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post 1651545423 11-26-2021, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217
Sucks not having anyone to talk to, I've been trying to reach out to people and that helps. Just don't have too many people that i can do that with
misc is here for you, bro. Almost every guy I've known who goes through a divorce or separation says the same thing; they have nobody to talk to. It's **** when a lot of people in your circle "don't want to be bothered with other people's problems"
post 1651545483 11-26-2021, 04:07 PM
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yikes, seems like most young parents i see nowadays are divorced or never married in the first place. sucks for kids and society, this is an epidemic.

hope things work out for you bud.
post 1651545603 11-26-2021, 04:09 PM
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Thanks everyone I knew I could always count on fellow miscers you guys are the best
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post 1651545873 11-26-2021, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By dannyg1217
yup, divorce will be final in early January. I'm closing on my new house on the 13th of December, so I'll be out soon.
I don't believe there is an easy part, but where you are now is tough- still living in the same house and don't have a new routine yet. Plus the holidays.

My ex told me he wanted a divorce in October. I asked him if we could please wait on telling our daughter until after her birthday and the holidays. I wasn't able to move into my own place until the following May IIRC.



Your children are very young and I think that has to make it tougher. It will feel a bit better after you have been keeping a regular schedule for a few months and your kids have their own space and routines with you.
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post 1651545973 11-26-2021, 04:19 PM
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I'm doing the same brah. Family is in pieces. Work is brutal and full clown city where I'm stuck. Misc and crypto are my only salvation. We can get through this bro. Think of making it big one day, with a fishing boat in Hawaii. Beachfront villa, oh man.
post 1651546443 11-26-2021, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted By katya422
I don't believe there is an easy part, but where you are now is tough- still living in the same house and don't have a new routine yet. Plus the holidays.

My ex told me he wanted a divorce in October. I asked him if we could please wait on telling our daughter until after her birthday and the holidays. I wasn't able to move into my own place until the following May IIRC.



Your children are very young and I think that has to make it tougher. It will feel a bit better after you have been keeping a regular schedule for a few months and your kids have their own space and routines with you.
yeah it's tough living in the same house together, there is no solid routine and I feel like I'm halfway living in a past life or something. Definitely can't wait to move.
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post 1651546563 11-26-2021, 04:29 PM
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The last few years have been crap. 2020 started with my dog dieing from lung cancer, then the whole lockdown garbage following that the of course I've had to finish with the whole divorce situation just patiently waiting for things to turn around.
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post 1651547303 11-26-2021, 04:44 PM
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Hope you start feeling better soon brah. Nothing we say is going to help you but stay strong for your little ones.
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post 1651551143 11-26-2021, 06:02 PM
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Keep your head up op, we are all strugling on something, dont let any meaningless bull**** from misc get into your head. Keep working out, diet and health in check, job and hobbies, this will keep your head healthy and your body too. You got this
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