I don’t get it why they’re fussy about letting a guy eat em out? It’s not like the girl’s doing any work besides spread her legs and lay there and enjoy the sensations. What going on in your mind when you’re fussy about him going down?

Almost always. Been with him so long I feel no awkwardness or self consciousness so it’s very easy. He knows what I like and how I like it.

Orgasms differ depending on how I arrive there and he acts accordingly. If he wants it hard & fast he works me up with french kissing, fingering and nipple play and can get me there in a few deep strokes. Positions with my back to his front are hot but I don’t usually come that way unless he uses his fingers too. He knows I prefer the really intense orgasm I get from intercourse over those from fingering or oral alone, so if he makes me come with his mouth I know he’s planning to get me there again with his body. I can come in missionary when he leans close enough to kiss while sliding his pelvis against me. He knows it takes me longer in missionary if I’ve already come once before, but if I’m on top or straddling his lap I can come again quickly. Occasionally I can have three if he’s taking his time, however a third isn’t as strong but longer, more like a sustained hum from hyper stimulation.

I used to be much more ‘fussy’ until early in my marriage, I had just gotten back from a run, all sweaty, and he grabbed me right when I walked in the door and started yanking my tights down. I tried to pull him up to just have sex because I was self conscious but he was relentless so in that moment I decided if he’s that into it I should just enjoy him.

No. Sometimes I take it just to bust in guts (20%). Sometimes she gets a handful (5) of cooms or more (50%). Sometimes she gets at least one. Sometimes I rub one out. Sometimes I get head only.

If you havent figured out the pelvic grind and dont listen to your womans body, no one can help you.

My gf only cooms for jamal

when people ask this, does it solely just refer to penetration ?

Could be a number of things, worried about body hair, bloatedness, close to period etc

It’s also a mindset thing, if my mind is not set for sex, it will take even longer to orgasm. Then I get myself stressed that he might get annoyed at how long its taking... and that stresses me out even more creating a vicious cycle.

Knowing that he will likely want sex afterwards when I am just not feeling it.