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post 1643172043 07-19-2021, 11:28 AM
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Sorry to hear brother. May he Rest in Peace
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post 1643172793 07-19-2021, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By MyGhettoFantasy⏩
Sorry for your loss, op.

A lifelong friend of mine (28 years) took his own life New Year's Eve of 2019/2020. I think about him everyday. Sometimes I have dreams and he is in them.
That's the hardest to deal with for me. I'll have dreams of a friend and it feels so fukin real. You even convince yourself they somehow came back to life. And then you literally wake up.

Also had this recurring dream of a friend who died in a car wreck, and in the dream I'm aware he's going to die but for some reason I can't physically say anything or tell him. It's wild.
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post 1643173323 07-19-2021, 11:46 AM
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sorry mate. speaking from experience though once you have exoerienced the death if so many close to you it becomes numb and you just cling to the fact that if yu live riggt you will be with them again one day.

best thing you can do with death is ride off away from it yesterday never comes back. live for today and tomorrow. best advice i can give you
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post 1643173553 07-19-2021, 11:48 AM
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RIP. Hope Your Managing OK Brah

post 1643174653 07-19-2021, 12:03 PM
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Sorry to hear about your loss

One of my college friends, wasnt really close to him, passed away last week from an overdose. His folks are in some South east asian country and now his body is being airlifted from europe to his native place. He was alone during this pandemic the whole time since last year so i bet he indulged in various things that finally caught up to him.
post 1643175503 07-19-2021, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Steveyblack⏩
this wasnt the man I knew and loved...
Does this make you feel better about having not seen him before died? because its bull**** its not your fault he did what he did but he was the same person he was just dealing with addiction
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post 1643175613 07-19-2021, 12:15 PM
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sorry brah, lost a friend 2 years ago to a drug overdose. tough to get through, best thing is just to talk to someone about it. can really help a lot

damn brah now im thinking about my best mate i havent seen in a year, hope he is doing well
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post 1643176913 07-19-2021, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Steveyblack⏩
Title says it all. One of my best friends passed away yesterday, its hard to believe that he is gone. We were inseparable for many years (2009-2019) before he had his car accident and subsequent pain killer abuse problem. His life was in complete shambles for a few years but it seemed that he was on the right path recently. Successfully completed rehab, moved away from bad influences and in with his parents, ect. He has been radio silent for a couple of months now, it wasnt uncommon for us to drift in and out of communications. Over those months I texted him a few times telling him that I love him and that I wanted to see him, they were left unanswered. Its looking like he fell back into his old habits and OD'ed in a hotel room where he wasnt found till the next day. Im going to miss my best friend, this wasnt the man I knew and loved...
RIP to your friend.

Stay strong brother. PM us if you need anything.
post 1643188863 07-19-2021, 02:55 PM
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Originally Posted By trynbrah⏩
Does this make you feel better about having not seen him before died? because its bull**** its not your fault he did what he did but he was the same person he was just dealing with addiction
I saw him back in March, he was doing good. Out of rehab and clean for a couple of months, joking around at his parents house like we used to back in the day. We even talked about how much we loved/appreciated each other. I know its not my fault, and I also know that I dont have the power to change things. I just think about how he died alone in a dark place and makes me sad to think about it.
Originally Posted By RackaDo⏩
sorry brah, lost a friend 2 years ago to a drug overdose. tough to get through, best thing is just to talk to someone about it. can really help a lot

damn brah now im thinking about my best mate i havent seen in a year, hope he is doing well
His family and our friends are all chatting about it, its rough but I know that others are taking it harder than I al. Shoot your mate a quick message to let him know hes thought of.
Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩
RIP to your friend.

Stay strong brother. PM us if you need anything.
Thanks, and also thanks to everyone else that contributed to this thread.
post 1643687143 07-27-2021, 06:49 AM
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Final bump. Laid my best friend to rest yesterday. It was a lovely service. We are all gonna make it misc, speak up if you have issues.
post 1643687893 07-27-2021, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By Steveyblack⏩
Final bump. Laid my best friend to rest yesterday. It was a lovely service. We are all gonna make it misc, speak up if you have issues.
Just now coming across this thread. Oh man, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing. It's feels like twice the tragedy when you watch them get sober and then go back out. Hope you're hanging in there, PM anytime.
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post 1643689013 07-27-2021, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
Just now coming across this thread. Oh man, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing. It's feels like twice the tragedy when you watch them get sober and then go back out. Hope you're hanging in there, PM anytime.
Hey Red! Thanks for the kind words! I am doing well actually, I am over it at this point. Im happy that his family got the service they wanted in the end and I think we can all move on from here.
post 1643689213 07-27-2021, 07:30 AM
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Can’t blame him (srs) who wants to live in current society with lockdown, mandatory vaccines, vaccine passports, BLM, **** as president, Election fraud, record inflation and economic collapse soon etc etc
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post 1643690193 07-27-2021, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted By HayZues
Had a very similar experience, as unfortunately probably millions of Americans now.


My boy got in car accident. Injured his back. Addicted to pain killers. Eventually turned to heroin. Died in another car accident that I can only assume was drug related. Pulled out in front of a semi.


Been 4 years now. Can't bring myself to delete his number from my phone. Still keep a beer in fridge for him.



RIP Rico.


Sorry to hear OP.
My sister passed this year but we still pay her phone bills so that they dont cancel the number


I get it
post 1643690233 07-27-2021, 07:45 AM
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Hang in there brother. RIP to your best friend. I've lost a couple good friends but not my best friend. Hopefully, he's no longer suffering.
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