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post 1635413023 04-04-2021, 02:21 PM
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I'm 33 and i plan to marry an 18 year old overseas.
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Originally Posted By ghostdivision88
why would a "chad" sleep with you

thats a waste of semen
A lot of young men want an older woman. One 23 year old D1 athlete just told me it's "exciting" to have an older woman.

Somehow SS and I pull them and the Misc. gets rustled.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
A lot of young men want an older woman. One 23 year old D1 athlete just told me it's "exciting" to have an older woman.

Somehow SS and I pull them and the Misc. gets rustled.
You realize the topic at hand is couples age difference not fuk buddies

I do agree a lot of guys want older women, but only to fuk unless they’re beta. A high test young male is gonna wanna fuk any chick from 18-55 as look as she looks decent

Hell I’m 27 and not a former college athlete and I’d still fuk your average 38-39 year old milf
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Originally Posted By spazzin
You realize the topic at hand is couples age difference not fuk buddies

I do agree a lot of guys want older women, but only to fuk unless they’re beta. A high test young male is gonna wanna fuk any chick from 18-55 as look as she looks decent

Hell I’m 27 and not a former college athlete and I’d still fuk your average 38-39 year old milf
I've had relationships with some who weren't beta, but they didn't last long.

I know I won't marry a 23 year old, but the men over 40 really don't look that great so it's hard to find someone I'm attracted to. I know SS posted the same.

It's best to marry young and grow old together. I'm not going to do better than my estranged husband in terms of looks.
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Originally Posted By Adnim
It's honestly so easy. Just take care of your body your whole life, and have a little bit of game. Even if you don't have inner alpha-ness like me, you can still fake it and smash once or twice.
Bro you got to leave miscers with something they can blame for their inadequacies with women
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
A lot of young men want an older woman. One 23 year old D1 athlete just told me it's "exciting" to have an older woman.

Somehow SS and I pull them and the Misc. gets rustled.
Why should we be rustled that 40 year olds are slooting it up? Just confirms there's some older sloots out there for us as well.
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In on bursting miscers fantasy bubble



https://www.womenshealthmag.com/rela...-relationship/

5 year age difference increase likelihood of divorce by 18%
10 year age difference increase likelihood by 39%
20 year difference increase likelihood by 95%
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Originally Posted By DSTEE
In on bursting miscers fantasy bubble



https://www.womenshealthmag.com/rela...-relationship/

5 year age difference increase likelihood of divorce by 18%
10 year age difference increase likelihood by 39%
20 year difference increase likelihood by 95%
Dat feel when I have an age difference of only 17 days with my girl.
post 1635423663 04-04-2021, 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted By DoYouEvenNEM
Even in Eastern Europe, despite looking younger than my age, if I put my real age on Tinder or Bumble I would get ZERO matches. And people claim Eastern Europe is somehow old school but guys who lived there (for real) claim it's already been westernized.


Really the only place in the world where women ignore age gap has been the Philippines for me. I've yet to find another country. If there is another country it's probably likewise in South East Asia.
In South America, there's a wider age gap for sure(but it's not an eliminated one). It's quite easy to pull girls in their early to mid 20s up to the age of 35. I've talked to girls who say 35 is a pretty hard cutoff though and not many younger girls are going much older than that(unless obvious caveats apply like good looking or super rich). Still though, I went to Colombia for a week right after they reopened travel at the end of last year and I fuked like 4 girls from Tinder so it definitely works. I'm 35, and had my age blocked. But I was still mostly matching with girls in their late 20s, and not getting as many super young girls like before.
post 1635424023 04-04-2021, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
I've had relationships with some who weren't beta, but they didn't last long.

I know I won't marry a 23 year old, but the men over 40 really don't look that great so it's hard to find someone I'm attracted to. I know SS posted the same.

It's best to marry young and grow old together. I'm not going to do better than my estranged husband in terms of looks.
You're already married you dumb whore. Yes any man with common sense won't get within half a mile of your crazy ass, which is why you can only get pumped n dumped by fat 20 something incels.
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post 1635424133 04-04-2021, 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted By ralphlaurenbrah
Yeah most men don’t invest in themselves and aren’t successful in life. 99% of men let themselves go as they get older and never achieve anything. I can literally have almost any woman I want because of my job (anesthesia). I’m not even kidding. The fine wine **** only applies to men who stay fit and are successful, otherwise we all know aging destroys looks and no girl wants a man twice her age unless he can support her and give her an amazing life.
should have done that job tbh. now I have to take my chances at climbing the corporate ladder to make good money. How much do you make?
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post 1635424223 04-04-2021, 05:12 PM
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Totally agree-However "most" would also mean you're referring to "average"

The misc, although it extremely easy to forget these days, is part of a bodybuilding forum. with that being said being over the age of 27 and in relatively good shape both physically and financially puts you in a category above "most".

With that being said, this is why you have to look at both ends of the spectrum. Most dudes already don't pull much to begin with so getting a girl close to their age group or hell even older makes total sense. I agree that the ability to get younger girls is slightly overblown here, however once again you gotta realize that those people saying that have what I mentioned earlier so it isn't too hard to fathom.

With that being said the sample size is going to seem larger just based on that fact alone. The dudes that have the ability to get the younger chicks are going to respond in those threads, so it skews the perception.

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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9
Here is what the facts show:

The average age difference (for a heterosexual couple) is 2.3 years, with the man older than the woman. In 64 percent of heterosexual couples, the man is older. In 23 percent, the woman is older, and in the remaining 13 percent, the partners are less than 12 months apart in age.

The idea of gaining immense "value" when you're older and being the catch for people a decade younger than you is for the most part, a myth. Actual data disproves it.


Reference:

https://fivethirtyeight.com/features...e-in-a-couple/
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post 1635427053 04-04-2021, 05:55 PM
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LOL I am closer to my mother in law's age than I am to my wife's.
post 1635427823 04-04-2021, 06:05 PM
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Don't know where those "studies" come from. Barely see any now, at least women <30yo. These 18-23yo sluts once they drop their high school/ college dorky bf and go for a guy 28-38yo, they're never getting back with a younger guy, there's just no way. Specially these days, where every girl wants to live "the life", they want a confident, successful, rich man not a young boy with no confidence struggling to get a decent job.

Seen this happen all the time.
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Originally Posted By Adnim
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I didn't even factor in how difficult it is for men in their 20's to get jobs now. In literally every industry, they have to be twice as good as a female candidate in order to get hired. Also, it's a provable fact that younger generations are becoming more and more beta. (https://www.urologytimes.com/view/te...g-young-us-men) Since this thread is about marriage, allow me to point out, that as ageneral rule, women do not marry men who make less money than them. Most women in their 20s make more money than most men in their 20s, and their salaries are only going up, while men's are going down. Which means they have even more incentive to look for older men.

Also, I'd like to point out the fact that most college students are female now, and the hottest girls in the country are on college campuses. There are campuses that are about 70% female lmao. There are hot girls all over campuses that fantasize about finding a hot older alpha male to come fuk them, but they're just surrounded by the most beta and feminized generation of young men in US history. It's never been easier for older men.
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I doubt things are drastically different in the last 5 years. Men are still making more than sloots.
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Originally Posted By Barteh
Why should we be rustled that 40 year olds are slooting it up? Just confirms there's some older sloots out there for us as well.
Look ITT or in any SS thread to see the rustling
Originally Posted By Kev1972
You're already married you dumb whore. Yes any man with common sense won't get within half a mile of your crazy ass, which is why you can only get pumped n dumped by fat 20 something incels.
You get me confused with SS. She likes the linemen who are fatter.
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I don’t see how you can be a 40yr old man and be with a 40yr old woman, there’s just a large gap in attraction by then, assuming she’s not Kate beckinsale type milf.

Most couples are the same age because that’s who we interact with. We date the girl at college who is the around the same age. The girl at the bar that is frequented by the same age group.

I have some much younger friends and so exposed to a lot of younger women. In that scenario, if you’re a 35yr old guy with looks still and money, I don’t see why you would go for a 35yr old who’s ovaries are about to dry up over the 25yr old in your circle?

In short, men are with women their age by chance, just as most men are with women in their social circle. Guys who have choices aren’t.
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Originally Posted By Hardlifter9
The average age difference (for a heterosexual couple) is 2.3 years, with the man older than the woman. In 64 percent of heterosexual couples, the man is older. In 23 percent, the woman is older, and in the remaining 13 percent, the partners are less than 12 months apart in age
OP, have you seen what average people look like these days?


The whole "men gaining immense value when older" idea has nothing to do with the world of average people. The average woman weighs more than I do (avg american woman weighs 170.6 lbs. I'm at 168lbs per my gym scale today).
No, OP, the decade-or-more age-difference between a man and his woman is a concept that is relegated to the above-average class of people. I've seen countless examples of above-average older men hooking up or marrying above-average younger women.
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Originally Posted By Adnim
+1
I didn't even factor in how difficult it is for men in their 20's to get jobs now. In literally every industry, they have to be twice as good as a female candidate in order to get hired. Also, it's a provable fact that younger generations are becoming more and more beta. (https://www.urologytimes.com/view/te...g-young-us-men) Since this thread is about marriage, allow me to point out, that as ageneral rule, women do not marry men who make less money than them. Most women in their 20s make more money than most men in their 20s, and their salaries are only going up, while men's are going down. Which means they have even more incentive to look for older men.

Also, I'd like to point out the fact that most college students are female now, and the hottest girls in the country are on college campuses. There are campuses that are about 70% female lmao. There are hot girls all over campuses that fantasize about finding a hot older alpha male to come fuk them, but they're just surrounded by the most beta and feminized generation of young men in US history. It's never been easier for older men.
what a cope to make yourself feel better.

no one is fantasizing about some old man with receding hairline to come fukk them.

young women don't care about money as much as you copers think because they already have their parents to pay for them. they also get onlyfans now if they want the extra money without looking for a sugar daddy. there's young chads all over tiktok that young girls swoon over. stop coping it's dangerous for health
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Originally Posted By plsmire
I don’t see how you can be a 40yr old man and be with a 40yr old woman
Same way I don't see how you can be 40 and still single. If you haven't managed to settle until that age, what makes you think you suddenly can with a decade younger partner?
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It would be very difficult for me to marry a woman significantly younger than me, although it would be very difficult for me to marry any woman, imo.

That being said, the average guy is a loser who takes what he can get. Most guys are just lucky enough to nab someone cute enough who hasn't figured out he won't reach near his potential yet, they get hitched, kids, she gets fat and turns into a total kunt, he gets fat, divorce, blah blah.

For handsome, jacked, successful men who are developed? It's a different ball game. When I was 22 I was studding yoga/pilates/silicone maxxing rich 40 year olds, slaying 19 year olds, and staying the fuk away from women my age.

I'm 32 going on 33 soon and guess what. The same types of women I was sleeping with as a 22 year old young bull I'm still hosing down. Breaking in girls before their 21st and being the monthly pick me up a woman needs to build her confidence before going in and eviscerating her husband in divorce mediation, lol.

Also, just lol at early 30's women... It's a disaster.

Had an ex that's 30 now hit me up and start throwing the idea of reconnecting and spending a weekend together. Turned her down, she got irate and went off about how she's perfect wifey material blah blah blah. And the sad reality is she's right, she is 100% wifey material... It's just that there are 22 year old versions of her walking around with their wet setting on heavy for me and I'm still years from peaking, srs. Businesses taking off, got sober after a decade of abuse, look like I did when I was 24 killing the "rate my face" threads on here, lmao.

Uncle and Dad looked like superman from 20-45, Uncle fell off from drinking and dad quit lifting, but still get bishes mentioning how handsome my dad is, no homo. His last serious gf is 31 now, I think.
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Originally Posted By ipusholdpeople
what a cope to make yourself feel better.

no one is fantasizing about some old man with receding hairline to come fukk them.

young women don't care about money as much as you copers think because they already have their parents to pay for them. they also get onlyfans now if they want the extra money without looking for a sugar daddy. there's young chads all over tiktok that young girls swoon over. stop coping it's dangerous for health
This. Super outliers in their late 30s or early 40s might pull young chicks on occasion if they're still in decent shape and show off the bank account, but just LOL if any of y'all think college girls just get super wet for dudes within a decade of their parents. They might occasionally fuk you for a dinner or some cash, but it's not consistent. They're hitting up the college athletes and pretty boys walking around campus. They're especially looking for the pretty boys with good majors so they can mark them for future husband material. They'll fuk around on campus and their mid 20s then once 26+ hits they'll call up the Chad who majored in engineering or finance and shoot their shot. Lots of cope in this thread. I don't know where y'all are, but I know lots of sexy bishes in their 20s and 30s who are childless and that I would fuk if my girl and I ever broke up.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss
I've had relationships with some who weren't beta, but they didn't last long.

I know I won't marry a 23 year old, but the men over 40 really don't look that great so it's hard to find someone I'm attracted to. I know SS posted the same.

It's best to marry young and grow old together. I'm not going to do better than my estranged husband in terms of looks.
You're both deranged. SS is a fatass which is why she can't find a descent man. She keeps trying to punch above her weight.

You're doing the same thing. If you were a very attractive high value woman you would get a very attractive high value man.
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Originally Posted By swoleyo
You're both deranged. SS is a fatass which is why she can't find a descent man. She keeps trying to punch above her weight.

You're doing the same thing. If you were a very attractive high value woman you would get a very attractive high value man.
You forget that people age and aren't as attractive as they get older. My husband is an attractive, high value man and I married him in my 20s. Now he is 7 years older than me, but we got tired of each other.
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Originally Posted By DSTEE
Same way I don't see how you can be 40 and still single. If you haven't managed to settle until that age, what makes you think you suddenly can with a decade younger partner?
People decide when they settle. If that’s at 20, great, you find another 20 year old. If you’ve been playing around for 20 years and decide to settle at 40, what man with options would choose another 40yr old woman instead of the 30yr old.

My parents have been married 35+ years, 13 years difference btw.
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Originally Posted By LurkoLantern
OP, have you seen what average people look like these days?


The whole "men gaining immense value when older" idea has nothing to do with the world of average people. The average woman weighs more than I do (avg american woman weighs 170.6 lbs. I'm at 168lbs per my gym scale today).
No, OP, the decade-or-more age-difference between a man and his woman is a concept that is relegated to the above-average class of people. I've seen countless examples of above-average older men hooking up or marrying above-average younger women.
There was a graph that also illustrated the age gap ranges. Are you arguing that every guy has a shot at being a top 1% male? That's a statistical myth.
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