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post 1658151303 03-18-2022, 09:06 AM
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Could have been worse OP. She was in the wrong to not set those boundaries before you asked her to the event. Chin up and on to the next.
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post 1658160153 03-18-2022, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
Oh no dude. The virgin blocked me already - she didn’t like the idea of me talking to girl friends. I don’t really talk to the 10/10. Right now I’m really not talking to anyone, took a hit to my self-confidence.
Why the blow to your self-confidence?

Seems like all interactions were positive and she rejected you based on a rule/preference you didn't fit. Literally had nothing to do with you. Waste of time/energy trying to be an exception to anyone's rule(s) and likely won't work out in the long run anyways.
post 1658367373 03-22-2022, 08:55 AM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
Went to the event this past Friday. It was a lot of fun throughout, we were vibing well, I was physical throughout the night. She laughed throughout the night, I was presented a big award at the banquet, guys were looking at her like “who did she come with?”, lol yes i had her on a pedestal but i also did neg her throughout the night where she would playfully “punch” me calling me a jerk. I went for the kiss walking back to my vehicle and she rejected it. Can’t say I’m not surprised. She said she doesn’t mess around with people she works with/is involved with professionally based on bad experiences (water is wet). She did say she’s thought about it and even told her parents about us before and said her I’m high on her parents’ radar, but that doesn’t really matter if she’s not on board. I played it cool. I told her it’s understandable she wouldn’t want to do that based on bad experiences, but that also she shouldn’t let the bad experiences dictate how every situation will unfold — possibly letting a good situation from happening. I didn’t wanna beg or apologize and left it as is. Although in retrospect i probably should have said more. Regardless, in a weird way I feel relieved. She texted me the day after sending me the selfies and pics we took. I just reacted to the pics hehe.
Let me have it, misc. don’t hold back, i can take it.
it happens sounds like she had her mind made up before you even went on your "date". sounds like she was ok flirting a bit for the attention and validation. if she thought you were ugly she wouldnt have been touchy with you so take that for what it is.

Theres no real magical set of rules like you were looking for in the OP. If her mind was made up then nothing you can really do. You will meet someone one day where everything is just easy and you dont have to overthink it.
post 1658427503 03-23-2022, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Why the blow to your self-confidence?

Seems like all interactions were positive and she rejected you based on a rule/preference you didn't fit. Literally had nothing to do with you. Waste of time/energy trying to be an exception to anyone's rule(s) and likely won't work out in the long run anyways.
In a weird way, I also got a boost of confidence because I went for it. I felt relieved. I guess “blow to my self-confidence” wasn’t the right way to describe it. It just stung a bit that she rejected me, even if it was based on the work/pleasure rule. It’s really her loss. She’s also dealing with some personal stuff (family death) and studying for some certification exams so she’s doing her own thing, and quite frankly I’m doing my own thing too. We’ve kept our professional interactions brief and I haven’t contacted her at all regarding anything non-work/organization-related

But honestly, I’m over it now — for quite some time. It just really stung the first week after that.
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post 1658427553 03-23-2022, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
it happens sounds like she had her mind made up before you even went on your "date". sounds like she was ok flirting a bit for the attention and validation. if she thought you were ugly she wouldnt have been touchy with you so take that for what it is.

Theres no real magical set of rules like you were looking for in the OP. If her mind was made up then nothing you can really do. You will meet someone one day where everything is just easy and you dont have to overthink it.
You’re right. It was fun for her, fun for me. And that’s all there is to it. Not going to push it, as she’s told me other guys have tried to push it to no avail. Thanks man
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post 1659568483 04-13-2022, 08:13 AM
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I've searched and I've searched. High and low, inside and out. I've gone behind the back of the sofa, in the cupboards, on the mantle piece. I've searched in my car, in the glove box, underneath the seats and even under the hood.

I've looked in places that I never knew existed, but yet there are still no fukin pics. Wtf has happened to the misc over the past few years. Since when can someone claim to be taking out a 10/10 and post 0 proof to back it up.

Son I'm disappoint.
post 1659697503 04-15-2022, 10:20 AM
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Fking disaster bro. People are in here sugar coating it.

This was your chance and if she didn’t say anything about coming as friends before then you def blew it with her.

She’s only saying that as a cover to not hurt your feelings, but she made up her mind by the end of the night that she wasn’t interested in you like that anymore

Woman will start out liking you based off a first impression and then it’s on us to fk it up.

On to the next but as much as you like to say you weren’t putting her on a pedestal you absolutely were by calling her a 10/10 and making this panicked thread like a highschool senior asking about how to get laid after prom.I’m sure some of that shone through in your behavior towards her

Sorry to be harsh but you know you can show better than this
post 1659745543 04-16-2022, 09:37 AM
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩
Fking disaster bro. People are in here sugar coating it.

This was your chance and if she didn’t say anything about coming as friends before then you def blew it with her.

She’s only saying that as a cover to not hurt your feelings, but she made up her mind by the end of the night that she wasn’t interested in you like that anymore

Woman will start out liking you based off a first impression and then it’s on us to fk it up.

On to the next but as much as you like to say you weren’t putting her on a pedestal you absolutely were by calling her a 10/10 and making this panicked thread like a highschool senior asking about how to get laid after prom.I’m sure some of that shone through in your behavior towards her

Sorry to be harsh but you know you can show better than this
You speak the truth. Thanks brah
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post 1659753753 04-16-2022, 12:47 PM
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Originally Posted By chivasregal⏩
You speak the truth. Thanks brah
love u brah, sometimes it don't line up or we lose our frame on a chick that we shouldn't have

you'll land a dime who thinks ur chit don't stink. just keep choppin
post 1659757123 04-16-2022, 02:07 PM
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Girls of this caliber, they have suitors - you need to show them immediately you are serious and you are bold. Next time you go to pick her up, unzip your pants, take your dick and leave it hanging out. Say nothing. When she notices just cross your arms, smile and nod. She'll know right then and right there you are a serious man who means business. I do this all the time. Yes, it does not always work out but you would be surprised how often it does. Many times they also say nothing, grab you indoors and go to town while I just sit there with my shades on and light up a joint. Take it from me, you haven't lived until you've had a no-talking joint smoking blow job with a girl you just met. Few things in life can compare and it's well worth the slight risk of rejection or police being called. Granted, this approach is not for the weak or timid, so just ask yourself: Am I man enough? Well, chivas, are you?
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post 1659950513 04-20-2022, 02:24 AM
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Originally Posted By iloveus⏩
Dates are about 3 things

1. Fun - It's got to be fun or you have to make it fun

2. Logistics - It has to be near your place or her place to smash

3. Leading - You as a man have to lead. Initiate the conversation.Make some movies. Touch her a bit. Be flirty. Taking her from point A to point B. Take her hand and say "Hey let's go to this bar..."
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