 21,333
  6. Rep Power: 96920
Originally Posted By JoeDelts⏩
My favorite is the "muh hobbies" cope. These fools assume that a) their hobbies will always be the most important thing in their lives and b) that they'll forever be able to physically do those hobbies. Brb. Going rock climbing, skateboarding, surfing, mountain biking, backpacking across the world at 60+ years of age. Delusions of piss.
It’s not cope, the greatest of human experience comes from pursuing things you genuinely enjoy doing. Physical hobbies may diminish with age, but things like art and music are eternal.
No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.

-Socrates
post 1623466921 11-23-2020, 11:21 AM
-
#50
  1. phaginator
  2. Ayyy lmao
  1. phaginator
  2. Ayyy lmao
  3. Join Date: Apr 2013
  4. Posts: 36,761
  5. Rep Power: 122033
Originally Posted By BrianDaMan⏩
they will be lonely old men crying online about how it's the libruls and soros and immigrants fault they didnt reproduce and how they are victims of a "genocide"
Lol, yeah let's slowly destroy western society and almost every incentive for men to start a family...

"Bu but why do more men stay bachelor?"

What a surprise, men look at society today and to the future and base their decisions on those prospects.
post 1623467131 11-23-2020, 11:24 AM
-
#51
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 2,728
  6. Rep Power: 2505
Trust me if I carried on with hang ups, insecurities, and excuses I'd have thousands of rep power and be miserable.

For all you so called bachelors out there... I get pussy more often than you. I don't have to wait my turn like the rest of you lol.
Just Bleed

Interstellar Crew

Married Crew
post 1623467181 11-23-2020, 11:25 AM
-
#52
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  1. BrianDaMan
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2011
  4. Posts: 22,168
  5. Rep Power: 383523
Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Lol, yeah let's slowly destroy western society and almost every incentive for men to start a family...

"Bu but why do more men stay bachelor?"

What a surprise, men look at society today and to the future and base their decisions on those prospects.
yeah bro everything is destroyed by the libruls there's no hope what's the point. i agree you should give up and not reproduce

just don't whine about your demographic going extinct tho when you're part of the reason why

i have no problem with you guys not reproducing. just don't whine about the declining numbers when you are not reproducing yourself
post 1623467351 11-23-2020, 11:28 AM
-
#53
  1. Supaduck0
  2. Person
  1. Supaduck0
  2. Person
  3. Join Date: Nov 2013
  4. Posts: 9,493
  5. Rep Power: 52341
Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
2 kinds of lifetime bachelors.

- Those with truly interesting lives. World travelers, entrepreneurs, etc. Dont want to get tied down. Usually have a rotation of women to choose from. Generally not lonely. Dont want kids, enjoy living life to the fullest and bouncing from experience to experience. Maybe 5% of bachelors are in this group


- Loser copers. Bachelors, but not by choice - even if they convince themselves they are. MGTOW type. Use free time to complain on internet, play video games, etc. 95% of bachelors are in this group, but think they are in the first group.


If you dont know which one you fall in... got bad news for you son
You're just comparing wealthy single Guys to not-so-wealthy single Guys

Anybody lucky enough to get rich is obviously going to lead an interesting life, travel the World, build up harems or engage in various adventures. Some Guys don't have the money to enjoy those luxuries, so wind up using relatively cheap thrills like video games or trolling online. It's also delusional to suggest the second group just needs to work harder, because nepotism, corruption, luck etc all play huge roles in determining someone's economic status.
Person
post 1623468111 11-23-2020, 11:37 AM
-
#54
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 2,728
  6. Rep Power: 2505
Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
This is my mindset, as a single bachelor I have the ability to do whatever I please when I want. While it does come with trade offs, I’m not obligated to take care of children and run errands to constantly support their upbringing. Nor am I tied down in a relationship where my partner would potentially keep me from my personal time.

One of my ex girlfriends would be upset if I took anytime to myself to go to the gym alone, play guitar, or engage in solitary hobbies cause she constantly wanted to spend time together.
How old are you?

It's very immature how you view parenthood. Being a dad and supporting my kids is far from a burden. It's not hard at all.

Obviously you speak from inexperience with your ideas of what marriage and parenthood has in store from you.

I watch UFC cards from the prelims to main event with my wife, 5 year old, and newborn in the house with me. I've even missed fights due to family parties and guess what... It's not the end of the world.

Your "mindset" is comical.
Just Bleed

Interstellar Crew

Married Crew
post 1623470361 11-23-2020, 12:01 PM
-
#55
  1. skinnyfat88
  2. Registered User
  1. skinnyfat88
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Apr 2014
  4. Location: Canada
  5. Age: 38
  6. Posts: 6,718
  7. Rep Power: 27255
Can't really worry about what you may or may not regret later on. Just gotta do what feels right for you in the moment and make the best outta your life.

I don't see the point of bachelors hating on the family men (ie calling them beta providers or w/e given we still need to procreate) nor do I see the point of the family men hating on the bachelors calling them immature or saying they live purposeless lives. If it's the right life for them and they're not hurting anyone else in the process then good on them.

I kind of assume that, even if you don't want kids, there comes a time prior to ~60 or so where you'd want a steady relationship (even if you don't live together) if you genuinely enjoy companionship but there are exceptions to that as well I'm sure.
post 1623471851 11-23-2020, 12:17 PM
-
#56
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  1. wannabetoughguy
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Jun 2009
  4. Age: 39
  5. Posts: 2,728
  6. Rep Power: 2505
Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Can't really worry about what you may or may not regret later on. Just gotta do what feels right for you in the moment and make the best outta your life.

I don't see the point of bachelors hating on the family men (ie calling them beta providers or w/e given we still need to procreate) nor do I see the point of the family men hating on the bachelors calling them immature or saying they live purposeless lives. If it's the right life for them and they're not hurting anyone else in the process then good on them.

I kind of assume that, even if you don't want kids, there comes a time prior to ~60 or so where you'd want a steady relationship (even if you don't live together) if you genuinely enjoy companionship but there are exceptions to that as well I'm sure.
Calling him immature is not hating I'm just telling it like it is. Many of these posts reek of insecurity. The guy I quoted was getting nagged by one ex girlfriend and uses her as a reason why he thinks a future wife would be the same. No offense, but how does that make any sense?
Just Bleed

Interstellar Crew

Married Crew
post 1623472431 11-23-2020, 12:24 PM
-
#57
  1. xvicknumber7x
  2. therapist (srs)
  1. xvicknumber7x
  2. therapist (srs)
  3. Join Date: Jan 2008
  4. Location: United States
  5. Posts: 17,981
  6. Rep Power: 30593
definitely understand the merits of creating a family, i just think that personally it would make me miserable because i mostly like being left alone to do things I like and I really hate being distracted. also dont get the hate for either side lmao, as if most miscers had a choice to create a family even if they wanted to
post 1623472461 11-23-2020, 12:25 PM
-
#58
  1. Daz206
  2. Registered User
  1. Daz206
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Dec 2001
  4. Location: Utah now
  5. Posts: 5,039
  6. Rep Power: 28172
Originally Posted By meanstringbean⏩
2 kinds of lifetime bachelors.

- Those with truly interesting lives. World travelers, entrepreneurs, etc. Dont want to get tied down. Usually have a rotation of women to choose from. Generally not lonely. Dont want kids, enjoy living life to the fullest and bouncing from experience to experience. Maybe 5% of bachelors are in this group


- Loser copers. Bachelors, but not by choice - even if they convince themselves they are. MGTOW type. Use free time to complain on internet, play video games, etc. 95% of bachelors are in this group, but think they are in the first group.


If you dont know which one you fall in... got bad news for you son
This. It's pretty simple tbh. It basically comes down to a choice vs. not a choice. Living a boring life vs. living a life where you wake up excited every day.
OG Crew
post 1623472621 11-23-2020, 12:26 PM
-
#59
  1. MajinBuuuu
  2. Registered User
  1. MajinBuuuu
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Feb 2011
  4. Age: 31
  5. Posts: 527
  6. Rep Power: 3431
You not wanting kids or not wanting her dependant on you sounds like either of you aren't at a stage in your life where you want a family or you're not man enough to shoulder responsibility. Men reproduce, men take risks.. it's not impressive to take the path of least resistence. Miscers are overwhemlingly scared little pusses who have been aggressively coddled all their life.
post 1623473331 11-23-2020, 12:34 PM
-
#60
  1. ectosthetic
  2. Registered User
  1. ectosthetic
  2. Registered User
  3. Join Date: Nov 2011
  4. Location: United States
  5. Age: 35
  6. Posts: 1,511
  7. Rep Power: 3546
ITT you will have married/LTR people say "yeah man those bachelor guys are wannabe losers"

As well as current bachelors who say "lol getting married is for beta cucks"

No real opinions will be found here
Quick Navigation Top Misc
Bookmarks
Digg.com
Digg
del.icio.us
del.icio.us
Stumbleupon.com
StumbleUpon
Google.com
Google
Facebook.com
Facebook
Posting Permissions
  1. You may not post new threads
  2. You may not post replies
  3. You may not post attachments
  4. You may not edit your posts