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post 1631443703 02-15-2021, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes the issue of women’s age in dating is usually avoided by the media etc because people like to pretend it doesn’t matter. It would be amazing if women didn’t have to worry about age and can wait until they are much older to find a good husband. That is what the media and modern culture pretends but it’s just not true.

It’s taboo to talk about but the reality is that good dating options vastly decrease with age. Age is literally the most important thing. Much more important than looks because even if you look good for your age you’re still below someone who also looks good AND is young.

As to freezing eggs idk how to feel about that. It would be scary to me and I think it’s much better to just get pg naturally when you are young. But I guess it works okay for some women.
Anytime I tried to open up to a 30-something women they love their rants / rambles about how they're more mature, more responsible, etc than a 18 to 22 year old.

But yet the single and childless ones in their 30s are always
1. Dead end Job (below $40,000 salary)
2. No Degree or Bad Degree
3. Put less effort in the relationship and more likely to ghost / cancel (even though their responsibilities are less than a 21 year old doing school + work).

Then the things you also mentioned too like women look ugly as **** in their 30s and 40s. A firm set of perky tits somehow always become weird looking half filled saggy balloons by 30. Tight asses get replaced with saggy fat ones with cottage cheese.

No thanks Jeff / no thanks Jeffina.


I only stick to 18 to 22 year olds if they're an option. Moving to Philippines when coronavirus travel restrictions end. Already have a couple penpals waiting.
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Originally Posted By S0Jack3d⏩
The problem is 90% of males are courting 10% of women. Everyone wants a single white female aged 18-35 whose not fat and hasn’t had kids. They only represent a small % of the population. It’s simple supply amd demand
What the **** are you even talking about? Everybody does not want a single white female
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post 1631443943 02-15-2021, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes the issue of women’s age in dating is usually avoided by the media etc because people like to pretend it doesn’t matter. It would be amazing if women didn’t have to worry about age and can wait until they are much older to find a good husband. That is what the media and modern culture pretends but it’s just not true.

It’s taboo to talk about but the reality is that good dating options vastly decrease with age. Age is literally the most important thing. Much more important than looks because even if you look good for your age you’re still below someone who also looks good AND is young.

As to freezing eggs idk how to feel about that. It would be scary to me and I think it’s much better to just get pg naturally when you are young. But I guess it works okay for some women.
I need to figure things out, but I will freeze my eggs when I am 28 anyway, because I know I want kids.

Were you career maxxing or searching for love when you were 25 ?
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post 1631444343 02-15-2021, 08:25 AM
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Once again GOAT Japan mogging the rest of the world in handling dating problems

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That’s not really the issue I’m addressing because there are also lots of 30+ women who do have high paying jobs and who are fit and still look really good.

The issue is that even those women are at a BIG disadvantage in dating simply because of their age and because of the desirable men their age either being already taken or preferring to date younger.
this is so sad and so true. everybody wants a younger wife than himself and all the good ones will be taken by less attractive, smart or successful women who happened to marry them before you

I believe this is a true frustration when you hit a certain age
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
I can feel my anxiety growing after reading this post. it is something i´ve been avoiding to read about, because it scares me.

I was actually thinking about freezing my eggs and trying to keep my appearance as nice as possible even tho I will get older, I also have this irrational thought that what if I settle with someone who seems perfect at a certain point in time and then someone even better comes along and the second one is my soulmate

wtf will I do then ?
It sounds like you'll probably leave a decent dude for another dude based on something that isn't even real or backed by any sort of science(soulmate). And it sounds like you'll do exactly what redpill guys on the internet say all women will eventually do to you
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Originally Posted By amenhotepv⏩
It sounds like you'll probably leave a decent dude for another dude based on something that isn't even real or backed by any sort of science(soulmate). And it sounds like you'll do exactly what redpill guys on the internet say all women will eventually do to you
Yeah the women on this thread are doing all sorts of weird mental gymnastics.

1. The Indian one can probably get a decent man if she wasn't slerting selfies to Gigachads and actually met normal guys, promised sex, etc.

2. The one who hides behind the cartoon probably hasn't left her house in 15 months. And if she were to get a guy she would probably kick him out for saying he prefers Lattes instead of Cappuccinos.

3. Slerts gonna sl00t
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
That’s not really the issue I’m addressing because there are also lots of 30+ women who do have high paying jobs and who are fit and still look really good.

The issue is that even those women are at a BIG disadvantage in dating simply because of their age and because of the desirable men their age either being already taken or preferring to date younger.
Y'know, this Silencespeaks lady is a lot more redpilled than the misc gives her credit for. She picked up on a key issue: As women enter their late 20s and 30s, desirable men of a similar age can pull younger women. This basically obliterates the "close in age" dynamic, unless the woman is willing to settle for a lower quality match.


In real life, women have a window for peak opportunity in dating. That's approximately 16 to 24. Once a woman ages out of that window without accepting a husband, they have a choice: either start making concessions or remain single/childless.
If I were to offer up any kind of advice to Roxy or SS, it'd be to recognize and make peace with the reality that you're no longer "a catch" to men in your cohort, and seek out the category of men that WOULD deem you as a catch. Meaning older men, maybe those that had already started families (divorced dads and such) that are 10 to 30 years older than you. (I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to be brutally honest - the way older women in your lives (moms, grandmas, aunts) should have been when you were a teen/young-woman).
This method has actually worked out pretty well for a lot of women I know - one of my dearest female friends made it to 35 without getting married or having kids. She recently married a guy who already had 3 kids (and was doing quite well financially) - and boom, within a year she had a kid of her own and is a happy wife & mother.


Granted, I live in Texas and it's still somewhat common for there to be a generational difference between husband & wife. I know tons of men with wives that are ~20 years younger.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I didn’t care about career or marriage when I was young but I was just enjoying life and traveling and wanted to go to grad school.

Was not thinking about marriage AT ALL but then I met my ex and fell in love and got married anyway and it was great.

And as I got older I saw my peers struggle with dating and finding someone good. After 30 it seems to really get much harder.

I think the media and modern culture is doing a huge disservice to women in pretending that age doesn’t matter in dating and pretending you can wait until you’re 35+ to find a good husband and have healthy kids. It’s wishful thinking and yes it would be ideal so you can live life for yourself first, but it is just not reality. Unless you accept the risk and are okay with settling way down from what you could get when you’re still young.
My mother jokingly says that those who do not want to marry are marrying the first.

I am a bit scared to make this step of being married, do you think that I will ever stop feeling too young to get married ? Maybe i should hurry a bit with this marriage thing. women start losing glow at 25 because aging happens at 25. so bad.

If you would restart your love life from 0, what would you look at for husband material ? what should I look for in a man ? you have much more dating life experience than me so I am interested. My mom has no dating experience, she married at 18 yo
Originally Posted By amenhotepv⏩
It sounds like you'll probably leave a decent dude for another dude based on something that isn't even real or backed by any sort of science(soulmate). And it sounds like you'll do exactly what redpill guys on the internet say all women will eventually do to you
No, knowing myself I will not leave a decent dude that started with me from 0 for someone better, but I wonder what if you like someone more than your actual partner ? what if you simply match better ? It´s easy to act moral, but hard if you are put in this situation.
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Keep the international dating stories coming. Interesting to hear how the dating scene is compared to the US. So I take it you aren’t planning on having kids?
Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
Yeah the women on this thread are doing all sorts of weird mental gymnastics.

1. The Indian one can probably get a decent man if she wasn't slerting selfies to Gigachads and actually met normal guys, promised sex, etc.

2. The one who hides behind the cartoon probably hasn't left her house in 15 months. And if she were to get a guy she would probably kick him out for saying he prefers Lattes instead of Cappuccinos.

3. Slerts gonna sl00t
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How’s the Chicago vs Dallas dating scene? I’m looking at possibly relocating to one of those cities. Leaning towards Dallas.
Originally Posted By LurkoLantern⏩
Y'know, this Silencespeaks lady is a lot more redpilled than the misc gives her credit for. She picked up on a key issue: As women enter their late 20s and 30s, desirable men of a similar age can pull younger women. This basically obliterates the "close in age" dynamic, unless the woman is willing to settle for a lower quality match.


In real life, women have a window for peak opportunity in dating. That's approximately 16 to 24. Once a woman ages out of that window without accepting a husband, they have a choice: either start making concessions or remain single/childless.
If I were to offer up any kind of advice to Roxy or SS, it'd be to recognize and make peace with the reality that you're no longer "a catch" to men in your cohort, and seek out the category of men that WOULD deem you as a catch. Meaning older men, maybe those that had already started families (divorced dads and such) that are 10 to 30 years older than you. (I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to be brutally honest - the way older women in your lives (moms, grandmas, aunts) should have been when you were a teen/young-woman).
This method has actually worked out pretty well for a lot of women I know - one of my dearest female friends made it to 35 without getting married or having kids. She recently married a guy who already had 3 kids (and was doing quite well financially) - and boom, within a year she had a kid of her own and is a happy wife & mother.


Granted, I live in Texas and it's still somewhat common for there to be a generational difference between husband & wife. I know tons of men with wives that are ~20 years younger.
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Originally Posted By ajctennis⏩
Keep the international dating stories coming. Interesting to hear how the dating scene is compared to the US. So I take it you aren’t planning on having kids?
Not much to report. Eastern European women just ghost / mental games a lot. Every westerner on YouTube living in Eastern Europe like an incel / loner compared to white guys in South East Asia. Eastern European women are kinda retarded to treat western guys like that because their only other option is a local guy or a Turk who makes $200/month. Good luck with poverty!

Some good girls in Latin America but you literally have to wade past hippos and tramps to find them. Degenerate society where you literally have to look behind your back every 2 minutes because of the rampant cime and whatever.

South East Asia is best for fooling around and pumping and dumping 18 to 22 year old women. Swipe left on flat girls. Easy.

If I want kids and real marriage then I would probably look in Japan. Japanese women are famous for being housewives and doing motherly roles. Japanese women look good after 30. Pretty sure even Filipinas become lazy (won't cook) and fat after 30. South Korea could be a runner up but South Korea is hellish cold in winter, kinda a hotspot for WW3 and dust is a problem there.
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM⏩
Not much to report. Eastern European women just ghost / mental games a lot. Every westerner on YouTube living in Eastern Europe like an incel / loner compared to white guys in South East Asia. Eastern European women are kinda retarded to treat western guys like that because their only other option is a local guy or a Turk who makes $200/month. Good luck with poverty!

Some good girls in Latin America but you literally have to wade past hippos and tramps to find them.

South East Asia is best for fooling around and pumping and dumping 18 to 22.

If I want kids and real marriage then I would probably look in Japan. Japanese women are famous for being housewives and doing motherly roles. Japanese women look good after 30. Pretty sure even Filipinas become lazy (won't cook) and fat after 30.
what you say about eastern european women is cope, most of them date the people who own the company which you work for. last trend in eastern europe is to date people from ***** who are making your monthly wage in 1 day.

2nd, you forget that eastern europeans can easily travel anywhere in europe and they can always date northern europeans and western europeans. they will not treat you like the pot of gold you want to be, because realistically speaking there are thousands of guys who make the same wage as you or more who are all over them, because i guess, you do not really like women with pink hair and bushy armpits like your native western women, blabla

3rd, say whatever you want, eastern europeans mogg hard asian women in looks

cope

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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
My mother jokingly says that those who do not want to marry are marrying the first.

I am a bit scared to make this step of being married, do you think that I will ever stop feeling too young to get married ? Maybe i should hurry a bit with this marriage thing. women start losing glow at 25 because aging happens at 25. so bad.

If you would restart your love life from 0, what would you look at for husband material ?what should I look for in a man? you have much more dating life experience than me so I am interested. My mom has no dating experience, she married at 18 yo

No, knowing myself I will not leave a decent dude that started with me from 0 for someone better, but I wonder what if you like someone more than your actual partner ? what if you simply match better ? It´s easy to act moral, but hard if you are put in this situation.
Love is a choice. But people and feelings change in relationships. It is what it is. It really only gets complicated if you're married or have kids and you decide to leave for your soulmate. But I would think, even your feelings for the new guy will change with time


I know the bolded question wasn't for me but I'd say if your looking for a husband, look to see if the dudes father was around and was a husband
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Originally Posted By ajctennis⏩
How’s the Chicago vs Dallas dating scene? I’m looking at possibly relocating to one of those cities. Leaning towards Dallas.
If you're a guy - Chicago is 100000x better for you in terms of dating. Lots of single women, lots of fun date activities, you can clean up really well. And its not all "career women" - I've met tons of girls there that just want to settle down. At one point I was going on 6 dates a weekend (so unfortunately it would get expensive pretty fast).
I've found Dallas to be a bit more insular - people generally stick to their existing social group and don't branch out as much. I think the big difference is because Chicago has such a big % of women moving there from out of town. Dallas isn't as much of a "destination" city during early adulthood.



With that said, life is easier in Dallas, and Texas in general. More laid back that is.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Ideal husband imo would be:

1) goodlooking - not model looks but cute and subjective physical attraction

2) good money - already successful or ambitious and on his way to being successful

3) good character - honest, loyal, loving, kind, no addictions, not abusive

4) compatible lifestyle and life goals - wanting similar lifestyle as you, wanting kids or not, etc
I think I am scared because sometimes I feel that deep down my current bf who I love is not my best match. We are doing good together, sometimes amazing, sometimes bad. I had an ex who was more of that ´ideal´ you wrote, but I wasn´t as motivated to succeed as I am with my current bf. He was ideal in many ways, but something felt off and I wasn´t as happy. However I will have to reflect on my current relationship because time is passing by fast and I´m only getting older.
Originally Posted By amenhotepv⏩
Love is a choice. But people and feelings change in relationships. It is what it is. It really only gets complicated if you're married or have kids and you decide to leave for your soulmate. But I would think, even your feelings for the new guy will change with time

I know the bolded question wasn't for me but I'd say if your looking for a husband, look to see if the dudes father was around and was a husband
It looks like we can´t fking win with this love life, I´m so pissed off at the thought of failing in my marriage and I´m not even married. I think it gets complicated with kids, kids as lovely as they are, are a huge huge huge responsability, I don´t think I would divorce if I´d have kids if the reason of divorce was my love life. my current bf had a good father but he passed away when he was a teenager, so idk what to say about his idea regarding being a husband
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
I can feel my anxiety growing after reading this post. it is something i´ve been avoiding to read about, because it scares me.
Unfortunately this is something that women SHOULD have been told about when they were 18.
On one of the chans, there's a recurring thread where guys post bumble pics/profiles of women that are >40 who still have "want kids someday" tagged. The images and profile descriptions these broken spinstresses post are the strongest "don't end up like me" warning I can think of that a young woman should see.
Being afraid of marrying someone & starting a family with him, only for a better guy to come along IS NOTHING compared to the waking nightmare of mental gymnastics that middle-aged single women have to jump through.



Replace the X with a 4:

https://boards.Xchan.org/pol/thread/...798#p308209798

There's actually a bunch of these threads, but I'm not adept at search that site very well
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22⏩
what you say about eastern european women is cope, most of them date the people who own the company which you work for. last trend in eastern europe is to date people from ***** who are making your monthly wage in 1 day.

2nd, you forget that eastern europeans can easily travel anywhere in europe and they can always date northern europeans and western europeans. they will not treat you like the pot of gold you want to be, because realistically speaking there are thousands of guys who make the same wage as you or more who are all over them, because i guess, you do not really like women with pink hair and bushy armpits like your native western women, blabla

3rd, say whatever you want, eastern europeans mogg hard asian women in looks

cope

stay coping

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What you're writing is pure fiction. I've done 2 years in Eastern Europe and trips all over. They might be getting this spam online but in real life they're not. I never see fellow foreign men in 2nd tier Eastern Europe (I don't stick to capitals and prefer smaller cities in each of these countries). And the typical woman in Eastern Europe, unless she decides to become a prostitute, just can't pack her bags up and relocate to Oslo to date 6'6" millionaires.


Eastern European countries are losing population faster than Western Europe due to retarded women in a nutshell.

BTW I lived in a beach resort in the Black Sea. Typical Russian woman in real life barely has ass or breasts. No padded bras at the beach. They literally have Asian girl bodies. They all look like **** after age 28 too.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Can confirm it’s terrible being middle aged and single srs.

Starting to think it’s maybe better to just stay in a bad marriage vs getting divorced and being single.
What was so bad about the first? He farted after eating beans?
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Women are so delusional about aging.

Go on any dating app and the difference between women aged 18-24 and 25+ is night and day.
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah⏩
Women are so delusional about aging.

Go on any dating app and the difference between women aged 18-24 and 25+ is night and day.
Men's bodies don't age, srs. Yes there's men who get FAT. But there's many male pornstars who are 40+ but from the neck down they don't look it. Men's bodies don't look old until they wrinkle (60+) or their bodyhair turns white (again 60+).

Meanwhile a lot of women's breasts and asses already look old by 25... srs...
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Dark triad personality

Antisocial personality disorder

Narcissistic personality disorder

Alcoholism

Drug addiction

Extremely promiscuous with hookers/strippers

Lying constantly

Extremely manipulative

Emotionally abusive and controlling

Financially abusive (hiding money, lying about money, compulsive spending, squandering all our money)

Crime / prison time

Reckless and impulsive

Reckless driving, DUI, street racing
Must had been Chad then
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Yep, that's how it really is.

I also had different expectations when I was younger so I empathize learning the truth. I think most men aren't aware when younger that it really is the equivalent of job searching.

You can be totally "qualified" (if not over qualified) for a girl you approach and not get accepted. Likewise, you also see others who have "connections" weasel into roles (aka relationships) they're under qualified for.

Job searching is the perfect analogy, dead srs. Then once you get the job they basically own you and will drop you for any reason leaving you in financial ruin... hahaha
"One day I won't be able to lift any more. Not I won't want to lift. I mean physically unable. That day could be decades from now or it could be tomorrow. All I know is that's the day I'll wish I could lift more than ever. The day I'd give anything for one more workout, one more set, or one more cardio session. So go hard and enjoy every workout, every set, every rep. Because one day you will wake up and you will never get it back."
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