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Didn't read thread but quit alcohol, quit drugs, don't get married, don't have kids and don't go to college.
05-08-2021, 02:20 PM
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Buy a house
05-08-2021, 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted By merb0⏩
Ummm no it doesn’t… not on TRT either. We’re in our thirties not seventies…One more, try to do something designating you in a dominant social class asap.
This is literally the most important thing you can do for your success.
I would not mind trying dutasteride and 300+ TRT to see if it works. If so, literally a fountain of youth. Give up the dream of invincibility asap. You need to work some things to make it. Do not feel ashamed of botox, etc. Literally everyone dabbles in some dark arts.
A few points for why you need to act proactive sometimes:Morning wood goes away in your 30s. (Without TRT) Your entire business fails in your old age.Do not feel shame in taking care of yourself.
Being in a dominant class can make it easier to feel confident about stuff like this.
This is literally the most important thing you can do for your success.
I would not mind trying dutasteride and 300+ TRT to see if it works. If so, literally a fountain of youth. Give up the dream of invincibility asap. You need to work some things to make it. Do not feel ashamed of botox, etc. Literally everyone dabbles in some dark arts.
A few points for why you need to act proactive sometimes:Morning wood goes away in your 30s. (Without TRT) Your entire business fails in your old age.Do not feel shame in taking care of yourself.
Being in a dominant class can make it easier to feel confident about stuff like this.
05-08-2021, 02:24 PM
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Best trips I had was when I traveled alone to places in my 20s. Smashed so many girls and met a bunch of cool people. Since people know you’re a tourist and you’re solo they open up quite a bit more than if you were in a group. It also gets you out of your bubble and gain confidence in social settings...you have to actually try to have fun. If you sit in your room all day it will be a chitty time, its what you make it.
05-08-2021, 02:31 PM
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Be health minded
Develop discipline (fitness, career, self learning, finances)
Don't do things detrimental to your future
Don't be like everyone else. It's embarrassing how many of my friends in their early through late 30s are becoming geniuses now, seeing the wisdom in doing things people like me have been doing since age 18.
There's so much to say and not enough time to do so. Always think ahead and consider what the general populous does. Chances are, they're generic and average people doing average things and will end up the same way. Do better for yourself. Don't be too self important that you're a POS either, and especially don't be a low quality person who's also self important and a total POS. That's even worse and we have enough of them.
Develop true happiness; not useless transient happiness that is baseless. That's fine, but behind nothing else it's not a promising way to go.
My best friend learned many of these the hard way, it's tough to see.
Develop discipline (fitness, career, self learning, finances)
Don't do things detrimental to your future
Don't be like everyone else. It's embarrassing how many of my friends in their early through late 30s are becoming geniuses now, seeing the wisdom in doing things people like me have been doing since age 18.
There's so much to say and not enough time to do so. Always think ahead and consider what the general populous does. Chances are, they're generic and average people doing average things and will end up the same way. Do better for yourself. Don't be too self important that you're a POS either, and especially don't be a low quality person who's also self important and a total POS. That's even worse and we have enough of them.
Develop true happiness; not useless transient happiness that is baseless. That's fine, but behind nothing else it's not a promising way to go.
My best friend learned many of these the hard way, it's tough to see.
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05-08-2021, 02:34 PM
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05-08-2021, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By kusok⏩
this.Advice to young Miscers from an oldcel former Chad who lived an interesting life:
1- don’t be a whore. Do not plow more than one woman at a time. If you meet a good person who is a beautiful woman, loves you, and is not crazy, marry her. Sign a prenup thou.
2- Stop smoking and drinking. Do not use drugs. Any drugs.
3- Start doing, learning, and making money with whatever it is that you like and are good at.
4- Do not waste money or motels, car, presents to girls etc. save your money. Do not be a cuck.
5- lift consistently, stay 2 steps ahead of injuries, do not be a hero or a show off.
6- apply for gun permit, get a firearm and go to a range at least couple times per month. First time go with an instructor.
7- do not tan, protect your skin, and you will have glow and good skin in your 40s and 50s.
8- stop useless sheit like video games and watching TV.
9- Some martial art and military experience is a plus.
10- be good to your parents and to other good people, do not fight or argue with anyone, be a good person, stop being a ****git.
1- don’t be a whore. Do not plow more than one woman at a time. If you meet a good person who is a beautiful woman, loves you, and is not crazy, marry her. Sign a prenup thou.
2- Stop smoking and drinking. Do not use drugs. Any drugs.
3- Start doing, learning, and making money with whatever it is that you like and are good at.
4- Do not waste money or motels, car, presents to girls etc. save your money. Do not be a cuck.
5- lift consistently, stay 2 steps ahead of injuries, do not be a hero or a show off.
6- apply for gun permit, get a firearm and go to a range at least couple times per month. First time go with an instructor.
7- do not tan, protect your skin, and you will have glow and good skin in your 40s and 50s.
8- stop useless sheit like video games and watching TV.
9- Some martial art and military experience is a plus.
10- be good to your parents and to other good people, do not fight or argue with anyone, be a good person, stop being a ****git.
i will add buy a house & land.
work just a little more than i necessary & build a savings/invest.
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05-08-2021, 02:43 PM
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Get lean if you aren't there, or stay lean. Don't bloat max
Start saving and investing early
Don't get into a LTR
Start saving and investing early
Don't get into a LTR
05-08-2021, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By John
Make it to 29...
05-08-2021, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted By Bigbuster1⏩
For me this is one of the easiest things to doOne of the hardest things for career entrepreneurs to do is give up some of the responsibilities of what they started in order to scale their business.
I'm too lazy for that stuff
I'll be hiking Mt St Helens Wednesday morning and people ask me what do you do for work? I tend to respond with whatever my businesses do.
It's work on your business not in your business
Once again just delegate everything
I have a team
My job isn't to do everything. As much as I would love to do everything it's impossible. There's only 24 hours in a day. I seriously have other chit to do. Other things I want to do.
You're just going to burn yourself out if you do everything.
I do agree with the 24/7 hustle mentality
It just depends on what you want.
There's so many things to life. Too little time.
80 years is the average life expectancy. I'm Type 1 diabetic. That takes like 10 years off.
So 70 years.
It's okay to hustle it out to create and build it in the first 10 years. It really is an on going thing.
But you can't do everything.
Just got to decide what you want and pick and choose your battles.
Make quick decisions. Don't spend too much time.
If a problem arises fix it fast. If you don't know the solution then get someone else. Get an expert. Can't know everything.
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05-08-2021, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
This. These are extremely critical times in your life and decisions here set the entire trajectory of your future.Men should not even entertain the idea of an LTR before age 30. Young men are too tempted to change their lives to accommodate women and sacrifice themselves for women. (ex. changing universities, jobs, taking the blame for something at work, moving, just to have her cheat on them and they now feel like the world is ending because they believed the bs fairy tale myth of "the one"). Men in their 20s should focus on careermaxxing and having as much fun as possible, doing the things they want to do. Be free and live for yourself in your 20s.
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05-08-2021, 03:24 PM
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already mentioned a few times, but stop drinking and smoking
05-09-2021, 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted By kusok⏩
on spreadAdvice to young Miscers from an oldcel former Chad who lived an interesting life:
1- don’t be a whore. Do not plow more than one woman at a time. If you meet a good person who is a beautiful woman, loves you, and is not crazy, marry her. Sign a prenup thou.
2- Stop smoking and drinking. Do not use drugs. Any drugs.
3- Start doing, learning, and making money with whatever it is that you like and are good at.
4- Do not waste money or motels, car, presents to girls etc. save your money. Do not be a cuck.
5- lift consistently, stay 2 steps ahead of injuries, do not be a hero or a show off.
6- apply for gun permit, get a firearm and go to a range at least couple times per month. First time go with an instructor.
7- do not tan, protect your skin, and you will have glow and good skin in your 40s and 50s.
8- stop useless sheit like video games and watching TV.
9- Some martial art and military experience is a plus.
10- be good to your parents and to other good people, do not fight or argue with anyone, be a good person, stop being a ****git.
1- don’t be a whore. Do not plow more than one woman at a time. If you meet a good person who is a beautiful woman, loves you, and is not crazy, marry her. Sign a prenup thou.
2- Stop smoking and drinking. Do not use drugs. Any drugs.
3- Start doing, learning, and making money with whatever it is that you like and are good at.
4- Do not waste money or motels, car, presents to girls etc. save your money. Do not be a cuck.
5- lift consistently, stay 2 steps ahead of injuries, do not be a hero or a show off.
6- apply for gun permit, get a firearm and go to a range at least couple times per month. First time go with an instructor.
7- do not tan, protect your skin, and you will have glow and good skin in your 40s and 50s.
8- stop useless sheit like video games and watching TV.
9- Some martial art and military experience is a plus.
10- be good to your parents and to other good people, do not fight or argue with anyone, be a good person, stop being a ****git.
Cope first, cope hard, no realtea
05-09-2021, 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted By StinnerOzz⏩
some elaboration here would help...Be health minded
Develop discipline (fitness, career, self learning, finances)
Don't do things detrimental to your future
Don't be like everyone else. It's embarrassing how many of my friends in their early through late 30s are becoming geniuses now, seeing the wisdom in doing things people like me have been doing since age 18.
There's so much to say and not enough time to do so. Always think ahead and consider what the general populous does. Chances are, they're generic and average people doing average things and will end up the same way. Do better for yourself. Don't be too self important that you're a POS either, and especially don't be a low quality person who's also self important and a total POS. That's even worse and we have enough of them.
Develop true happiness; not useless transient happiness that is baseless. That's fine, but behind nothing else it's not a promising way to go.
My best friend learned many of these the hard way, it's tough to see.
Develop discipline (fitness, career, self learning, finances)
Don't do things detrimental to your future
Don't be like everyone else. It's embarrassing how many of my friends in their early through late 30s are becoming geniuses now, seeing the wisdom in doing things people like me have been doing since age 18.
There's so much to say and not enough time to do so. Always think ahead and consider what the general populous does. Chances are, they're generic and average people doing average things and will end up the same way. Do better for yourself. Don't be too self important that you're a POS either, and especially don't be a low quality person who's also self important and a total POS. That's even worse and we have enough of them.
Develop true happiness; not useless transient happiness that is baseless. That's fine, but behind nothing else it's not a promising way to go.
My best friend learned many of these the hard way, it's tough to see.
Originally Posted By Adnim⏩
well this blackpilled me if I wasn't alreadyCope first, cope hard, no realtea
05-09-2021, 12:16 AM
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Learn to dance. Srs it's a great early date idea and you'll need to put out a slippery when wet floor sign.
Get enough sleep.
Look after your skin.
Don't let things become a "I wish I did that". Do them.
Get enough sleep.
Look after your skin.
Don't let things become a "I wish I did that". Do them.
05-09-2021, 12:18 AM
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use some of that time to be able to travel and live as cheap as you can. also keep an eye out for cheap real estate. buy it and just hang on to it. think long and hard if you ever go to sell it. real cost is replacement value of it.
once you have housing cost at a minimum, it's OK to finance a car but get something cheap, easy to fix and good on gas. key thing here is keeping costs and expectations low.
sometimes life just flies by and you want to do a bunch of things but realize you have way less time than someone in their 20's
also keep in mind that your chances at making it big in this field or that dont just get proportionally smaller, but exponentially. after you leave those social circles you have 5-10x less people to shoot the **** with and if you think about how many opportunities could branch off of those 5-10, you realize that as you get older and youre exposed to 1/5 as many people, lots of chances are lost. and lastly,
dont be like every other dude when an 8/9 HBB goes up to and youre too stupid to realize she's hitting on you. don't squander all your chances with them. when they do, realize it, capitalize on it, but dont give AF if you get something from it. reason i say that is because sooner or later you might want kids and like i said before, the chances of that get exponentially smaller as you get older. that is all.
once you have housing cost at a minimum, it's OK to finance a car but get something cheap, easy to fix and good on gas. key thing here is keeping costs and expectations low.
sometimes life just flies by and you want to do a bunch of things but realize you have way less time than someone in their 20's
also keep in mind that your chances at making it big in this field or that dont just get proportionally smaller, but exponentially. after you leave those social circles you have 5-10x less people to shoot the **** with and if you think about how many opportunities could branch off of those 5-10, you realize that as you get older and youre exposed to 1/5 as many people, lots of chances are lost. and lastly,
dont be like every other dude when an 8/9 HBB goes up to and youre too stupid to realize she's hitting on you. don't squander all your chances with them. when they do, realize it, capitalize on it, but dont give AF if you get something from it. reason i say that is because sooner or later you might want kids and like i said before, the chances of that get exponentially smaller as you get older. that is all.
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Originally Posted By TugOfPeace⏩
Nah, it's true. If you know how to talk to girls and you look young, there's literally zero reason why you can't be pulling young sloots. If you are wrinkly and you talk like a boring old man, then it's obviously game over.I don't buy into this concept that early 30s men have it tough when it comes to dating younger women. You might see it as cope since I'm 33 in a couple months, but I chit you not, I still feel like I'm 21 aside from the occasional lower back pain, and that's when I spend several hours doing something strenuous. I just hit PRs on all 5 compound lifts a month back and still need to fap like 14x a week. Testosterone through the roof.
Not only that but people still think I'm in college, partly because I have good aging genetics but also because I didn't drink or do drugs in my 20s, I was lifting hard as fuk and dieting. I reached my avi at around 29 and I'm just a few months away from being even better than it, at 33.
Combine that with having a six figure salary and a relatively redpill masculine personality, I frequently match with women in their mid to late 20s, sometimes even women younger than 25.
You look at so many celebrities that aged well and took care of themselves, they all peak in their mid 30s. John Hamm, Chris Hemsworth, Brad Pitt, Paul Walker, etc etc. I'm a strong believer that men who continue to push, peak in their 30s/40s, it's just that men are completely filled with soy these days so it's definitely not the norm.
My sister is 11 years younger and when I was home for her birthday parties in high school, her friends, 17-18 years old, were all into me. Very obvious, but I couldn't capitalize. Heck, my sister's closest friend was into me when she was just 16.. and I was 27.
But again, could be a massive cope from me.
Not only that but people still think I'm in college, partly because I have good aging genetics but also because I didn't drink or do drugs in my 20s, I was lifting hard as fuk and dieting. I reached my avi at around 29 and I'm just a few months away from being even better than it, at 33.
Combine that with having a six figure salary and a relatively redpill masculine personality, I frequently match with women in their mid to late 20s, sometimes even women younger than 25.
You look at so many celebrities that aged well and took care of themselves, they all peak in their mid 30s. John Hamm, Chris Hemsworth, Brad Pitt, Paul Walker, etc etc. I'm a strong believer that men who continue to push, peak in their 30s/40s, it's just that men are completely filled with soy these days so it's definitely not the norm.
My sister is 11 years younger and when I was home for her birthday parties in high school, her friends, 17-18 years old, were all into me. Very obvious, but I couldn't capitalize. Heck, my sister's closest friend was into me when she was just 16.. and I was 27.
But again, could be a massive cope from me.
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Apart from investing in yourself, I'd say sleep with many different women and try to avoid LTR.
Yes, sex with randoms get repetitive after a while, but you really want to experience that sexual variety before you are too old to naturally attract girls.
Otherwise, there's a good chance you'll turn into a perverted oldcel.
Yes, sex with randoms get repetitive after a while, but you really want to experience that sexual variety before you are too old to naturally attract girls.
Otherwise, there's a good chance you'll turn into a perverted oldcel.
05-09-2021, 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted By Anachron⏩
Good advice Analchron.Wear sunscreen.
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it.
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience...
If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it.
The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists, whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable than my own meandering experience...
05-09-2021, 01:39 AM
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Sunscreen ^^^
Buy a house
Don’t spend money on stupid chit
Save at least 1/3 of what you make
Sunscreen ^^^
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