Thread: Anyone NOT want kids? (srs)
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Originally Posted By GeezersPalace⏩
nope, my gf has done a lot to help push me in directions in life that made me happier and more money, I really like the support system we have and the unit we are together and we share the same passions and enjoyments in life. have no desire to smash other women.wtf would u need a gf and no kids? you only partner up if yo uwant kids....don't u wanna smash prime slave cunny?
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Nope.
Even if I did want them, I'm not financially set up enough to give them a great start in life, and I also don't have a wife, let alone one who is capable of being a good mother (good luck finding one)
So no I'm not going to be selfish and bring a kid into the world under those circumstances.
Even if I did want them, I'm not financially set up enough to give them a great start in life, and I also don't have a wife, let alone one who is capable of being a good mother (good luck finding one)
So no I'm not going to be selfish and bring a kid into the world under those circumstances.
03-21-2021, 06:00 PM
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And dont let people tell you "legacy" matters when they will be dead in the dirt. I guarantee all the people that preach "Legacy " can't even name their great great grandfather or even know what he did for a living.
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My daughter was asleep by 6 weeks. I followed a certain set of books to get her to sleep through the night ASAP.
Yes it's not easy at all but the joy makes it worth it, for those of us who want kids. I know plenty of people who don't have kids and are happy traveling and living life in a different manner.
It's not like you have a biological clock, so don't worry about it.
Yes it's not easy at all but the joy makes it worth it, for those of us who want kids. I know plenty of people who don't have kids and are happy traveling and living life in a different manner.
It's not like you have a biological clock, so don't worry about it.
03-21-2021, 07:42 PM
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I didnt for years. Even said we never would think about it. But now in my later 40s and 3 kids later, I wouldn't want it any other way.
Life became basic with it just being me and my wife. Life was great but it was like bland chicken after 8 years marriage. It was like there was a lack of motivation to grow because we didn't have a reason. Not saying we didn't grow but we accomplished whatever we wanted in life by that time.
Growth after you achieve what you want is a terrible fight with yourself. Since having kids, our who reason for life has been new, and fulfilling yet again.
I couldn't imagine deciding to go back to the way it was. If it happens it'll be by no choice of my own.
Life became basic with it just being me and my wife. Life was great but it was like bland chicken after 8 years marriage. It was like there was a lack of motivation to grow because we didn't have a reason. Not saying we didn't grow but we accomplished whatever we wanted in life by that time.
Growth after you achieve what you want is a terrible fight with yourself. Since having kids, our who reason for life has been new, and fulfilling yet again.
I couldn't imagine deciding to go back to the way it was. If it happens it'll be by no choice of my own.
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03-22-2021, 03:53 AM
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03-22-2021, 03:57 AM
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03-22-2021, 04:24 AM
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Fuk no. Never have and never will. My sleep schedule sucks dink half the time as it is.... you think it would be fun to wake up 7 times every night to a crying baby? I'd rather literally blow my brains out. SRS. brb make over 100k and still feel poor without any wife/kids/bullsht
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03-22-2021, 04:29 AM
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I only read a few posts. Most of you should NOT even think about having kids. We have enough emotionally immature people who didn't receive the right guidance growing up. They raised kids that turned out to bully other kids.. and many (surprise?) never "grow out" of that phase. Some do. But you need to be mentally stable, have genuine empathy for the human race, never-ending patience and financial means (depending on where you live)- not just the desire to "think" you want kids. IDK, much of the misc dosen't seem capable enough to me.
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Originally Posted By Hardknock⏩
I understand.I didnt for years. Even said we never would think about it. But now in my later 40s and 3 kids later, I wouldn't want it any other way.
Life became basic with it just being me and my wife. Life was great but it was like bland chicken after 8 years marriage. It was like there was a lack of motivation to grow because we didn't have a reason. Not saying we didn't grow but we accomplished whatever we wanted in life by that time.
Growth after you achieve what you want is a terrible fight with yourself. Since having kids, our who reason for life has been new, and fulfilling yet again.
I couldn't imagine deciding to go back to the way it was. If it happens it'll be by no choice of my own.
Life became basic with it just being me and my wife. Life was great but it was like bland chicken after 8 years marriage. It was like there was a lack of motivation to grow because we didn't have a reason. Not saying we didn't grow but we accomplished whatever we wanted in life by that time.
Growth after you achieve what you want is a terrible fight with yourself. Since having kids, our who reason for life has been new, and fulfilling yet again.
I couldn't imagine deciding to go back to the way it was. If it happens it'll be by no choice of my own.
When I'm 40+ I'll think about kids. Seems like the best age for a man to have kids too, you know enough of the world by then and should have some solid wisdom and life skills by then. And of course financial stability.
03-22-2021, 04:37 AM
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be healthy financially before you have kids imo
03-22-2021, 04:41 AM
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I'm not sure what is happening to me: late 20s, starting to accept I probably won't have any kids before late 30s, because I won't even finish and reach my career/education goal before mid 30s
Starting to get those feelings of "why bring a kid into this world, which is getting more and more fuked up compared to how I grew up"
On top of that, finding a good woman who matches me seems to be harder and harder as well
I am not stressing about it now, but I can imagine turning late 30s and start to maybe miss having a kid. But maybe not
I did have a chance a few years ago, luckily did not happen
Starting to get those feelings of "why bring a kid into this world, which is getting more and more fuked up compared to how I grew up"
On top of that, finding a good woman who matches me seems to be harder and harder as well
I am not stressing about it now, but I can imagine turning late 30s and start to maybe miss having a kid. But maybe not
I did have a chance a few years ago, luckily did not happen
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes big difference but I never wanted kids. When I was young I did not want them and everyone told me Iโd change my mind as I got older but I still never wanted them.
Iโm not a maternal person and I donโt want to dedicate my life to taking care of other people. Plus I donโt like that you canโt choose what kind of kids you get as to health, personality, looks, gender etc. Plus I donโt think the world is that great and many people suffer.
Iโm not a maternal person and I donโt want to dedicate my life to taking care of other people. Plus I donโt like that you canโt choose what kind of kids you get as to health, personality, looks, gender etc. Plus I donโt think the world is that great and many people suffer.
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honestly the reason i don't want kids is because i genuinely don't think life is good enough, in general, to feel good about subjecting someone to living without their consent.
of course there are good parts, but overall i don't think it's worth it. unless i fully escaped the 'grind' and had enough money to set something up for them so they weren't a wagecel and could do something they actually enjoyed - then i probably would.
pretty much everyone who has kids never thinks about that kid as a grown up adult. yeah they might do something they enjoy for 40+ hours a week, but also there's a huge chance they'll have to do something boring **** for 40+ hours a week and mostly not enjoy life that much. i just couldn't feel good if i brought someone into the world without some kind of a hand up or opportunity to not live like this :
I think people who do are absolute ****s and are selfish
of course there are good parts, but overall i don't think it's worth it. unless i fully escaped the 'grind' and had enough money to set something up for them so they weren't a wagecel and could do something they actually enjoyed - then i probably would.
pretty much everyone who has kids never thinks about that kid as a grown up adult. yeah they might do something they enjoy for 40+ hours a week, but also there's a huge chance they'll have to do something boring **** for 40+ hours a week and mostly not enjoy life that much. i just couldn't feel good if i brought someone into the world without some kind of a hand up or opportunity to not live like this :
I think people who do are absolute ****s and are selfish
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Imo everyone who starts having children before the age of 40 and tells you ''it's worth it'' says so because they love their children too much now and it's too late to envision a life without them.
I'll start a family when I don't have anything else I want to achieve in life srs.
I'll start a family when I don't have anything else I want to achieve in life srs.
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Yh Iโm get 18 girls pregnant then dip
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Originally Posted By ontclone⏩
lmfao thisAnd dont let people tell you "legacy" matters when they will be dead in the dirt. I guarantee all the people that preach "Legacy " can't even name their great great grandfather or even know what he did for a living.
Every ******* that preaches about legacy has no clue who there great grandfathers are lmfao
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Originally Posted By Lowkick⏩
Im 39 with two toddlers, I love my kids but it was the worst decision I have ever made in my life.Imo everyone who starts having children before the age of 40 and tells you ''it's worth it'' says so because they love their children too much now and it's too late to envision a life without them.
I'll start a family when I don't have anything else I want to achieve in life srs.
I'll start a family when I don't have anything else I want to achieve in life srs.
03-22-2021, 06:11 AM
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Always thought I'd grow into wanting them, but I am nearing 40 and still have absolutely no desire. I do think I will perhaps wish I had kids when I am old and dying, perhaps, but don't think that what if is a good reason to alter my life into what would be misery for me right now. Lucky I am with a girl who feels the same. We are some of the happiest people I know, ample free time, and in great financial shape for our incomes. I've started to look at my dream home on a lake and thinking about retiring. Wouldn't change a thing.
More and more people are going to no kids life. I think as a human race we evolve to now being occupied and satisfied with many things in life as in times of old people just had kids, because what else you gonna do? Obviously at my age most of my friends have kids, some really enjoy being parents while others are completely miserable and shouldn't have fallen to the societal pressure to have children.
More and more people are going to no kids life. I think as a human race we evolve to now being occupied and satisfied with many things in life as in times of old people just had kids, because what else you gonna do? Obviously at my age most of my friends have kids, some really enjoy being parents while others are completely miserable and shouldn't have fallen to the societal pressure to have children.
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I want a fuking football team worth of kids. Families these days are so fukked with people only having an average of 1-2 kids sometimes 3 max. When I'm an old kunt I wanna be able to invite my all my sons and daughters round for big dinners etc. I can also die happy knowing my children all have each other for support whatever it may be. Hopefully my sons will have more sons and my family line will carry on for eternity and not just die off like you see happening all the time with people that have no siblings and only have 1 daughter, daughter gets married off, name gone. End of story. Fuk that.
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Originally Posted By EnderG60⏩
Elaborate...Im 39 with two toddlers, I love my kids but it was the worst decision I have ever made in my life.
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Itโs not just about having kids. Itโs about having a family.
Like Woody Harrelson said in True Detective had some truth to it. โAt a certain point, a man without a family....can be a bad thing.โ
Iโm leaning more towards not having kids but either choice is a gamble which I fukking HATE because Iโm not a gambler.
Like Woody Harrelson said in True Detective had some truth to it. โAt a certain point, a man without a family....can be a bad thing.โ
Iโm leaning more towards not having kids but either choice is a gamble which I fukking HATE because Iโm not a gambler.
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
Though I wanted kids because I like playing with my cousins, friends and bros kids but was also ok with not having kids. Wife wanted 4, I figured 2 would be good enough. Had my son and within 2 months I realized how wrong I was. I should not be a father, I do not have the patience to deal with this level of need 24/7. My son wont sleep, needs constant attention and screams at every fugging thing. My daughter was an accident and the fear of it happening again made me get snipped 2 months after her birth.Elaborate...
My son is almost 3 now, daughter is 1.5. I have to leave the house about 4 times a day because they piss me off so much just being babies. Everyone keeps saying "oh they get better at 2, 3, 4, 5 years old" No they dont, the BS just changes as they age.
I love my kids, I miss them when Im not around but when I am around I just want to leave. I have no time for myself, and if I do take time for my self I get guilt about not being around for the kids. I have no time for any of my hobbies or anything that actually makes me happy.
So yeah, I have kids, I love them, I will never leave them, I will be the best dad I can be, but every single day I regret having kids.
Our entire society is built around "you should start a family" Na, unless you have full on baby fever and know you want a bunch of kids, you dont actually want kids. You just think you do because is the "norm".
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Will be 32 soon and will try for kids. Canโt imagine getting into your mid 40โs and not having kids. Having no legacy sounds horrible. Would feel like a waste of oxygen.
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Originally Posted By EnderG60⏩
Dude it really does get better. And you have to take time for yourself and not feel guilty about it. It can be done.Though I wanted kids because I like playing with my cousins, friends and bros kids but was also ok with not having kids. Wife wanted 4, I figured 2 would be good enough. Had my son and within 2 months I realized how wrong I was. I should not be a father, I do not have the patience to deal with this level of need 24/7. My son wont sleep, needs constant attention and screams at every fugging thing. My daughter was an accident and the fear of it happening again made me get snipped 2 months after her birth.
My son is almost 3 now, daughter is 1.5. I have to leave the house about 4 times a day because they piss me off so much just being babies. Everyone keeps saying "oh they get better at 2, 3, 4, 5 years old" No they dont, the BS just changes as they age.
I love my kids, I miss them when Im not around but when I am around I just want to leave. I have no time for myself, and if I do take time for my self I get guilt about not being around for the kids. I have no time for any of my hobbies or anything that actually makes me happy.
So yeah, I have kids, I love them, I will never leave them, I will be the best dad I can be, but every single day I regret having kids.
My son is almost 3 now, daughter is 1.5. I have to leave the house about 4 times a day because they piss me off so much just being babies. Everyone keeps saying "oh they get better at 2, 3, 4, 5 years old" No they dont, the BS just changes as they age.
I love my kids, I miss them when Im not around but when I am around I just want to leave. I have no time for myself, and if I do take time for my self I get guilt about not being around for the kids. I have no time for any of my hobbies or anything that actually makes me happy.
So yeah, I have kids, I love them, I will never leave them, I will be the best dad I can be, but every single day I regret having kids.
The first 3-4 years are like a combat zone. It's hard to prepare for it. But I guarantee you, you will look back at it and miss it in a few years when the kids become less dependent.
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