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post 1655526143 02-03-2022, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted By 1slo5oh
Do you "disqualify" girls who play games?

Nupe , never did simply because thats all I was doing and I was a fkng professional.

First off you're fkng up by hanging on this broads every move... you should have a rotation of sloot's that you can waste any given minute on at any time... If flaky bish is interested then she'll be able to sniff out the other Schnizz you are messing around with like a gotdamn bloodhound and only increase your worth in her eyes..

But to save yourself with this one.. forget about her and go on as if it never happened and on to the next one. Flaky Mcflakerton will every expose herself and start blowing you up or she was never that interested in the first place... either way you will of already moved on by the time you figure it out...
This guy gets it ^
If youre not tied down ...following just 1 women could drive you crazy if shes that type.
Get 3-5 ( or how many you see fit )on the go and dgaf
post 1655528533 02-03-2022, 08:38 AM
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post 1656061523 02-12-2022, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By turokturok5
So as an update on the above - I ended up going out with some friends and she was there and still hadn't replied to my proposition about going out together. Exchanged pleasantries but it was pretty awkward, I didn't talk to her most of the night but she "teased me" a few times. A mutual friend asked me why I wasn't talking trying to hook up with her because she was "really into me", told her I wasn't that keen anymore as she had been ignoring me.

A few days later I get a loooong message from this girl apologizing to me, stating that she had no intention of ghosting me, that she had just been really busy, that she was confused if I was interested in her or not because I wasn't hitting on her the other night, it wasn't uncommon for her to take days to reply to everyone and she thought I had a thing for her friend instead (wut). She then asked for my number stating she was better at replying to texts. We text back and fourth a few times but it becomes pretty stale, so I just say "we should still go out together soon" and it's radio silence again lmao.

At this point I'm not THAT bothered because I pursued and started sleeping with another girl after this one kept flaking on me. But I just don't understand why she continues to ignore me, then apologize for ignoring me, suggest we meet up soon and then ignore me when I propose a date. What is she even getting from this?
Her texting you and ghosting you again for the third time was a power play. Women enjoy having the upper hand on men.The night you went out and ignored her took the power from her. She thought you were going to ogle over her in person and she'd have a chance to play you in real time. However, you remained steadfast and left her on read in person like savage.

Then you goofed and decided to entertain the attention loving succubus. Just for her to give blatantly obvious lie/excuse and ghost you again to retain what she lost the night. Which was control of the situation.

Don't engage with this woman again. IF you choose to do so "Hey had a long week, come over and I'll cook while we drink wine". Should be the only response she gets from here on out
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post 1656096063 02-13-2022, 03:14 AM
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Originally Posted By NitrogenWidget
so people these days don't exchange phone numbers, they add each other on Instagram?
Seems like it last years. But this is a good thing for the non-*******s who don't do social media. Less competition on text.
post 1656104893 02-13-2022, 08:40 AM
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If a girl plays games I just fuk someone else.

Simple.
There is but one path....we kill them all.
post 1656109983 02-13-2022, 10:15 AM
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post 1656153743 02-14-2022, 12:35 AM
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I don't understand some of the logic ITT

if I have 1 sloot or 50 I am dropping anyone that starts playing games

do not have the mental energy or motivation to deal with that
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post 1656154353 02-14-2022, 01:10 AM
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Originally Posted By turokturok5
I don't know if this girl is playing games or if she just isn't interested.

We've met a few times through friends, last time she told me it was great to see me and we should catch up soon and added me on insta.

I messaged her a few days later and asked if she was free to go out for coffee and she ignored me.

2 Days later she replied, apologized saying she had a "tough week" and asked if we could catch up another time - she immediately responded asking if I was free to hang out on the weekend.

I responded by proposing we catch up on Sunday night for a drink and it's been 2 days again without a reply.

I get that people get busy, but she's been active on messenger and instagram (posting stories etc).

How do you guys react in these situations? My interest for her has kind of waned now, but I don't know if I'm just being butthurt and over-reacting because she is taking her sweet time to respond. I don't want to hold out and wait for her because I could be making other plans...

TLDR
Girl taking days to respond to messages after proposing we hang out - worth the hassle or not?
100% move on and forget this girl because all she's doing is stringing you along for validation, that's it (and this is advice I got from my close friend when I had the same issue).

All she is doing is giving you a time and validating you're interested in her, she blows it off, suggests another time and then ignores you again.
Come back a few days later, some lame excuse of being busy, tired, "stressed" and suggests another time/day to repeat the whole processes to keep you hooked on her.

No sense wasting your time w/ a girl who doesn't want to make the effort to meet the first time.

Best of luck.
post 1656156053 02-14-2022, 03:14 AM
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Most of them play games. Just smash n don’t give their bs much thought.
post 1656161293 02-14-2022, 07:01 AM
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Be direct and tell her exactly what you want to do to her sexually, and tell her it needs to happen ASAP. This will get her talking more and put her into a bind of black and white and either joining you or not. At least you will know for sure. Rule of thumb is always be direct with women, they are too flakey and indecisive otherwise.
post 1656218983 02-15-2022, 05:34 AM
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You must be new to online dating.

No girl is 'busy' to the point they can't respond to a text within 48 hours.

She was talking to other guys in those 48 hours, eventually was getting no response from them, thus resorted back to you.

To answer your question, yes any girl who thinks they can be disrespectful or play stupid games testing you, are immediately ghosted.
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