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post 1655973553 02-10-2022, 05:50 PM
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Don't fukin talk to her until she shows commitment and interest, otherwise you're just wasting your time
STop trying to have full blown convos through text - save those for the date
You did the right thing - ask her out....
If she flakes/acts ghosty, then turn it back on her... simple
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post 1655973783 02-10-2022, 05:54 PM
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She's texting dozens of other guys and probably forgets who's who. Probably thought she said "good night" to you but it was someone else
post 1655973943 02-10-2022, 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
-2 days can go without contact of any sort from her end unless I reach out to her.
Is that supposed to be a long time? You seem kind of clingy brah

Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
Lol, I pay for plenty of fancy dinners. But it's because I want to eat and get drunk at a nice restaurant. Not because I want to impress the girl. As soon as you start treating her like a princess is when she begins acting up. She's just there to provide me entertainment in exchange for me paying for her meal.
Sorry but this is definitely cope
post 1655974623 02-10-2022, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By WishIWasJawBrah⏩
Is she Morrocan?
Yes she is lol. I can't help it brah.
post 1655974853 02-10-2022, 06:16 PM
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for me its pretty clear.

She is not THAT interested in you and is just using you for attention.

she might like you a bit but not enough to be all over you.

My advice, smash as soon as possible and bail from her.

If she hasnt give up the pootang in two or three dates max, go NC.
Also, stop taking her out to fancy dates, just do some drinks or invite her to your place for dinner.
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post 1655975403 02-10-2022, 06:28 PM
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why in the fuk are you giving her a fancy date the second time you all go out.....?

no wonder she lost interest - she already conquered you.

brah, start treating her a little chittier, and NO fancy dates, and you might be able to salvage it

the day of the "date," text her with like, "changed my mind, meet me here" @ some lowkey dive bar that looks like chit, and treat her as such.
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post 1655975563 02-10-2022, 06:30 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Am I really that desperate ?

30 yo sloot I metonline : we had our first date last week-end and it went pretty well although there was no physical contact.

I invited her for a second date scheduled for tomorrow, to have dinner at a fancy restaurant. She accepted.

However I can't reed the sloot properly :

-She's giving quite blatant signs of disinterests : slow replies, replying with dumb emojis like "������������" , can't entertain a discussion and falls asleep in the middle of one without saying "good night".
-I've got her on whatsapp and she did not even bother to have a profile pic.
-2 days can go without contact of any sort from her end unless I reach out to her.

Question for the veteran misc : What does she want and why keep on accepting my invites when she clearly is not that interested ?

Just to give you some context : she got out of a relationship 6 months ago and she clearly stated that she's not looking for someone to date but for a husband : so no longterm dating, she expects the guy to put a ring on it after 6 months of dating (muslim girl but probably not virgin smh...)

Wut do ?

I don't want to waste my time, energy and ressources on multiple dates only to get rejected without as much as a kiss.
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post 1655975663 02-10-2022, 06:32 PM
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OP, dont you have any pride? Anyone whos half decent looking understands if a girl is into you, she will make it very clear.

You sound like youve never had a girl blow you up before. Dont give this uninterested sloot the time of day, shes not going to give it to you.
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post 1655976553 02-10-2022, 06:52 PM
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Date without pohysical contact? In 2022? With a western girl? Who is 30???

Lol why Even bother. Set up a netflix date at ur place. If she doesnt bite move on.
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post 1655976603 02-10-2022, 06:54 PM
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Is this fancy dinner just an excuse to wear that fresh new coat?

Is she a prostitute or nah?
post 1655976773 02-10-2022, 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted By 4everalone⏩
Date without pohysical contact? In 2022? With a western girl? Who is 30???

Lol why Even bother. Set up a netflix date at ur place. If she doesnt bite move on.
reminds me of the girls who hoed or have kids but are now "devout christian saving myself for marriage and a man who loves jesus more than anything"


bitch you can't reclaim your virginity staaaahhhhppppppp
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post 1655976953 02-10-2022, 07:03 PM
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OP you sound crazy and possessive. Ever think she may be busy with work and other things? I'm horrible at texting sloots, mostly because i have my priorities in order and don't revolve my entire day with text messaging. What I would advise, is to pursue other woman while talking to her and slow down. No broad deserves a fancy dinner on a second date, you're setting the bar too high and she'll expect those occasions regularly. (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1655977373 02-10-2022, 07:13 PM
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bro this is what dating is like now


even mid 30s single moms are like this.


they are all fuked up. srs. I thought the older ones wouldnt play games but they all do
post 1655979333 02-10-2022, 07:53 PM
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Fancy dinner second date? I had guys do this but I was totally into them and I texted back right away.

Don’t waste your money unless she’s texting back right away.
post 1655979483 02-10-2022, 07:57 PM
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2nd date? Fancy resteraunts ? You played yourself haha
post 1655979553 02-10-2022, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Just to give you some context : she got out of a relationship 6 months ago and she clearly stated that she's not looking for someone to date but for a husband : so no longterm dating, she expects the guy to put a ring on it after 6 months of dating (muslim girl but probably not virgin smh...)

Wut do ?

I don't want to waste my time, energy and ressources on multiple dates only to get rejected without as much as a kiss.
okay but you ARE wasting your time if you're not looking to wife this woman up
post 1655979623 02-10-2022, 08:01 PM
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Jesus...sounds like you text way too much. I wouldnt text schit. Fuk her. She wants a second date youd be able to tell. Fkn lol @ fancy dinner. I've never taken one sloot to a fancy dinner. Dive bar, gettin yucky, pool and then smashing.
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post 1655980603 02-10-2022, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Jesus...sounds like you text way too much. I wouldnt text schit. Fuk her. She wants a second date youd be able to tell. Fkn lol @ fancy dinner. I've never taken one sloot to a fancy dinner.Dive bar, gettin yucky, pool and then smashing.
you mean the buffet, right?
post 1655981063 02-10-2022, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted By RICHSTRONG⏩
Jesus...sounds like you text way too much. I wouldnt text schit. Fuk her. She wants a second date youd be able to tell. Fkn lol @ fancy dinner. I've never taken one sloot to a fancy dinner. Dive bar, gettin yucky, pool and then smashing.
dead serious how my first 2 dates went with my fiance, basically in the first 2 dates it was pool, movie, dive bar get yucky smash
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post 1655981093 02-10-2022, 08:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
reminds me of the girls who hoed or have kids but are now "devout christian saving myself for marriage and a man who loves jesus more than anything"


bitch you can't reclaim your virginity staaaahhhhppppppp
lmao theres so many of these its wild
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post 1655981243 02-10-2022, 08:35 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
you mean the buffet, right?
I save the golden corrals for the 6/10 hotties
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post 1655981463 02-10-2022, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
lmao theres so many of these its wild
I know one who is a bikini competitor and got fake boobs after her divorce and shes a friend of mine and on TRT, I can't imagine how much pent up sexual energy she has
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post 1655983553 02-10-2022, 09:40 PM
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Stopped reading because you sound like a massive phaqqot srs. But when girls show low interest, I generally ignore them until their interest is raised. Otherwise I just keep looking. Low interest is usually a waste of time. Just move on.
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she doesnt have the butterflys with you but shes giving you a chance

giving you a chance aka she thinks shes better

lol go nc
post 1655990583 02-11-2022, 02:12 AM
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Moroccan? Fuh, pics, OP.
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Lol at entertaining a used up 30yr old sloot.

What you do is smash on the first date and go NC.
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Mind blown at the advice to limit texting. Not sure if it’s different where you guys are but I eliminate so many annoying/unsuitable girls through text just by messaging a bit after meeting them. Why go to the bother of meeting up and paying for food/drinks etc when you can get an idea of whether you like them via text first
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