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post 1647912723 09-27-2021, 11:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
You are idealizing it srs. Plenty of people with kids are unhappy. Plenty of people with kids are secretly disappointed by them. Plenty of people with kids have kids with problems like autism or disabilities or physical health issues. Plenty of people with kids get divorced or drink etc.
Full of optimism, as always lmao
post 1647912823 09-27-2021, 11:45 PM
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post 1647913533 09-28-2021, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Idk maybe

What I see around me are mothers who are exhausted and their days are filled with endless chores and worries. And yes tons of kids have issues of some sort. You really are glamorizing family life.

How many kids do you have and how old are they? Maybe they are still young enough to fully control and maybe your wife does all the work. I do think dads have it much easier than moms.
Family life is anything but glamorous. Young kids are near impossible to fully control.

Let's say you live to 80-90, that's half of your life where you're going to regret not having children/a family. Right now you may have a cruisier, more care-free life than a woman of the same age who's running around after 2-3 kids, but that same woman is going to be happier than you later in life having invested in a family.

You traded in your future happiness and genetic lineage for sex with strangers now. One day it will hit you hard, when no one calls for Christmas, or when your extended family invites your lonely old ass to thanksgiving because they feel obligated. They'll all be busy with family life and making memories together, while the only stories you'll bring to the table are the amount of Chad dick you got in your younger years.
post 1647913613 09-28-2021, 12:18 AM
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post 1647913793 09-28-2021, 12:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Wait you didn’t answer how many kids you have and how old they are and whether your wife does all the work and is exhausted.

Or is this perfect idyllic family you have just imaginary lmao.
My situation is irrelevant and you can make all the assumptions you like as a way of deflecting hearing hard truths, but it doesn't make them any less true. I'm not even doing it to make you feel bad, I'm just letting you know your choices now will have consequences for the future.
post 1647913883 09-28-2021, 12:24 AM
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post 1647918843 09-28-2021, 05:16 AM
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Originally Posted By wutevs
Full of optimism, as always lmao
Isn't she lovely.
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post 1647926853 09-28-2021, 08:20 AM
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post 1647928673 09-28-2021, 08:48 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’m just realistic.
It's not realistic though. As exhausting as raising kids can be, there is a ton of joy in it to offset that exhaustion.
~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
post 1647929033 09-28-2021, 08:57 AM
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