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post 1632173493 02-23-2021, 04:10 PM
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Being a gypsy..cant you just put a love spell on him or sum schit?
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post 1632173513 02-23-2021, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted By DSTEE
No need to say anything else. Anyone who has the slightest respect for their partners won't be "friends" with any exes. You reap what you sow
more like acquaintances, we´re not seeing each other and going out. it is someone i know, what are you doing after dating someone ? throw with mud ?
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Do the grieving thing and then find someone else. It's just a hassle breaking out of routine. That's all. Soon you'll forget what your old routine with him even looked like.
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Originally Posted By Ratfish
you call frequent customers boyfriends?
Wait, was this the prozzy that other Euro miscers was after 🤔🤔🤔
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post 1632173793 02-23-2021, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By jamalfudge
Wait, was this the prozzy that other Euro miscers was after
yeah

post pics of the bf, OPie nh
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post 1632173813 02-23-2021, 04:14 PM
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
Do the grieving thing and then find someone else. It's just a hassle breaking out of routine. That's all. Soon you'll forget what your old routine with him even looked like.
my friend sent me a link about how women romanticize the man after the break-up and i think this is exactly what i´m doing. I just need a new routine, this is it actually, I saw myself that I had no idea how to go on with my things after he told me that he´s moving on
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INB4 nearly infinite PMs offering to help you in your time of need...

Spoiler!
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Hit your protein and fat minimums to stay healthy and keep your gainz.
Lift heavy and do HIIT to look and feel awesome.
Use the internet to learn why you should do these things and how to do these things.
post 1632174433 02-23-2021, 04:20 PM
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NEGGED sloot

Originally Posted By roxyfoxy22
didn't present him to people because he is not attractive, but i fall in love because he trusted me at my lowest mental point, the start of a family drama that's ending now.
Originally Posted By roxyfoxy22
i don't have a problem with presenting him, but i didn't pushed it, because there are differences in looks and don't want people to comment.
his teeth look bad, i spent 10 k for mine, he has a beer belly and doesn't lift, eats like a normal person, i'm averagely in shape. He looks like a regular guy with a beard, i'm someone conventionally more attractive than he is.
post 1632174443 02-23-2021, 04:20 PM
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Originally Posted By nosirrahx
INB4 nearly infinite PMs offering to help you in your time of need...

Spoiler!
with their penis.
i only have 1 gay friend from misc, the rest i don´t talk to and don´t care about
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Oh man take an insecure guy and do all the things to completely break him down while trying to change him into what you want. Of course he'd leave you, you made it toxic because you didn't want him.


Careful that's **** that will land you in spinsterville.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
my friend sent me a link about how women romanticize the man after the break-up and i think this is exactly what i´m doing. I just need a new routine, this is it actually, I saw myself that I had no idea how to go on with my things after he told me that he´s moving on
Yeah I can see people doing that after a break up. Just remind yourself of the things you hated about him that you couldn't stand and are relieved you no longer have to deal with it. Should help you some.

Whenever I have a fond memory that pops up about my x. I also think about the time when I was out of town for 3 weeks working my ass off (13 - 14 hour days) and came back to a dirty ass place when I'm OCD about cleaning.

What really triggered me was when I put all my luggage down exhausted from my red eye flight in and flipped on the light in the bedroom. Both the night stand lights didn't work bc the bulbs were blown. I had specifically bought a pack of light bulbs and left them on the counter right before I left so he could change out the 1 that was out.. now they were BOTH out... He couldn't change even 1 FKING LIGHT BULB in 3 weeks and would rather just 'figure it out' in the dark. LMAO

It sounds retarded but sh!t like that is what make people incompatible even if you're able to express yourself verbally and tell them all your secrets. My dude now is better than amazon prime. Refills and things are there even before I realize I need it. He's always Johnny on the spot bc he's just like me and OCD.

You'll come out of this happier. It's not the end of the world. Just maybe next time don't even bring up any ex's to the next one.
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post 1632174813 02-23-2021, 04:24 PM
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Reading thread - OP is mentally unwell. Just LOL at having your BF date other women to see if he really wants you. What a couple of co-dependent dummies. Move on bro
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
how to avoid breaking the NC ?

he really broke my heart, called me batchit crazy and all the qualities in the world are not worth the stress i cause him

the stress i cause him= his own thoughts about me looking for a better man

the relationship was on and off with the breaks he wanted bcuz i wanted him to actually date other women and see that he ll return

always returned and complained about how everything would be ok if i wouldn´t be looking for someone better

blablabla i just want to get over
You wanted him to date other woman and see if he wants someone else? Then you wonder why you put thoughts in his head of wanting other men with you lol come on


Send me a dm baby girl Olympia gonna make you feel good soon. Sounds like you need a man who can handle you being so crazy


No girl ever told me to date other woman cause they you know, actually wanted to be with me?
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Ive seen your posts, I think your ex did the right thing.

Hope you feel better soon anyway
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Originally Posted By AshWar
NEGGED sloot
i was very blunt with him, he has veneers now and looks good as a result of encouraging him to do better. what did you wanted, to let him with crooked teeth and tell him how suitable those are ? people need to improve and when you do it you have a great feeling so stfu
Originally Posted By neondevil
Oh man take an insecure guy and do all the things to completely break him down while trying to change him into what you want. Of course he'd leave you, you made it toxic because you didn't want him.


Careful that's **** that will land you in spinsterville.
where does this come from ? he is not insecure at all, he is actually a very confident person. never cared about anybody´s opinion, he gave me a lot of confidence when i was in a very dark place, this was not possible if he wasn´t trusting himself as a man

change ? no
improve ? yes
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
more like acquaintances, we´re not seeing each other and going out. it is someone i know, what are you doing after dating someone ? throw with mud ?
Yes, that relationship is OVER and out of your life if you want to have any kind of relationship that is not a fukin joke with anyone else. Unbelievable lmfao
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
i was very blunt with him, he has veneers now and looks good as a result of encouraging him to do better. what did you wanted, to let him with crooked teeth and tell him how suitable those are ? people need to improve and when you do it you have a great feeling so stfu

where does this come from ? he is not insecure at all, he is actually a very confident person. never cared about anybody´s opinion, he gave me a lot of confidence when i was in a very dark place, this was not possible if he wasn´t trusting himself as a man

change ? no
improve ? yes
Well judging by how you're typing now somebody is hitting the sauce. He might be and "improve", everything is on him. It's literally all you unfortunately, re-read your posts and the ones linked to you. Everything you've done is toxic.

You can find and correct this or you can ignore most of us but you'll just wind up in the same place.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
how to avoid breaking the NC ?

he really broke my heart, called me batchit crazy and all the qualities in the world are not worth the stress i cause him

the stress i cause him= his own thoughts about me looking for a better man

the relationship was on and off with the breaks he wanted bcuz i wanted him to actually date other women and see that he ll return

always returned and complained about how everything would be ok if i wouldn´t be looking for someone better

blablabla i just want to get over
1) you are batchit crazy
2) you are a gold diggin hoe
3) shoulda sent nudez bish

also letting him date other females is some cuckqueen chit
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He finally worked out that you have a penis?
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
called me batchit crazy
seeing how you post on misc and have a cat in your avi dude is pretty spot on
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Have a couple of drinks and give him a call. What could go wrong?
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Jesus Christ what a ****ing trainwreck LMAO
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Originally Posted By littlemissy
Yeah I can see people doing that after a break up. Just remind yourself of the things you hated about him that you couldn't stand and are relieved you no longer have to deal with it. Should help you some.

Whenever I have a fond memory that pops up about my x. I also think about the time when I was out of town for 3 weeks working my ass off (13 - 14 hour days) and came back to a dirty ass place when I'm OCD about cleaning.

What really triggered me was when I put all my luggage down exhausted from my red eye flight in and flipped on the light in the bedroom. Both the night stand lights didn't work bc the bulbs were blown. I had specifically bought a pack of light bulbs and left them on the counter right before I left so he could change out the 1 that was out.. now they were BOTH out... He couldn't change even 1 FKING LIGHT BULB in 3 weeks and would rather just 'figure it out' in the dark. LMAO

It sounds retarded but sh!t like that is what make people incompatible even if you're able to express yourself verbally and tell them all your secrets. My dude now is better than amazon prime. Refills and things are there even before I realize I need it. He's always Johnny on the spot bc he's just like me and OCD.

You'll come out of this happier. It's not the end of the world. Just maybe next time don't even bring up any ex's to the next one.
Tell me more about it. I had so many arguments with him over him treating everything I do for him as regular. Apart from working and taking classes I was also cooking fresh all the time for him, cleaning after him.

If I ever asked him if he liked the food he said different things that simply mean ´if I eat it, it was oke´. I felt like he was never showing that he is happy with something just to keep me feeling that I should do better and that all my efforts are nothing.

I hated him after each bath, he made A LOT of water everywhere and I wanted to tell him to fuk off several times after finding tiny hairs in the sink after shaving. I´m a person who is not obsessed with order, but I am obsessed with hygienic and clean.

Now that I also think about how hard it is for him to improve himself I actually want him to fuk off. I am sure that if I wasn´t dragging him at the dentist he was toothless in 5 years. If I wasn´t supporting the healthy eating he was getting chubbier. The more efforts I put into him, the more he neglected his own improvement.

Not bad that he´s actually leaving, it shouldn´t be that hard to find someone especially after what he offered.
Originally Posted By PassiveLearner
Reading thread - OP is mentally unwell. Just LOL at having your BF date other women to see if he really wants you. What a couple of co-dependent dummies. Move on bro
I will never keep a man as a hostage and I also do not fear ´competition´. People cheat if they want to, I am not going to waste my time to act like a supervisor or a bodyguard of the relationship. I am all for expressing yourself and discovering what you like.
I know who I am and I know my value, if he wants to see other women he´s free to do so. Never going to change that, also, there was never a ´really wants you´. He always wanted me, I wanted him to see that the reason he wants me is because of who I am.
Originally Posted By Olympia2018
You wanted him to date other woman and see if he wants someone else? Then you wonder why you put thoughts in his head of wanting other men with you lol come on


Send me a dm baby girl Olympia gonna make you feel good soon. Sounds like you need a man who can handle you being so crazy


No girl ever told me to date other woman cause they you know, actually wanted to be with me?
read above, also, you would never make me feel good. you´re an idiot who can´t understand a lot of the things, i´m not interested in looks as looks are one of the most changeable things about a person

who are you apart from mr olympia? oh, nobody? an idiot ? good, fuk off
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He finally worked out that you have a penis?
Lmfao
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
Tell me more about it. I had so many arguments with him over him treating everything I do for him as regular. Apart from working and taking classes I was also cooking fresh all the time for him, cleaning after him.

If I ever asked him if he liked the food he said different things that simply mean ´if I eat it, it was oke´. I felt like he was never showing that he is happy with something just to keep me feeling that I should do better and that all my efforts are nothing.

I hated him after each bath, he made A LOT of water everywhere and I wanted to tell him to fuk off several times after finding tiny hairs in the sink after shaving. I´m a person who is not obsessed with order, but I am obsessed with hygienic and clean.

Now that I also think about how hard it is for him to improve himself I actually want him to fuk off. I am sure that if I wasn´t dragging him at the dentist he was toothless in 5 years. If I wasn´t supporting the healthy eating he was getting chubbier. The more efforts I put into him, the more he neglected his own improvement.

Not bad that he´s actually leaving, it shouldn´t be that hard to find someone especially after what he offered.


I will never keep a man as a hostage and I also do not fear ´competition´. People cheat if they want to, I am not going to waste my time to act like a supervisor or a bodyguard of the relationship. I am all for expressing yourself and discovering what you like.
I know who I am and I know my value, if he wants to see other women he´s free to do so. Never going to change that, also, there was never a ´really wants you´. He always wanted me, I wanted him to see that the reason he wants me is because of who I am.

read above, also, you would never make me feel good. you´re an idiot who can´t understand a lot of the things, i´m not interested in looks as looks are one of the most changeable things about a person

who are you apart from mr olympia? oh, nobody? an idiot ? good, fuk off
You sound like you honestly didn't love him, and your pride is wounded. That's all. You'll get over it, and maybe it's for the best. Deep down, you don't seem to have thought he was right for you.
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Originally Posted By RoxyFoxy22
I will never keep a man as a hostage and I also do not fear ´competition´. People cheat if they want to, I am not going to waste my time to act like a supervisor or a bodyguard of the relationship. I am all for expressing yourself and discovering what you like.
I know who I am and I know my value, if he wants to see other women he´s free to do so. Never going to change that, also, there was never a ´really wants you´. He always wanted me, I wanted him to see that the reason he wants me is because of who I am.
Seriously I do hope you have a therapist or someone in your life to help guide you. You're very naive and foolish. Your understanding of what is and what is not acceptable in a healthy, mutually beneficial relationship is grossly distorted. You assuredly do not know your value, or you do and it's low. I'm not sure since I don't know you. But your comments in this thread suggest you need some serious relationship guidance that you won't get with your belligerent attitude and arrogance. Seek a professional or your next relationship will be as counterproductive as your last.
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