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post 1625810733 12-17-2020, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By Coal
So if you're not together anymore why do you even care.

Why did the relationship even get to this stage?
We’ve broken up, gotten back together close to 9 times now....
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post 1625810923 12-17-2020, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Misc I keep telling myself that I don’t care. This is for the best, it really is. She’s been such a toxic **** the last two months of my life. But ending it at 2 years is better than 25..

Fuuuuuuuuuk
The last few months of all long-term relationships are always chitty, especially when it's females initiating the breakup. Primarily because they spend about 2-3 months questioning the relationship and deciding they want to end it, and then an additional 2-3 months planning their exit/lining up new plans for attention and validation. The only time women ever end relationships quickly and decisively is if they decide they're done somewhere within the first few months or so of dating. Even then, they'll usually pull some lame chit like ending it by ghosting the guy out of nowhere.
Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We’ve broken up, gotten back together close to 9 times now....
u wat, m8? y tho. Hasn't it bothered you knowing she's just kept you around as the fallback option? She probably took a new dink after all 9 of those breakups, possibly more. Nasty.
post 1625810963 12-17-2020, 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We’ve broken up, gotten back together close to 9 times now....
Lol why is this time any different and why do you keep putting yourself through this?

Sounds dumb af - 2-3 times fine me but 9? Lmao ...
post 1625811103 12-17-2020, 08:26 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We’ve broken up, gotten back together close to 9 times now....
Oh yeah, cut that out of your life. Don't even give it the time of day.

You're only making it worse for yourself by not ripping that bandaid off. Srs, as a brah who has been in toxic relationships before, I know how they reel you back in by trying to "create importance" or make moments more visceral by adding all this drama to them. But you're still captivated by the smoke and mirrors act. It's only after you leave, that you start to see it for what it was.

Fukkin' axe it, leave her, and move on. But do it on your terms. After 9 breakups none of them deserve to have any additional time wasted on them.

Call her and say "Hey look, I'm done, I'm not coming over tomorrow and that's that."

End it unceremoniously and move on with your life. Soon you will no longer even think about it.
post 1625811253 12-17-2020, 08:28 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
This is literally the worst time in the history of mankind to get broken up with lol

No bars or clubs dawg
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post 1625811793 12-17-2020, 08:35 AM
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I’ve dumped her 8 of the 9.

Like.... I was a savage to this girl

I didn’t start really liking her until I couldn’t have her.
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post 1625812393 12-17-2020, 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
I mean okay. It’s going to be maybe 2 minutes of audio.

Or probably more like 30 seconds before I360 tf outta there
Sooo you're saying that you will go back to her a 10th time?
post 1625812813 12-17-2020, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
I’ve dumped her 8 of the 9.

Like.... I was a savage to this girl

I didn’t start really liking her until I couldn’t have her.
It doesn't matter, your relationship sucked 8 out of 9 times and it's not going to suck less the 10th.

Saying this outta brotherly love brah
post 1625813873 12-17-2020, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
It doesn't matter, your relationship sucked 8 out of 9 times and it's not going to suck less the 10th.

Saying this outta brotherly love brah
Yeah. I know.

I know it is for the best if it ends. But I’m seriously struggling because it’s 9 days to Christmas. How many days to New Years. The whole world is shut down. I hate being alone more than anything in the world.
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post 1625814233 12-17-2020, 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Yeah. I know.

I know it is for the best if it ends. But I’m seriously struggling because it’s 9 days to Christmas. How many days to New Years. The whole world is shut down. I hate being alone more than anything in the world.
I knew it, you have trouble being alone. It's good that you know. But it's no better to be in a chit tier relationship.

Take it from a guy who used to be filled with self-hate, and never wanted to spend a moment in his own thoughts... You have to learn to love yourself. And to do that, you need to accept being alone.

You need to appreciate your own life, and how wonderful things can be. But you will never be able to do that it you do not spend the time alone reconciling with yourself.

You're willing to give this woman a 10th chance but won't even give yourself ONE???
post 1625814423 12-17-2020, 09:02 AM
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I don’t know your relationship but from your posts.

She was toxic and you were nasty? Correct?

You have broken up with her 8 our of 9 times, let her have this one. Let her have her “little talk” and get chit off her chest and you can respond if you need to..... and then hopefully you can both walk in different directions and leave each other tf alone.

Try to allow both of you to get some form of closure (not one-up each other)... or this chit is going to keep pulling one or both of you straight back in. Not healthy.
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post 1625814643 12-17-2020, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ChelshireCat⏩
I don’t know your relationship but from your posts.

She was toxic and you were nasty? Correct?

You have broken up with her 8 our of 9 times, let her have this one. Let her have her “little talk” and get chit off her chest and you can respond if you need to..... and then hopefully you can both walk in different directions and leave each other tf alone.

Try to allow both of you to get some form of closure (not one-up each other)... or this chit is going to keep pulling one or both of you straight back in. Not healthy.
IMO I disagree that they should talk considering their track record.

9 breakups mean that "talking" about breaking up is worthless and they'll only end up convincing each other to stay which is a horrible decision for both parties.

They had nine opportunities not to sink back into their own ways, a tenth time isn't going to change a thing.
post 1625817713 12-17-2020, 09:34 AM
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just make sure when its done to come post on here everyday how you miss her and her perfect ass, then after half a year how much you cant stop thinking about her but also cant remember her and wish you could remember her. Then post everyday how you're moving on then remember but she was the best man
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post 1625818003 12-17-2020, 09:37 AM
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You're not together but you're breaking up?

Guess it is 2020, where nothing makes sense.
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post 1625820223 12-17-2020, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
I knew it, you have trouble being alone. It's good that you know. But it's no better to be in a chit tier relationship.

Take it from a guy who used to be filled with self-hate, and never wanted to spend a moment in his own thoughts... You have to learn to love yourself. And to do that, you need to accept being alone.

You need to appreciate your own life, and how wonderful things can be. But you will never be able to do that it you do not spend the time alone reconciling with yourself.

You're willing to give this woman a 10th chance but won't even give yourself ONE???
So I'm really scared man. I'm scared because I think something is seriously wrong with me. I'm scared because I wonder if this is really the road to suicide.

I'll tell you why I think this. I'm not trying to come off as arrogant with any of this, just trying to explain my position.

I get told by my friends all the time about how attractive I am, and that I could really have any women if I tried, but like I don't really think the same way about myself. I have so much going for me honestly. I'm only 28 years old and I'm in the top 1% of income earners for my age range, I own a very expensive home, and have an insanely good job that I fought tooth and nail to get. I feel like on my best days I'm extremely charismatic, and interesting. But at the end of the day, the only thing I care about is the opinion of someone who I know is wrong for me. I guess my point is I'm scared that something is fundamentally wrong with me if I have all these amazing things going in my life, but I only ever try and date bartenders/waitresses.
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post 1625825063 12-17-2020, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
So I'm really scared man. I'm scared because I think something is seriously wrong with me. I'm scared because I wonder if this is really the road to suicide.

I'll tell you why I think this. I'm not trying to come off as arrogant with any of this, just trying to explain my position.

I get told by my friends all the time about how attractive I am, and that I could really have any women if I tried, but like I don't really think the same way about myself. I have so much going for me honestly. I'm only 28 years old and I'm in the top 1% of income earners for my age range, I own a very expensive home, and have an insanely good job that I fought tooth and nail to get. I feel like on my best days I'm extremely charismatic, and interesting. But at the end of the day, the only thing I care about is the opinion of someone who I know is wrong for me. I guess my point is I'm scared that something is fundamentally wrong with me if I have all these amazing things going in my life, but I only ever try and date bartenders/waitresses.
PM me and I will give you my phone number. We'll talk brah.

Your mind works in mysterious ways, it's not so much that you don't love yourself. You absolutely do, but your mind does wild things to prevent you from ever not loving yourself. It builds walls so that you never have to address your personal shortcomings when relationships, friendships, etc, fall through.

So first and foremost, know that you love yourself but your priorities just aren't straight. And about that suicide stuff? Brah, put that out of your mind. From one brah who has been there, to another... I promise you that no amount of momentary pain is worth taking away your opportunity at a lifetime of wonder.

You'll see what I mean when you start to reach that place. There's absolutely nothing in the world that should prevent you from getting to experience the joy that is life, and I promise you that it is there waiting for you.

How do I know? Because I was unemployed, carless, bitter with the world, and full of what I thought was self hatred as I made my way through what should have been some of the best years of my life. My parents kicked me out for a bit multiple times, and I couch surfed. I didn't make good choices, and it took me a lot of time to realize how much of the bad things in my life were my fault. Pushed friends, family, and loved ones away just because I was a toxic dinkhead who didn't understand how to genuinely love and care for people... I didn't understand how to do that for myself. I don't like to talk about this part of myself often but I absolutely gave up on myself. And people can think whatever they want about that, but the truth is I did eventually find a reason to stand back up.

How much of your own life are you implicit in? Perhaps more than you know. Defeat teaches you what you did wrong, and how to improve. And the harshest defeats, and the most intense pains teach you how to be joyous.

You don't have to live your life undefeated. You just have to learn how to rise above the defeat.

Hit me up, let's talk.
post 1625835523 12-17-2020, 12:38 PM
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Don’t stress over it, she’s calling you over to tell you she’s pregnant.

Congratulations OP.
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post 1625836233 12-17-2020, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
PM me and I will give you my phone number. We'll talk brah.

Hit me up, let's talk.
Do it OP.

Get yourself straight first, then other chit will fall into place.
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1. Remain calm
2. Listen to her
3. Say something along the lines of "Hmm, okay then"
4. Walk out
5. Go NC

Guarantee she'll be puzzled why you aren't freaking out.
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot⏩
Came in to give you chit OP but after reading this, please talk to someone about your feelings...srs

1-800-273-8255

https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
This too

OP, I pm'd you my number but please call this hotline if you ever feel yourself reaching this point.

There is no shame in reaching out for help. It takes real strength to admit that you need help.

And a closed mouth doesn't get fed.
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We’ve broken up, gotten back together close to 9 times now....
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you deserve better than that kunt, OPie dedsrs

you will get better, but you gotta break the cycle
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Haha... one last rustle?!?! I’ve made this girl break down in tears maybe 600 times because I was a huge ass hole. I’m just gonna get my things, and disappear.
good, sounds like you both will be better off.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
omg



and why do girls always do everything like they are reading off a script... they all use the same lines
Because they like to dramatise everything.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Hopefully he's in an open location. Bars are in full force down here. You'd think there wasn't a pandemic on Saturday nights.
Umm u mean Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday and Sunday nights.

Fuk where I’m at they say COVID is surging. And so are the clubs. Just lol
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
Tbh it you know it's coming and has been coming for a while, and you want it to happen... Just pre-empt it, and move on.

I always hated that "we need to wait until tomorrow to talk about it and make it an event." That's not useful or productive to either of you. I have had girls get upset about that, but ultimately, it's just better that way. It's not a relationship event, it's the termination of one. It's you two agreeing to become strangers again, so it's only fitting that it happens quickly and without much ado.

It's usually better for both of you not to treat it like a momentuous event that needs time set aside for.
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
Don't think about how much time was "wasted" like females do and just keep it moving. Leave her stupid ass in the dust boyo SRS
Females are thinking ...” I’m training my dog here. He will be like the one I’ve always wanted and never found” ... hence the wasted sentiment

While the guy is just happy getting his dik wet and having a good time
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