I think you learn a lot about yourself in the context of a serious relationship.

Honey moon phase is amazing, when both parties are legit in love with the other person. When you share your most ridiculous dreams, fears, achievements etc and that person reciprocates with their equally ridiculous ones. When you can just hold a person for hours without it getting uncomfortable or wanting to be somewhere else.

Yeah it’s amazing at first, but after that, tread carefully. It can get old real fast once the initial love and lust fades off and you are punched by reality in the face lol. If it’s an amazing person, then yeah it may still be better than being single. If it’s an average person, with average flaws of character? Yeah it’s better being alone

Some truth in this. However, I think many of the issues we discuss about modern marriage on the misc can be applied to relationships in general.

People don't want to put effort into relationships these days. They want it to just be easy all the time. Hence why they usually start to suck once they honeymoon phase wears off. It doesn't even have to be a lot of effort. It can be chit as simple as the guy doing the dishes without being asked more often, or the woman taking the time to give him a nice blowie on occasion without making a stink about it.

Not to focus on the sex aspect of it too much, but many people really tend to underrate the importance of sex in determining the success of long-term relationships. I don't think people realize just how unhealthy it is for a couple to consistently go weeks, or months without having sex with each other. I mean, at a basic level, sex is the difference between a couple being an actual couple, and being annoying roommates. That's why I tell the married guys I know who brag about marriage, but bitch about barely ever getting laid by their wives, that they have bitchy roommates more so than actual wives. Because that's exactly what it is when a guy finds himself having to jerk it alone more often than he has sex with his wife.

The best parts of relationships are the honeymoon period at the start, and the relief after breaking up.

Finding a good one you get excited about is not easy. Sometimes there is 2 month burn out, other times it is 6 months, other times it is 1 year. People change and selecting a person that has your back and that you will do anything for is tough.
It can be done but go with your gut not just looks and sex.

Good luck.

Absolutely not. Getting pussy is though. Multiple at the same time is preferred

You have to be a Chad or Chadlet to experience this with a young, prime girl.

100%

The beginning months when they are super agreeable is the best part. That time period past when they get comfortable with you and you two agree to be exclusive but while its still new, that is the best because she just listens and will go with the flow, she is suppressing her inner bish tendencies. This is what it was like in the old days when men were allowed to beat their wives if they didnt listen. But once she gets too used to you and bored of you then she will fire up Tinder and start looking for new dick and leave you.


I say go for it just never make any big financial commitments, dont sign a lease with her, cosign anything with her, help her get any car loans or get her pregnant. Hopefully she is relatively stable (for a woman), no criminal record ect. Then you can have her for your turn and release her into the streets when she is bored of you and thinks she can do better.

This is pretty much how it goes in the real world, not like the disney movies. You save yourself a lot of pain if you pick a decent one without legal or mental problems, then you can have a clean break when she hops back on the cawk carousel

If you get a hot mogger prime glow girl, that is its own experience, you walking around with her when you see other men staring and checking her out and jelly. Everyone should experience that while they are young before they are stuck with old sloots one day. It makes sense now why old rich men parade aroudn their gold digger arm candy, its really just a power move to make other men jealous.

If you find a good one then it's amazing. With an average or not good one a relationship is a terrible soul sucking thing, but you won't notice how soul sucking it is until you're free.

Hard to find a good one though so good luck.

Brah at 36 you should be looking to settle with someone for life with and leave the overgrown manchild phase



By now if you still don't have any prospects, you're going to be 60 by the time your kids are in college. Life goes by FAST and you have to take some real fuking action to not let it pass by

tours over, granny. Overweight high school line backers are an empty pursuit. Time to LDAR

Most girls are average and aren't worth it. Be very careful to choose you girlfriend and only choose someone who you can see spending your whole life with since the honeymoon phase can blind you. If you aren't careful then you'll just waste a lot of time and money.

the only bad part is the whinign and farts

when she farts i instantly think about being homo SRS