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Originally Posted By Jaltonto⏩
Looking at this objectively there are tons of red flags. She's outgoing at work and having fun hanging out while you at sit home unemployed. Not even trying to be a dick, but the odds are she's begun talking to other people already. Her using it so much is a sign she's unhappy being around you. As much as we want to believe woman will stand by us, they would much rather find a happy fun guy with a good career than to sit at home with their depressed unemployed bf. I've been through this twice in my life and no regrets because sometimes you have to take a step back to take two steps forward in life.Have already called it out, going to call it out again today. I used to go to gatherings with her friends but the invites have been slim lately. Just so many small red flags but no huge red flag telling me that something may be going on. I feel like she has lost a lot of respect for me lately due to me quitting my job and have a really rough go-in with depression a few months ago. In addition to this, her ego is Uber inflated because she has been making a ton of friends as a nurse while I sit at home work from home 8 hours a day.
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Originally Posted By Caeculus⏩
I like that idea. If it don't work then start thinking about bringing up her smartphone addiction, holy chit.Take her on a camping trip where there is no cell phone signal
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Originally Posted By jesusxchrist⏩
This right here. ^Fuk that, anyone glued to their phones and can’t have an actual conversation with anyone is annoying af
That’s one of my biggest pet peeves in life srs as fuk
That’s one of my biggest pet peeves in life srs as fuk
Think long term. If you have children with her, will they be glued to an iPad so mommy can get her social media fix? Or will your kid have to pose or be perfect all the time so she can upload pics and posts about them for attention?
Might want to factor that in.
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Sounds like your typical ho.
Are you missing something from your relationship?
Are you missing something from your relationship?
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When you guys make these threads you need to decide what your long term goal is....
Are you only with this bish for sex? Or are you looking for a mother of your children?
Are you only with this bish for sex? Or are you looking for a mother of your children?
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Theres a good possibility shes not talking to guys or has no inention to talk to guys sexually or even cheat, but its just who she is, obsessed with texting non stop.
There are a big chunk of people already in todays society like that, its annoying af for me and I couldn't date anyone like that,that goes out on a dinner date with their loved one and is on the phone constantly... lol... OP I feel sorry for you because that really is annoying and horrible and disrespectful towards you.
There are a big chunk of people already in todays society like that, its annoying af for me and I couldn't date anyone like that,that goes out on a dinner date with their loved one and is on the phone constantly... lol... OP I feel sorry for you because that really is annoying and horrible and disrespectful towards you.
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Tell her its obnoxious and a bad habit. Who would want to spend their life with such a disrespectful person?
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Originally Posted By Jaltonto⏩
she's texting Jamal and Tyrone boyoWould any of you put up with this? I’m not lying when I say her phone is never down for more than a minute and 30 seconds. Probably sends over 500 texts per day to all of her friends (8-9 girls), from what I know there are no guys in the picture but I’m just getting suspicious lately. When her phone is not exploding with texts she is absolutely glue to social media. Will flip between Insta/Vsco/Snapchat/FB to now end watching every story available until there are none left.
Would any of you brahs put up with this? I’m about to bring it up with her but don’t want to come of as insecure. I just have a hunch she is hiding something but can’t make an accusation. How to bring up with her?
Would any of you brahs put up with this? I’m about to bring it up with her but don’t want to come of as insecure. I just have a hunch she is hiding something but can’t make an accusation. How to bring up with her?
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no broad is worth having her head buried in her phone 24/7 (srs)
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Take out the suspicions of another man/cheating for a moment Is her actions that of someone you want to be with for the rest of your life?
I know a guy in his mid 40s who's wife (also 40s) developed a social media addiction. When they are home as a family she's constantly on her phone on social media. They go out to eat as a family and she's on her phone at the dinner table. When his kids get home from school she doesn't help them with homework and he does because she's on her phone, etc. She's constantly wanting home renovation projects, new cars, etc. to keep up with her friends/social media appearances. Etc. From what he tells me, its just freaking toxic. I can't even imagine.
You need to call her out on her BS. When yall are together you expect to be together. If yall go to dinner/on a date and she can't be bothered to leave her phone at home or in the car. I'd seriously consider cutting her loose. This is not marriage material and who you want to raise a child with.
My GF has a pretty big family spread out internationally and she manages a business and also does marketing for her job through FB. So she gets texted/called a lot from her employees, her family, and customers. Because of that its really not uncommon for her to be getting text messages or ******** messages all the time. Its something we had to discuss as well. She deleted all social media aside from FB. And logged in on FB on my computer so I can 'check up on her' if I want to. Also gave me her phones passcode and all that jazz. When she gets a phone-call she always puts it on speakerphone as well. Has no issues leaving her phone at home/in the car when we are doing something together so we don't get bothered.
I didn't even have to ask for all that she just volunteered it. But if we'd have never discussed it that sh!t would have just kept building up tension. The big thing for me is we need to be able to do to dinner or do stuff and leave her phone in the car. Because other-wise she will be getting messages and phone calls... And if its her siblings they will continue to text and call if she isn't answering.
I know a guy in his mid 40s who's wife (also 40s) developed a social media addiction. When they are home as a family she's constantly on her phone on social media. They go out to eat as a family and she's on her phone at the dinner table. When his kids get home from school she doesn't help them with homework and he does because she's on her phone, etc. She's constantly wanting home renovation projects, new cars, etc. to keep up with her friends/social media appearances. Etc. From what he tells me, its just freaking toxic. I can't even imagine.
You need to call her out on her BS. When yall are together you expect to be together. If yall go to dinner/on a date and she can't be bothered to leave her phone at home or in the car. I'd seriously consider cutting her loose. This is not marriage material and who you want to raise a child with.
My GF has a pretty big family spread out internationally and she manages a business and also does marketing for her job through FB. So she gets texted/called a lot from her employees, her family, and customers. Because of that its really not uncommon for her to be getting text messages or ******** messages all the time. Its something we had to discuss as well. She deleted all social media aside from FB. And logged in on FB on my computer so I can 'check up on her' if I want to. Also gave me her phones passcode and all that jazz. When she gets a phone-call she always puts it on speakerphone as well. Has no issues leaving her phone at home/in the car when we are doing something together so we don't get bothered.
I didn't even have to ask for all that she just volunteered it. But if we'd have never discussed it that sh!t would have just kept building up tension. The big thing for me is we need to be able to do to dinner or do stuff and leave her phone in the car. Because other-wise she will be getting messages and phone calls... And if its her siblings they will continue to text and call if she isn't answering.
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Originally Posted By jesusxchrist⏩
People who can have a conversation seem pretty rare these days. I'm losing my patience for the ones who can't and just disengageFuk that, anyone glued to their phones and can’t have an actual conversation with anyone is annoying af
That’s one of my biggest pet peeves in life srs as fuk
That’s one of my biggest pet peeves in life srs as fuk
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while i may think it's a bit of insecurity.
I GUARANTEE there are guys there if it is like you say it is
girls who youd never suspect prob have that. and you're saying she's on there 24/7?
I GUARANTEE there are guys there if it is like you say it is
girls who youd never suspect prob have that. and you're saying she's on there 24/7?
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What part are you insecure about?
I wouldn't be able to stand someone who can't put their phone down for a few hours or w/e and just be present.
I wouldn't be able to stand someone who can't put their phone down for a few hours or w/e and just be present.
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You should teach her a lesson.
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Sounds like you just want quality time with her brah
Just set times where no phones and you guys just hang out
Talk to her
Just set times where no phones and you guys just hang out
Talk to her
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If you tell her to cut back on it watch the chitstorm implode.
Obsession with social media is something that small minded people are attracted to. Their life is chit so they are always worried about other people's lives.
Sorry to hear that your gf is stupid OP
Obsession with social media is something that small minded people are attracted to. Their life is chit so they are always worried about other people's lives.
Sorry to hear that your gf is stupid OP
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
Not to rain on your parade, but you’re living a pretty toxic relationship. Having passcodes, deleting social media, controlling your girlfriend, etc., is more insecure than the OP. Your girlfriend is volunteering to do this for you leading you on and giving you a false sense of security. Cheaters are good at this. Good luck with your future breakup.Take out the suspicions of another man/cheating for a moment Is her actions that of someone you want to be with for the rest of your life?
I know a guy in his mid 40s who's wife (also 40s) developed a social media addiction. When they are home as a family she's constantly on her phone on social media. They go out to eat as a family and she's on her phone at the dinner table. When his kids get home from school she doesn't help them with homework and he does because she's on her phone, etc. She's constantly wanting home renovation projects, new cars, etc. to keep up with her friends/social media appearances. Etc. From what he tells me, its just freaking toxic. I can't even imagine.
You need to call her out on her BS. When yall are together you expect to be together. If yall go to dinner/on a date and she can't be bothered to leave her phone at home or in the car. I'd seriously consider cutting her loose. This is not marriage material and who you want to raise a child with.
My GF has a pretty big family spread out internationally and she manages a business and also does marketing for her job through FB. So she gets texted/called a lot from her employees, her family, and customers. Because of that its really not uncommon for her to be getting text messages or ******** messages all the time. Its something we had to discuss as well. She deleted all social media aside from FB. And logged in on FB on my computer so I can 'check up on her' if I want to. Also gave me her phones passcode and all that jazz. When she gets a phone-call she always puts it on speakerphone as well. Has no issues leaving her phone at home/in the car when we are doing something together so we don't get bothered.
I didn't even have to ask for all that she just volunteered it. But if we'd have never discussed it that sh!t would have just kept building up tension. The big thing for me is we need to be able to do to dinner or do stuff and leave her phone in the car. Because other-wise she will be getting messages and phone calls... And if its her siblings they will continue to text and call if she isn't answering.
I know a guy in his mid 40s who's wife (also 40s) developed a social media addiction. When they are home as a family she's constantly on her phone on social media. They go out to eat as a family and she's on her phone at the dinner table. When his kids get home from school she doesn't help them with homework and he does because she's on her phone, etc. She's constantly wanting home renovation projects, new cars, etc. to keep up with her friends/social media appearances. Etc. From what he tells me, its just freaking toxic. I can't even imagine.
You need to call her out on her BS. When yall are together you expect to be together. If yall go to dinner/on a date and she can't be bothered to leave her phone at home or in the car. I'd seriously consider cutting her loose. This is not marriage material and who you want to raise a child with.
My GF has a pretty big family spread out internationally and she manages a business and also does marketing for her job through FB. So she gets texted/called a lot from her employees, her family, and customers. Because of that its really not uncommon for her to be getting text messages or ******** messages all the time. Its something we had to discuss as well. She deleted all social media aside from FB. And logged in on FB on my computer so I can 'check up on her' if I want to. Also gave me her phones passcode and all that jazz. When she gets a phone-call she always puts it on speakerphone as well. Has no issues leaving her phone at home/in the car when we are doing something together so we don't get bothered.
I didn't even have to ask for all that she just volunteered it. But if we'd have never discussed it that sh!t would have just kept building up tension. The big thing for me is we need to be able to do to dinner or do stuff and leave her phone in the car. Because other-wise she will be getting messages and phone calls... And if its her siblings they will continue to text and call if she isn't answering.
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i would suggest gaslighting her to slowly cut her off from all of her friends and family, also possibly isolating her physically as well by moving you two many states away and then chit talking everyone she knows until you're the sole person in her life and she's dependent on you completely.
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I'm not a fan of girls who can't put their phone down when we're out, it's disrespectful. I haven't exactly ever had to deal with it, but if I did I assume I would probably just leave.
But you do you I guess
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Some girls can’t even watch a movie for 10 minutes without grabbing their phone and using it, then they complain about how boring the movie is
Personally I can’t put up with that and I’d be severely annoyed by it, you don’t need your gf to be sucking other dudes dicks in order to be annoyed or displeased with her.
Personally I can’t put up with that and I’d be severely annoyed by it, you don’t need your gf to be sucking other dudes dicks in order to be annoyed or displeased with her.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Men everywhere need to understand that we have options and don't have to put up with this.Some girls can’t even watch a movie for 10 minutes without grabbing their phone and using it, then they complain about how boring the movie is
Personally I can’t put up with that and I’d be severely annoyed by it, you don’t need your gf to be sucking other dudes dicks in order to be annoyed or displeased with her.
Personally I can’t put up with that and I’d be severely annoyed by it, you don’t need your gf to be sucking other dudes dicks in order to be annoyed or displeased with her.
There are plenty of people who aren't addicted to their phones
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Originally Posted By AshWar⏩
thisShe is snapchatting other guys, I can almost 100% guarantee it
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
thisSome girls can’t even watch a movie for 10 minutes without grabbing their phone and using it, then they complain about how boring the movie is
Personally I can’t put up with that and I’d be severely annoyed by it, you don’t need your gf to be sucking other dudes dicks in order to be annoyed or displeased with her.
Personally I can’t put up with that and I’d be severely annoyed by it, you don’t need your gf to be sucking other dudes dicks in order to be annoyed or displeased with her.
Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
thisMen everywhere need to understand that we have options and don't have to put up with this.
There are plenty of people who aren't addicted to their phones
There are plenty of people who aren't addicted to their phones
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She's not yours. It's just your turn.
You need to walk her back into FWB status.
You need to walk her back into FWB status.
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I'm not sure if you should be insecure about what she is doing on her phone, but you should be 100% concerned w/ the fact that you're dating somebody who would rather spend every waking moment on her phone than actually spending time with you. When you have guests/GF/company over/whatever... it is rude and disrespectful to be on your phone.
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i know girls like this. we don't talk anymore. so annoying when you can't connect with someone because they're so wrapped up in social media and their phones. also, if you think she cheating, she probably is.
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