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Thread: Wife of 14 years couldn’t even bother with a bday card

post 1640307523 06-06-2021, 07:24 PM
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Tours over man. Srs. I'm sorry. But she's obviously having an affair, srs.
post 1640307823 06-06-2021, 07:29 PM
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Don’t worry OP, we celebrated for you
post 1640308453 06-06-2021, 07:39 PM
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You're being a bitch. You mad she didn't take you to chick e cheese too? Did she remember the birthday and acknowledge it? If so who cares is she spent your money on some dumbass card.
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post 1640308603 06-06-2021, 07:40 PM
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I actually have a family, and Iam here to tell ya I forget shyt all the time.

When you have a family and are trying to make shyt happen sometimes birthdays and anniversary’s get forgotten. It’s what happens during the in between times is what matters.

Don’t be a puzzy. Srs


EDIT: OP is a dude? Hole lee fuuk what a *******
post 1640308623 06-06-2021, 07:40 PM
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Nothing at all is pretty bad. Totally thoughtless.
post 1640308883 06-06-2021, 07:44 PM
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Originally Posted By XGoHardX⏩
Good God, don’t bring that Ebonics in here. Nobody understands one word you’re trying to say and we’re too busy to decipher. Try fisting yourself before posting, that way when you post, you post with proper English.
Sir, there is no need to be upset.
post 1640309013 06-06-2021, 07:46 PM
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I've been with my wife for 15 years and if she bought me a birthday card I'd call her a *******, ded srs.
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post 1640309113 06-06-2021, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By hendrixfreak70⏩
Sir, there is no need to be upset.
Not upset at all. Just call trash out when I see it.
post 1640309133 06-06-2021, 07:48 PM
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Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers⏩
I actually have a family, and Iam here to tell ya I forget shyt all the time.

When you have a family and are trying to make shyt happen sometimes birthdays and anniversary’s get forgotten. It’s what happens during the in between times is what matters.

Don’t be a puzzy. Srs


EDIT: OP is a dude? Hole lee fuuk what a *******
This is absolute horse chit. There's like 5 times a year people have to buy something, birthday, valentine's, Christmas, anniversary, mother's day.

If you can't stop at a grocery store and buy a card or flowers 5 days out of 365 then you either are retarded, do not give a single chit, or are trying to say it's over.
post 1640309463 06-06-2021, 07:52 PM
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Yeah bros just a bit deep in my feels right now things have been good not great lately
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post 1640309723 06-06-2021, 07:54 PM
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Assuming the relationship is fine you and your wife need to read The 5 Languages of Love. She needs to be reminded that a card is important to you and you need to understand what is important to her. Sometimes we forget the little things in our busy lives.


https://www.verywellmind.com/can-the...onship-4783538

Developed by Dr. Gary Chapman, an author and counselor, the Five Love Languages are:

Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Physical Touch
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts
post 1640309813 06-06-2021, 07:55 PM
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Originally Posted By whogotmuhbeers⏩
I actually have a family, and Iam here to tell ya I forget shyt all the time.

When you have a family and are trying to make shyt happen sometimes birthdays and anniversary’s get forgotten. It’s what happens during the in between times is what matters.

Don’t be a puzzy. Srs


EDIT: OP is a dude? Hole lee fuuk what a *******
Forgetting is one thing...... saying to your spouse "I didn't have time to get you a card" is something else. That is bullchit. I'd fuk one of my wife's friends in our shared bed if she tried a pathetic lie like that on me.
post 1640309913 06-06-2021, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted By FmrD3LB⏩
Yeah bros just a bit deep in my feels right now things have been good not great lately
you need to accept that it's coming to an end, and prepare for the divorce/court fukkery.
lilbloaty crew lol
post 1640310213 06-06-2021, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted By lilbloaty⏩
you need to accept that it's coming to an end, and prepare for the divorce/court fukkery.
See sig but my angus is properly peppered lol
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post 1640310503 06-06-2021, 08:04 PM
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1 year to prepare

"I didn't have enough time to get you a card"

I don't really care much for my birthday, but just lol @ that reasoning.
Leaves a space between posting multiple links/pics so people on mobile don't click the same link twice crew
post 1640310543 06-06-2021, 08:05 PM
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Time to start cheating srs
post 1640310643 06-06-2021, 08:07 PM
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Originally Posted By p100⏩
Assuming the relationship is fine you and your wife need to read The 5 Languages of Love. She needs to be reminded that a card is important to you and you need to understand what is important to her. Sometimes we forget the little things in our busy lives.


https://www.verywellmind.com/can-the...onship-4783538

Developed by Dr. Gary Chapman, an author and counselor, the Five Love Languages are:

Words of Affirmation
Quality Time
Physical Touch
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts
bro you cannot just have a chick read a book then suddenly start feeling stuff for her husband

This is a bigger issue that goes beyond the stupid card. Its a lack of love and respect, something a book wont help with

OP needs to start applying some ****ing pressure like make her think theres another girl, she'll straighten up dedsrs

Stay a little later at work, go out when you usually dont, be vague
post 1640311793 06-06-2021, 08:26 PM
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why do people make a big deal over birthdays?
post 1640312023 06-06-2021, 08:28 PM
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How a person repetitively treats you is a direct reflection of how they feel about you...

This ^^ is a constant for ALL relationships. There is no getting around it.
post 1640312143 06-06-2021, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Skeptical_Hippo⏩
OP needs to start applying some ****ing pressure like make her think theres another girl, she'll straighten up dedsrs

Stay a little later at work, go out when you usually dont, be vague
Look up the 12 stages of Dread. Start taking care of yourself.
post 1640312233 06-06-2021, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted By AdvancedDreamer⏩
why do people make a big deal over birthdays?
This is not about the birthday, its the overall relationship

If you skipped your wifes birthday, and got her nothing, wont she think something is wrong?
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i wonder what would happen if op did that same thing for his wife birthday, not bought her anything....... there is your answer, no respect for you and doesn't even care
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Originally Posted By Skeptical_Hippo⏩
bro you cannot just have a chick read a book then suddenly start feeling stuff for her husband

This is a bigger issue that goes beyond the stupid card. Its a lack of love and respect, something a book wont help with

OP needs to start applying some ****ing pressure like make her think theres another girl, she'll straighten up dedsrs

Stay a little later at work, go out when you usually dont, be vague
I don't just want to assume his wife is getting feelings for someone else. And if his relationship is going bad then doing shady behavior will not help.
post 1640313663 06-06-2021, 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted By p100⏩
And if his relationship is going bad then doing shady behavior will not help.
It kind of will though
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If you want a card you’re a *******


But she should give you something. Make you a steak , give you a night away from the kids to hang with the boys, new set of clubs,


Something


If you got nothing at all that’s ****ed
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that's total bull**** op. serious lack of care for your feelings.
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if she doesn't suck your dick tonight, she has 0 respect for you and its time to cheat (but stay together for the kids)
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She at least could have bought you a box of tampons
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Originally Posted By FmrD3LB⏩
Yeah we have 3 kids and are crazy busy but getting nada makes me feel so under appreciated. Am I being too emo here???!?
if she doesn't expect anything for her own birthday in return id consider that the gift.
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