It’s much more complex than that, but I’ll try to make this as simple as possible.

Major studies show us that the effects of equity has results that are the opposite of what was intended. Women are being pushed to be more like men, and men are being pushed to be more like women.

Statistics show that we are seeing that the desire to marry is going up for women, but going down for men. When males are emasculated, they become weak. They become afraid of competition and adversity. Dating is competition. Weak mean prefer to take the path of least resistance. In this case, it would be porn, VR, virtual dating (which tends to be for hooking up more so than marriage)…

Meanwhile, women are looking for strong men. They want to find a man that will protect them, create stability (at least working, but could be successful), and aren’t afraid of adversity.

The bad thing is that the strong men aren’t marrying either. Equity seems to have had a strange effect in them. Because the pool of women have become so large for them, they aren’t settling down. Instead, they have preferred to make the competition about how many women they can hook up with.

Social media and dating apps have made hooking up really easy. The good looking men are scoring left and right. While the weak and uglier men are not. Why? Well, women “date up”, while men are willing to “date down”. In other words, a man who is a 10 will date a women that is a 7, while a women that is a 7, will typically only date a an that is 8 or above. Granted, that success can make a man’s score go up. A man that is a 6 in looks, will score closer to an 8-9 if he’s successful, because she knows he can provide for her and a family.

Again, incels tend to be not great looking, weak men that hate competition, which means, they are not successful either. They are usually the result of the oedipus; a man that cannot take care of even himself. Typically lives with mother and cannot cut off the necessary relationship with his mother to function independently