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03-18-2021, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy⏩
Most dudes on here dont actually want advice, they want fellow losers to validate their dumbass world views that are keeping them miserable.Misc is a sad place nowadays. Mid to late 20s you need to start pursuing ideal women who can help you raise a family. I'm married and get pussy more often then you so called bachelors. Handjobs and BJs when she's on the rag. Two beautiful kids.
That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.
Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?
Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.
Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?
Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
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03-18-2021, 09:15 PM
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Crazy how this place still gets a good amount of traffic, but half of these threads reveal how miserable and insecure the average Anglo man is nowadays.
Do you ***gots think i got time to browse only fans and tik tok? Do you think I give a **** about any of them when I got wife and children? Women want men not nerds while you're on here miscing us brothers are stealing your women and cucking your Dads and uncles.
Black misc is running the streets and sheets white misc is climbing clock towers and making threads.
Do you ***gots think i got time to browse only fans and tik tok? Do you think I give a **** about any of them when I got wife and children? Women want men not nerds while you're on here miscing us brothers are stealing your women and cucking your Dads and uncles.
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03-18-2021, 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted By nm1891⏩
****ing A.Most dudes on here dont actually want advice, they want fellow losers to validate their dumbass world views that are keeping them miserable.
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03-18-2021, 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted By p100⏩
Well said.Wtf are you guys complaining about getting old? 27-33 is the best time for a man. You have money and still have youth. Less than that you have no money, older than 40 you have no youth.
Get on eHarmony and find a wife. Western culture is not set up for marriage so it kind of sucks. Look for a wife like it's a job. Have a list of the most important questions and be realistic, not fantasy land. Money is important and caring about it doesn't make someone shallow as it literally determines lifestyle, location, etc.
If 1 in 200 people are compatible enough for marriage then all you have to do is meet 200 women.
Have your list of most important questions: religion, money expectations, location, children, political leaning, education standards for children, supporting or not supporting parents, alcohol and drug usage, relations with opposite gender expectations, job or house wife, weight expectations (fat equal divorce), titty size.
You will quickly get through 50-60 and narrow down the list. Don't even look at the chick in immodest clothing during the search. Look at face and fat or not fat. That's it, don't let your dick get a chance to interfere with the wife finding process.
Get on eHarmony and find a wife. Western culture is not set up for marriage so it kind of sucks. Look for a wife like it's a job. Have a list of the most important questions and be realistic, not fantasy land. Money is important and caring about it doesn't make someone shallow as it literally determines lifestyle, location, etc.
If 1 in 200 people are compatible enough for marriage then all you have to do is meet 200 women.
Have your list of most important questions: religion, money expectations, location, children, political leaning, education standards for children, supporting or not supporting parents, alcohol and drug usage, relations with opposite gender expectations, job or house wife, weight expectations (fat equal divorce), titty size.
You will quickly get through 50-60 and narrow down the list. Don't even look at the chick in immodest clothing during the search. Look at face and fat or not fat. That's it, don't let your dick get a chance to interfere with the wife finding process.
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03-18-2021, 09:30 PM
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03-18-2021, 09:33 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
This. Two old farts just aren’t going to share those special ‘first love’ type feelings that are possible when you’re both youngI guess my issue is it wouldn't feel like love if there was an age gap. There is a connection you feel with people your age that no one else can replace. I don't get it really.
I think those feelings at the beginning might be the key to a healthy long term marriage and happy life
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03-18-2021, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Eh, I think once women hit late 20's/early 30's, it's all the same really for a guy before ~age 45.I guess my issue is it wouldn't feel like love if there was an age gap. There is a connection you feel with people your age that no one else can replace. I don't get it really.
I get your point, but do you really see a problem with a 40yo guy marrying a 28yo woman?
I think a 35yo guy w/ 23yo woman is worse (I've been there, too immature).
Regardless, bitching about this in your 20's as a guy is weird.
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03-18-2021, 09:56 PM
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I'm 31 and never had a girlfriend before, I've only been with escorts/prostitutes but I'm tired of escorts, they're all scumbags and I hate having anything to do with them. All my friends I grew up with have all got married and had kids and they never have time to hang out anymore. So I'm pretty much always by myself now and I've accepted this is how it's going to be the rest of my life. Getting a girlfriend is impossible when you're average looking, have average income, average personality, etc.
I would only date girls in the 18-30 age range though. If somehow girls magically become attracted to me when I'm older, I'm still going to only go for 18-30.
I would only date girls in the 18-30 age range though. If somehow girls magically become attracted to me when I'm older, I'm still going to only go for 18-30.
03-18-2021, 10:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Briangumble⏩
Lol sucks to be you.I'm 31 and never had a girlfriend before, I've only been with escorts/prostitutes but I'm tired of escorts, they're all scumbags and I hate having anything to do with them. All my friends I grew up with have all got married and had kids and they never have time to hang out anymore. So I'm pretty much always by myself now and I've accepted this is how it's going to be the rest of my life. Getting a girlfriend is impossible when you're average looking, have average income, average personality, etc.
I would only date girls in the 18-30 age range though. If somehow girls magically become attracted to me when I'm older, I'm still going to only go for 18-30.
I would only date girls in the 18-30 age range though. If somehow girls magically become attracted to me when I'm older, I'm still going to only go for 18-30.
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03-18-2021, 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
Most people in general, male or female, will have their looks decline as they age. This will occur even if you live a very healthy lifestyle and stay very fit and keep all your hair. Of course, most will decline due to those reasons and just general aging.I'm 27. People say age doesn't matter for guys. It stresses me out so much for the following reasons:
1. Balding, looks declining
2. People getitng married. starting families
3. Almost every girl has a LTR at my age
4. Women just aren't pretty in my age group
5. Feel like I missed my chance at love and now if I want a family, I will have to settle
6. Women's standards are increasing. When you're young you can get away with a lot. I.E. being shy,**** job, bad social skills, skinny or w/e. At my age it's a death sentence.
7. Friends become too busy with their LTRs
8. You become that creepy single man
People say age doesn't matter for guys. You can bang young girls into your 40s. But I don't want to bang young girls. I want a loving wife to spend the rest of my life with. I missed my best years with her and she has been taken by someone else at this point. All that is left for me is trash. Is dating younger women enjoyable? I feel like it would just feel weird. Maybe I'm just not open minded?
I made this thread because I always hear women complaining about stuff like this but then they go up to me and are like "aren't you happy u aren't a girl?" I'm just thinking "wut, girls have this stuff way easier. Even ugly autistic girls can get a bf with ease."
IDK man. I'm stressed the fuark out.
1. Balding, looks declining
2. People getitng married. starting families
3. Almost every girl has a LTR at my age
4. Women just aren't pretty in my age group
5. Feel like I missed my chance at love and now if I want a family, I will have to settle
6. Women's standards are increasing. When you're young you can get away with a lot. I.E. being shy,**** job, bad social skills, skinny or w/e. At my age it's a death sentence.
7. Friends become too busy with their LTRs
8. You become that creepy single man
People say age doesn't matter for guys. You can bang young girls into your 40s. But I don't want to bang young girls. I want a loving wife to spend the rest of my life with. I missed my best years with her and she has been taken by someone else at this point. All that is left for me is trash. Is dating younger women enjoyable? I feel like it would just feel weird. Maybe I'm just not open minded?
I made this thread because I always hear women complaining about stuff like this but then they go up to me and are like "aren't you happy u aren't a girl?" I'm just thinking "wut, girls have this stuff way easier. Even ugly autistic girls can get a bf with ease."
IDK man. I'm stressed the fuark out.
SOME people will maintain and a smaller minority will look better.
But yeah people also get taken up and your dating pool shrinks dramatically. Most women in their 20s also want guys in their 20s as well.
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03-18-2021, 10:49 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21⏩
This. Also, there is no "end game" to being career focused.Yeah the memories thing is huge. Like what memories are you going to have together if you meet someone in your 30s/40s??
Also the focus on your career thing is pure cope IMO. You can focus on a career (which basically just means show up to work and do your job and you will move up the corporate ladder) and still have time for everything else.
Also the focus on your career thing is pure cope IMO. You can focus on a career (which basically just means show up to work and do your job and you will move up the corporate ladder) and still have time for everything else.
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03-18-2021, 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9⏩
According to the Misc. men in their 50s will get women in their 20s.Most people in general, male or female, will have their looks decline as they age. This will occur even if you live a very healthy lifestyle and stay very fit and keep all your hair. Of course, most will decline due to those reasons and just general aging.
SOME people will maintain and a smaller minority will look better.
But yeah people also get taken up and your dating pool shrinks dramatically. Most women in their 20s also want guys in their 20s as well.
SOME people will maintain and a smaller minority will look better.
But yeah people also get taken up and your dating pool shrinks dramatically. Most women in their 20s also want guys in their 20s as well.
03-18-2021, 11:27 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Only if they are multi millionaires who are still chads cuz they aged really wellAccording to the Misc. men in their 50s will get women in their 20s.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Sure if you're directly paying.According to the Misc. men in their 50s will get women in their 20s.
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9⏩
LOL exactly.Sure if you're directly paying.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
Lots of guys in their 40s get with women in their 30s. Like 7-8 years age gaps. That isn't rare. But 30s and 20s is actually fairly uncommon and 40s and 20s is rare.LOL exactly.
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Your first mistake is ever stressing over a woman.
The fairy tale is just a dream. 9 times out of 10 you'll be sick of her chit after a few years and be happy to find out one of your buds was blowing her back out behind your back. Don't invest anything more into a woman than what she brings to the table. If she brings nothing to you besides her vagina then the only thing you invest into her is your penis.
Men are entirely self sufficient. You have no reason to settle down until well into your 60s when you might need a caretaker. Even then you can just buy one. Use women for what they can provide for you but never ever trust them. If they ever get the least bit disrespectful or unagreeable, next. There's always a younger hotter one around the corner. Their shelf life expires long before yours.
The fairy tale is just a dream. 9 times out of 10 you'll be sick of her chit after a few years and be happy to find out one of your buds was blowing her back out behind your back. Don't invest anything more into a woman than what she brings to the table. If she brings nothing to you besides her vagina then the only thing you invest into her is your penis.
Men are entirely self sufficient. You have no reason to settle down until well into your 60s when you might need a caretaker. Even then you can just buy one. Use women for what they can provide for you but never ever trust them. If they ever get the least bit disrespectful or unagreeable, next. There's always a younger hotter one around the corner. Their shelf life expires long before yours.
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Just came to tell you that I´m 25 and I have plenty of options that realistically are not bad at all, but I´m too stubborn to accept them, so don´t get scared. You can always find someone.
2nd, I like bald guys, there are women who like bald guys.
3rd, focus on making money, it´s more important than anything else. Most women still want a provider if they marry.
2nd, I like bald guys, there are women who like bald guys.
3rd, focus on making money, it´s more important than anything else. Most women still want a provider if they marry.
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Well ofc you get a younger woman when you want to settle down, why miss out on one of men's biggest advantages?
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Nothing more attractive then a guy in his 30's and 40's that is in shape and a beast because literally noone at that age is. I'll be 32 in a few months and I haven't missed a beat in the gym I'm still strong and healthy and huge and I get lots of attention for it because the vast majority of guys my age are skinny fat lazy douches that couldn't run half a mile without dying of a heart attack. As you age your chance to excel and stand out increases not decreases.
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Originally Posted By Fitnessguy24⏩
Many of us can turn heads, but if you're not fuking bitches what's your point?Nothing more attractive then a guy in his 30's and 40's that is in shape and a beast because literally noone at that age is. I'll be 32 in a few months and I haven't missed a beat in the gym I'm still strong and healthy and huge and I get lots of attention for it because the vast majority of guys my age are skinny fat lazy douches that couldn't run half a mile without dying of a heart attack. As you age your chance to excel and stand out increases not decreases.
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03-19-2021, 06:55 AM
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I look better now at 30+ than I did in my early 20s. (Yes, not natty.)
Also, OP, you're 27. What the fuk are you even talking about lol. You can still date girls in their early-mid 20s and there are tons of those out there. Not even sure if srs.
Also, OP, you're 27. What the fuk are you even talking about lol. You can still date girls in their early-mid 20s and there are tons of those out there. Not even sure if srs.
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Originally Posted By goonsondeck⏩
Age: 33I was 33 when I found my misses she was 25
27 is very young as a male
27 is very young as a male
I'm 28 not 50. Why can't I change my age?
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The end game would be owning a nice house in a nice area, having decent cars, and enough in savings for freedom/life experiences. If you’ve got all this in your mid 40s and stayed in good shape, you’ll be able to pull a gal in her mid 20s no problem.This. Also, there is no "end game" to being career focused.
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Originally Posted By wannabetoughguy⏩
It's bodybuilding.com. You'll hardly find an activity that attracts more insecure, dysfunctional man children with unresolved mental issues than bodybuilding.Misc is a sad place nowadays. Mid to late 20s you need to start pursuing ideal women who can help you raise a family. I'm married and get pussy more often then you so called bachelors. Handjobs and BJs when she's on the rag. Two beautiful kids.
That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.
Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?
Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
That's what life is all about. Plant a tree and raise a family. Leave something in this world. Not miscing day in and out talking about your dick size, how unfair marriage is, feminism, how the future will be, how depressed you are, etc.
Misc is like modern day Japan nothing but a bunch of insecure porn addicts that aren't laying pipe and raising families. I'm sure your dads and grandads already had their partners or children by their late 20s and 30s... Why not you?
Miscing is comfort food for the forever alone and insecure. ****ing guys with 6 packs and pecs talking about how miserable they are, how unfair the world is, how women have so much privilege nowadays, on and on. I suggest miscers start acting like men and stop complaining. Go to family for advice not the miserable ****s on here.
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