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06-23-2022, 07:39 AM
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06-28-2022, 10:50 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Why this one guy and not the hundreds of strangers I see throughout the day? Am I obligated to greet everyone I walked past on my way home? Do I approach everyone on the subway, greet them and shake their hands and thank them for riding the subway with me? People straight up do not do that here. Not sure why you're having a hard time with this. You can keep trying to make it a me thing, but nobody else does that here.Except it's not. Yea....South Atlanta is "some small hick town"....im lucky to even have high speed internet here. Keep making your excuses to close yourself off from the world. And it's not doing it to dozens of people...it was doing it to 1 guy at 7am on your walk home...
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
WTF are you even talking about? LOL... through what you initially described as a "quiet residential area"....then switched to "not in front of any house for that matter"...which implies that it was NOT a residential area and now you're saying you're in a "Major City".....so which is it?
There was no "switching" and none of those things are contradictory. I live in a large city. And like most large cities, there are residential areas where... people live.... in houses and apartments and condos and stuff. This sidewalk was not in front of any house. It was all public property.
What part are you not understanding? Am I going to have to take a picture for you?
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Or maybe I just don't feel obligated to greet every stranger I pass on the street like some insane country bumpkin.andwould"people treat you like a retard" if you acted like that in a "major city?"....because I've lived in many, including the one I live in now and they don't.....maybe it's just you. Maybe you're scared to talk to people, which is fine....a lot of people are, maybe you touch yourself too much and you lack the self confidence to look another man in the eyes and say hello....maybe you had a rough childhood and you have an aversion to masculine male figures.....I dont know.
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
You already had all of that information.and by "where exactly are you waking down the sidewalk" I meant "what city, area, part of town" are you walking through. I wanted to get a better sense of the area you're walking through to better offer advise on your situation.
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
There was no going out of my way to avoid anyone. Is there any part of this situation that you actually understand?But it seems that you are going to keep making excuses to support your initial behavior of going out of your way to avoid some random guy.
Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
Again... why this guy and not all of the other people I passed on my way home that morning? You seem to have it in your head that we are next door neighbors or something. Or that I live in the wilderness and it's just me and him sharing a log cabin. This is just some random guy smoking on the sidewalk. There are other people out at that time. At the time I passed him he would have had no idea we even lived in the same neighborhood.I'm not saying you have to address EVERY person you see on a daily basis....that's insane.....but in a situation where it's early in the morning, just you and some other person....it wouldn't hurt to just acknowledge them by saying "good morning" and moving on with your life.
06-28-2022, 10:55 PM
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Not acknowledge and keep walking
Motherfuker wouldn’t say chit to me though because I’m a fukin monster
Motherfuker wouldn’t say chit to me though because I’m a fukin monster
06-28-2022, 11:01 PM
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06-28-2022, 11:15 PM
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You never ****ing know about people, man. This dude could have just had a fight w/ his wife and lost his job and had nothing to live for, etc. Could have a gun, could be otherwise insane. You def don’t wanna just comply with that weird baiting intimidation **** he is trying to pull, but you don’t want to totally ignore him, either. Can’t really watch out for yourself if you aren’t paying attention to him. I’d probably say something like, “we don’t want any trouble this morning, have a good day” and keep walking while keeping an eye o him. If he made a move toward a pocket or his belt , you’re obligated to defend yourself with lethal force. Hope you carry.
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06-28-2022, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted By MoeBettuh⏩
I think it's likely that he is insane or something is wrong with him. Repeatedly mentioning that he is a brain surgeon and the way he would alternate between de-escalating and then starting to mouth off again whenever I turned my back didn't feel right. There was something very off about him.You never ****ing know about people, man. This dude could have just had a fight w/ his wife and lost his job and had nothing to live for, etc. Could have a gun, could be otherwise insane. You def don’t wanna just comply with that weird baiting intimidation **** he is trying to pull, but you don’t want to totally ignore him, either. Can’t really watch out for yourself if you aren’t paying attention to him. I’d probably say something like, “we don’t want any trouble this morning, have a good day” and keep walking while keeping an eye o him. If he made a move toward a pocket or his belt , you’re obligated to defend yourself with lethal force. Hope you carry.
I tried 2 or 3 times to end things with "OK, have a good morning" but he'd go off again as soon as my back was turned.
06-28-2022, 11:51 PM
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06-29-2022, 12:38 AM
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06-29-2022, 01:06 AM
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I probably would have just said thanks if he moved out of the way for me.
I had to read that like 3 times to understand what happened lol
I thought he tried blocking you or something.
I had to read that like 3 times to understand what happened lol
I thought he tried blocking you or something.
06-29-2022, 01:19 AM
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Lmao at posting on BB.com & getting mogged by a 50 yr old boomer . Manlets in hell
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06-29-2022, 02:03 AM
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Would've looked him in the eyes and said "excuse me" as I passed and kept walking because that's what I would have done anyway
06-30-2022, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying⏩
You sound like a bitch.Why this one guy and not the hundreds of strangers I see throughout the day? Am I obligated to greet everyone I walked past on my way home? Do I approach everyone on the subway, greet them and shake their hands and thank them for riding the subway with me? People straight up do not do that here. Not sure why you're having a hard time with this. You can keep trying to make it a me thing, but nobody else does that here.
WTF are you even talking about? LOL
There was no "switching" and none of those things are contradictory. I live in a large city. And like most large cities, there are residential areas where... people live.... in houses and apartments and condos and stuff. This sidewalk was not in front of any house. It was all public property.
What part are you not understanding? Am I going to have to take a picture for you?
Or maybe I just don't feel obligated to greet every stranger I pass on the street like some insane country bumpkin.
You already had all of that information.
There was no going out of my way to avoid anyone. Is there any part of this situation that you actually understand?
Again... why this guy and not all of the other people I passed on my way home that morning? You seem to have it in your head that we are next door neighbors or something. Or that I live in the wilderness and it's just me and him sharing a log cabin. This is just some random guy smoking on the sidewalk. There are other people out at that time. At the time I passed him he would have had no idea we even lived in the same neighborhood.
WTF are you even talking about? LOL
There was no "switching" and none of those things are contradictory. I live in a large city. And like most large cities, there are residential areas where... people live.... in houses and apartments and condos and stuff. This sidewalk was not in front of any house. It was all public property.
What part are you not understanding? Am I going to have to take a picture for you?
Or maybe I just don't feel obligated to greet every stranger I pass on the street like some insane country bumpkin.
You already had all of that information.
There was no going out of my way to avoid anyone. Is there any part of this situation that you actually understand?
Again... why this guy and not all of the other people I passed on my way home that morning? You seem to have it in your head that we are next door neighbors or something. Or that I live in the wilderness and it's just me and him sharing a log cabin. This is just some random guy smoking on the sidewalk. There are other people out at that time. At the time I passed him he would have had no idea we even lived in the same neighborhood.
06-30-2022, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By QuitYourCrying⏩
Like the other guy said, maybe just a non-challenging chuckle. I may just smile and then keep moving on.- Minding your business walking home in a quiet residential area around 7 AM (you work night shift).
- Guy smoking a cigarette standing on the sidewalk.
- Start to walk around him by walking on the grass.
- You think nothing of this. No eye contact was made, no words spoken, no anger or annoyance. Literally just walking home, minding your own business.
- As you get closer, guy leaves sidewalk, stands on grass on the opposite side and firmly tells you to use the sidewalk.
- Again, think nothing of this and keep walking, minding your own business.
- As you pass, guy yells at you "say thank you!"
Guy is in his 50s, 15-20 years older than you and slightly bigger than you.
What do you do?
- Guy smoking a cigarette standing on the sidewalk.
- Start to walk around him by walking on the grass.
- You think nothing of this. No eye contact was made, no words spoken, no anger or annoyance. Literally just walking home, minding your own business.
- As you get closer, guy leaves sidewalk, stands on grass on the opposite side and firmly tells you to use the sidewalk.
- Again, think nothing of this and keep walking, minding your own business.
- As you pass, guy yells at you "say thank you!"
Guy is in his 50s, 15-20 years older than you and slightly bigger than you.
What do you do?
In reality, no fight is worth it. You don't know if he has a knife, or you'll catch a fist, land with the back of your head on cement and become paralyzed, etc.
06-30-2022, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Drew23⏩
This.Just keep walking. No need to even acknowledge.
Never verbally engage, just glare at him with dead soul eyes and walk by.
For every man, there is a sentence, a string of words, that has the power to destroy him
"The strong do what they can, and the weak suffer what they must" -Thucydides
Shall not be Infringed. FUK CHINA.
07-02-2022, 07:25 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107⏩
LOL. This dude got banned. Good riddance. Wasn't even a funny troll. Just derailed threads with nonsense.You sound like a bitch.
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