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» Set up a date with a girl 2 weeks out....don’t even wanna go anymore
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post 1641789263 06-28-2021, 11:12 AM
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Tell her you up here bangin twank and if you can reschedule
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post 1641789363 06-28-2021, 11:14 AM
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OP, planning too far in advance makes the anticipation/excitement fade before the day even comes.

Also i don't blame you. I bail on chicks often especially if im not 100% about them. Too busy to take out randoms just for some quick pussy. Especially with the low quality of women these days. no thx jeff. Not thirsty and time's too precious.

and just lol at miscers saying she will flake anyways - they sound insecure and probably struggle with women. srs. Girls should be excited to chill with you if you got it together.
post 1641789403 06-28-2021, 11:14 AM
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No pics ahm?
post 1641789493 06-28-2021, 11:14 AM
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She's probably feeling the same way. 2 weeks is a long fukkin' time to wait after that initial spark. Should've been within a week, max.

I have no energy with dating anymore, myself. I never did well in dating, I always just ran through randos. The last 3 or 4 girlfriends I've had (and by that I mean nothing official, just talking / dating for more than a ONS, ya know like a few weeks / months of dating without a label) were all pretty psychotic.
post 1641789743 06-28-2021, 11:17 AM
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post 1641789903 06-28-2021, 11:19 AM
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Ignoring the jokes, OP you gotta be honest with yourself.

What caused you to talk with her after the party? Are you attracted? Does she seem successful, independent, altogether, etc.? Did you just want a quick lay or are you looking at a potential LTR?

To set up a date far out, and to feel as if you don't even wanna go anymore, tells me you might've been after a quick lay, not a LTR. A planned formal date indicates you're going for the latter (LTR), not the former. Are you yourself ready for a LTR?
post 1641790013 06-28-2021, 11:21 AM
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post 1641790463 06-28-2021, 11:26 AM
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post 1641790823 06-28-2021, 11:30 AM
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I would be annoyed too. LMAO @ making plans for a date weeks ahead. Killed it before you even started.

Being that busy is just being a cucked NPC, not attractive at all
post 1641791093 06-28-2021, 11:33 AM
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Are you dating to find a wife?

If not, who gives a chit? Just relax and have fun.
post 1641791423 06-28-2021, 11:38 AM
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Who sets dates for 2 weeks out.

Set appts to smash within 24 hr periods, preferably midnight booty calls.

Get in and get out
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post 1641792123 06-28-2021, 11:48 AM
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post 1641792683 06-28-2021, 11:53 AM
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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah
Clifs for unawares

-met girl during my friends bday party on the 12th of June
-chatted with her middle of the following week
-set date up for the 2nd of July
-not even sure if I’m feeling it anymore
-maybe thinking of rescheduleing or just canceling

Basically I’m gay

Pic of girl
I always do this **** say yes to a date or meeting up when im drunk and the next day or two i sober up and cancel and flake
post 1641792923 06-28-2021, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike
Here's a tip: no one cares, and it doesn't matter what you do.
Imagine coming on a miscellaneous forum and making this post lol
post 1641793363 06-28-2021, 12:01 PM
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post 1641793493 06-28-2021, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Imagine coming on a miscellaneous forum and making this post lol
But bro OP fuk’d up.

Odds are she getting dinked down by a real chad who didn’t want to wait 2 weeks lol.

So he essentially asking should I go on this date with this girl who just finished guzzling chads jizz an hour before we are supposed to meet…..or shouldn’t I?

Who cares he already lost even if he Doesn’t see it yet

See, I’m angry at myself for wasting these 30 seconds writing that
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post 1641793793 06-28-2021, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By JustMoved24
But bro OP fuk’d up.

Odds are she getting dinked down by a real chad who didn’t want to wait 2 weeks lol.

So he essentially asking should I go on this date with this girl who just finished guzzling chads jizz an hour before we are supposed to meet…..or shouldn’t I?

Who cares he already lost even if he Doesn’t see it yet

See, I’m angry at myself for wasting these 30 seconds writing that
Im not saying thread is bad just dont get why ppl come on ppls thread being all like " nobody cares etc "
Op had a legit question lol
post 1641793993 06-28-2021, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted By JustMoved24
But bro OP fuk’d up.

Odds are she getting dinked down by a real chad who didn’t want to wait 2 weeks lol.

So he essentially asking should I go on this date with this girl who just finished guzzling chads jizz an hour before we are supposed to meet…..or shouldn’t I?

Who cares he already lost even if he Doesn’t see it yet

See, I’m angry at myself for wasting these 30 seconds writing that
You act like I’m sitting at home quilting blankets waiting for her. I was just wondering what I should do about the mutual friends deal. The reason for the long period was Father’s Day weekend and her going on a vacation. Trust me I’ve never planned a date out like that before but she was totally cool with it. She’s the one that gave me a follow on IG after the meeting. She might not be interested anymore either idk but I’m just feeling retarded about the whole scenario myself as well.

I’m just gonna go and say fuk it. If she ghost me and totally fine with that too lol.
post 1641795463 06-28-2021, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah
You act like I’m sitting at home quilting blankets waiting for her. I was just wondering what I should do about the mutual friends deal. The reason for the long period was Father’s Day weekend and her going on a vacation. Trust me I’ve never planned a date out like that before but she was totally cool with it. She’s the one that gave me a follow on IG after the meeting. She might not be interested anymore either idk but I’m just feeling retarded about the whole scenario myself as well.

I’m just gonna go and say fuk it. If she ghost me and totally fine with that too lol.
Yeah just go, and see if y'all vibe well or whatever, and good chance she might cancel anyway, and I think you would be fist bumping in the air in excitement so you don't have to deal with it anymore.
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post 1641795573 06-28-2021, 12:31 PM
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post 1641796383 06-28-2021, 12:42 PM
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Just go out and do something you want to do or something fun.

Dont view it as a formal ate, think of it as a way to not be a ******* and get out of the house and have a chill time
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post 1641796523 06-28-2021, 12:45 PM
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post 1641796783 06-28-2021, 12:49 PM
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post 1641796823 06-28-2021, 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy
Im not saying thread is bad just dont get why ppl come on ppls thread being all like " nobody cares etc "
Op had a legit question lol
I'm pretty sure the post was referring to his friends/social circle, not us on the misc. Essentially telling OP not to worry about what his friends might think if he cancels, or the girl.
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post 1641796953 06-28-2021, 12:51 PM
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Just drink maxx when the day comes and tell her to pick you up
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post 1641797293 06-28-2021, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted By Nonsense916
Just drink maxx when the day comes and tell her to pick you up
Best advice so far. I was hammered the last time I saw her. She’s not gonna like sober me.
post 1641797403 06-28-2021, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Nonsense916
Just drink maxx when the day comes and tell her to pick you up
this is excellent advice
post 1641797503 06-28-2021, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah
You act like I’m sitting at home quilting blankets waiting for her. I was just wondering what I should do about the mutual friends deal. The reason for the long period was Father’s Day weekend and her going on a vacation. Trust me I’ve never planned a date out like that before but she was totally cool with it. She’s the one that gave me a follow on IG after the meeting. She might not be interested anymore either idk but I’m just feeling retarded about the whole scenario myself as well.

I’m just gonna go and say fuk it. If she ghost me and totally fine with that too lol.
In that case go if you're still into it....the friend stuff will be fine. Make sure to take and post a better picture while you are with her....we're all sitting here with our dinks in our hands, magnifying glass in the other and you don't want to know how im hitting refresh.
post 1641798813 06-28-2021, 01:21 PM
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Just flake like girls do

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post 1641799133 06-28-2021, 01:26 PM
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Overthinking this way too much. Its a simple date boyo.
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