I know that feel

it feels like they are on the defensive and super angry
it makes it even more confusing to try to figure out how to approach them

should I be persistent? should I throw them 1 message and play it cool and hope the 10,000 guys in her inbox dont make her forget about me?

I just bother with the ones that put in effort and even reach out to me.
but its weird how the mind works, you never want the easy ones. The newest girl im talking to pays for my uber eats every time I go to her place without even asking (like 40 bucks)
also my ubers (another 40 bucks). Bought me nba 2k when I said I like basketball. Just randomly sent me a steam link. Said she ordered ps5 controllers and they are on the way to my house. So spent a few hundred on me on the first few "Dates" weve had. Yet I dont feel anything cuz she seems too nice that it doesnt feel genuine. Tonight she was trying to say she loves me and it was only the 5th time we got together. I was like maybe you like me but some things take a lot longer than that.

I also have been downtown toronto to hang with her a few times recently and the hottest girls ive ever seen in my life are with the dorkiest guys ive ever seen.. it really is very confusing to me.