How do I cope? By moving on and becoming the best version of myself. Get jacked af, make fuk you money, gain passive income and have a plethora of girls.

Yes, she was the ideal girl for me looks wise, blonde, 5'8, thin, scholar student, blue eyes, strong personality. But she wasn't good for me mentally.

By not giving a phuck?

i'm definitely not one of those guys who will attempt to improve myself to some ridiculous level in an attempt to make her jealous or anything but youre right brah this situation isnt unique and i know many other brahs have been through it time and time before

its just hard to accept the reality that is now while thinking back in hindsight of how good i had it and how blind i truly was to what was right beside me the entire time

i only hope i can get it right the next timelmao 10/10 white gf > 6/10 asian gf? idk man i'd like to try me a 6/10 asian girl sometime (ded fkn Srs)do you find any real relief in banging randoms? i've found its only a temporary coping mechanism for myself and to be honest i'm pretty turned off of casual sex with strangers now as pair bonding is indeed very reallmao i like to believe her new bf is a total fruitcake but at the end of the day hes still up in those sugar walls...some girls are like that brother. but others are truly gems that you cant recognize until its too late!do you have an ex that you on occasion find yourself thinking back to? remembering all the good times you had and the love you had for another? the friendship that wasn't rivaled by anything yet you screwed it up so bad she could never forgive you?thanks for your words, katya. its true i guess i cant know if things would have worked out in some fairytale sort of way unless i behaved better and treated her how she deserved.

i do hope that i can experience that kind of love again with another woman. its not even like sexual things that i miss the most about her, its the fact that she truly understood me which is extremely rare. she was one of very few people on this planet that i'd say knew every part of myself, good and bad.

there were certainly aspects of our relationship that i now choose to overlook and turn a blind eye to but i have to admit i do feel they were relatively trivial in the grand scheme of things

i am sorry about your ex and couldn't imagine what that process is like or what you've had to endure during that. like you said at least you have those memories for yourself of times that once were.lol no way.. what kind of hood rat were you dating bro!? thats some gangster ****she really was brahdid she leave you for this guy brah? if so you are definitely better off (Srs)lmao timothy please tell me hes a timmy. a part of me would lol if my ex got fat and out of shape but given her record i just cant see that happeningtfw only on trt now and taking my health seriously so i dont drop dead at 40 years old

perhaps at some point in the future ill dabble in some goodies that dont wreck my bloodwork but for now its just a little test

who the hell cares?

I am hotter than i've ever been and pull hotter tail than her anyways

if she saw me now her jaw would hit the floor

Listen to yourself man.

How good you had it? Fuk that chit, you are putting her and the past on a fuking pedestal. No one is that great, everyone is replaceable. Me, you, any girl you’ll ever date - all replaceable. Unless you were dating Margot Robbie cool it with this soft bs, fuk margot Robbie is probably replaceable too. People meet randomly and get this idea that they are the “one” - you can have that same feeling with millions of other girls. The only true relationships are with family and close friends.

Hopefully you can get it right? You get it right by not caring about getting it right. Be your own man, don’t put any relationship or woman above your own goals. This may sound selfish but you’re of no value to anyone, especially a woman if you don’t put your own goals and interests first.

I don’t cope at all. I’d be glad if they were getting rammed by someone else as I want nothing to do with them lol

you're a beta ****, boyo. that's why she left and that is why she is getting slammed out by an alpha that cums on her face and actually posts pics of her on whichever forum he frequents.

So for one thing, chances are you've got some rosy recollection going on. You're likely remembering the good while forgetting the bad.

Secondly, you don't seem like a terrible person and if this is all you did, probably didn't do anything that bad. If she couldn't handle this small amount of adversity, bad things were going to happen later when real adversity came about. Not saying you were a good dude here, but you talk about problems and work through them if its smaller.

Third, I'd consider some meditation to process feelings.

Fourth, it's hard to force anything in this life. Things happen when they happen for reasons you have limited control over. Keep going through it doing the best you can. So many things are largely just "luck"/circumstance. Just keep going, you'll find happiness.

This.

She’s getting coomed in sgain like she was before. She wasn’t that good or you wouldn’t of phucked things up with her.

Grow up u muppet. So many dumb sloots out there

This guy.

I’m upset too brah, I’ll slide into your DMs later to let you know how you can cheer me up

Fake not caring untill you start not caring. Only thing I regret is that I spent so much time regretting stuff instead of doing other stuff.

That defeatist mindset is just going to waste more precious years of your life. Snap out of it, the clock is ticking.

How does the dude ramming her feel about the fact my decaying sperm is all over her tonsils?

The only exes I have are ones that I dumped. I made peace with it before they were even my ex srs. Can't even imagine getting dumped by a woman tbh.

You get a new girl brah

only good reply itt

there is a reason they call them "bitches"; so like when a doggie passes, mourn it, improve yourself, get a new puppy

How do I cope? By realizing that the girl I am with now is a completely manageable level of crazy, and no matter how hot or different a sloot is, you always get tired of their chit.

You should be on to the next one brah. No looking back, no regrets, future better than past.

Well I cheated on her and broke up with her, so I'm glad she got away from me and ended up with someone she deserved.

That 4.5 year relationship was about 2 years too long. We had a lot of fun, but I was still searching for myself and was kind of a piece of chit. She was a sweet girl who (looking back) was probably with me for the thought of what I could be and was trying to change me. In all honesty I wouldn't be where I am and who I am in life today without that relationship so I'm grateful for that but sometimes I think back and feel remorse for what I put her through.

oh well, yolo.....you live, you learn.

Can't think of a single relationship I have ever been in that I cared who my ex was with after we ended it.
When it's over move on. Every minute spent thinking about the past is a minute lost, and you don't get that many.

Because she's someone else's problem now, and it's no longer my job to deal with her bullchit.

lmao my response to all that is that 50 cent car gif

she's an ex for a reason brah

Quit being a crying ******* and go pound some new

How old are you?

Pussy is harder to come by in your 20s. As you age it gets easier and easier. Soo many 30-40 yo sloots still dreaming about prince charming rescuing them from their boring life.

Even though you may think you lost something unique and irreplaceable, you didn't. The older you get the more desperate they get. You can pick and choose or rotate through every single mom in town. They'll be hitting you up. You'll never ever be lonely unless you choose to be.

Kev laying down facts ^^