So you don't want kids then? Those are prefect careers to pick from for a SAHM.
- brb convert a bedroom to a hair salon, now your SAHM can earn a few grand a month from like 10-15hr work weeks

Personally wouldn't pursue any chick (for a LTR) who isn't on board with a SAHM lifestyle while working 15hrs max to supplement our HHI.

Any type of sex whore.

Any woman who brings her work into our personal lives. For example that psych woman analyzing everything in her day to day.

Absolutely, and if the answer is no it likely means you lack experience with certain women or just arent high value enough of yourself to have standards. Personally, I would never date a woman who:

- works in 'any' job involving her body - stripper, sex worker, hooters waitress is a given. Have dated two models and even then would be iffy

- ANY job that has no career growth path. Bartender, waitress, barista, administrative assistant etc. 99% of the time this is because of either a lack of intellect, ambition, or both. Dont get me wrong - I am above none of that work. If you are the type who wants to OWN the coffee shop and spend your day as a barista there then I am all in. If you work at Starbucks then I am out

- Any 'starving artist' type jobs - musician, artist, theater, ballerina, etc. Have hooked up with a couple chicks in that department as well. Many are well educated, have a ton of student loan debt, and make absolutely peanuts for money

- Nurse, flight attendant, etc. - other jobs where you are around chad doctors and pilots all day, work long hours, involve travel, etc.

- high powered lawyers, doctors, investment bankers - not a 'no' but usually a red flag. These women generally are pretty masculine , and you have to have A game to keep up with them. Can be exhausting. If they arent status driven then it's ok but if they are then it's like getting sucked into a black hole



What's more important to me is their views on money. I dont care if she makes 50k as a teacher or 150k as a STEMcel. She has to ADD to the pot financially. I have dated teachers and had great time, I've dated teachers who expect me to pay for everything and have had awful times. Similarly with business professionals, have dated six figure earners who blow their money in the dumbest ways and would be a disaster to be with long term. It's important to use this filter early on before you get attached to a woman. Someones career says a lot about them as an individual, and their views on money if it contrasts sharply with yours can be a life ruiner.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to meanstringbean again.

Thick. Solid. Tight Post

SAHM lifestyle = at best grey hairs from you as you stress financially (even if you do well and save, you WILL feel pressure to support your wife and your future kids together, every purchase is scrutinized. The level of income or wealth needed where this isn't the case is maybe 1 in 20, and that's best case), and worst case you get skull ****ed into divorce


Dual income is literally the way to go. That doesnt mean you need to date some woman who works 80 hrs a week. Just means you both have careers, and when you both have careers you financially are cooking with gas.

This right here. And he even got it in the correct order too. Gjdm

What if it's a Waitress at a high end restaurant? Sure, if she's a waitress at Red Lobster or Sizzler I see your point, but what about like at a Ruth's Chris or an exclusive Santa Barbara/Fifth Avenue/Miami Beach restaurant?

That just means they aren’t young enough or hot enough to work in a club making bank any more

Dating teachers has drawbacks for other reasons as well

brb go to bed every night at 9pm
brb have to have them getting up early
brb grading papers all the time
brb going out in public and seeing students
brb complain about work all day. Women do this in general, but nurses and teachers have it down to a science (COVID complaining was a wet dream to them)

Still a dead end job and she eventually will age out of that industry anyways. Have to think ahead - when she is 40-50 aka prime earning years of life she will make the same (or less even) than now. Also likely getting hit on by big spenders / tippers as well.

Have to think ahead my friend , not just 1 year but 10 years.

What are your thoughts on Waitresses/Bartenders who pursue acting/musician careers and have MILD successes in that field(Say...low level speaking role in somewhat popular tv shows.... Or maybe a handful of paid singing gigs at random bars per month)

NYC is absolutely littered with this type

This is the exact reason why I will never marry someone who wants to be a SAHM.

And? If she works at a high end restaurant they make $$$ with tips. It's not like a $30k a year.... some cross $100k before even 30.

I agree a single income household would be difficult to pull off. If she can work 10-15hrs a week, netting $40+, that would be the best of both worlds imo.

Considering the constant barrage of degen propaganda in today's world, putting the kids' upbringing over extra disposable income is a no brainer for me. If we had the same culture and demographics of the 50s here, that'd be a different equation.

Key to all of this though, is expectation management.. that she understands the sacrifice of being a SAHM from the get-go. Which is why I steer clear of career broads.

I'm thinking a woman's upbringing and network determine virtually everything besides her talent. People try to look for lists of "flags" or tips on how to identify good women.

I think this does it, outside of extremes.A woman not feeling excessively self-important about whatever she's doing? Likely

I wouldn't date someone who works for CPS.

It's a movement, brah. There's like instagrammers who virtue signal about not being rabid feminist whores. It's the bees knees and such.

Once Biden's 4 yrs are over, there'll be droves of feminists converting to SAHMs (at least in my whitepilled fantasy).

Doctors. Too many germs.
Lawyers. Bloodsuckers.
Psychotherapists. Too much psychobabble. (I might make an exception on this if she's not too bad).

I'd definitely go for vocalists. I'd love to make some beautiful babies with great singing voices.
Retail workers with sweet personalities.
Teachers. I loved one once upon a time but it was not meant to be.

No. My girlfriend is a barber, but I am an Engineer. Here is a picture

I agree but I had to talk with one recently that was helping our family and we locked eyes for a good few seconds and I was temporarily in heaven.

She had beautiful blue eyes.

The role-playing options are infinite.

Psychologists/Psychiatrists/Shrinks of any kind like Therapists. Those must be the most annoying type of people to get involved with. I'm certain almost all therapists have a personal therapist that they see after work, and their personal therapist has a therapist that they go to as well lol. They're all insane after dealing with mentally ill people every day, which leads to them psychoanalysing themselves and everyone around them.

Basic medical doctors, surgeons, nurses, healthcare workers in a nutshell are kind of crazy, too. They usually never have any free time because they're always on call, they usually don't have any interests or hobbies besides being in the hospital. It must be a difficult relationships unless you're also in the healthcare industry.

Healthcare professionals tend to be very "Type A" personality, and I think most of them would sacrifice their personal relationships to become more career driven and successful. Many of them are legit psychopaths. Same thing with lawyers, cops/detectives, anyone in law enforcement or works within the government or legal/courts system. These people are either very boring, cold and calculating, or they have completely evil and wicked personalities and hide behind their nice suits and fake smiles.

That being said, I wouldn't mind casually "dating" a woman who works in a profession that usually breeds blood sucking vampires, but I certainly wouldn't marry her lol.

"Another doctor's bill a lawyer's bill another cute cheap thrill."

I advise young men to NOT date most healthcare workers since they are pretty emotionally detached people.

I'd argue that SAHM with a small side gig/hobbies are less likely to divorce than career women

(here's the first link I looked at lmao, I'd bet there are more:

why-promoted-women-are-more-likely-to-divorce
https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article...ely-to-divorce)

Think about her environment of being a SAHM compared to instead being out there in the world/workplaces everyday. Family, friends, select group of clients that come to the house.. Vs Co-workers, bosses, clients (ie Men that make bank) in a completely different domain away from the home and kids.

Less Men to "socialize" with at home for sure. Add in being you being aesthetic, now it's going to be pretty rare for your SAHM to even see, let alone get to know, Men that are higher tier than you. Ie monkey branches (or the fantasies of such) are no where to be seen.

That trade-off between needing status items (via dual incomes) and potentially deteriorating your family (via divorce) is real.

People are going to be more likely to cheat when they have the option to. Through access at work and work time spent I would gamble are the kindling for a divorce. Guess what happens when Kyle and career woman are spending 40 hrs a week together, on their best behaviour, away from the distraction of kids?

How do you think they are going to get their big break?

Spoiler!

dating a coroner or pathologist would be kinda weird I suppose

Would never refuse to date someone based on their profession, but definitely would refuse to marry someone.

Short-term, I'll fuk a chick doesn't matter the job

Long-term, she has to be at least college educated (no sociology/gender studies majors) and making 30-50% of my income preferably, with the plan for her to continue working until we have a few kids (and even then I'd have every intention of providing for her, but I don't want her to know that, and instead want her willingness to work/contribute to our retirement to be intrinsic)

A pathologist wouldn’t be too bad. They honestly look into a microscope for most of the day.

A coroner would be weird, though.

So isn't that a good thing then?