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Forum ยป Why do you have to act "toxic" with women nowadays ?
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post 1661726493 05-22-2022, 05:12 PM
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Originally Posted By smashedurgfx10⏩
Toward the end I was only staying for the sex
This is why so many women like Amber Heard keep going full psycho. We've all done it.
"I guess I'll run out the clock to get laid some more,"thinks the guy. "I guess I'll run out the clock until my behavior finally pushes him to dump me so I can feign innocence, continue to extract resources, and line up a replacement," thinks the girl.
post 1661726513 05-22-2022, 05:13 PM
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post 1661726713 05-22-2022, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted By CrimsonSteel⏩
IME, almost all women prefer that. If you show any weakness they dry up. Which is why I laugh at all this "Express yourself!" propaganda. It's essentially ratting on yourself, publicly, what a lot of these people do.
ok, ill agree. but if it helps you who cares what the sloot thinks?

you're knowingly gonna hurt yourself for sake of what some sloot thinks?

i think what i just described is actually the appeal of the bad boy. he prob has the soft side too but is unafraid to show it.. so he's creating that larger overall dynamic. what you described to me seems clingy. and then you're afraid to speak your mind out of clinginess, and that's what she doesn't like
post 1661726793 05-22-2022, 05:24 PM
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You don't, sounds like you just interact with very low quality women.

This is the reverse of those girls that are like "why are there no nice guys around" and then only go out with *******s
post 1661726983 05-22-2022, 05:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Men complain about this while simultaneously entertaining the women that exhibit this behavior.
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post 1661728043 05-22-2022, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
What OP described is literally what happens every time alow qualitywoman has ever lost interest in a relationship with a man and starts straying/thinking about straying or leaving. It's not uncommon behavior at all inlow qualitywomen.
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post 1661728163 05-22-2022, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By northernlights7⏩
Well, yeah. Women love attention. Among them are a select number who are willing to go to pretty far extremes to get it. Few things will garner them as much easy attention as being able to passively bitch and complain to her family/friends/coworkers about the chitty things an abusive assshole guy, who she chose to get involved with, does to her. Not to mention being able to gossip and gloat to her friends and female coworkers about all the rauchy, wild sex she still has with her man, even if he is an abusive prick. Then the women she clucks about it to get jellier than the many fat rolls of that old school miscer troll WetBreasts about it, and proceed to get depressed over how their men "Don't make them excited like that anymore".
Don't you want to hear about why she got everything on the planet and left her last man because he was not juuuuuuuuust what she wanted every literal second?
post 1661729063 05-22-2022, 06:36 PM
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you think she wants you bad when you do that, try not posting anything to your story or social media/. Put your phone done, enjoy yourself, dont check in with anyone and watch how bad she'll want you. It's called being an alpha male. Do your thing and stop posting **** online and create a sense of curiousity
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post 1661729233 05-22-2022, 06:40 PM
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OP if you're trying to post other girls on IG to make your own gf jealous you already lost

beta energy, go talk to your gf maybe?
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post 1661729343 05-22-2022, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
GF is barely responsive by thext and barely available throughout the day but as soon as she learns that I'm out with the boys she starts acting all clingy and want to know what I'm doing with who and when I'm going back home.

I can see the pattern now and it almost makes me want to act toxic and put up insta stories where I'm around girls on the regular just to keep her in check.
You two sound perfect for each other.
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post 1661729353 05-22-2022, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
GF is barely responsive by thext and barely available throughout the day but as soon as she learns that I'm out with the boys she starts acting all clingy and want to know what I'm doing with who and when I'm going back home.

I mean why does it always come to me being around women or having the potential to meet other women for her to finally show interest ?

I can see the pattern now and it almost makes me want to act toxic and put up insta stories where I'm around girls on the regular just to keep her in check.

Can we please go back to the pre-internet dating scene ?
who cares? I chose to just be my self and move on with my life and now I have actual quality women in my life, not filthy little bogan club rats that think they're high class escorts or some shyt.
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post 1661729463 05-22-2022, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
you don't have to be toxic, you're brainwashed by PUA and redpill losers honestly lol

by far my best success with women came when I was myself, not someone I wasn't

if you "have to be" toxic towards a certain woman, guess what? she's trash
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post 1661744493 05-23-2022, 04:28 AM
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"controlling" "possessive" "emotionally abusive" is what you would get from a normal modern independent woman if you follow the advice posted in this thread.
post 1661744643 05-23-2022, 04:36 AM
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post 1661745173 05-23-2022, 04:59 AM
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post 1661745333 05-23-2022, 05:12 AM
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Maybe she is just pretending to be clingy. She wants to know where you are so she knows if it is safe to cheat.
post 1661747493 05-23-2022, 06:33 AM
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yes bro its about time you learnt. btches want u only if u dont want them it doednt mater if u meeting her first time or u in relationship this principle aplies universaly.

"people want what they cant have"
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post 1661747713 05-23-2022, 06:39 AM
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Pre Internet?


Nowadays?



Dude this is typical Alpha Phucks Beta Bux Redpill 101 and has been how women operate forever
post 1661747863 05-23-2022, 06:46 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
This is exactly all that.

The moment they sense that they have you wrapped around their little finger is the moment they start losing interest. Gotta keep them on their toes at all time : I'm not saying that you must cheat or even flirt with other women but letting her know from time to time that you have options and could leave at moment's notice if you wanted as a reminder.
If you are on top of your chit then this should come naturally. If you are always able to get another woman at the drop of the hat and other women are staring at you or flirting with you then your wife / girlfriend will recognize this immediately and respond positively.

Some of the best sex Iโ€™ve had comes from my gf and I at the bar together and a random girl comes up to me and says Iโ€™m hot


Itโ€™s only when you let yourself go like a Schlub husband dad bod loser does the sex faucet stop
post 1661747913 05-23-2022, 06:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Devine88⏩
if your girl isn't the one initiating all the conversations and annoying you with how often she wants to text/call/talk it's already over for you
My ex used to pull this chit on me. Sheโ€™d complain that I donโ€™t talk to her enough, then as soon as I start texting her, she takes 30 hours to reply.

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post 1661748213 05-23-2022, 06:57 AM
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Anything that doesn't empower the female is "insecure" and "controlling"
post 1661748413 05-23-2022, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted By ConTroLFreaKK⏩
Lmfao based. I've had this exact same situation with my girl, no matter what you say or do they just don't listen or concede anything. I've had this sort of issue happen multiple times over the last 5 years and i've been thinking is it just a massive red flag? is this really wife material etc. It's clearly a lack of trust thus makes me not trust her out of spite and it creates such a toxic situation within the relationship that can last for weeks on end. Fkn sloots bro
Yeah, I'd bail on that chick.
post 1661748703 05-23-2022, 07:09 AM
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Women love men who are unavailable, if you are available then you are a worthless maggot who has too much free time in his hands. Another option is that you are a ****get who is forcing himself to be toxic so he can get attention which usually has a shortlived effect since women will catch up that you are an act. Just focus on yourself OP It is a win-win scenario. Women admire you more that way, while you are progressing in life
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