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03-13-2021, 04:11 AM
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I think one of the most annoying ones was that back in high school when I had for a crushf or years on this older lifeguard at my gym and neighborhood pool. Her ass was the best man. Actually got in a relationship with her for a few days after pining forever likea beta then another dude who knew both of us said she told him she wasn't planning on going anywhere with me, was just usng me to make her ex jealous, then got back with him a week later.
Was brutal being used like that by a fellow Chad but there's not much you can do against the alpha widowed girl gravitating back to the cheating ex. I did run into him on the opposite team of a backyard flag football game and absolutely MOGGED him since I was a big bodybuildingcel and he was more the tattoo artist/musician type. No ill feelings towards him though, she was prime poosy.
Haven't called another girl my girlfriend since. I've dated girls for fkin years that tell me they love me and I still don't call them my girlfriend. I think I introduced one to my brother once. Can't trust women srs, 10x more since 2016 when everything changed.
Besides that a million online dating girls have ghosted me, some girls have been kunts but I usually tell them off in person or ignore them if it's texting. Occasionally a girl can wrap you around her finger and they can fuarkin sense weakness and play with you. The ghosting always kind of stings but women only have the power over you that you give them. They can't do that much more unless they let them break your heart.
Was brutal being used like that by a fellow Chad but there's not much you can do against the alpha widowed girl gravitating back to the cheating ex. I did run into him on the opposite team of a backyard flag football game and absolutely MOGGED him since I was a big bodybuildingcel and he was more the tattoo artist/musician type. No ill feelings towards him though, she was prime poosy.
Haven't called another girl my girlfriend since. I've dated girls for fkin years that tell me they love me and I still don't call them my girlfriend. I think I introduced one to my brother once. Can't trust women srs, 10x more since 2016 when everything changed.
Besides that a million online dating girls have ghosted me, some girls have been kunts but I usually tell them off in person or ignore them if it's texting. Occasionally a girl can wrap you around her finger and they can fuarkin sense weakness and play with you. The ghosting always kind of stings but women only have the power over you that you give them. They can't do that much more unless they let them break your heart.
03-13-2021, 04:12 AM
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
women take rejection a lot worse than men, since they rarely experience it.I knew it was the no sex thing as soon as she went cold the next day. Thats why I wanted to make up for it so bad.
I still dont think doing that once is a reason to “break up”, but thats not what fukked me up. The ghosting is. After a few dates, okay, whatever. After months? Yeah. That chit hurt.
I still dont think doing that once is a reason to “break up”, but thats not what fukked me up. The ghosting is. After a few dates, okay, whatever. After months? Yeah. That chit hurt.
i imagine her ego went into free fall when you said no
03-13-2021, 04:17 AM
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Not having a single hot girl that I would like to date match with me on online dating hurts more than anything. Rejected by thousands of women.
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03-13-2021, 04:40 AM
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She told me she had cancer, and was taking pills in front of me to keep up the pretence.
Turned out it was BS, but I didn't find out for about 6 weeks.
The whole cancer thing had actually been a cover to try and cause a breakup because she was cheating on me but didn't want to look like the ****ty person in the relationship.
Turned out it was BS, but I didn't find out for about 6 weeks.
The whole cancer thing had actually been a cover to try and cause a breakup because she was cheating on me but didn't want to look like the ****ty person in the relationship.
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03-13-2021, 04:46 AM
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Originally Posted By CBRIT89⏩
Didn't wanna look chitty...She told me she had cancer, and was taking pills in front of me to keep up the pretence.
Turned out it was BS, but I didn't find out for about 6 weeks.
The whole cancer thing had actually been a cover to try and cause a breakup because she was cheating on me but didn't want to look like the ****ty person in the relationship.
Turned out it was BS, but I didn't find out for about 6 weeks.
The whole cancer thing had actually been a cover to try and cause a breakup because she was cheating on me but didn't want to look like the ****ty person in the relationship.
Instead she was cheating on you AND used cancer as an excuse.
Ya, that was much better
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03-13-2021, 05:03 AM
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
Semi-recently, was going out with girl for months. Obviously sleeping together, sleeping over, deep convos, blah blah blah. Thinking definite possible wife potential, and getting close to asking about exclusivity.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
She was a fuking child if that's what completely changed her attitude towards you.I knew it was the no sex thing as soon as she went cold the next day. Thats why I wanted to make up for it so bad.
I still dont think doing that once is a reason to “break up”, but thats not what fukked me up. The ghosting is. After a few dates, okay, whatever. After months? Yeah. That chit hurt.
I still dont think doing that once is a reason to “break up”, but thats not what fukked me up. The ghosting is. After a few dates, okay, whatever. After months? Yeah. That chit hurt.
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03-13-2021, 05:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
Oh yeah, it totally blew up in her face, but in her mind I think it went something like this.Didn't wanna look chitty...
Instead she was cheating on you AND used cancer as an excuse.
Ya, that was much better
Instead she was cheating on you AND used cancer as an excuse.
Ya, that was much better
Say you have cancer but that he can't tell anybody
Boyfriend can't deal with it and splits
Tells work colleagues they've split, his choice
Boyfriend doesn't tell on the cancer story
She gets with the guy she was cheating with
Instead it was
Says she has cancer
I stayed
She gets overwhelmed, admits cheating and whole thing is a lie
I go NC, tells colleagues the real deal
I quit the job a few months later
Plot twist, I actually did have cancer 18 months later.
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03-13-2021, 05:58 AM
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
she sifted through all the beta orbiters and all the other chads and decided she wanted to give her body to you and you said noSemi-recently, was going out with girl for months. Obviously sleeping together, sleeping over, deep convos, blah blah blah. Thinking definite possible wife potential, and getting close to asking about exclusivity.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
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03-13-2021, 06:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks⏩
Hold up. She was AT YOUR PLACE on date 2 and all you did was kiss her? No wonder she didn't want to see you again.So I had two seemingly great dates with a girl. She ghosts me after I took her out to dinner and when I follow up a week later asking "Hey, everything cool?"....she responds: "Sorry this is not for me. Please don't contact me again lol"
The "lol" really fkn stung for some reason. Doing a complete 180 after being miss all-American sweetheart and then going full kunt like that.
I thought everything was going well, had no signs I could see of her not enjoying the dates, hell we even kissed when she left my place after date 2.
Now I've had a long-term gf cheat on me and that doesn't bother me anymore but now that I'm dating again these heartless rejections sting like hell.
The "lol" really fkn stung for some reason. Doing a complete 180 after being miss all-American sweetheart and then going full kunt like that.
I thought everything was going well, had no signs I could see of her not enjoying the dates, hell we even kissed when she left my place after date 2.
Now I've had a long-term gf cheat on me and that doesn't bother me anymore but now that I'm dating again these heartless rejections sting like hell.
Protip: if a girl comes to your place, they want to fool around. And if you're too wimpy to make a move you'll be done.
03-13-2021, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Wasn't that. She was smoking hot. We'd been banging for a while. That particular day was just bad, it'd been a hell week and I was dead tired and didn't have the energy to fuk, or to perform. It happens. I pretty much said this, and that i'd make it up next time, and then ate her out. Which I thought would communicate that I still wanted to please her sexually.You guys weren't right for one another. If you were truly into her sexually, you would have smashed her all night - there's a better match out there for you (SRS)
Furthermore, it could have been that it was just the wrong time
Could have been a ton of things. I'm sure the no sex thing was paramount, but maybe she already had doubts. IDK.Like I said, it wasn't the "break up" that fukked with me. It was that she didn't have enough respect or decency to tell me instead of ghosting. If she'd just said she found someone else with a better connection or she wasn't feeling it anymore, and good luck, that would have been manageable.
But to just disappear? Yeah, it hurt.
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03-13-2021, 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Kratos89⏩
At one point, she had casually mentioned that one of her flaws was that when she gets turned off to something, she goes cold.She was a fuking child if that's what completely changed her attitude towards you.
I still didn't expect to be ghosted like that. But I suppose it shouldn't be too surprising.
I wouldn't want to be with someone like that, so its not like i'd ever want her back. And I feel like I dodged a bullet since who knows what a life with someone like that would be like. All the same, it was still crushing to learn I wasn't even worth a "it's been fun, but good luck" text after months of everything.
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03-13-2021, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted By CBRIT89⏩
bruh that is some next level psycho chitShe told me she had cancer, and was taking pills in front of me to keep up the pretence.
Turned out it was BS, but I didn't find out for about 6 weeks.
The whole cancer thing had actually been a cover to try and cause a breakup because she was cheating on me but didn't want to look like the ****ty person in the relationship.
Turned out it was BS, but I didn't find out for about 6 weeks.
The whole cancer thing had actually been a cover to try and cause a breakup because she was cheating on me but didn't want to look like the ****ty person in the relationship.
03-13-2021, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Eterniity⏩
Did u think about them together, did u masturbate to the thought of her doing those guys?not. a girl i dated but a girl i liked would tell me about guys shed'd been with. i dont think i ever felt so crushed when i heard those things.
03-13-2021, 07:33 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
You were right about there being a better match. Obviously she wasnt it. And who would want to be with someone who can go full ice queen at the drop of a dime anyway. Thanks for the responses brah.I guess im wrong about a lot of things - I should stop making assumptions
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Originally Posted By stayhomeneet⏩
fuhhhhh.Told me she was really sick and made me feel sorry for her all tucked up in bed with the flu and really she was out getting jackhammered by Jamal
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03-13-2021, 07:36 PM
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03-13-2021, 07:38 PM
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-Sent me an email pretending to be an ex of hers and told me she had HIV and to get tested asap that she didn't know it. All just to ruin my Christmas
-Next few email responses were me trying to ask wth is this and got a "she's in love with me now I better never see your name on her phone or I will fight you"
-Called to tell her and warn her and she starts up a whole smear campaign on me accusing me of doing it all because I couldn't handle that she had moved on and I wanted to ruin her life. Made zero sense
-Tries to ruin my work environment by smearing me to people there, and associating one to have been involved with it
-Threatens restraining orders on me
-Pretends to be at police stations talking to cops who want to discuss this with the guy at my job, and calls him and harasses him on every social media account she has
All of that went on dragged out repeatedly for an entire month. Every single day. Could have been way worse I guess. Still shopping at my local Publix 2 min from my house that she lives 20 min from a whole year later. Perhaps she wants to smear me to family now. Hateful crazy btch
-Next few email responses were me trying to ask wth is this and got a "she's in love with me now I better never see your name on her phone or I will fight you"
-Called to tell her and warn her and she starts up a whole smear campaign on me accusing me of doing it all because I couldn't handle that she had moved on and I wanted to ruin her life. Made zero sense
-Tries to ruin my work environment by smearing me to people there, and associating one to have been involved with it
-Threatens restraining orders on me
-Pretends to be at police stations talking to cops who want to discuss this with the guy at my job, and calls him and harasses him on every social media account she has
All of that went on dragged out repeatedly for an entire month. Every single day. Could have been way worse I guess. Still shopping at my local Publix 2 min from my house that she lives 20 min from a whole year later. Perhaps she wants to smear me to family now. Hateful crazy btch
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Originally Posted By jackflag⏩
Semi-recently, was going out with girl for months. Obviously sleeping together, sleeping over, deep convos, blah blah blah. Thinking definite possible wife potential, and getting close to asking about exclusivity.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
We go out one weekend, all night, and end up back at her place. It was a great fuking date night. She wants to smash but i'm dead tired, so I say next time, and just eat her out instead.
After that, energy completely changes and texts get sporadic and cold. We go out a few days later on a pre-planned date, and its different. Energy is off. I assume we just need to fuk, but she says she's tired and has to get up early, and goes home.
Don't hear from her for days. I call to ask if everythings cool, assures me it is. Normal conversation. Invites me over later that week. Then cancels the day before. I try to set up another time, and hear nothing.
After a while, I text that I get it, its over, i'm not gonna try to change her mind, just want to know what happened. Nothing. Completely ghosted. After literal months.
Still a little fukked up from it honestly.
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